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I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. / I Broke Up With My Girlfriend Because I Want To Cut Down Expenses / My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore (2) (3) (4)
.. by PriceNow(m): 3:17pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
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Re: .. by writetopoker2: 3:25pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Check on her and make sure dey OK, once she is OK and refused calling you intentionally, my guy leave her. If she loves you, she can't stay without calling you, but if you force yourself on her; its either you become her simp or mumu and the love won't be their 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: .. by Humanoid01(m): 3:30pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
She has probably thought about calling you several times, but being an introvert must have made her overthink that she ended up not doing it. “What will I say to him? Will this affect our relationship if he finds out how awkward I can be on the phone? Will he think I'm unintelligent because of the way I talk?”..etc. It's possible she loves you, but I don't think she feels secure around you just yet. Personally, as an introvert, I look gentle and snobbish on the outside to most people. This is because I'm not comfortable around them, so I just treasure my space. Truth is I'm not really gentle, I'm just more comfortable being on my own, coupled with a bit of social anxiety. When I get comfortable around a person, I become really expressive that they think I was pretending all along. However, I still treasure my space because that is where I find my strength and rebuild energy for the next social interaction lol. So I think you should get closer to her, and not make her feel insecure or bad about her personality. When she knows you and how much you understand her, she'll become free with you and expressive both on the phone and physically. Introverts are very often misjudged. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: .. by Nobody: 3:34pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Give her space, she's just using her introverted nature as an excuse,she doesn't dig you much. No one is truly introverted towards their partner except you are just using the person to fill space. 10 Likes |
Re: .. by Lamasta(m): 3:39pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Anybody that loves you will check up on you no matter how tight their schedule may be whether introverted or not 3 Likes |
Re: .. by Nobody: 3:42pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Since you've talked to her about it, she should've changed, even if it's by calling you small small to say hi but that she's still not calling you at all infers she's not invested in the relationship as much as you are. The ex that's still in the picture may be the issue. If she's not speaking with you, she's likely speaking with him. 7 Likes |
Re: .. by Bola146(f): 3:45pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Re: .. by Bola146(f): 3:53pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Lamasta: My God go bless you jare have asked her if she has another boyfriend she said no, just that her ex is still disturbing her. How old are you? Some of your questions are for kids not a matured mind, that is what I do tell most kids here looking for a relationship that they should read a lot of books and go for counseling, its working for many people. Relationship nowadays should not be taken with carelessness especially when some married men are afraid if they are the owners of their kids. So it's better to don't go into what you can't continue. Shalom 8 Likes |
Re: .. by PriceNow(m): 3:53pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
writetopoker2:thank you very much! I thought as much |
Re: .. by PriceNow(m): 3:55pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Humanoid01:I appreciate your input honestly |
Re: .. by yuping(m): 3:55pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
You are dating a broke girl that don't have money to buy Airtime and you here complaining. 1 Like |
Re: .. by PriceNow(m): 3:56pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
InTheCloudySky:I thought the same thing, I guess I'll just give her space and let her be, if she's interested she can come back |
Re: .. by PriceNow(m): 3:57pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Iyaebe:Exactly what I was gonna do before writing this post, SPACE! |
Re: .. by PriceNow(m): 3:59pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
yuping:lol my girlfriend is not broke mind your words. She's working. |
Re: .. by correctyourself(m): 4:00pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Ok, leave her for me if she has big back side |
Re: .. by 2rez: 4:01pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Op, no two ways about it, it can't work. Like u said, u both are introverts meaning u both they crase. Two crase people dating na cataclysm. So avoid a cataclysmic relationship, find an extrovert. U fit try olx or jiji.
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Re: .. by Caramia2020(m): 4:05pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
If she can't call, she can as well send sms or flash. Anyway she knows u will call just give her 3 weeks call break but if she refuse to check on u, please just know dat u are dating urself. |
Re: .. by Humanoid01(m): 4:06pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
PriceNow:My pleasure bros. About her ex still “disturbing” her, you should know how long that has been going on. The answer will determine how much effect it has on her attitude towards you. |
Re: .. by PriceNow(m): 4:12pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Bola146:Well-done matured person |
Re: .. by CR777: 4:12pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Humanoid01: Look for the masturbation quitting thread here on nairaland and help yourself. Your masturbation addiction is getting the better side of u. Don't ask me how I knew. Goodluck |
Re: .. by Humanoid01(m): 4:15pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
CR777:So in your mind, only masturbation causes introversion and social anxiety? How myopic! Lol. 1 Like |
Re: .. by Privatepart00: 4:16pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Majority of girls are fond of that Stick to 2nd law of Thermodynamics (actions and reactions are equal and opposite). Stop calling her , so simple. Let the whatever die a natural death. @ pricenow 1 Like |
Re: .. by CR777: 4:18pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Humanoid01: I like you, you are a logical person, I am also very logical and we both know I said the truth I'm not gonna judge u cos ur a masturbator, no, far from that. I just want u to seek help before it destroys u completely. |
Re: .. by Bola146(f): 4:18pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
PriceNow: Thanks my son 4 Likes |
Re: .. by Humanoid01(m): 4:24pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
CR777:You are wrong, bros. Don't use your experience to judge everybody who's going through what you're going through or went through. 2 Likes |
Re: .. by siofra(f): 4:32pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
This also caused problems between me and an ex. After we broke up I realised I never really felt comfortable enough to be myself with him. Maybe you should give her time, she'll warm up to you. Three months is still too early in my opinion. 2 Likes |
Re: .. by RedEnergy: 4:41pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Introvert + introvert is not a good combination. Both of you will be comfortable hiding inside your shells. Find an extrovert that both can mutually complement your weak areas |
Re: .. by Cokahot: 4:59pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Keep ba ging her till u get tayad of her pekus ok. No stress yourself,unless na she deu give u money |
Re: .. by Nobody: 5:20pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
PriceNow:Yes, good idea. Give her space to see if she'll reach out by calling you. If she does, give her one more chance to see if she'll start calling you more thenceforth. If she doesn't, move on and find someone who is ready to be in a relationship with you. 1 Like |
Re: .. by Oyiboman69: 6:41pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
Learn from the story of 'man and it's shadow' |
Re: .. by bigcee(m): 6:46pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
CR777:Guy, nothing dey ur brain.
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Re: .. by bodybuilder: 6:48pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
The babe no like you bro. I know how girls behave when they like you. Dem no go let you rest. Another question. Do you both of have sex? 1 Like |
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