naijapips02:



Shut it. If you an an 80 year old man with an 18 year old kid, how can you relate?

Marry when you are very young. Grow with your kids. Parenting is better when you are still very active.

80-18 = 35 abi?

It is okay for a guy but wrong for a woman. Risky rather for a lady

StPete:


But do you also agree that the older one gets the weaker and less active the semen

No, I don’t agree. It is only if you have an underlying disease or some chronic disease that require you to be on medication

simplepee:
It's not late or abnormal.

Infact I'm not sure I can marry a man under 35. Men are very slow with sense. That 35 sef, some of them still don't have sense.

You went too far, my dear! You don't insult the generality of gender you hope to get married to, just to make a point. It's more polite when you speak circumspectly.

Sometimes age in marriage plays a major role in making children... The idea of giving birth late doesn't make sense to me..

Muhylonaire007:


We are not the same, I'm not accepting what isn't mine bro.
Responsibilities made so many men assume elderly role as you say all men are slow with sense and I should accept that?
When it comes to human related issue, do not ever generalise it.
This is not litmus paper that will turn blue in every lab.

I'm not generalizing it bro

We only make comparism

Which places the female folks ahead of their male counterparts

SenecaTheYonger:


No, I don’t agree. It is only if you have an underlying disease or some chronic disease that require you to be on medication

Wasted effort. Befriend often Google please

PAWG:


80-18 = 35 abi?

Mugu the comment I quoted didn't specify age. The comment said age doesn't matter. Or so an 80 year old man didn't have his youth? Try to dey reason.

As to your point, the younger the better. Infact I'd loved to be over parenting by 45 and really have time to enjoy my life. At your older years ,you have more money, more influence, more wisdom. That's when money is sweetest. I don't want to be struggling with kids when I can barely take care of myself. These are some of the reasons most men die of High BP.

dingbang:
So by 60, your kids will be entering uni? By that that you will be retired and not capable to support them in university.

How sure are you, you will even get any work talk of retiring from one? Close your mouth little kid

StPete:


Wasted effort. Befriend often Google please

What effort? You didn’t even type up to fifteen words.

frozen70:


All you wrote was like thinking in a backwards direction
How many men of these era fits into all you mentioned, including you considering the economic situation since this regime ?

A whole lot of men, honestly a lot of men in my circle who are 35 and above have made it financially in my opinion. Even those guys from my secondary school years ago, especially the older ones, they are doing really well.

Some of them are even on Nairaland, they work for foreign coy and are doing well.

I am not 35 yet, but i see myself doing really well at 35 just like them at that age.

Any man who took his life serious at the age of 25 should be doing so well at 35, even those who have spiritual issues with prosperity. They should have been spiritually delivered in space of 10 years.

IranianSea:

How sure are you, you will even get any work talk of retiring from one? Close your mouth little kid

Because he's not a lazy lousy youth like some people. He probably already has a career. Everybody cannot be you oga.

Karleb:

Girls are only physically more mature than boys of their age.

and that's only because they've been exposed to worldly lifestyles.

naijapips02:


Mugu the comment I quoted didn't specify age. The comment said age doesn't matter. Or so an 80 year old man didn't have his youth? Try to dey reason.

As to your point, the younger the better. Infact I'd loved to be over parenting by 45 and really have time to enjoy my life. At your older years ,you have more money, more influence, more wisdom. That's when money is sweetest. I don't want to be struggling with kids when I can barely take care of myself. These are some of the reasons most men die of High BP.

Don’t lose sight of why we’re here, go back and read the OP’s post then come back

StPete:
Do not let anyone deceive you, marrying at 35 is a tard late. Looking at the present state of Nigeria, except you have planned billions down for your unborn children, you will probably have to keep struggling in old age or after retirement to keep them alive and in school.

More so, research shows that the best time to give birth to healthy looking kids should be from 18-28 years.

There's nothing more proud than to see your grown child standing next to you and people assuming he/she is your sibling

When you give birth to healthy looking kid, then you deteriorate his health when you have no mean of feeding him due to your young age, immature, no money and no mean to make any, you kill the one healthy looking kid.

peacettw:


Preach. From my vast experience, I will advice you to extend the age cutoff to 40. Most below that age lack the needed cognitive development to function optimally as an adult

and yet with all this ur experience you still get special sit reservation for Shiloh every year

naijapips02:


Because he's not a lazy lousy youth like some people. He probably already has a career. Everybody cannot be you oga.

Easier said than done. Tell me your age and what you're doing for a living

VTJN:
I'm not generalizing it bro
We only make comparism
Which places the female folks ahead of their male counterparts

na only u and other males for ur family dey below females for everything
Speak for ur lineage alone bro

naijapips02:


Mugu the comment I quoted didn't specify age. The comment said age doesn't matter. Or so an 80 year old man didn't have his youth? Try to dey reason.

As to your point, the younger the better. Infact I'd loved to be over parenting by 45 and really have time to enjoy my life. At your older years ,you have more money, more influence, more wisdom. That's when money is sweetest. I don't want to be struggling with kids when I can barely take care of myself. These are some of the reasons most men die of High BP.

Don’t lose sight of why we’re here, go back and read the OP’s post then come back

I think you’re bipolar and can’t get your ideas together. Don’t be quick to comment so you don’t contradict yourself.

Same you said: At your older years ,you have more money, more influence, more wisdom

Same you still said: I don't want to be struggling with kids when I can barely take care of myself


A bad parent will be a bad parent regardless of age. More resources and wisdom will guarantee kids get a better life. That’s what I’m for.

Besides, I’m not imposing my ideas on you, choose whichever you prefer.

There’s enough space here to air your opinion, please leave me to mine if it contrasts with yours

EXLOVER:


If not for age difference between yourself and your kids, no time is late for marriage.

Before a man should go into marriage he should be financially ready, even if your woman love you, without money she will get tired at a point.

I'm ripe for marriage, but i don't see myself marrying right now, cause i can't use my preek to raise a family. My present savings can't even afford 5 bags of rice. But some people will marry with such amount of money.

Haha

englishmart:
I understand age is just a number, but all numbers are not equal still. The society tend to fix a standard for everything. Most guys will want to get married on or before they turn 30, but a couple of uncontrollable factors preclude that from happening.

What's your take concerning marrying at 35 for guys. Do you think it's a bit late?

It's not late to get married
Maybe it's a bit late to have children

makeitijn:
I married at 37

Good

What kind of question is this?

People would just be asking silly questions on this forum.

realstars:
Many At 45 Have Not Even Thinking About Marrage Yet. So Age Is Not A Problame For Male Than Female

Is ok sir marriage is not by force, is only family pressure that is my problem

makeitijn:
My neighbour married at 55

If it's me I wouldn't

Starzo:

and yet with all this ur experience you still get special sit reservation for Shiloh every year

Read in between the lines.. Can't say I am surprised. I bet you are below 40. What a shame.

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I swear

Starzo:

na only u and other males for ur family dey below females for everything

Speak for ur lineage alone bro

who be this clown

I'm talking with sane men not you please

Get the fvck outta my mention and work on your complex