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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by femixville(m): 12:25pm On Aug 21, 2021
Our fathers, were they stable before they married.. If not for big farm they do cultivation that provides food..

Then sef, women only need food and few clothes, everyone stays in the hut, so far the room can shield from sun nd rain

This days, all this daughters of what I can't describe, I no know which part of heaven they send them from, con dey frustrate men..

Oga, do your best, na God dey reward man.. Anyone wey no won stay, mke she go marry God.. Simple

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by jimmychang: 12:25pm On Aug 21, 2021
lonelyisland:
You know, at a time she couldn't stay any longer.
The pressure was much, she was loosing her mind.
We said it was us against the world, but she couldn't fight the world again.
Families were disturbing her for money, money was no where to be found.
What she doesn't know was her courage was what was pushing me forward, it was just what I needed to forge ahead.

At a time, I too was loosing it but she came with a strong vibes and aura which kept me moving.
She left, but her courage and strength is still there.

My advice to young guys please have money before you venture into a relationship, she might stay but you still need the money to keep it going.

Relationships/marriage are like old cargo trains that uses charcoal to function. You have to be ready to give in something. I don talk my own finish ooo


Make she get money too,if she no get make she get the Bleep out.

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by lonelyisland(m): 12:26pm On Aug 21, 2021
pseudonomer:


What if you are rich and you are at a difficult moment, I mean at your lowest. Which happens often to men, she'll still leave.

It depends on the type of lady you have got for yourself, majority of them would leave only few would stay and fight through the storm with you.
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by lonelyisland(m): 12:27pm On Aug 21, 2021
femixville:
Our fathers, were they stable before they married.. If not for big farm they do cultivation that provides food..

Then sef, women only need food and few clothes, everyone stays in the hut, so far the room can shield from sun nd rain

This days, all this daughters of what I can't describe, I no know which part of heaven they send them from, con dey frustrate men..

Oga, do your best, na God dey reward man.. Anyone wey no won stay, mke she go marry God.. Simple
I believe our fore fathers wealth were measured during those days with the hectares of farmland you have got and the yams in your barn.

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by headbasher96(m): 12:29pm On Aug 21, 2021
Pls to avoid ladies wahala pls download this song saving money Blac youngsta ft DA baby

What u are saying is me na I be mumu I gree but as I no get babe I the chop better food
And I the use better soap if time for babe reach I go enter villa pick one the wash am small small before e sabi money she don settle my target just 3 children from there if she no do again I give am tp still help her carry load reach park wahala wey I see for this world woman na the least of my worries if u want the knack everyday u fit them full ship some na make rice and noodles position for house that all the rest be like my strong dish so long light dey I the use am
I dey canoe u carry motor but I go reach u ma go still reach so no difference na how u want see am all of us na one place we the go just no forget flag full road try the check them till death do us part no be 1 month so love who love u my own weda she fine toh she no fine o if na by fine obasanjo and oshiomole for be sapa men but last last them fit cruise any bitch base on their rubber so focus on the mulla and the tight pussy will be chasing u na u go even the do asalamaleku for the thing

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by BigBashiru: 12:32pm On Aug 21, 2021
lonelyisland:
You know, at a time she couldn't stay any longer.
The pressure was much, she was loosing her mind.
We said it was us against the world, but she couldn't fight the world again.
Families were disturbing her for money, money was no where to be found.
What she doesn't know was her courage was what was pushing me forward, it was just what I needed to forge ahead.

At a time, I too was loosing it but she came with a strong vibes and aura which kept me moving.
She left, but her courage and strength is still there.

My advice to young guys please have money before you venture into a relationship, she might stay but you still need the money to keep it going.

Relationships/marriage are like old cargo trains that uses charcoal to function. You have to be ready to give in something. I don talk my own finish ooo

It might just be that she traded up.... traded up for a better guy....

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by 2rez: 12:32pm On Aug 21, 2021
Starz825:
Na only fool go say wetin op talk na lie grin

Guys forget about the bad things we say about Nigerian girls this Nigerian girls that...
Guy if you no get money you no fit enjoy life let alone a relationship...
Abegii

Bruh, i agree say if money dey pesin go enjoy relationship but remember e no fit keep the relationship so money aint everything. Besides, no be everything pesin dey enjoy pesin dey keep... To be blunt, this weather is effing good for blunt. If u know u know.

Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by lonelyisland(m): 12:33pm On Aug 21, 2021
BigBashiru:


It might just be that she traded up.... traded up for a better guy....
Maybe, who knows.
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by rajiedreez: 12:33pm On Aug 21, 2021
Me o, I disagree
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by CAPSLOCKED: 12:34pm On Aug 21, 2021
lonelyisland:
You know, at a time she couldn't stay any longer.
The pressure was much, she was loosing her mind.
We said it was us against the world, but she couldn't fight the world again.
Families were disturbing her for money, money was no where to be found.
What she doesn't know was her courage was what was pushing me forward, it was just what I needed to forge ahead.

At a time, I too was loosing it but she came with a strong vibes and aura which kept me moving.
She left, but her courage and strength is still there.

My advice to young guys please have money before you venture into a relationship, she might stay but you still need the money to keep it going.

Relationships/marriage are like old cargo trains that uses charcoal to function. You have to be ready to give in something. I don talk my own finish ooo


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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by jimmychang: 12:35pm On Aug 21, 2021
jaxxy:



U are thinking wrongly. Life itself needs money, u need money not just for/because of any relationship to make somebody else or a gal happy.

Live ur life for YOU, Achieve for YOU, be wealthy for YOU, relationship is about 2 people not 1 person trying to save another person or kill himself for another person. It’s a fair partnership.

U only met a gal who has/had so many issues and doesn’t need a relationship bt a sponsor or helper. This isn’t entirely wrong or her fault bt it’s not a relationship In the correct and fair sense.


As in ehh.Men and their stupid mindset.They think the reason they need to have money is to have women grin grin grin.I just dey laugh them.


Me i love money that is why I hustle hard for it.

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 12:36pm On Aug 21, 2021
SenecaTheYonger:
Why is her family pressuring u for money? You could have married into a burden family lol
And the guy is there wishing he had money before getting involved with her, so he can take care of her hungry family. Just imagine!
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by jaxxy(m): 12:38pm On Aug 21, 2021
jimmychang:



As in ehh.Men and their stupid mindset.They think the reason they need to have money is to have women grin grin grin.I just dey laugh them.


Me i love money that is why I hustle hard for it.

Is a complicated scenario for relationships in a country ravished with so much poverty. Lol

He’s now blaming himself for another persons problems. undecided

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by jimmychang: 12:39pm On Aug 21, 2021
Starz825:
Na only fool go say wetin op talk na lie grin

Guys forget about the bad things we say about Nigerian girls this Nigerian girls that...
Guy if you no get money you no fit enjoy life let alone a relationship...
Abegii


Make both parties get money simple ,if money is what will give you a good woman then anybody can have your good woman when they come with bigger bags grin cheesy cheesy

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Martins9756: 12:42pm On Aug 21, 2021
Bouz:
You have an inferior mindset, that's why you think you must have money to stay in a relationship, there are women that provide for the house, to keep it going.i guess you've been hanging out with hungry ladies. Relationship needs both parties effort both financially. Stop feeling you have the burden of providing alone. Every body cannot make money in this life, but with two head, a family won't lack basic needs.
continued to deceived yourself because you have a woman feeding you without complain, when your children grow up and realize is your wife that provide for home you will loose your respect, even the Bible said a man that can not provide for his family is worst than infidel, you must provide for your family its just a support you need from your wife, if you do you have all the confidence

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by jimmychang: 12:44pm On Aug 21, 2021
jaxxy:


Is a complicated scenario for relationships in a country ravished with so much poverty. Lol

He’s now blaming himself for another persons problems. undecided

As in ehh, because of someone's problem I will be under unnecessary pressure grin grin grin.Poverty na bastard grin.

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by jimmychang: 12:46pm On Aug 21, 2021
Martins9756:
continued to deceived yourself because you have a woman feeding you without complain, when your children grow up and realize is your wife that provide for home you will loose your respect, even the Bible said a man that can not provide for his family is worst than infidel, you must provide for your family its just a support you need from your wife, if you do you have all the confidence

You still don't understand what he is trying to say.He is not saying a man shouldn't have money grin.Yoi don start to dey quote Bible

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Ayo081(m): 12:47pm On Aug 21, 2021
Esthered:

What would then happen to us?
lol
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Pkaty62(m): 12:47pm On Aug 21, 2021
Who told you that? More money, more pressure and sorrow.

You just made an undiluted truth about relationship...

Honestly, every relationship needs money to grow, forget if you have a good woman, even if you have a good woman, that money part must be constant...

Yes on my own part, I have a woman who is over supportive, but as a man, you must also strive to make sure that your source of income must not dry up, because if it does, that your supportive woman would turn her back on you one day....

Even majority of our celebrities who married rich people still divorce to get married to more richer politicians and business men, because they believe money is everything, in most cases when you have more money your sorrow disappears...[/quote]
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Babyboyforeal(m): 12:48pm On Aug 21, 2021
saphiere:
Is Paul Okoye not having money?
You must be sick if you think money can keep a woman.
what will you say about Anita that's divorcing Rude boy will you say Anita is living rude because rude boy is broke?
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Babyboyforeal(m): 12:50pm On Aug 21, 2021
[quote author=Onyi22 post=105023842] Op just go n Mk money that's all you need [/quotewhat will you say about Anita that's divorcing Rude boy will you say Anita is living rude because rude boy is broke?
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Babyboyforeal(m): 12:51pm On Aug 21, 2021
johnsmhelia15:

I swear money is everything in a relationship. They there they deceive your self nah for your eyes person wey get money go collect your girl.
what will you say about Anita that's divorcing Rude boy will you say Anita is living rude because rude boy is broke?
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Oteikwu1(m): 12:54pm On Aug 21, 2021
Must d money come from the man alone or both ??
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by TheGift: 12:55pm On Aug 21, 2021
Good advice. It is also wise to marry a Woman who won’t just push you to hustle but also has Her own hustle.
lonelyisland:
You know, at a time she couldn't stay any longer.
The pressure was much, she was loosing her mind.
We said it was us against the world, but she couldn't fight the world again.
Families were disturbing her for money, money was no where to be found.
What she doesn't know was her courage was what was pushing me forward, it was just what I needed to forge ahead.

At a time, I too was loosing it but she came with a strong vibes and aura which kept me moving.
She left, but her courage and strength is still there.

My advice to young guys please have money before you venture into a relationship, she might stay but you still need the money to keep it going.

Relationships/marriage are like old cargo trains that uses charcoal to function. You have to be ready to give in something. I don talk my own finish ooo

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Polynek(m): 12:58pm On Aug 21, 2021
johnsmhelia15:

I swear money is everything in a relationship. They there they deceive your self nah for your eyes person wey get money go collect your girl.
wetin happen to the wife of Jeff bezos and Bill gate?
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Acidosis(m): 12:59pm On Aug 21, 2021
Her family was pressurising her for money and she left her relationship with you? I don't understand. Will leaving you get her the money her family so demand from her??

How does leaving you earn her money to feed her family?

Was there a sort of huge contract she ought to get from a company but her relationship with you stood as the barrier?

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Nobody: 1:01pm On Aug 21, 2021
Acidosis:

Her family was pressurising her for money and she left her relationship with you? I don't understand. Will leaving you get her the money her family so demand from her??

How does leaving you earn her money to feed her family?

Was there a sort of huge contract she ought to get from a company but her relationship with you stood as the barrier?

The op is suffering from inferiority complex. He doesn't know what's wrong with him yet.

What's his business with his gf's family pressuring her for money. Relationship na work?

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Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Nobody: 1:02pm On Aug 21, 2021
Martins9756:
continued to deceived yourself because you have a woman feeding you without complain, when your children grow up and realize is your wife that provide for home you will loose your respect, even the Bible said a man that can not provide for his family is worst than infidel, you must provide for your family its just a support you need from your wife, if you do you have all the confidence

Too bad you have comprehension issues.
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by pansophist(m): 1:04pm On Aug 21, 2021
DankemzI:

Don't go for 1st daughters or lastborn.

First daughter I understand. You don't want want be a charity to her younger siblings, but last born ? Why?
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by pansophist(m): 1:04pm On Aug 21, 2021
Brunosamel:
I totally agree with you same happened to me

Lastborn nko?
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by lonelyisland(m): 1:04pm On Aug 21, 2021
Acidosis:

Her family was pressurising her for money and she left her relationship with you? I don't understand. Will leaving you get her the money her family so demand from her??

How does leaving you earn her money to feed her family?

Was there a sort of huge contract she ought to get from a company but her relationship with you stood as the barrier?

I think this is the reason why we all have brains, to use it and think when something critical comes up
Re: Never Go Into A Relationship Without Being Stable In Life by Acidosis(m): 1:05pm On Aug 21, 2021
3minssex:


The op is suffering from inferiority complex. He doesn't know what's wrong with him yet.

What's his business with his gf's family pressuring her for money. Relationship na work?

I just tire. Won't be surprised if by tomorrow, he gets caught for fraud. I don't understand his business with his girlfriend's family issues. If she chooses to go into prostitution to feed her family rather than stay in the relationship and do legitimate jobs, then that's her problem.

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