₦airaland Forum

Akuruoulo:
God please I need both boys and girls

God please I need only boys

newbornmacho:
Women are a problem to themselves and everyone else.

The failure of every child's development is traceable to maternal influences.

Women ought to be controlled and not allowed to do as they please.

When women do as they please what you get is the destruction of societies morals.

I admire the efforts of Muslims in this regard. It may be a little harsh sometimes but it is necessary to prevent women from destroying the society with their satanic penchant for depraved morals, lascivious behaviour and licentiousness.

I pray never to have a daughter.

I will never marry a wife I will not control 100 percent.

you should strive to seek balance. women are necessary for a stable society.

you shouldn't hate people based on what you see outside.

gnykelly:
you should strive to seek balance. women are necessary for a stable society.

you shouldn't hate people based on what you see outside.

Proper balance is achieved when women are under the control of men.

Spits

#controlwomen

newbornmacho:
Proper balance is achieved when women are under the control of men.
Spits
#controlwomen

you are still under 25 your world view will change over time.

gnykelly:
you are still under 25 your world view will change over time.

I won't tell you my age

Spits

#controlwomen

newbornmacho:
Women are a problem to themselves and everyone else.

The failure of every child's development is traceable to maternal influences.

Women ought to be controlled and not allowed to do as they please.

When women do as they please what you get is the destruction of societies morals.

I admire the efforts of Muslims in this regard. It may be a little harsh sometimes but it is necessary to prevent women from destroying the society with their satanic penchant for depraved morals, lascivious behaviour and licentiousness.

I pray never to have a daughter.

I will never marry a wife I will not control 100 percent.

,E
Especially the Nigeria women, especially the false claimed Christians.

kmcutez:
The Black woman is your God on Earth. Know that and know peace. Her womb is a portal/door to the heavens. Woman’s X,X chromosome is still at 1000,1000 since the beginning of time, while men, whom is a defect of woman with chromosome X,Y at 1000,800 has deteriorated to 1000,78. You guys might go extinct since we don’t really need men for anything, so be careful how you treat your God. A woman can procreate by producing sperm from her bone marrow to fertilize her eggs, hence the reason why you hear of virgin births. Human beings only seek to control/destroy/oppress those who are superior to them. Be guided.

Genesis 2:23

joyandfaith:
Why Do You Need to Control a Woman?
This mindset is one reason we may never have a female president in Nigeria this decade. This mindset is why a woman who is successful is believed to have slept her way through. This is why women can drive their cars and someone will fling the word ‘ashawo’ carelessly at them. This is why most elderly women will call younger women aside and beg them not to flaunt their wealth so they won’t “chase the men away”. This mindset is why women are still being taught to reduce themselves so a man can find them worthy of marriage.
From time memorial, women have always been ‘controlled’ by men. In the olden days, a women’s existence was solely for the pleasure (or otherwise) of men. It all began from the perception that because a woman was ‘created using the ribs of a man’, a woman was made to be a man’s helper. This notion has been passed from generation to generation; the girl-child is taught at an early age, that she is inferior to the male gender and a man could lord over her. Once these girls began to reach puberty, older women started training them for marriage by teaching how to please a man – from learning how to cook for their husbands to learning how to dress for their husbands, to learning how to do this and that – all for their husbands. It began to seem like the whole existence of a woman was for the pleasure of the man. It also drove home the point that a woman was not equal to a man. So the husband was the lord of his wife – to do as he pleased – and she had to hang on to his every word and obey his every command.

This changed. Women wanted more.

Women wanted to have a voice and be listened to. They wanted to be recognised as an independent entity – a human who could think for themselves and make decisions.

Women became ‘disobedient’ to their husbands – rejecting ‘commands’ and an authoritative relationship. They wanted more inclusive and egalitarian partnerships. It sounded like women were ready for ‘war’ – they wanted to “be like the men”. This birthed many movements and the men ‘had no choice’ but to listen and (perhaps) join in the movement. Many men – believing they were supporting women – participated in ‘benevolent feminism’. You begin to hear things like “the man is the head, the woman is the neck. Without the neck, the head cannot move”. Things like this are always said to make the woman feel better about being ‘reduced’ to the position of the neck.

Anyway, the world is changing and women are ‘less controllable’ than they used to be. More little girls have access to education. Women work in industries that were hitherto deemed for men only. Women are now in politics, can make decisions, fight for their rights and can take full ownership of their bodies.

Sounds good, right?

So if we’ve all ‘agreed’ that humans are whole and independent entities who can think for themselves and are capable of making decisions – and taking care of themselves generally, so why do people (men in particular) still feel the need to control women – especially women they are in a relationship with or married to?

Why do men need to control women?
Just when we thought that by now, everyone would have realised that women are free to do whatever they choose to do – as long as it is not a crime; and when we thought that society was slowly moving against patriarchy, Nigerian artiste, Omoniyi Raphael, popularly known as Zlatan, reminded us that we are not as progressive as we’d like to believe.

There are certain ‘mumuish’ standards that ‘good’ and ‘submissive’ women have been held to: gentle; intelligent, but not too intelligent; hardworking but not too rich; highly domesticated (wife material hundred yards); obedient – which automatically means doing what you are told without question, and so on.

By nature, average humans beings want to be ‘bigger and better than the person next door’, but the desire to control women is deeply rooted in our society. We live in a society where people are so quick to ‘break the feathers’ of women so they don’t fly too high, mould them to what you believe they should be and tame them so they don’t become ‘wild’. That is why people believe that women who are richer than their husbands are not submissive. That is because a ‘submissive wife’, to them, is one that hangs on to their every word and strokes their ego even when she’s dying inside. A dodoyo they can tell to sit and she won’t hesitate to. One that will ‘know her place’ in the family and society.

It is worrisome.

More worrisome because Zlatan spoke the mind of many people – people who believe that a woman should be controlled. More worrisome because it is this mindset that is holding more women back from harnessing their full potential.

This mindset is one reason we may never have a female president in Nigeria this decade. This mindset is why a woman who is successful is believed to have slept her way through. This is why women can drive their cars and someone will fling the word ‘ashawo’ carelessly at them. This is why most elderly women will call younger women aside and beg them not to flaunt their wealth so they won’t “chase the men away”. This mindset is why women are still being taught to reduce themselves so a man can find them worthy of marriage.

Although we have started raising ‘strong’ women who are hell-bent on chasing their dreams, we should also raise women to have the option to live a life that is wholesome, with or without marriage. Women need to know that it is okay to reject men – or anyone – who want to control and diminish them.

We should also raise our boys better than this. Mindsets like this are inculcated into the male child from a tender age, we can break that by teaching our boys that women are not inferior to them, neither are they meant to be controlled.

As young people, we can also do better by letting go of archaic beliefs, unlearning certain things and relearning. Times have changed and people have evolved.

Let’s do better. Let’s be better.
https://www.bellanaija.com/2020/03/why-do-you-need-to-control-a-woman/

What's all this

joyandfaith:
Women are still controlling you as you spit. It is dog that keep chasing pussies.

Yes! Under (CAN)

Zooposki:
Once women realize that men use marriage proposals to control them, one more chain of captivity would have been broken. That is why men are quick to shame older women that are not married so that the younger women will know their place and fall in line so they don’t end up like the so called “Evening Newspaper”. Men are scared of losing that control because it means they can no longer control the women.

I’m just happy that nature creates a balance to such control by having some women hide their true character until they hook the men, then their true character are unleashed on their partner. For every action, there is a reaction.

Well spoken

Good morning guys.

May you find the strength to put women in their place.

Spits

#controlwomen

newbornmacho:
Good morning guys.

May you find the strength to put women in their place.

Spits

#controlwomen

Good morning oo

Taba21:
Yes! Under (CAN)

What is this

newbornmacho:
God please I need only boys

Raising girls is a torment

newbornmacho:
Don't waste your time.

Jesus is not ready to side with women in corrupting the world.

Spits

#controlwomen

Bible actually teaches proper female control

kmcutez:
The Black woman is your God on Earth. Know that and know peace. Her womb is a portal/door to the heavens. Woman’s X,X chromosome is still at 1000,1000 since the beginning of time, while men, whom is a defect of woman with chromosome X,Y at 1000,800 has deteriorated to 1000,78. You guys might go extinct since we don’t really need men for anything, so be careful how you treat your God. A woman can procreate by producing sperm from her bone marrow to fertilize her eggs, hence the reason why you hear of virgin births. Human beings only seek to control/destroy/oppress those who are superior to them. Be guided.

The science of artificial gamete production goes both ways.

Stem cells can also be turned into eggs.

So we need you for nothing as well.

And since tour brains are deficient, you lack emotional maturity, your bodies age terribly, you menstruate and stink, you are weak physically, we can actually dispense with you guys.

Modernizer:
The science of artificial gamete production goes both ways.

Stem cells can also be turned into eggs.

So we need you for nothing as well.

And since tour brains are deficient, you lack emotional maturity, your bodies age terribly, you menstruate and stink, you are weak physically, we can actually dispense with you guys.

Don't mind the useless mumu


Spits

#controlwomen

newbornmacho:
Women are a problem to themselves and everyone else.

The failure of every child's development is traceable to maternal influences.

Women ought to be controlled and not allowed to do as they please.

When women do as they please what you get is the destruction of societies morals.

I admire the efforts of Muslims in this regard. It may be a little harsh sometimes but it is necessary to prevent women from destroying the society with their satanic penchant for depraved morals, lascivious behaviour and licentiousness.

I pray never to have a daughter.

I will never marry a wife I will not control 100 percent.

seems you just went through a devastating heartbreaking

ericuzor:
seems you just went through a devastating heartbreaking

Nope. I've been observing the hoes a long time.

Spits

#controlwomen

adekolaelect:
yes but uncultured / unwell trained men are the product of women who lost their sense of responsibilities through,claiming equality with men ,less value but money,Imoral dressing . claiming Western,human rite and civilization .

Then you guys should make more of an effort to be in your kids lives and raise them, instead of watching football all day Saturday and Sunday and going to beer parlors after work.

adekolaelect:
when men committed all altrocities listed above they later return to spend the money and energy on women who gain attention of men through their uncultured dress and others. Secondly women are problematic bcs their want is numerous .women contributed 70% to the Imoral of our society through uncultured child upbringing and dressing .

Are you guys so weak and lack such self control that you can not dictate what garners your attention. Where are the qualities that make you men of value, honour and strength. You should ignore all the women so you can live a better life.

kurupt1:
Stop arguing , the guy has valid points. Men are rational but women are too emotional to make good decision in the long term. And don't blame men for trying to control because most times women spoil a lot of things with their emotional decisions

Look at Tiwa , Tonto , Anita Okoye, Toke makinwa, Ini Edo etc..... Their freedom and wealth has made them loose what women cherish most (because they refused to listen to advice especially from a man)..... A Family!

Do you see how irrational and emotional the guy is? Gimme a break. Lol. Most of the cries and lamentations on social media are always about guys crying over women. How rational is that?

newbornmacho:
If you have a wife or daughter...learn the art of female control . Put them in their place or you will be watching their unbridled foolishness from an early grave.

Just like how you are displaying your foolishness on social media. No coherent write up, just an emotional rant and cry of a wounded weak man.

newbornmacho:
Men respond to the stimuli women supply. Control is much easier if stimulation is restricted. But now all females have been unleashed... naked and all...on society. This is why the world is facing an immorality existential crisis

Yeah, just like how men rape babies because they are stimulated by them.

newbornmacho:
No rather any society that doesn't keep women in their place gets destroyed...decaying from within.

See what single mothers are raising as sons? ...spits

At least the women are raising their sons. Where are the fathers?

newbornmacho:
They contribute through porn and supplying sex to people from a very tender age.

Spits

#controlwomen

Who owns the porn industry? And force women into sex slavery?

newbornmacho:
Every specie has its place. They don't equally perform in sports or science or war.

The place of women is to be herded and controlled by men. Else civilization gets compromised. They're the weak link and achilles' heel of humanity.

Spits

#control women.

Too bad the women are the ones controlling and herding you, hence the cry of an anguished soul.

Modernizer:
The science of artificial gamete production goes both ways.

Stem cells can also be turned into eggs.

So we need you for nothing as well.

And since tour brains are deficient, you lack emotional maturity, your bodies age terribly, you menstruate and stink, you are weak physically, we can actually dispense with you guys.

I could poke a lot of holes in your google stem cell knowledge but let me digress. The covid doing a lot more damage to the superior male bodies. Just pray a deadlier virus don’t come around. You guys just might finally go extinct.

newbornmacho:
Feel free to read but I'm warning you ahead of time...women are a useless bunch. With no reasonable exceptions.


Just see how this world is turning into a sex mess because of free women. Women should be tamed, not left to roam like fools

you are right. Just imagine the destinies they have destroyed with fake rape accusations and send them to prison.

I support women should be controlled very well

Danjikanbauchi:
you are right. Just imagine the destinies they have destroyed with fake rape accusations and send them to prison.

I support women should be controlled very well

Statistics of fake rape accusations vs real rape by the superior men that have control over their libidos?

I hate it when they want equal right with men but cannot shoulder equal responsibility with men...it disgusts me when a woman tells me 'are u not a man'.
None of them can die for their men but expect men to die for them and still want gender equality.i wonder if God ever created women to be equal to men.

Zooposki:
Just like how you are displaying your foolishness on social media. No coherent write up, just an emotional rant and cry of a wounded weak man.

A rant that has provoked a string of epistles from someone desperately in defence of the indefensible

Spits

#controlwomen