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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by JohnBullMySon: 12:05pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
limcar:If she loves you and you return her love, automatically she will respect you and submit to you, even if she's your age mate or senior (I assume that's your fear). I believe most women are wired that way. Some women only act the way they do because their hubby/boyfriend doesn't give them the attention they need or they have an exploitative experience with men. Unless she doesn't love you just for you. Some Nigerian women are only interested in you making them comfortable with money and goodies. Avoid those ones oh Also, age mates are more mentally compatible and more likely to understand each other as well as have things in common. Marriage only makes sense when you have a wife who doubles as your best friend. I know a couple who have significant age differences, because the man wanted to marry the youngest chick, for whatever reason. Their intellectual gap currently, is making the man push her to one corner. Now she even fears the man more than she loves him. 4 Likes |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Karleb(m): 12:06pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
Rubbiish: Your head dey there abeg! 3 Likes |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by NOwazobia: 12:06pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
VTJN:your analysis was floored on the ground that women are the only ones who build homes. Younger ladies build homes on the strength of older men. Women are mostly a depended being which can't build without support from intelligent older men. The reason why younger guys don't seem to be intelligent enough to build a proper home with younger ladies is due to the fact that younger ladies lacks primary wisdom to support the guy, which the ladies themselves need older men to provide. In a marriage of a younger girl and an older man, the girl is always an instruction taker (male domination). Ladies are like kids which must be breast feeded till the day they part the earth by a younger or older intelligent guys. This is the reason we have more depressed bipolar single mothers than single dads. The reason why it seems that younger girls are getting married than younger guys is because ladies are maritally desperate than guys. Ladies will averagely start thinking of marriage at their teenage years, while in their early twenties they are already planning to get married. While guys naturally start think of marriage at their early twenties, while planning a marriage at their late twenties to early thirties. Another marriage advantage ladies have is that they grow much older and more physically matured than guys. The reason a girl in her twenties can comfortably marry a man in his fifties. In all respect, ladies are more mentally docile than guys, the reason they crave for marriage (as a source of mental and physical support) than guys. Many marriages today is not because of the readiness of the guy but because of the pressure from the lady. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Starzo: 12:07pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
peacettw:you wey don reach 70 and yet you still never get sense how e do u?? |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Humanoid01(m): 12:10pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
Margy:What does a person's gender have to do with how they reason? You seem like you've been frustrated by past experiences with men. |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Elxandre(m): 12:11pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
naijapips02:So marrying at 30 and not 35 will make you relate to their struggles? Lol. 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by limcar: 12:12pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
humilitypays:well different strokes for diff folks. there's no perfect age 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Karleb(m): 12:13pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
NOwazobia: This is the reason many of them falsely believe that a girl is more mature than a guy of her age. She only developed hip, nyansh and boobs which makes her naturally ready for childbirth, not even marriage here. 6 Likes |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by iramure(m): 12:15pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
NOwazobia:they tell u to get married to avoid fornication, have peace of mind, procreation etc but you regret if you fall into the wrong hand. Guy, you will blame yourself for getting married. |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by NOwazobia: 12:16pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
Karleb:You are completely right. 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Henix(m): 12:18pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
StPete: Beer parlour research |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by StPete: 12:20pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
Henix: A simple online check would've saved you this public embarrassment |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by lolu2019: 12:21pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
dingbang:y u always talking about retirement.dis is 2021 bro,wake up. U should be thinking about self reliance. ceate a legacy for u and ur generation,must u work for people to survive. 9 Likes |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by spiritedtete: 12:23pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
simplepee: Do you think marrying a man... at 40s will make him have sense? Lol no! If you marry a 40 years old bachelor.. cons are it will take him time before he adjust to you... because he is use to being living alone.. hence he will hardly listen to your opinion. Being with a man isn't by age... before jumping into marriage you should be able to understand your man's philosophy about life in general. When you know this then you can decide if you can cope with him. Now some men don't even know what philosophy is.. however you as their partner should be able to pin points the believes and views about life... Just study them without having to ask them questions. 5 Likes |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by VTJN(m): 12:23pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
Starzo:mumu I'm a guy Go work on your complex and gerahrah here Not everyone is gullible and at the same time hypocritical like you Tomorrow isn't certain for all, so why should i not speak the truth? 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Henix(m): 12:23pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
StPete: Ogbeni, a simple etiquette demands that u acknowledge ur source when citing such research |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Eyanbahose: 12:25pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
simplepee:see your head |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Eyanbahose: 12:26pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
Margy:see your head too like feeding bottle |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Starzo: 12:26pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
VTJN:truth that you and ur entire lineage are below women in every ratification of life?? E clear say be really big mumu with minus value IQ 4 Likes |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by VTJN(m): 12:27pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
iramure:yeah. Having a wrong choice in marriage is a disaster which may likely linger 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Chicastle: 12:29pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
Margy: What do you want? |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Teaser4(m): 12:31pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
03072001hen:lol, it’s not that hard my brother |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by VTJN(m): 12:31pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
Starzo:You seems to be toxic and competitive I pity the unfortunate lady wey go end up or has ended up with you Na your type get the mentality say you dey do woman favour by marriage I'm not surprised though, your type are littered across board 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by koolguy88(m): 12:35pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
It is Late, honestly speaking |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Nobody: 12:40pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
frozen70:no mind am,am 36 i just got government job 2 years ago,even the salary them no pay,how somebody wan attain all what he wrote there, in reality life is very hard, hard knock life. 5 Likes |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by caracas: 12:43pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
StPete:This is the kind of stupid analysis that have taken many men to their early graves.... 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by komodapson(m): 12:46pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
dingbang: What assurance(s) does guarantee you'll live up to 60years....R.I.P Sound sultan 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by One1Nigeria: 12:50pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
simplepee:this one na evening news paper jawe....25 ,27 at most it's okay for a woman anything pass that na evening news paper,because some of this ladies have been sexually active since there teenage years ,so u can imagine it as a public toilet,that one is the one u will call the mother of your children...... Tire person oooo!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by bjprodint1: 12:52pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
simplepee:Lol,very true,d 35yrs old boy i dated was a disaster |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by piagetskinner(m): 1:03pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
Everyone has their opinion… but it’s always best to marry early. The koko na to marry the right person. Not everyone will become a millionaire… sometimes marriage comes with its own blessings. |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by frozen70(f): 1:05pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
Volkswagen90: Exactly my point, thanks for getting it right 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Johel(m): 1:14pm On Jul 20, 2021 |
limcar: The pressure should be you heading towards financial stability (confidence) before thinking of getting married to a woman...The society will only push you but you should look inwards and get focused on total self development first...Cos when kasala burst for your marital home,the society won't help u,instead,they will mock you...I don't live my life to impress the society,I live my life to please the creator,his time are always the best...Let's just pray God hamma us with multi million dollar contacts at our various places of work,by then we will know certain further steps to take,at the right time,for the right purpose and at the assigned age.... Let's make more money and gather up bruh. Sorry for the epistle 5 Likes 1 Share |
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