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Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by AdemolaA2: 10:25am On Jul 17, 2021
chatinent:
Oga,


Inasmuch as I understand some women are very annoying, I must remind you the only ground that's christian for divorce: adultery.


If she's not committed one, you need to work things out.

I have once being in a situation when a girl hit me first repeatedly and still ran telling people I attack and beat her.

BTW, didn't you notice this while courting?

Some tongues are worse than the act adultery itself !!!

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Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by deavicky(m): 10:26am On Jul 17, 2021
dacblogger:

What makes you think that the next person he will marry will give him peace of mind?
Whenever she starts abusing him,he should just leave the house for her or completely ignore her.she will do it n get tired
You have to apply psychology in marriage,when you notice that the person you're abusing is less concerned,it's not somebody that will tell you to close your mouth.i am a psychologist n a counselor so I should know better.
Divorce is not always the solution please
if he still does not have peace of mind with rhe next person, what happens to another divorce or is there any law that says u can only get divorce once?.

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Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Worksunlimited: 10:26am On Jul 17, 2021
Pecoleee345:
Why does the society see men hitting women as bad thing but women cursing and abusive as normal.

A woman who curses and abuses you will still have the nerve to ask you for money.

Am not a perfect man..... I have my flaws but I am careful with words because I know what bad words can do to people.

Should a man be forced to stay with a woman who curses, abuses and threatens to get him arrested if he touch her despite you have never lay a finger on her in 3yrs of marriage.

People are telling me she is doing it due to anger that she doesn't mean it......am told to avoid making her angry and is that possible.
She gets me angry most times but I just leave the house and go cool off...
I have tried to teach her the act of keeping quiet in moment of anger but she never learns

She is permitted to rain curses and abuses on me because she is a woman and am expected not to react because that's how most women behave.

At this junction have made up my mind to divorce her.....I never wished for this but I can't take this ...... many people see this character of most women as normal (am told there power is in the mouth) but I can't.

Lastly men please avoid women raised by single mother they come with venom and naturally demage psychological...they will take revenge on you for their father's sins.

Unfortunately they are many in this our society... Little wonder men no wan marry again...

I am a very patient and tolerant person but you see woman ehn.. the last woman I was with (girlfriend), tried this same thing with me, 1 night I couldn't take it anymore, the next day I threw her out of my apartment and deleted her number to avoid temptation..

They are like that. The first few weeks of courting they will pretend, the moment they start staying over at your place, their true colour comes out.

Very mean creatures.

This babe was even burning indomie, eating indomie from pot, very unsanitary behaviour but if you see this babe for outside, u no go believe say na like that she dey

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Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Kennitrust(m): 10:26am On Jul 17, 2021
tobeymichael16:
E[left][/left]motional, verbal, physical and any sort of abuse shouldn't be condoned.[s][/s]
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Taylordedon(m): 10:26am On Jul 17, 2021
Bro take these advice like a vision you personally saw


If she cannot give you peace in your heart and soul then your home is not a home, I will order you to leave that marriage and run for your life

Na play play dem dey take tell person say him mouth dey smell...

"SAY NO TO A VERBALLY ABUSIVE WOMAN"

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Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by anselm791(m): 10:27am On Jul 17, 2021
SenecaTheYonger:


Wow. Why do you say that.

Research on the negative effects of single parenting on the child.
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Kennitrust(m): 10:27am On Jul 17, 2021
Some tongues are worse than the act of adultery itself !!!

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Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Nobody: 10:28am On Jul 17, 2021
Pecoleee345:
Why does the society see men hitting women as bad thing but women cursing and abusive as normal.

A woman who curses and abuses you will still have the nerve to ask you for money.

Am not a perfect man..... I have my flaws but I am careful with words because I know what bad words can do to people.

Should a man be forced to stay with a woman who curses, abuses and threatens to get him arrested if he touch her despite you have never lay a finger on her in 3yrs of marriage.

People are telling me she is doing it due to anger that she doesn't mean it......am told to avoid making her angry and is that possible.
She gets me angry most times but I just leave the house and go cool off...
I have tried to teach her the act of keeping quiet in moment of anger but she never learns

She is permitted to rain curses and abuses on me because she is a woman and am expected not to react because that's how most women behave.

At this junction have made up my mind to divorce her.....I never wished for this but I can't take this ...... many people see this character of most women as normal (am told there power is in the mouth) but I can't.

Lastly men please avoid women raised by single mother they come with venom and naturally demage psychological...they will take revenge on you for their father's sins.

Wise people learn from people's mistake, hope my brothers are learning something.

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Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Sweeetheart(m): 10:29am On Jul 17, 2021
your last paragraph is very true, if you want to enjoy marriage, stay away from a lady raised by single mother or divorcee. the end is always bitter
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by anselm791(m): 10:30am On Jul 17, 2021
batstan:

True!
I can truly relate.

Very sad.

Mine slept with her boss. They even had the audacity to throw me a surprise birthday wish with his son blowing the saxophone. They left my friends and I, went to do the do and brought home grilled fish.
I no see my wife kpekus that night. angry

This one is strong o.

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Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by sisisioge: 10:31am On Jul 17, 2021
Actually, people should avoid marrying people that are venomous in their speech while angry. Dont even befriend them let alone marrying them. How can you be cursing your spouse? Whew! I honestly distance myself from people who talk evil when angry biko....not worth it.

As for your predicament, may God help you.

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Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by xana101: 10:32am On Jul 17, 2021
Me and OP are in the same boat. I just gave mine 1m to leave my house. And she did. I’m happy now with d kids.

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Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by FarahAideed: 10:33am On Jul 17, 2021
Lastly men please avoid women raised by single mother they come with venom and naturally demage psychological...they will take revenge on you for their father's sins.
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Emma1Oj(m): 10:33am On Jul 17, 2021
dacblogger:
Marriage has its trying times especially in the first 5years...
You already know her flaws,it's left for you to find a way around it.
Dnt leave your marriage cos the devil you know is better than the angel you DNT know.
Madam 5 what....!!! I can c.... U didn't even say a year... U know what happens to the body if the mind is restless and unhappy? It decade fast and lead to untimely death.. what happens if the man don't live or endorses to c the 5yrs to mentioned?

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Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Amwitty(f): 10:33am On Jul 17, 2021
chatinent:


It's idiotic to you doesn't mean it's idiotic to humans.
Ewooooh grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by UDUJ(m): 10:33am On Jul 17, 2021
Pecoleee345:
Why does the society see men hitting women as bad thing but women cursing and abusive as normal.

A woman who curses and abuses you will still have the nerve to ask you for money.

Am not a perfect man..... I have my flaws but I am careful with words because I know what bad words can do to people.

Should a man be forced to stay with a woman who curses, abuses and threatens to get him arrested if he touch her despite you have never lay a finger on her in 3yrs of marriage.

People are telling me she is doing it due to anger that she doesn't mean it......am told to avoid making her angry and is that possible.
She gets me angry most times but I just leave the house and go cool off...
I have tried to teach her the act of keeping quiet in moment of anger but she never learns

She is permitted to rain curses and abuses on me because she is a woman and am expected not to react because that's how most women behave.

At this junction have made up my mind to divorce her.....I never wished for this but I can't take this ...... many people see this character of most women as normal (am told there power is in the mouth) but I can't.

Lastly men please avoid women raised by single mother they come with venom and naturally demage psychological...they will take revenge on you for their father's sins.

Trust me, life is too short to stay with a toxic person. Your mental and physical health will be drastically affected.

There is a reason divorce laws were created. Please move on.

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Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by jackpot(f): 10:34am On Jul 17, 2021
SpruceMediaNG:

[/b]Lastly men please avoid women raised by single mother they come with venom and naturally demage psychological...they will take revenge on you for there father sins.[b]
Take this advise serious, people.

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Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Nobody: 10:34am On Jul 17, 2021
Sweeetheart:
your last paragraph is very true, if you want to enjoy marriage, stay away from a lady raised by single mother or divorcee. the end is always bitter
It's not absolute.
The issue is that most LADIES are designed to reduce the LIFESPAN of MEN.
Without them some MEN will hit 200 years on earth. Most men die from CARDIAC events but people forget that the commonest cause of Heart attacks in Men are women.

ALL WOMEN insult & nag.
This is where church helps.
I can bet MARY may have insulted JOSEPH at some point too. But a woman that nags & contributes is better dan the one who only contributes nagging.

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Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by smartNerd: 10:35am On Jul 17, 2021
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Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Emma1Oj(m): 10:36am On Jul 17, 2021
joyandfaith:

Separation is different from divorce.
Guy, watin you dey talk na... Abi make we start another lecture for here again...?
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by mrksquare: 10:36am On Jul 17, 2021
Pecoleee345:
Why does the society see men hitting women as bad thing but women cursing and abusive as normal.

A woman who curses and abuses you will still have the nerve to ask you for money.

Am not a perfect man..... I have my flaws but I am careful with words because I know what bad words can do to people.

Should a man be forced to stay with a woman who curses, abuses and threatens to get him arrested if he touch her despite you have never lay a finger on her in 3yrs of marriage.

People are telling me she is doing it due to anger that she doesn't mean it......am told to avoid making her angry and is that possible.
She gets me angry most times but I just leave the house and go cool off...
I have tried to teach her the act of keeping quiet in moment of anger but she never learns

She is permitted to rain curses and abuses on me because she is a woman and am expected not to react because that's how most women behave.

At this junction have made up my mind to divorce her.....I never wished for this but I can't take this ...... many people see this character of most women as normal (am told there power is in the mouth) but I can't.

Lastly men please avoid women raised by single mother they come with venom and naturally demage psychological...they will take revenge on you for their father's sins.


Women raised by single mother always turn out to be thorn in the flesh in marriage. The one my cousin got married to, the marriage only lasted for one month. In short, the influence of a father fiqure in the life of a female child cannot be overemphasize. The absence of it always transfigurate such ladies into a terrible specimen of everything that is bad in a woman. Though there are few exception.

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Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by MummyD2020(f): 10:37am On Jul 17, 2021
Oga it goes both ways abi did u not see the single motherhood before marrying her? They have successful relationships that stems from what u are complaining about. Secondly we need to hear from her too. Audi altera patem. If i hot it right. Tank u veri muc

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Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Jman06(m): 10:37am On Jul 17, 2021
dacblogger:

Marriage is not all about sex...companionship is the main purpose.Dnt forget that.
Companionship that one can easily get from family, friends, fraternities, escorts, and even some oloshos?

This is the reason I think marriage has no use, if it's about so called companionship!

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Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by tayewomi(m): 10:37am On Jul 17, 2021
this is very true dating a girl raised by a single mother is disasterous am a guy raised by a single mom too but i treat my ladies right have dated two ladies raised by a single mom,two of them are disaster the first one is too bitter,like she's very stubborn she doesn't cheat have left the girl,My peace first though some are ok though,pls guys except in a case the father died and the mom is single marrying a single lady is too bad,My opinion though i stand to be corrected though...

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Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Beedude(m): 10:38am On Jul 17, 2021
chatinent:
Oga,


Inasmuch as I understand some women are very annoying, I must remind you the only ground that's christian for divorce: adultery.


If she's not committed one, you need to work things out.

I have once being in a situation when a girl hit me first repeatedly and still ran telling people I attack and beat her.

BTW, didn't you notice this while courting?
Religion is one of our problem in this country.

Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by joyandfaith: 10:38am On Jul 17, 2021
Emma1Oj:
Guy, watin you dey talk na... Abi make we start another lecture for here again...?

Go and read your bible
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by AbujaCitiBlog: 10:38am On Jul 17, 2021
Pecoleee345:
Why does the society see men hitting women as bad thing but women cursing and abusive as normal.

A woman who curses and abuses you will still have the nerve to ask you for money.

Am not a perfect man..... I have my flaws but I am careful with words because I know what bad words can do to people.

Should a man be forced to stay with a woman who curses, abuses and threatens to get him arrested if he touch her despite you have never lay a finger on her in 3yrs of marriage.

People are telling me she is doing it due to anger that she doesn't mean it......am told to avoid making her angry and is that possible.
She gets me angry most times but I just leave the house and go cool off...
I have tried to teach her the act of keeping quiet in moment of anger but she never learns

She is permitted to rain curses and abuses on me because she is a woman and am expected not to react because that's how most women behave.

At this junction have made up my mind to divorce her.....I never wished for this but I can't take this ...... many people see this character of most women as normal (am told there power is in the mouth) but I can't.

Lastly men please avoid women raised by single mother they come with venom and naturally demage psychological...they will take revenge on you for their father's sins.
My brother you have tried. Stop the marriage already. Dump her.
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Vulcan24(m): 10:38am On Jul 17, 2021
ditch her, trust me shes not for you. i have found out women who really are committed to their marriage build through respect and tolerance. once shes talking anyhow, she will talk bad about you to others and in public and its like living with the enemy.

there are few better women from good homes

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Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by ledaman: 10:38am On Jul 17, 2021
It is better to walk out of a toxic marriage than to endure it. My uncle of blessed memory had similar case despite his millions and he was in South Africa with the satanic wife and the kids. He was told on several occasions to quit but he refused. Guess what! He was a surgeon in Durban in South Africa rest in peace Dr K.
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by DimIsaac10(m): 10:39am On Jul 17, 2021
SpruceMediaNG:

[/b]Lastly men please avoid women raised by single mother they come with venom and naturally demage psychological...they will take revenge on you for there father sins.[b]

Not all.
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by ItachiGold(m): 10:40am On Jul 17, 2021
chatinent:
Oga,


Inasmuch as I understand some women are very annoying, I must remind you the only ground that's christian for divorce: adultery.


If she's not committed one, you need to work things out.

I have once being in a situation when a girl hit me first repeatedly and still ran telling people I attack and beat her.

BTW, didn't you notice this while courting?
WTF take this shit outta here
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by ItachiGold(m): 10:41am On Jul 17, 2021
Nonexisting1:
So you just woke up to the reality. You are lucky not to have opened this thread from your grave. She was giving you hell and you were there deceiving yourself thinking you could cope with her. I am not shocked to hear that she was raised by a single mother. Daughters of Jezebel will always be daughters of Jezebel but you see the brand that are raised by single mothers, they are usually psychologically damaged beyond repair.
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