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MrBrownJay1:
you CANT cheat on the people you truly love, because if you indeed truly loved someone, you wouldnt knowingly hurt them by cheating. sadly, many people fall out of love or pretend/lie that they love someone, when in reality they dont.

if you dont care about your partner's feeling; if you dont respect your partner/relationship; if you are ready and willing to throw your r/ship into the dustbin then you cant call that love

MrBrownJay1:
you CANT cheat on the people you truly love, because if you indeed truly loved someone, you wouldnt knowingly hurt them by cheating. sadly, many people fall out of love or pretend/lie that they love someone, when in reality they dont.

if you dont care about your partner's feeling; if you dont respect your partner/relationship; if you are ready and willing to throw your r/ship into the dustbin then you cant call that love

Sonnobax15:

Cheating can only happen when you don't love someone.....So I won't and can't be deceived by a partner who will cheat on me and later claim to truly love me . Na only mumu dem dey tell that kind thing

rickdaking:
it's not a stupid question, we humans are not perfect, it's in our nature. Shebi u love God, why do you commit sin sometimes??

valentinos22:
U can take this info straigth to the bank; thank me latter...
The tendency to get the taste of a new vg.dkk is in all humans, true lovers, non true lovers, pastors,imam, Bleep boy/girl alike!
Footnote!
Yeah yeah i expect some females to come after me for this summary but dont worry as we all know how society and mad African traditions has limited them in that regard.

In summary, if "E" does not cheat on "F", its not because E has a true love for F it is because of the following

1. Clean/clear opportunity hasnt come
2. E might be on a spiritual path
3. F probably pays all the bills at the moment so E may not want to take that risk.
Take this gift hook line and sinker and u will be free!

Dunkjames3:
firework

ugodson:
The way u have written this I have confirm you will do worse than cheat on ur woman. Haven't u heard of the word TEMPTATION? cos I sleep with another woman doesn't mean I don't love my wife. U need to grow up little one

Cudeze4:
If you still allow yourself to willingly fall into temptation and then open your mouth and say ''cuz i sleep with another woman doesn't mean i don't love my wife'' then you are the one who needs to grow up. Imagine your dad doing it to your mum, when you are done imagining, give me feedback, little one.

rickdaking:
you fit dey chop only egusi soup everyday ?

manigold:
It’s amazing how many of us here don’t realize why. It’s just the same reason corruption is endemic in Nigeria.
There’s a huge chasm between LOVE and RESPECT; and the two don’t always go together. Love may be an emotion and is dynamic but respect is usually earned and legitimate. We dread disrespecting because there are consequences, same way people will dread corruption if there are penalties.
Men cheat on women apparently more because they have no respect(fear factor) for them even though they truly love them. The reason is usually because women bring almost nothing into the marriage and there’s almost always another lady outside marriage(who probably has a slight advantage over his spouse) longing for him. In the event he is caught, there are virtually no real penalties. Where there are penalties, he won’t.
In comparison, women tend to be a little restricted after a certain age. As they get older and have kids, the demand for them falls. If they cheat and are caught, the marriage ends, she gets berated and usually there isn’t another viable man out there to take them in. Even worse, they may not have been independent. SO THERE ARE GRAVE CONSEQUENCES, unlike what happens to the males.
So if a man is married to a woman who has earned his respect, he cannot cheat. He will keep weighing the consequences. Mostly, he can’t get a woman of that quality ever again. So ladies, build yourself up and try to earn respect in your homes and you can be sure he won’t cheat on you.

Solofresh2:
The problem with a lot of people is that they associate love with sex.
Lust will make you cheat on your geniune lover but it doesn't mean you don't love them

MrBrownJay1:
you CANT cheat on the people you truly love, because if you indeed truly loved someone, you wouldnt knowingly hurt them by cheating. sadly, many people fall out of love or pretend/lie that they love someone, when in reality they dont.

if you dont care about your partner's feeling; if you dont respect your partner/relationship; if you are ready and willing to throw your r/ship into the dustbin then you cant call that love

Mydazz:
Why is it so hard to believe that one can truly love and still cheat

Beebah2000:
Why do people still cheat on people they truly love??

Solofresh2:
This love of a thing is genderly based
A man can cheat on is patner because of sex and lust but still love his partner
When a woman cheats, she cheats with emotion attached, and in this case, women nature are nothing permissive to cheating, so when a woman cheats on you, she can't love you anymore except if she wants to pretend

Beebah2000:
Why do people still cheat on people they truly love??

Lilpen3758:
she don cheat now