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Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by Agboriotejoye(m): 12:00am On Aug 14, 2021
Kobojunkie:

1. God created woman after He decided that since man was alone - the only man in the history of creation to have been alone - He, God, would create a partner specifically fit for him, to complement him. So God created Eve as a perfect equal of Adam's. And God instituted marriage as a union between man and woman - equals. undecided

2. However, man fell and God laid a curse on woman proclaiming that she would no longer be equal to her husband in her marriage and since then, we have seen man and woman live in that cursed state from the beginning. undecided

3. Your Mog here lies since he presumes that marriage can only flourish if man and woman continue to exist in the cursed state. Also he is ignorant of the fact that a curse is what made marriage what it is today, and that same curse is the one Jesus Christ has given those who believe in Him freedom from. undecided

What you call salvation is give you by Jesus Christ from the very curse laid upon man(woman too) by God in Genesis 3 vs 14 - 19. That gift you recieve through Jesus Christ what who claim to believe in Jesus Christ continue to reject, this by their ignorance, choosing instead to remain in their previously cursed state. And as Jesus Christ made it severally clear in His teachings, no one still condemned/cursed will enter into Heaven. undecided

You have turned the account of Genesis upside down. In the first place, woman was created out of man. They are the only creature that had the female created out of the male. Not only that God brought the woman to him to first approve of and then name Eve.
Secondly you chose only the "curse" of the man ruling over the woman forgetting that there are other curses that are still in existence till today which you failed to account for. Example, the pain of childbirth, the tilling of the soil to eat, dying. Do you mean the existence of these phenomenon means Christ's death is of no consequence?
I'll like to see your thoughts on these

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Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by Kobojunkie: 12:02am On Aug 14, 2021
Regex:
And you are in the West and South-West doing what?
Why are you not in fighting for their right?
fighting for whose rights? undecided
Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by Kingisibor: 12:03am On Aug 14, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
I am talking about the preachers preaching submission on daily basis without, preaching LOVE along with it, just as Bible mentioned it. Infact, you can never hear them remind men that Bible commanded them to LOVE/HONOUR their wife's, all you will hear is submission. End time preachings

What do you mean by wanting freedom, is there any human who does not deserve to be free? Or do feminists preach against a woman submitting/man loving.
Women can never get total freedom in marriage...
Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by Newboss(m): 12:04am On Aug 14, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Speak that which you really have knowledge of abeg! undecided

It's common knowledge, except you have watered down your own religion. Remember, you can't say no to your God and still be in his good books. You can't even criticise him. There is no freedom of you can't freely say no without grave consequences. Religion stands against freedom.
Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by mapet: 12:05am On Aug 14, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Interesting! undecided

So invariably, you are saying that your marriages begin and end here in this world, is that not so? undecided

Except you have something else in your book of heresy

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Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by Kobojunkie: 12:09am On Aug 14, 2021
Agboriotejoye:

You have turned the account of Genesis upside down. In the first place, woman was created out of man. They are the only creature that had the female created out of the male. Not only that God brought the woman to him to first approve of and then name Eve.
Secondly you chose only the "curse" of the man ruling over the woman forgetting that there are other curses that are still in existence till today which you failed to account for. Example, the pain of childbirth, the tilling of the soil to eat, dying. Do you mean the existence of these phenomenon means Christ's death is of no consequence?
I'll like to see your thoughts on these
1. God created the woman Eve as a companion for Adam because Adam was alone. HE Created Eve to Adam's perfect fit and this by using elements from Adam himself. God never said Eve was in any way less than Adam because she was created from Him. undecided

2. I focused on the one curse that is associated with this here topic and appropriately so too since I am not here to preach the entirety of the sermon given us by Jesus Christ on salvation from from condemnation of Sin as written of in Genesis 3 vs 14 - 19 . undecided

According to Jesus Christ, everyone who submits to and obeys Him are saved from God's judgement against sin - Condemnation of sin, and gifted with eternal life - John 3 vs 16 - 21.

3. I don't understand what you mean by Christ's death at all.

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Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by Kobojunkie: 12:11am On Aug 14, 2021
mapet:

Except you have something else in your book of heresy
Interesting! undecided

So when I said that Jesus Christ declared that your marriages are of this world and not of His Kingdom, why did you scream heresy? undecided
Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by Kobojunkie: 12:12am On Aug 14, 2021
Newboss:

It's common knowledge, except you have watered down your own religion. Remember, you can't say no to your God and still be in his good books. You can't even criticise him. There is no freedom of you can't freely say no without grave consequences. Religion stands against freedom.
Ofcourse you can say No to God. undecided

I personally like the contract/agreement that exists between God and me, that is why I submit myself to the terms and conditions. grin
Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by mapet: 12:23am On Aug 14, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Interesting! undecided

So when I said that Jesus Christ declared that your marriages are of this world and not of His Kingdom, why did you scream heresy? undecided

How has this scripture explained the concept of marriage as God ordained it? This scripture was an answer Jesus to the trap question from the Saducees

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Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by Agboriotejoye(m): 12:25am On Aug 14, 2021
Kobojunkie:
1. God created the woman Eve as a companion for Adam because Adam was alone. HE Created Eve to Adam's perfect fit and this by using elements from Adam himself. God never said Eve was in any way less than Adam because she was created from Him. undecided

2. I focused on the one curse that is associated with this here topic and appropriately so too since I am not here to preach the entirety of the sermon given us by Jesus Christ on salvation from from condemnation of Sin as written of in Genesis 3 vs 14 - 19 . undecided

According to Jesus Christ, everyone who submits to and obeys Him are saved from God's judgement against sin , and gifted with eternal life - John 3 vs 16 - 21.

3. I don't understand what you mean by Christ's death at all.

That's why I said you should read Genesis well. God did not create man and woman equally. He created woman out of man. His intention was not to make someone equal to him. Remember God first brought all the animals to Adam and when none could "fit" him he decided to create one out of the man himself. If equality was what God was after, he would not have brought four legged creatures to Adam to choose from. God made Adam the leader and tenderer of everything in the garden of Eden including Eve. For example, after they ate the apple, God did not call Adam and Eve to question but called Adam alone to account for the actions of both of them. If God saw them as equals, he would have called and asked each separately instead of asking Adam first.

Secondly, you claim woman being under a man is as a result of God's curse and that has been washed away by the death of Jesus Christ. I then ask what about childbirth, death and tilling of the land. You can't take the part that appeals to you and discountenance others. That's selective interpretation of the Bible which ultimately leads to error. If you claim Jesus' sacrificial death has restored woman to parity as it was before the curse, then such should be the case for all other curses or is there any significance to that particular curse?

I'm surprised you don't understand the significance of Christ's death. You should read Romans more to understand the concept of salvation and the curses of Eden. You are looking at it from the wrong view.

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Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by Kobojunkie: 12:36am On Aug 14, 2021
Agboriotejoye:

2. Secondly, you claim woman being under a man is as a result of God's curse and that has been washed away by the death of Jesus Christ. I then ask what about childbirth, death and tilling of the land. You can't take the part that appeals to you and discountenance others. That's selective interpretation of the Bible which ultimately leads to error.

3. If you claim Jesus' sacrificial death has restored woman to parity as it was before the curse, then such should be the case for all other curses or is there any significance to that particular curse?

4. I'm surprised you don't understand the significance of Christ's death. You should read Romans more to understand the concept of salvation and the curses of Eden. You are looking at it from the wrong view.
1. I don't understand what you are even trying to say at all

2. What part of my response that Salvation, offered by Jesus Christ, is from all those curses listed in Genesis 3 vs 14 - 19? undecided

3. Again, Jesus Christ's gift of salvation is from the Condemnation of Sin .I.e. God's curse on mankind as listed in Genesis 3 vs 14 - 19 undecided

4. I think you should start reading the Gospels so you understand Jesus Christ's own teachings to you regarding the gift of Salvation that He offers to you and how it is is only those who submit to and obey His teachings and commandments who can obtain it it freedom that it gives undecided
Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by Akuruoulo(m): 12:41am On Aug 14, 2021
Pierocash:
Woman of substance. They will soon land to spew gabbage against this virtuous woman.


No one practising feminism in marriage is a happy woman. They can be pretending,but the truth is that no feminist ends well in marriage.

I broke up from a 4 yrs relationship 3 months ago with a feminist. They are so narcissistic,rebellious ,and lack empathy. Naija women have turned feminism into wickedness towards men. They have turned Feminism into competition and antagonism in their marriage. Some casualties recorded in marriage is rooted in this evils ideology called feminism
Feminism is wickedness Against men in all continents
Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by Akuruoulo(m): 12:42am On Aug 14, 2021
Omooba77:


Love is key, but some Feminists wants total freedom. We can not upturn God's order.
FEMINISTS WANT EQUAL AUTHORITY BUT NOT EQUAL RESPONSIBILITY.
SELFISH MOFOS
Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by Kobojunkie: 12:44am On Aug 14, 2021
mapet:

How has this scripture explained the concept of marriage as God ordained it? This scripture was an answer Jesus to the trap question from the Saducees
Jesus Christ is God's New Covenant Law in the Kingdom of God and according to Him, and since we become members of His Kingdom even here on earth, it is included in His Law that marriage remains as defined by God in the beginning, this before God cursed man and woman for their sins against Him - Genesis 2 vs 24

2. The promise of the Kingdom of God belongs, not to those of the Old Covenant, but to those of the New Covenant and so when Jesus Christ was asked the question, He phrased His response in the context of the Kingdom of God, the Kingdom He came to bring to those who will believe in Him. undecided

So Jesus Christ used the opportunity to make it clear that the marriages we have begin and end in this world and are not a part of His Kingdom. undecided
Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by Akuruoulo(m): 12:45am On Aug 14, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
I am talking about the preachers preaching submission on daily basis without, preaching LOVE along with it, just as Bible mentioned it. Infact, you can never hear them remind men that Bible commanded them to LOVE/HONOUR their wife's, all you will hear is submission. End time preachings

What do you mean by wanting freedom, is there any human who does not deserve to be free? Or do feminists preach against a woman submitting/man loving.
They don't only preach against submission but embrace/plan evil against men
Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by LilMissFavvy(f): 12:49am On Aug 14, 2021
Madam church goer, you seem to live with me and see that I don't go to church, I sight you. undecided
ImaIma1:


At bolded, it means you don't got to church cheesy

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Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by Agboriotejoye(m): 12:51am On Aug 14, 2021
Kobojunkie:
1. I don't understand what you are even trying to say at all

2. What part of my response that Salvation, offered by Jesus Christ, is from all those curses listed in Genesis 3 vs 14 - 19? undecided

3. Again, Jesus Christ's gift of salvation is from the Condemnation of Sin .I.e. God's curse on mankind as listed in Genesis 3 vs 14 - 19 undecided

4. I think you should start reading the Gospels so you understand Jesus Christ's own teachings to you regarding the gift of Salvation that He offers to you and how it is is only those who submit to and obey His teachings and commandments who can obtain it it freedom that it gives undecided

Let me break it down for you. God's curse on mankind after the fall is as follows
1. Man shall till the ground to eat. Before the fall, the plants grew of themselves.
2. Man shall die and return to dust. Before then, man was actually immortal
3. Woman shall have pain at childbirth
4. Man shall rule over the woman and the woman shall seek to please the man in all things
5. God drove them out of the garden of Eden

Now looking at all of the above, is there any of them which has stopped in the daily human experience to this day? If not, why do you then think Jesus has removed woman from under the "curse" of being under the man while the others are still potent?

I do understand the gospels very well. The question is if you understand it. Jesus Christ never equated a man to woman. In fact, he called the Pharisees attention to the fact that God never intended for a man to divorce his wife but Moses allowed it due to their stubbornness. He then went ahead to give his own conditions by which a man may divorce his wife. In other words, Jesus never said anything about the position of a woman with respect to a man.

Apostle Paul who further expounded on this subject in Corinthians used the example of Christ as the head of the church and the church being submissive to Christ to describe the relationship between a man and his wife.

I hope you understand now.

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Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by Akuruoulo(m): 12:51am On Aug 14, 2021
jesusjnr2020:
One thing I have observed from most men who claim to be of God, is that they are sexist but they obviously have no grouse with that because they think is their right to be so, but the woman has no such right.

It's really shameful when I see how they fail to emulate the ways of Jesus who on several occasions defended the rights of the woman from her oppressors as the Pharisees.

Today they are they remind me of the Pharisees much more than Jesus.

They want to keep her in perpetual bondage to man, not know that the saying in the Bible that man shall rule over her was a punishment for her role in man's fall, hence it's no longer valid, because Jesus her redeemer upon His death has broken the yoke and bondage of sin over her life.

That's how they'd make sexist rules such as "a woman shall keep silence in the church and not speak" among such they do to stifle her, but thank God, God is not man, so He doesn't follow the rules of men, but His, hence He would make some women not just to speak in the church but to lead some of the most powerful churches in recent history as a certain Kathryn Kulman.

I chose to align with God's plan and intentions for the woman just as my Master Jesus did so that I would not find myself going against God.

God bless.
And ur wise mentality is telling u that women don't oppress men ABI ?
ABI women no the oppress fellow women ?
Always talking shit.
There are Soo many women who held high positions but are not feminists. They strong women who workout for what they want.
Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by Akuruoulo(m): 12:54am On Aug 14, 2021
jesusjnr2020:
One thing I have observed from most men who claim to be of God, is that they are sexist but they obviously have no grouse with that because they think is their right to be so, but the woman has no such right.

It's really shameful when I see how they fail to emulate the ways of Jesus who on several occasions defended the rights of the woman from her oppressors as the Pharisees.

Today they are they remind me of the Pharisees much more than Jesus.

They want to keep her in perpetual bondage to man, not know that the saying in the Bible that man shall rule over her was a punishment for her role in man's fall, hence it's no longer valid, because Jesus her redeemer upon His death has broken the yoke and bondage of sin over her life.

That's how they'd make sexist rules such as "a woman shall keep silence in the church and not speak" among such they do to stifle her, but thank God, God is not man, so He doesn't follow the rules of men, but His, hence He would make some women not just to speak in the church but to lead some of the most powerful churches in recent history as a certain Kathryn Kulman.

I chose to align with God's plan and intentions for the woman just as my Master Jesus did so that I would not find myself going against God.

God bless.
ABI u wan call Christ a hypocrite for not having a female fellower?
Everyone one earth knows that females are humans and have right.
Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by Akuruoulo(m): 12:56am On Aug 14, 2021
BRATISLAVA:


Thanks for your contribution.

Religious men can be really oppressive in matters concerning women. Most men and their pastors need to read their Bibles thoroughly, not only the places they like because it supports them, but even the most hidden reaches. Most women in such unions are miserable.

I'm always surprised to see that pastors read their Bibles and stop on that verse, and never go beyond it. Is it that loving ones wife isn't important? Isn't it as much a commandment as they feel the submission verse is? The men who refuse to read beyond that are in the same danger they feel women who aren't submissive are.

This is one of the reasons I stopped listening to pastors. They are too lopsided in their reading and interpretation of the Bible. Most of the time it is because it tickles their fancy.
It would have been better if you read out those verses they were afraid to read
Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by ImaIma1(f): 12:58am On Aug 14, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
Madam church goer, you seem to live with me and see that I don't go to church, I sight you. undecided


Your comment that they don't preach submission and love hand in hand prompted it. You can follow me to church as per madam church goer tongue
Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by Akuruoulo(m): 12:58am On Aug 14, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Even though Jesus Christ made it clear that marriages are not of His Kingdom, but of this world, they continue to install themselves as marriage counselors in the name of God.

Marriage was in place before the curse showed up so equality in marriage is not against God but as God created it to be. undecided

After the curse came in however, woman was cursed, condemned by God to be ruled over by man and perish in the end - cease to exist / return to dust when she dies!

However, through Jesus Christ all who believe in Him, including women, are saved from this condemning curse(all those who live under the curse perish much like Adam), and are made equal members of the Kingdom of God. undecided

Sadly, your Mogs have no knowledge of this and so continue to preach lies as sermons in the name of God. undecided
Didn't God approve the Union of marriage ?
Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by Akuruoulo(m): 12:59am On Aug 14, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Even though Jesus Christ made it clear that marriages are not of His Kingdom, but of this world, they continue to install themselves as marriage counselors in the name of God.

Marriage was in place before the curse showed up so equality in marriage is not against God but as God created it to be. undecided

After the curse came in however, woman was cursed, condemned by God to be ruled over by man and perish in the end - cease to exist / return to dust when she dies!

However, through Jesus Christ all who believe in Him, including women, are saved from this condemning curse(all those who live under the curse perish much like Adam), and are made equal members of the Kingdom of God. undecided

Sadly, your Mogs have no knowledge of this and so continue to preach lies as sermons in the name of God. undecided
Didn't God approve the Union of marriage ?
What did he say about it ?
End Time preacher
Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by Magnoliaa(f): 1:01am On Aug 14, 2021
Nawa ooo. This one feminists just dey collect leftu, rightu hand senta. Na Feminist Dragging Week we dey? grin Watin dey occurate??

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Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by Kobojunkie: 1:03am On Aug 14, 2021
Akuruoulo:

Didn't God approve the Union of marriage ?
What did he say about it ?
End Time preacher
Again, Genesis 2 Vs 24 undecided

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Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by Kobojunkie: 1:04am On Aug 14, 2021
Akuruoulo:

ABI u wan call Christ a hypocrite for not having a female fellower?
Everyone one earth knows that females are humans and have right.
Jesus Christ had female followers! undecided

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Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by Akuruoulo(m): 1:07am On Aug 14, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Jesus Christ had female followers! undecided
now u failed to comprehend quick .
Must I mention the apostles ?
Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by Magnoliaa(f): 1:11am On Aug 14, 2021
pansophist:
Show me a feminist, and I'll show you a stupid person.

Show me a redpiller, and I'll show you a foolish person. cheesy cheesy

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Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by Akuruoulo(m): 1:12am On Aug 14, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Again, Genesis 2 Vs 24 undecided
They will become one in what way ?
Even Jesus said He and His Father are one yet he takes permission from his Father " Why " ?

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Re: Feminism In Marriage Is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred Okonkwo (Video) by Akuruoulo(m): 1:13am On Aug 14, 2021
Magnoliaa:


Show me a redpiller, and I'll show you a foolish person. cheesy cheesy
How do you know redpillers ?

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