All my sisters have gotten married, and i am the only one left behind. Meanwhile the right time for a girl to settle down is 25yrs. My question is at my age can i still settle down? i'm desperate to settle down, but i am not in any serious relationship. what should i do?

There is no one right age for a lady to get married. The right age depends on each individual and their aspirations.
Getting desperate and killing yourself about it is not going to make a difference. You might as well live your life,
do all those things you always wanted to do that you never had the chance or time (pls that doesn't include being a ho),
Be the best you can be. Get a hobby. Improve yourself. Be happy. If you are looking for a guy to come and make you happy,
you will fail there miserably if you aren't already happy with yourself.

PS 28 is quite young.

Get involve in one!

Killz.:
Another desperate thread? This is serious.

You can say/write it again!!!

lucrecia: All my sisters have gotten married, and i am the only one left behind. Meanwhile the right time for a girl to settle down is 25yrs. My question is at my age can i still settle down? i'm desperate to settle down, but i am not in any serious relationship. what should i do?

na wa o. Frontpage please!!! We have to manufacture husbands for this women o. Another thread again on desperation. @ Op, i will come back to advice on what to do

don't get desperate dear.just lyk some1 said ƔoƱ я̲̣̥ε̲̣ still too young 2 get worried. D fact dat ur sisters я̲̣̥ε̲̣ all gone shld nt make ƔoƱ feel bad. After all I'm 2yrs older dan ƔoƱ я̲̣̥ε̲̣ ,d trust ♏Ƹ Ȋ̝̊̅'m not worried one bit. We still have our lives 2 live. Dear wen ever dat tot crosses ur mind, pls do ♏Ƹ a favour switch on ur radio set and dance till ƔoƱ Ca̶̲̥̅Ϟ dance no more. Dnt forget dear those who я̲̣̥ε̲̣ married wishes everyday 2 be free lyk ƔoƱ or Ȋ̝̊

Damn another marriage thread, I am beginning to worry. What is happening to our young men?

You telling me they are all turning gay?

Why not pray and wait on the lord?u are still young,dnt be despirate ova nothin.i pray good guy,sees u soon.. :Ddnt just pray 4 a husband,but pray 4 a good man, that will luv and adore u

What is happening to our young, men?

You telling me they are all the turning gay?


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green tea: What is happening to our young, men?

You telling me they are all the turning gay?


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NO
Too know in UK. Canada and USA create a problem for men to marry
It is a challenge
Lot of men want to get marry but !!!!!!!!!!!

rokiatu: Damn another marriage thread, I am beginning to worry. What is happening to our young men?

You telling me they are all turning gay?

Their major problem is bad economy

rokiatu: Damn another marriage thread, I am beginning to worry. What is happening to our young men?

You telling me they are all turning gay?

can u proof to us beyond reasonable doubt that u sef is married...
waiting...

wen u look around and see jobless youths roamin around d street searching for job and u know that marriage ll be last thing on their mind...
hey girls, i think u better start prayin that our graduates get job.
@op u re not alone, i still ve someone like u ahome

@ all posters thank your for your contributions.

rokiatu: Damn another marriage thread, I am beginning to worry. What is happening to our young men?

You telling me they are all turning gay?

Sorry I gotta laugh 2 this

Don't you have goals for yourself? I believe in marriage and I know the pressure you are feeling is palpable, but men can sense desperation and it's a turn off. If you focus on being the best you for yourself, the husband will come. Focus on being well read, well dressed, and well traveled...really anything that makes a happier and better you. People who take care of themselves and are genuinely happy attract others are them. Focus also on building strong friendships and family ties. Creating good relationships with others will make you better at navigating romantic relationships. You never know who may know just the right person for you.

From a practical stand point, putting yourself in situations to meet quality, serious minded men without hunting for them could be fruitful. It won't be the club, but it may be the library, cafe, or friend's wedding. A smile and pleasant conversation goes a long way (even with a nice older woman who has a son.)

You have a whole life ahead of you to be married, have children, and be tied down. Why not explore the freedom you have while you have it?

@Poster

What do you have to offer to your potential husband?? feminist attitudes? . . . . FYI, guys of nowadays are now more sophisticated when it comes to making marriage decisions. Hence, I would advice you to take a hard look at yourself and make necessary changes.

Poster, Kill yourself!
Nonsense

and what were u doing since 18
Check this www.nairaland.com/546263/why-do-girls-wake-up

And another one. Karma is quite the b[i]i[/i]tch.
What were you doing since that you didn't find a correct man since your prime years (21-25)? And don't spit that BS about "there were no good men around" cuz that would just be a terrible lie.
After snobbing all the guys that said hello to you or asked you for directions, here you are now lonely and rapidly approaching menopause
You see yourself now?

PS JK

buzor:
can u proof to us beyond reasonable doubt that u sef is married...
waiting...

And what will I get for that? A medal or a million dollar prize?

You must be very dumb young man to think I am here to please a soul.

GeeCee: Poster, Kill yourself!
Nonsense

u try to hard t b funnyn n u fail miserably

I wud like us to get to knw our selves .my mail is dafetta4luv@yahoo.com

Simple get a chair and "settle down" on it

Op, i can help you with somethings that will attract men to you

@ poster is very funnu. U r sti so young @ 28 & @ d zenith of life. Why r u so disturbed abt gettin married or relationship. Jst package ursef & look nyc always, d ryt guy wud show up @ ur door b4 u know it.

i have writing an article on this.as long as women keep buying into the western ideology of women having more rights than male the marrage rate would keep droping

Question 1: Why do you want to settle down?
a. Is it because all your siblings are now settled.
b. Is it because you are 28.
c. Is it because the relationship is not taken serious by either of you.

Understanding your basis would further make one able to help you with a way forward.

OP, you need to take complete stock of your life. You need to evaluate your life vision. If you live through the right vision and goal in life, you will achieve your dreams. Focus on your vision with passion, then you will see your dream man come your way.

Visit Calabar asap and come to Flour Mill along Highway from 11pm. Real men are always there waiting for real women to fall in love. Stop wasting your life in a place where there are no men. Before you know you are old. Sorry baby!