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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Magnoliaa(f): 8:07pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA:Nice one. I am liking your own style of addressing the ladies' comments. But I can bet they'll be here tomorrow, still tenaciously clinging onto their biases and beliefs about women. They few that'll pick something from this thread, will do. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by PrimadonnaO(f): 8:09pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
MufasaLion: He must have heard about his friends who went to a babe's village to pay her bride price without informing her. |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Magnoliaa(f): 8:12pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
Hathor5: 4 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by PrimadonnaO(f): 8:15pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
Omoluabiii: There's a way you can be friends with someone and ignore certain things because it doesn't necessarily affect you. But when they're looking to be a partner, it becomes a whole new ball game. Let's say for instance, you have a friend who brags that she leaves plates in the kitchen for several days. It may not matter to you because it's her house her headache... But if she were to come live in your house, you won't tolerate it, right? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by PrimadonnaO(f): 8:19pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
JIREN01: Bears his mother's surname. Tends to get swayed by other people's opinions. Has a warped sense of what it means to be a man. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by MufasaLion: 8:52pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
PrimadonnaO: He should grow up. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by MufasaLion: 8:53pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
PrimadonnaO: Maybe he came from a broken home. |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by PrimadonnaO(f): 8:56pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
MufasaLion: He didn't. His parents were married until death. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by MufasaLion: 9:00pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
PrimadonnaO: All right. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Kondomatic(m): 9:05pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
Magnoliaa:Nwanyi Oma, what makes you think I would disagree? |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Esychem(f): 9:20pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
I paid a visit for the first time. He came to pick me up, the car was extremely dirty and so messed. I got to his house, mosquito welcomed me in the parlour in their groups. I enter kitchen to fix something for my self... A big mess. I managed to clean the kitchen. Later I enter the bedroom and saw headquarters of cobweb. He drove out and came back later with mosquito fleet. I was encouraged to stay the night. OMO I did vigil that night killing varieties of mosquitoes, I even started crying, uncle no even send me o. In the morning, I asked him to assist me so we clean the house, he was busy pressing phone. I kept calm. I later asked him why he don't clean, he said " he grew up with big sisters and house help, therefore he don't like cleaning, ordinary plate he ate with, he can't even wash it. He was not even encouraging me or motivating. I left the house o politely and each time he calls to ask about the marriage stuff, I told him we can't be together. He said he will change but I cannot kill myself, treating malaria is expensive. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Magnoliaa(f): 9:33pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
Kondomatic: She must be lying, right? About men sending their wives away for giving birth to female children and not one male child? I mean. It mustn't mean the male child is more appreciated na? Nope. It can't be. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Magnoliaa(f): 9:35pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
PrimadonnaO:And he bears he mom's surname? I wonder why... |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by larryking540: 9:52pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
baby124:and u couldn't discipline him financially |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by larryking540: 9:54pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
PrimadonnaO:all this your grammar for second paragraph big ,break am down 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by larryking540: 9:55pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
JADEK04:she no first like u before 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by larryking540: 9:58pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
lastchild:Bec both genders can't hold a conversation for long without insults attached ,so I don't blame the ladies who also most times use male moniker 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by larryking540: 9:59pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
Fejimummy:and he is educated |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by amrichy(m): 10:01pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
Romanoff:I think what the guy said is actually the bitter truth about how most African men (and women) see male children. Most likely, your current husband has the same opinion too, but that doesn't necessarily mean he will throw you out if "you don't" give him a male child or look elsewhere to find it. He will only do that if he is naturally irresponsible. In my opinion, it was immature of you to have done what you did because of that singular reason. What he said should have generated an interesting discussion between you two (if you were mature). For instance, you could have asked him what he would do in case you guys don't have a male child (you might have then made your decision based on the answer he gives). For some reason, the world system is highly patriarchal (and this is even more obvious in the Bible and the Quran which billions of people respect so much), so no one should really be blamed for valuing a male child (more than a female child) –we can't really help it. |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Kondomatic(m): 10:03pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
Magnoliaa:I don't understand you to be honest |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Romanoff(f): 10:03pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
amrichy: There was no point. Not all women are lucky to here that kind of a strong opinion before marrying a man. I count myself lucky that I knew early and had the choice to walk away. My husband doesn't think that way. It's one of the many things I adore about him. Thank you sir. |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by baby124: 10:05pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
larryking540:You can only help who wants to be helped. Some people are very arrogant about their bad traits. I am not his mother to sit down there and be begging him to change. We move. Every adult should be self aware and do a self audit. |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by larryking540: 10:06pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
IamKizzbrown10:sometimes a lady rejecting a man is of two things interms of marriage, one it might be the guy isn't worth it ,but why date a gut up to the stage of proposal? secondly village people involved some don't even know when they say no |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by larryking540: 10:08pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
baby124:and did u correct him openly,I mean I have met ladies,who can't correct instead they just walk away ,and if asked why ,they claim the guy is arrogant or doesn't listen,u and I Kno most ladies lack the ability to hold a Convo Instead prefer u read their brain or imagination |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by larryking540: 10:09pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
Omoluabiii:exactly ,I just tell people these days mostly guys just date a lady who loves u for who u are ,if u force your self on them just 6 months down the line na error she go just day read on you |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by baby124: 10:13pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
larryking540:That’s the ladies you meet and he’s not my problem. I am sure someone else is his problem now. . I have chosen a less stressful choice. Thank God. |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:18pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
Magnoliaa: Made my imaginations run wild, too. Because the reasons he gave weren't sound enough. The sort of a thing a sulking child would do. |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by amrichy(m): 10:20pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
Romanoff:It doesn't really matter whether you are lucky to hear it or not, it's simply the opinion most men have. Well, you may not know what your husband truly thinks until for instance your first three children are female. In fact, your husband himself may not know what he thinks until he finds himself in certain situation. There are some things we may not want to think, but that we are conditioned to think. |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by GREATESTPIANIST: 10:31pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
TWLifestyle:I see you are a fan of divorce |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by GREATESTPIANIST: 10:34pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
Esychem:hahahahaha, some guys are just soooo dirty....Kai, |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Magnoliaa(f): 10:44pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
PrimadonnaO:What are the reasons? Can you mention them? |
Re: Ladies Who Rejected Marriage Proposal, What Was Your Reason? by Magnoliaa(f): 11:04pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
Kondomatic: No worry. 1 Like |
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