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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:21pm On Sep 06, 2021
It is funny to see how, when women don’t get what they want, they call me stubborn or problematic but always stick around. They may not like your rules, but they will respect you if you stick to them.

#MasculineMonday

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:22pm On Sep 06, 2021
In a school there are strict rules. Break them and you’ll get punished, and trust me, most times those who erred won’t want to make the same mistake again .

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:22pm On Sep 06, 2021
I want you to do the same in your own life. Let people around you know what is allowed and what is not. Otherwise nobody is going to respect you.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:23pm On Sep 06, 2021
People will test you from time to time to see if you are still congruent with your frame. That is why I say that “shit tests” are not problematic.

As long as you are congruent with your frame, shit tests are not a big issue. In fact, they will reinforce that you are the real deal when you pass them.

Women will challenge you all the time when you are seducing them.
That’s just normal behavior.
#MasculineMonday

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:25pm On Sep 06, 2021
LIFE SCENERIOS

There was a man who has this cute little dog.

The pet knows that it is not allowed to sleep on the sofa because he got his ass kicked a few times, and still, months later, he comes near the sofa with his cute little look.

He glances at the sofa, then his owner, the sofa, the owner, just waiting for a reaction. He will even put one leg close to the sofa, the whole time looking at his owner.

What the dog is actually doing is testing his owner to see if he is still congruent with his rule about sleeping on the sofa. Is he going to allow him to jump on the sofa or is he going to yell at him? The dog is not giving his owner shit, he’s just making sure he is still congruent.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:25pm On Sep 06, 2021
Children will test you in the same way. Every couple of days, or even hours, they will challenge you to see if the rules have weakened or changed. You can observe this behavior everywhere in nature.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:26pm On Sep 06, 2021
Now, let’s get back to charismatic people. The more rules charismatic people have, and the more they punish those who break their rules, the more charismatic they appear.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:27pm On Sep 06, 2021
Being assertive does not make you good or evil. It gives you power. How you choose to use it is up to you.

Positive examples are, Gandhi, the Dalai Lama and Martin Luther King. A negative example would be Hitler.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:27pm On Sep 06, 2021
With women, you give them pleasure and show them a really nice time when they are with you, but you must also remember to punish any negative behavior or disrespect from her.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:28pm On Sep 06, 2021
So the fi rst step toward developing confi dence, belief and attitude is to start respecting yourself!

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:31pm On Sep 06, 2021
When you TRULY begin to live in your frame, people will automatically follow you because the powerful reality that you exude is irresistibly attractive. This reality can only come from developing strong Inner Game.

#MasculineMonday

see you tomorrow

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Re: The Red Truth by Magnusson: 9:10am On Sep 07, 2021
Hi Boss,more grease to your elbow for the good work you are doing for men emancipation in this blue pill world.pls send me the link to the telegram group chat and also redpill group whatsapp number...nnejimagnus@gmail.com
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:12pm On Sep 07, 2021
Magnusson:
Hi Boss,more grease to your elbow for the good work you are doing for men emancipation in this blue pill world.pls send me the link to the telegram group chat and also redpill group whatsapp number...nnejimagnus@gmail.com
I have sent it to you already
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:27pm On Sep 07, 2021
Yesterday covers a great deal of fi xing your Inner Game .
You need to navigate the dating scene without any neediness or expectation. Even if you are lonely, there are tons of girls out there and no particular set is important.

#ThoughfulTuesday

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:28pm On Sep 07, 2021
No girl is destined for you or your soul mate that is a myth and the genesis of oneitis.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:28pm On Sep 07, 2021
Let go of your outcome dependency, let go of your attachment to “winning”.
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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:29pm On Sep 07, 2021
The less you “care” about the outcome the better you will do.
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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:30pm On Sep 07, 2021
Guys who have abundance in their lives don’t exude any neediness.
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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:30pm On Sep 07, 2021
A big problem happens when a guy is needy to get a girl in his life and thinks she will solve all his problems. By being so desperate, every girl runs away when she smells how unhappy he is. If he cannot make himself happy, how he is going to make somebody else happy?

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:33pm On Sep 07, 2021
If you want others to love you, you must love yourself first.
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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:35pm On Sep 07, 2021
So the key is first to fix your life and prepare a kingdom where you are the ruler and can receive girls into the kingdom.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:36pm On Sep 07, 2021
A bleeped-up, boring life, or a life full of anxieties and troubles which you haven’t dealt with is not attractive for anybody, especially not for girls.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:36pm On Sep 07, 2021
But when a guy is confident and seems to be exactly who and where he wants to be will draw women in just by the way he subcommunicates abundance and success.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:38pm On Sep 07, 2021
Being Adventurous
Being an adventurous guy represents good sex and a lot of adrenalin and emotions in the relationship.

Being with a guy who is adventurous is always interesting, refreshing and full of new things. That’s why women have such a turn on towards adventurous guys. You bring excitement to their life.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:38pm On Sep 07, 2021
If you want to be a guy like that, for starters, simply don’t do things that everybody else does.

That means if the normal date is to go for restaurant or to the movies, do something different, something more physical.

You will be shocked by how much they appreciate this.

#ThoughfulTuesday

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:39pm On Sep 07, 2021
Most guys have no imagination or creativity at all. Be different, do something different. And tailor it to your life and who you are.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:40pm On Sep 07, 2021
Have many interesting things you do that is becomes part of your life. You just invite them along to it.

They will see that you lead an interesting and unconventional life and will want to become a part of it.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 6:17pm On Sep 07, 2021
FRAME

According to NLP, in any situation, there is a mental “frame” that essentially sets what the reality is.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 6:18pm On Sep 07, 2021
For example, there is a glass of sand one sees it as half empty while another sees it as half full. Same situation; one person sees a reality of abundance, the other scarcity.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 6:19pm On Sep 07, 2021
How we frame things in our own mind literally shapes how we experience the world.

Winners frame situations in ways that are positive and productive, losers frame things catastrophically and as a victim. Neither is more “right”, but one is certainly more useful.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 6:20pm On Sep 07, 2021
We take for granted that how we feel or view the world is true, but it is always subjective.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 6:20pm On Sep 07, 2021
Begin to consciously frame your thoughts towards the reality that you are the prize, that you are an attractive person and that you can take what you want out of the world, and you will begin to feel and act differently, leading to better results.

It takes some work, but it is the difference between the winners and losers in life.

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