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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Romanoff(f): 11:11pm On Aug 24, 2021
amrichy:
It doesn't really matter whether you are lucky to hear it or not, it's simply the opinion most men have.


Well, you may not know what your husband truly thinks until for instance your first three children are female. In fact, your husband himself may not know what he thinks until he finds himself in certain situation. There are some things we may not want to think, but that we are conditioned to think.
You can't know my husband better than me.

Not all women are desperate and blinded that they just jump on any marriage offer.

I looked well and I am glad I did.

Thank you.
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Nobody: 11:43pm On Aug 24, 2021
Caramia2020:
There's no need to mock anybody, their time will surely come.
Their time has passed.
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Fejimummy: 12:13am On Aug 25, 2021
larryking540:
and he is educated
Yes o with Msc sef
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by larryking540: 12:45am On Aug 25, 2021
Fejimummy:
Yes o with Msc sef
when we hear ,some people go to campus but , didn't pass front of campus gate na the back they they follow ,that's a typical example
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Caramia2020(m): 1:35am On Aug 25, 2021
nowhere:
Their time has passed.
Romans 8:28-30
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Dartilo(m): 4:40am On Aug 25, 2021
Romanoff:
Yes o. Tried several times to convince me he didn't mean it that way but I japa for my life. Let a woman who has a store house of male children marry him and make him complete.

I nor fit.
You simply don't like him
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by IamKizzbrown10(m): 5:48am On Aug 25, 2021
Honestly they dnt realise it at first
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Romanoff(f): 6:19am On Aug 25, 2021
Dartilo:
You simply don't like him
Liking someone doesn't meam you should be blind to red flags.

If I married him and got thrown out cause I didn't bear a son, na person like you go still ask me say "didn't you see the signs before you married him" when I come online to make anonymous posts.

I never regretted my decision.

Thank you sir. If na your sister dey my place, encourage her to shook head cause she likes the guy.
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Omoluabiii(m): 8:31am On Aug 25, 2021
PrimadonnaO:
There's a way you can be friends with someone and ignore certain things because it doesn't necessarily affect you.

But when they're looking to be a partner, it becomes a whole new ball game.

Let's say for instance, you have a friend who brags that she leaves plates in the kitchen for several days. It may not matter to you because it's her house her headache... But if she were to come live in your house, you won't tolerate it, right?
yes you re right, i cant tolorate that when she becomes my wife tho......
But i will have sense it when we re dating, and i will have tackle it, until when im unable to solve that issue, then i ll give up the relationship.
But next time i think you should have helped him in that area he was lacking, a bit financially, and a lot of advice & emotional support.....
He will become better in that area, and you can have your own man, made.....
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Omoluabiii(m): 8:41am On Aug 25, 2021
larryking540:
exactly ,I just tell people these days mostly guys just date a lady who loves u for who u are ,if u force your self on them just 6 months down the line na error she go just day read on you
Bro, nobody will love you for being an inadequate man,
stop saying, she should love you for who you are, when what you are is inadequate.....
Step up, upgrade, then someone that will compliment you will come around.
But when you re less that what is required, and you want a quality lady, i dont think that will be rosy.
Step up, and upgrade bro, and you ll find your match or she will find you...
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Bolarineliza202: 9:46am On Aug 25, 2021
siofra:
He was a redpiller

Tueh!!!
What does redpiller means?
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by amrichy(m): 10:23am On Aug 25, 2021
Romanoff:
You can't know my husband better than me.
Actually, I can know some things about your husband better than you, by the virtue of the fact that he is a man wink
Not all women are desperate and blinded that they just jump on any marriage offer.
But at the same time, you shouldn't turn down the offer of a great guy just because he is of the opinion that a male child is important (this is my point gan-gan)
I looked well and I am glad I did.
I'm happy for you. But sometimes the more you look, the less you see.
Thank you.
huh
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Fejimummy: 10:47am On Aug 25, 2021
larryking540:
when we hear ,some people go to campus but , didn't pass front of campus gate na the back they they follow ,that's a typical example
Na babe wey dey desperate to marry dey fall for such mumu demand
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Olaideolayemi(m): 10:54am On Aug 25, 2021
Romanoff:
It is not the rightful spouse if he will throw you out for not having a son.
I don't think so..Not all men says are realistic in event and situations..Some na just probability..God will give you the best..
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:57am On Aug 25, 2021
Omoluabiii:
yes you re right, i cant tolorate that when she becomes my wife tho......
But i will have sense it when we re dating, and i will have tackle it, until when im unable to solve that issue, then i ll give up the relationship.
But next time i think you should have helped him in that area he was lacking, a bit financially, and a lot of advice & emotional support.....
He will become better in that area, and you can have your own man, made.....
He doesn't need financial help. And the scenario I illustrated isn't the situation with him.

And I don't like to attempt changing a person. That's a super hard task, and sometimes impossible.

I leave a person to their devices when they seem so indignant about their actions.
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Romanoff(f): 11:13am On Aug 25, 2021
amrichy:
Actually, I can know some things about your husband better than you, by the virtue of the fact that he is a man wink

But at the same time, you shouldn't turn down the offer of a great guy just because he is of the opinion that a male child is important (this is my point gan-gan)

I'm happy for you. But sometimes the more you look, the less you see.

huh
Not in my case. Thank you.
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Nobody:
smiley
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by amrichy(m): 1:19pm On Aug 25, 2021
Romanoff:
Not in my case. Thank you.
grin grin grin Cheers
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Nobody: 1:26pm On Aug 25, 2021
Magnoliaa:
Wow. This is so refreshingly lovely and beautiful to read. kiss

I love James Patterson! And I'm going to go find that novel you mentioned because of this comment. cheesy
You haven't shared your own experience though.
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Omoluabiii(m): 1:58pm On Aug 25, 2021
PrimadonnaO:
He doesn't need financial help. And the scenario I illustrated isn't the situation with him.

And I don't like to attempt changing a person. That's a super hard task, and sometimes impossible.

I leave a person to their devices when they seem so indignant about their actions.
hmmmmmm....
I believe you know your own strength and preferences,
So You did what was right, knowing that you dont like to change people because its hard and imposible, and you cant embark on the temple run.
Thats wisdom...
Im coming with my own ring sha...... grin
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by PrimadonnaO(f): 3:55pm On Aug 25, 2021
Omoluabiii:
hmmmmmm....
I believe you know your own strength and preferences,
So You did what was right, knowing that you dont like to change people because its hard and imposible, and you cant embark on the temple run.
Thats wisdom...
Im coming with my own ring sha...... grin
Lol.
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by larryking540: 7:13pm On Aug 25, 2021
Omoluabiii:
Bro, nobody will love you for being an inadequate man,
stop saying, she should love you for who you are, when what you are is inadequate.....
Step up, upgrade, then someone that will compliment you will come around.
But when you re less that what is required, and you want a quality lady, i dont think that will be rosy.
Step up, and upgrade bro, and you ll find your match or she will find you...
and when u mention step up ,u feel every one is equal when it comes to step up right..... if u like step up and u still flop in relationship issues ,she will dump your sorry ass ,if you think it's all about step up
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Nobody: 7:54pm On Aug 25, 2021
Klass99:
How can you be asking this kind of question?
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Don't mind him
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Omoluabi16(m): 8:17pm On Aug 25, 2021
Omoluabiii:
hmmmmmm....
I believe you know your own strength and preferences,
So You did what was right, knowing that you dont like to change people because its hard and imposible, and you cant embark on the temple run.
Thats wisdom...
Im coming with my own ring sha...... grin
Biko leave my primadonnaO. She is taken. angry
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Omoluabiii(m): 11:30pm On Aug 25, 2021
larryking540:
and when u mention step up ,u feel every one is equal when it comes to step up right..... if u like step up and u still flop in relationship issues ,she will dump your sorry ass ,if you think it's all about step up
okay o, may God help you to find your type of girli oooo
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Caramia2020(m): 9:22pm On Aug 29, 2021
nowhere:
Their time has passed.
Is dat so?
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by JADEK04(m): 1:05am On Sep 10, 2021
[quote author=Didi2d post=105132123]Hope you didn't do it in a public place?[/quotei]
Inside room
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