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PENNYSWAP:
Thanks for this ...

People here are just talking rubbish. They don’t know how hard it is to start up life .

I’m a chemical Engineer by qualification, since there is no job forth coming , I set up a small chemical plant where I produce Co2 for Carbonated beverage company , I’m pouring my soul in growing the company but most dude here won’t understand how it is .. I did 45% of my marriage because I won’t carry all my money into marriage just to please any body .

I was thinking she’s the woman that will be behind every successful man .

But it’s well shaaaa. , make go Dey go

Life in Nigeria, especially in this Buhari's regime is something else. For you to even spare out part of your investment capital to go pay for marital rites shows how serious and dedicated you were in marrying her.

So, if she has overlooked all these by going over the "line of things" she ought not to, then you now have every right to act or take any decision you want to without looking back.

I understand how betrayed you feel right now bro, but you just have to be calm and get to the root of the matter.

Ogbotobo77:
the only way a woman can possibly show her loyalty is by being faithful...a guy shows loyalty by providing security,comfort,stability,being ready to defend and die for his wife....loyalty is asymmetrical

doesn't work this way anymore , men are not sole providers any longer and how many men have you seen dying to protect their wives ? No be lie everybody dey lie down flat when armed robbers enter? Abegi ! I guess this attitude is the reason why more married women are cheating nowadays - what is not enough for one woman you want to be sharing up and down - madam too will go and top up outside . Lol

PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..

I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .

She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.

I told her to give me small time to save up money .

There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .

I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.

We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .

I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.

I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.

I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .

That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .

She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.

My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .

The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .

Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling

Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo

I need advise from real niggaz

bro no vex o.


How the matter dey go

Casemiro:
bro no vex o.


How the matter dey go

I’m alive brother ... planing a new thread of the matter

AutoChick4U:
Are u people even OK? She probably knows d guy will flip hence d secrecy. God answers my prayer and brings a helper my way I shouldn't collect because of one guy struggling to pay 45 percent? Let's b rational

Reason God havnt sent any guy to pay 10%
U need to be sensible and not keep hoeing around nigeria!

younglleo:
Reason God havnt sent any guy to pay 10%
U need to be sensible and not keep hoeing around nigeria!

Lolz. Funny

Oga calm down! See the way you just deh para.

People that behaves like you are chronic cheaters but na una deh bring heaven down if your babe cheat on you.

We have been told severally by the society that it's the nature of men to cheat but what you all don't understand, cheating is a way of life. Life will always cheat on you, so it is better to cheat first.

Calm down o. Don't give yourself high blood pressure.

PENNYSWAP:
I’m alive brother ... planing a new thread of the matter

Good to hear Sir.

More power bro.
I await your update.

[impregnating her is not the solution...just let her go so you can have your own peace of minduote author=Nikkganc08 post=103102727]


BEST ADVICE

when a man starts doing for a lady what he can't do for his fellow man...

Just know that d lady is already giving to him what a fellow man can't give him.

He can't give a fellow man money to open a business but he is doing so for ur Wife-to-be.

The question is...

What is ur 'wife to be' already giving him that a fellow man can't give him?

MARRIAGE is for eternity.

It's for adults / matured minds that can take decisions without interference from family, friends and Nairaland.

Marriage is not 'boyfriend/girlfriend'


I can bet my two testicles on the fact that ur 'wife to be ' is NOT a virgin.

Thinking of impregnating her, then running away clearly exposes ur immaturity.

Hope u know maturity has nothing to do with age?

Age is just numbers.

My Dad can never caution me on women affairs simply because he already impregnated someone before he married my mom.

Anyday he tries to...
I'll remind him of how HOLY he was when he was my age.


You are about to sign up for eternity of premium tears.

Don't let ur mind deceive u.

There are over 90million ladies in Nigeria as at now.

I'm sure more than 10million of them are as beautiful, loving and caring as ur 'wahala to be'.


PS:

I'm still single and therefore, not qualified to give marital advice.
Listen to the matured minds in the group not me.[/quote]