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Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by jtech17: 8:34pm On Aug 10, 2021 |
lightest: This thing called marriage is the scariest risk to venture into in obodo oyibo.... 5 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by EngrSaks(m): 9:03pm On Aug 10, 2021 |
Praying for you Bro...God willing, you will come out stronger...Dont give up, this too shall pass lightest: |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Lexusgs430: 9:08pm On Aug 10, 2021 |
lightest: Oju lalakon fin soori ............ I hope you understand...... Once you see red, engage safeguards..... 2 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Lexusgs430: 9:10pm On Aug 10, 2021 |
jtech17: Only if you're with the wrong person .......... 5 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Vooom: 9:11pm On Aug 10, 2021 |
Thank u so much. 5 years is really a lot though. I only gat no choice been thinking about these apprentiships in technical or non techncal areas still not sure how it works or if i can get sponsorship' dupyshoo: |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by LagosismyHome(f): 9:17pm On Aug 10, 2021 |
wonlasewonimi: ... I was telling a friend here today that the day of dash dash money is over.. 1 Like |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by wallg123: 11:39pm On Aug 10, 2021 |
lightest:Bros I think you should try to resolve whatever the issue is with your wife. Even if she was the aggressor. My reasonings are based on the fact that you’ve got about 6 months left on your visa. This type of battle go take time to win and it would affect your mental health. so if you can resolve it before it gets too far please do so. But While you trying to resolve it, also be preparing your plan B. (Immigration lawyer). If things work between you both, please try and make sure you have your name on the tenancy agreement and some utility bills. It would help you if this type of thing happen next time. |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Lexusgs430: 12:12am On Aug 11, 2021 |
wallg123: I disagree....... On the flipside, it portrays her controlling and emotionally abusive side.......... See, when we package for Home office, nah knockout......... 4 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Lexusgs430: 1:24am On Aug 11, 2021 |
wonlasewonimi: Cryptos now fully recovered.......... What goes up, must come down....... Possibly not a good time to buy(newbies) ......... Time to dump......... Pump session, is around the corner........ |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 5:29am On Aug 11, 2021 |
EngrSaks: Amen, thank u 1 Like |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 5:30am On Aug 11, 2021 |
Lexusgs430: sure I understood better |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 5:33am On Aug 11, 2021 |
Lexusgs430: pls, enlighten me more as am open to advice. |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by babajeje123(m): 6:47am On Aug 11, 2021 |
Lexusgs430:Don't let's conclude that she controls and emotional abusive till we hear from her side too. It takes two to tango. 6 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by wallg123: 7:06am On Aug 11, 2021 |
Lexusgs430:Oga all options available to him are expensive and might or might not work. The cheapest option is (dialogue/ am sorry)…… Renting another apartment, engaging lawyers, contacting home office and all that …. Are those things done for free ? 6 months visa is not 6 years visa so time is of the essence….saying sorry or dialogue has never killed anybody 5 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 7:28am On Aug 11, 2021 |
wallg123: yes u are right, but when ur sorry has not being Woking until u are pushed out will u still keep saying sorry u till u are knocked out. like someone will say, it is better imagined than experienced. I really value ur advise. I hope all works out including ur adive. |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 7:30am On Aug 11, 2021 |
babajeje123: i love ur spirit but I if u u what I have done to make the home bro am sure some of us here cannot do half of it. Thank u |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by KOVIC19COVID20: 7:40am On Aug 11, 2021 |
lightest: It’s possible that if and when we hear her own side of the story… the advice already offered to you will change. Every story has 3 sides Bro. Make peace with thy wife. Resolve your matters as quick as you can. 3 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by deept(m): 7:53am On Aug 11, 2021 |
Lexusgs430: Look what happened to gold, once the us announced better than forecasted economic recovery, the process of commodities dropped. Usually steronger dollar means drop in all the other store of value |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by olacio: 8:36am On Aug 11, 2021 |
olacio: @justwise and others,kindly assist |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Lexusgs430: 8:38am On Aug 11, 2021 |
wallg123: Oga, can you dialogue with a brickwall ......... Cost is relative ........ Depends on the value, OP attaches to his present/future sanity status .......... I hope OP is not seeking free resolution........ Free things, would surely eventually become expensive........ 1 Like |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Lexusgs430: 8:40am On Aug 11, 2021 |
deept: Sure XAU & XAG, dropped in value ......... It's HODL time for commodities......... |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by babajeje123(m): 8:51am On Aug 11, 2021 |
lightest:Don't be too sure of sacrifices people make to hold their homes. I know women can be handful but I think they are so easy to deal with once you understand them. Do all you can to make peace with your wife bro. 4 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by wallg123: 9:10am On Aug 11, 2021 |
Lexusgs430:… If she’s that hard na to use am reconstruct my garage … if the OP get money to spend, then let him seek legal advice….but until then a little bit of Justin Bieber “Sorry” is the intimate solution 1 Like |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Chukwuka16: 9:38am On Aug 11, 2021 |
deept: Nothing happened to gold. What you have online are derivatives/ETFs or paper gold contracts with serious manipulations by JPM and others on Comex (pump and dump) to exit their positions at some profit or reduced margin calls (losses). Leverage on comex is like 1:650 and above. That's crazy! Basel III is being implemented and that means significantly reduced leverage which will see many paper contracts being closed. Try buying premiums (physical gold like Maple leaf or Kruger etc) and see if it sells for the paper price. Look to central banks to understand gold. Today, Russia holds more gold reserve than US treasuries. China and India are massively increasing their purchase of gold (mind you, China doesn't export gold mined internally). Even Ghana is diversifying her reserves to include gold while Nigeria is still looking for cow route (I love my country). I don't think people buy physical gold or silver to trade, they do so as a means of wealth preservation (part of a diversification strategy). There is only so much manipulation that can occur before the Fed (major culprit) loses the plot and we have to rein in the $$ (another Bretton Wood maybe). If China launches her digital Yuan and backs it with gold, then we can be very sure that a major reorganisation is in the works. Lastly, the BIS (Bank of International Settlement) more like the central Bank of the world's central banks has this to say about gold - "Physical gold is a first-tier asset that has no counterparty or political risk". So for now it's to keep diversifying with eyes firmly on the debt/bond market - that's the foundation of the world's economy. 1 Like |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by justwise(m): 9:43am On Aug 11, 2021 |
wallg123: Bro you know that it doesn’t always work that way, sometimes the solution is to walk away and still raise the kids together without living together. Marriage is not do or die affair, if you have tried all you can and it’s not working please walk away amicably for your own sanity. You can not be in a loveless marriage and keep saying sorry just to keep it going no matter who is at fault here. 10 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by justwise(m): 9:46am On Aug 11, 2021 |
olacio: I have answered this sort of question before though I can’t remember the particular ID , I will quote you when I get it |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by oluayebenz: 9:54am On Aug 11, 2021 |
babajeje123: Nigerian women is very difficult in that part of the world, especially when they are done with you.... OP... Just be positive and try to figure a way out. |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by justwise(m): 9:57am On Aug 11, 2021 |
lightest: Bro whether you are at fault or she is … this is what I can say to you. Look after your mental health, don’t let this drain you and affect your job. Speak to people you trust and don’t bottle things as we Africans usually do. Settle in your new place and maintain a healthy relationship with your kids, if with time things works out between you and your wife good , if not then it’s what it’s . Life goes on. 6 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Stereotypes: 11:22am On Aug 11, 2021 |
Relationships don't suddenly disintegrate out of thin air. Were you caught doing duggeedugeee or were you doing dugeedugee while thinking she didn't know? How were you both in Nigeria before you ported? If both of you moved from Nigeria,this is her repaying you for all that happened there.I have noticed the women wait till they land and then execute their revenge. There's no way this marriage was happy and both of you were on the same page. Very strange that she didn't let you put your name in any document,it means she had been planning this for a while and had checked out since. How did you not notice? Don't blame friends,its our usual default pattern when we notice our partner is no longer behaving like the usual default setting. Your wife doesn't like you anymore and has been erasing you since bit by bit. Once a woman reaches this stage, she's fed up. Since its not working, please move on and coparent peacefully for the sake of your children while looking for immigration lawyer. Chai! You go suffer no be small o! New apartment,visa fees,lawyer fees, bills bills bills . Pele 3 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by dustydee: 11:26am On Aug 11, 2021 |
Stereotypes:looks like you know them personally. Talk about stereotypes. While that might have happened to some, there is no hint or insinuation from his writings here that that is the case. You should not be categorical if you are not sure of the true picture. 2 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by Stereotypes: 11:27am On Aug 11, 2021 |
dustydee: My name says it all. 1 Like |
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