go and marry without praying about it now! stop quoting me, i don't need your advise.

nomenclature:
Corrections
1 there is nothing like true love,humans marry who they can be of benefit to.
2 your clergy does not have power to certify who you marry,he is mortal like you .

berrystunn:


Yes agree with you something is wrong with this generation. .

Who do we blame??

Then and now are two different moments, Economic woes, lack of direction by young men also contributes to why men married late these days. For instance in today’s Nigeria a man that want to get married must have least 1m to spend on arrangement of weddings, the question is how many hustling Nigerian men have such little amount in their bank account. I know several 30+ men that still live with their parents . It’s really a sad situation.

naijapips02:


When you have no point , you make it personal. Typical kid

Gramps allow me to grow then

Sonnobax15:

Better be late than never....

Like you already said..."age is just a number".... Don't let that to be a burden on you....

Well,I don't think it's late.... infact na the perfect time be that.....at least I've equally seen men of over 50 years doing marriage introduction . And they don't feel bothered after that...
Your consideration should be based on--Am I ready to shoulder all the responsibilities that comes along with marriage,and not the age difference..

pple say age is jst numbers, bt i tink it matters cos every year, as dt number increase we dnt grow younger, we grow older, so i tink it matters

dingbang:
So by 60, your kids will be entering uni? By that that you will be retired and not capable to support them in university.

Your thinking is low 0.1%

PAWG:


Gramps allow me to grow then

Sure. It's evident you still have a lot to learn son. You are growing stunted.

nokspos:
it depends on the age you found true love or when you found whom your heart is contented with and the feelings is mutual. And after prayer your clergy man certify you two compatible for the long ride regardless the bumpy road ahead, some people find this at age 20, some 25 some 35 some 55.

May you never lack wisdom.

Marriage is sweet when their is money. So for both gender it is advisable you marry at your own convenience and not because you want to do what others are doing

Darevofpeace:

This analysis is bias and myopic.Discover your "purpose" in life first.

Really, it can be frustrating hearing average people reasoning like this without taking time to understand what other people are doing while they are waiting for marriage.

What if I'm working on my business or ministry that will fetch enough money that can surpass my generation.

I don't know if everybody must end up in life as salary earner.
What happen to bearing fruit at old age?

I've come to realize that some are even into marriage to do an investment - something like - marry early so your children start bringing money when you cannot work again.
Pathetic!

Rubbiish:

Yet everything u are using today from technology to health to engineering, every sphere of life, were invented & discovered by men??
Are u sure u know the meaning of intellect??

we aren't talking about the stone ages or past bro

We are talking about our generation

Especially down Nigeria

The female folks are way ahead of their male counterparts

Go to different higher institutions to see for yourself

My department is a mixed one, the whole ladies graduated successfully without having extra year nor sleeping with any lecturers

While we have more than 12 guys with sumptuous numbers of outstanding results

My friend project was on performance of students across agos state tertiary institutions

The female folks are doing pretty well than the male

kokoboy4life:


Then and now are two different moments, Economic woes, lack of direction by young men also contributes to why men married late these days. For instance in today’s Nigeria a man that want to get married must have least 1m to spend on arrangement of weddings, the question is how many hustling Nigerian men have such little amount in their bank account. I know several 30+ men that still live with their parents . It’s really a sad situation.

Don't you think Youth of now are too lazy.
Looking for shout Cort to make money.

Alot want to travel out... In Europe today some are there doing nothing.

Young men this days can't keep relationship can't even keep good friends around.

StPete:
Do not let anyone deceive you, marrying at 35 is a tard late. Looking at the present state of Nigeria, except you have planned billions down for your unborn children, you will probably have to keep struggling in old age or after retirement to keep them alive and in school.

More so, research shows that the best time to give birth to healthy looking kids should be from 18-28 years.

There's nothing more proud than to see your grown child standing next to you and people assuming he/she is your sibling

i lv dt, dt is enough reason for me to marry early, my parents married in their 20's n were blessed with four kids, they are nw in their 40's n am proud to see them still looking young, fresh n strong. nothin wil giv me joy in future than to watch my kids grow up to be adults wit good moral behaviour while am stil alive, strong, fresh n looking young. by d time i get to 60 or 70 i should be expecting my grand children. any man in dt condition is d happiest man on earth whether there is money or not. instead of money to delay my marriage, i wil rather surfer for money nw n enjoy tomorrow than to enjoy nw n suffer tomorrow

JohnBullMySon:
There might be odd cases but almost all the marriages with age gap that I have been opportuned to see from the inside, are like that.
Secondly, you don't live with them and know how they act in reality. Social media deceives a lot. You only see what they want you to see.

As a guy, is it advisable to marry your agemate?

VTJN:
we aren't talking about the stone ages or past bro

We are talking about our generation

Especially down Nigeria

The female folks are way ahead of their male counterparts

Go to different higher institutions to see for yourself

My department is a mixed one, the whole ladies graduated successfully without having extra year nor sleeping with any lecturers

While we have more than 12 guys with sumptuous numbers of outstanding results

My friend project was on performance of students across agos state tertiary institutions

The female folks are doing pretty well than the male

U can't use your department to draw such a ridiculous & baseless conclusion!
I quoted u because of the word "INTELLECT"? Do u even know the meaning of intellectual?? When u say a white man is intelligently ahead of a black man, it is very understandable because it is evident in the things they have invented, which we humans are all using today, from health, automobiles, technology etc. But when u say the girl child is intelligently ahead of a boy child?? How does that even sound? How many girl child do u find in architecture, engineering etc? Top ten inventors of all time are men, even in our institutions majority of the top students are male citing my faculty as an example from my B.sc to M.sc. So what did u now use to draw your conclusion that one particular gender is ahead of the other intellectually? Your textbooks, from faradey, franklin, pascal theorems, Newton's law of motion & the likes are all men, how many formulas & theorems u used in your text were discovered by females?
How many space shuttle have u seen launched by women?? You must be very daft & I hope u don't have a male child, because u will so frustrate that child. If a man has hurt u, better take it out on him & don't come online to make mockery of yourself!

Margy:


Walai...they truly don't have sense...that's why they reason like little babies with feeding bottle

could you please mention the characteristics of these men?

dingbang:
So by 60, your kids will be entering uni? By that that you will be retired and not capable to support them in university.

What happen to bearing fruits at old age?
Something you don't know is, some are paying the price for generational wealth that can outlive even their children. Why do you always think everybody must struggle for finance at old age?
Kumuyi married late, the same with Gowon.
They have enough resources to sponsor their third generation ready on ground

Johel:



I can marry at 50 and have a child anytime...e no concern anybody how I choose to live and make my life go,Na God get final say,we can only plan....Do you let me do me...I don't live for the society.

but the pressure

StPete:
Do not let anyone deceive you, marrying at 35 is a tard late. Looking at the present state of Nigeria, except you have planned billions down for your unborn children, you will probably have to keep struggling in old age or after retirement to keep them alive and in school.

More so, research shows that the best time to give birth to healthy looking kids should be from 18-28 years.

There's nothing more proud than to see your grown child standing next to you and people assuming he/she is your sibling

Can you cite this research?

Johncuppa:

Really, it can be frustrating hearing average people reasoning like this without taking time to understand what other people are doing while they are waiting for marriage.

What if I'm working on my business or ministry that will fetch enough money that can surpass my generation.

I don't know if everybody must end up in life as salary earner.
What happen to bearing fruit at old age?

I've come to realize that some are even into marriage to do an investment - something like - marry early so your children start bringing money when you cannot work again.
Pathetic!

I love your objectivity.........you would be a great leader bro! You are da bomb!

StPete:
Do not let anyone deceive you, marrying at 35 is a tard late. Looking at the present state of Nigeria, except you have planned billions down for your unborn children, you will probably have to keep struggling in old age or after retirement to keep them alive and in school.

More so, research shows that the best time to give birth to healthy looking kids should be from 18-28 years.

There's nothing more proud than to see your grown child standing next to you and people assuming he/she is your sibling

could you provide a link where the research was published? Which of the journals? I challenge you on this. If you can't, you should be ashamed of yourself for making utterly ridiculous claims on a public forum with surreal audacity.

iramure:
Marriage is a scam. It can make or mar you. Choose wisely

Contradiction. If marriage is a scam there shouldn't be an option of making you.

Starzo:
who marriage help??

for ur mind na

wizkidssfan:
The whole process of marriage is flawd.. scared of taking the risk

take d risk for a better future

simplepee:
It's not late or abnormal.

Infact I'm not sure I can marry a man under 35. Men are very slow with sense. That 35 sef, some of them still don't have sense.

I know say na woman go talk this thing. God bless you eh. Continue insulting us

Teaser4:
Get married whenever you feel you’re ready!!! Age na numbers. I’m in my early 30’s I never reason marriage......

u strong oo

Rubbiish:

U can't use your department to draw such a ridiculous & baseless conclusion!
I quoted u because of the word "INTELLECT"? Do u even know the meaning of intellectual?? When u say a white man is intelligently ahead of a black man, it is very understandable because it is evident in the things they have invented, which we humans are all using today, from health, automobiles, technology etc. But when u say the girl child is intelligently ahead of a boy child?? How does that even sound? How many girl child do u find in architecture, engineering etc? Top ten inventors of all time are men, even in our institutions majority of the top students are male citing my faculty as an example from my B.sc to M.sc. So what did u now use to draw your conclusion that one particular gender is ahead of the other intellectually? Your textbooks, from faradey, franklin, pascal theorems, Newton's law of motion & the likes are all men, how many formulas & theorems u used in your text were discovered by females?
How many space shuttle have u seen launched by women?? You must be very daft & I hope u don't have a male child, because u will so frustrate that child. If a man has hurt u, better take it out on him & don't come online to make mockery of yourself!

Tertiary institutions across Lagos state sir

simplepee:
It's not late or abnormal.

Infact I'm not sure I can marry a man under 35. Men are very slow with sense. That 35 sef, some of them still don't have sense.

Savage

simplepee:
It's not late or abnormal.

Infact I'm not sure I can marry a man under 35. Men are very slow with sense. That 35 sef, some of them still don't have sense.

But women have fish brain

Stop seeking validation from the society otherwise you wld be toying with depression

VTJN:
who be this clown

I'm talking with sane men not you please

Get the fvck outta my mention and work on your complex

foolish fool... you're obviously mentally deranged and suffering from incurable inferiority complex for u to utter such nonsense as 'women are above men in everything. Either that or you're female trying be mischievous by pretending to be man.