Akan:

Awor akpara mmodoba ke flour mill. Ami inki diongho ke ooo. yak nka nke se ise. Ami kno mme yem awuwan

ego 01: Age should not be the criteria for marriage.It should be emotional intelligence,a strong sense of responsibilty,confidence which translates been sure of yourself,the ability to be selfless(wat pple call maturity)and lastly some financial independence.

Ask yourself which are you bringing to the table at 28.How many nigerians who graduate at 25yrs really have achieved all this,how will you cater for and what will you teach your unborn children,(except you want them to go to public primary school)What will make this man respect you,and peradventure he leaves you for a younger chick at 40(happens a lot,always prepare for that) how will you fend for yourself.

If you have the answers at 28,pls go ahead and marry.If not,its wat I term "another divorce on the rocks"I suggest you prepare properly for marriage and not follow the crowd.

freshmoney:

Tell me the truth. Are you looking for a man or an ALREADY MADE man to settle down with ?

Let me ask you something, do you select when choosing a man? If you do, then I pity you. I am 100% sure you don't look for jobless guy, you don't look for a low-life, you are only looking for a well dressed man with a house and some cars to get married to. You think they are on Nairaland too? They're all taken my friend.

maasoap: .
What makes @OP situation to be unique? What do you know about her that we don't know? Or better still, what condition can make someone be an intermediary between two people who think the next thing in their life is serious relationship and eventual marriage? If you need a related story, I'll be happy to tell you one.

lucrecia: All my sisters have gotten married, and i am the only one left behind. Meanwhile the right time for a girl to settle down is 25yrs. My question is at my age can i still settle down? i'm desperate to settle down, but i am not in any serious relationship. what should i do?

SANCTO: @poster, I have almost same problem with you but mine is more laughable. Am 30, gainfully employed but am scared of talking to women. I tried once when i was in the university but got the worst embarrassment of Life. To be candid, I had only 2 pairs of trousers and three OK T shirts throughout my 2nd year in the University. When I summoned courage to talk 2 one beautiful girl then, she did not only snub me but called me lots of unprintable names. this made me to work against poverty. I focused more on my academics, graduated with first Class degree in Industrial chemistry. Am working in a place that am earning above 200k but making advances to women is very difficult to me.

Am not a virgin though,though some funs I had was initiated by some of my female visitors who always confess to my ability on bed. I need advice on how to get to my desired women without getting embarrassed.I want to get married but I don,t want arrangee marriage.

Some of my Colleagues whom am more handsome and even richer than get along with beautiful and well mannered girls but me.......... I need help please

jay bee:

Who/what is a guy man?

lucrecia: All my sisters have gotten married, and i am the only one left behind. Meanwhile the right time for a girl to settle down is 25yrs. My question is at my age can i still settle down? i'm desperate to settle down, but i am not in any serious relationship. what should i do?

love4ual: my thing is why would a girl wait till 28 b4 she starts to think about settling down....while girls of 20 are already married with kids............

i remember my neighbor in school...immidiately she turned 22yrs......she told me that she is ripe and ready to marry....b4 she she turned 23 she made her choice among the many asking her out for marriage.......she is 28 now with 3 kids........

except for guys who do not have a good job,.......men do not want to marry because as a lady u are highly educated or u are making money.....as a matter of fact that turns a lot of men off.......men want to marry because they love u and u are a wife material..........

most men in their 30's want a girl b/w 20 and 25yrs............

2buff: And another one. Karma is quite the b[i]i[/i]tch.
What were you doing since that you didn't find a correct man since your prime years (21-25)? And don't spit that BS about "there were no good men around" cuz that would just be a terrible lie.
After snobbing all the guys that said hello to you or asked you for directions, here you are now lonely and rapidly approaching menopause
You see yourself now?

blank:

A guy man is someone who does not have any substance. People of bad character but with sweet tongue.

naijasexy:


Ah 2Buff. That's mega mean!

@OP, hmm. We (I) would like to know exactly, what (you think) has made men elude you all this while. Please shed more light on it.
While you are at it, you might wanna answer these questions:

-Are you stuck up, proud, think that no one you've met is good enough for you?

-On a scale of 1-10, what would you rate yourself in terms of beauty?

-How educated are you? Do you have a university education?

-Is your spoken English repulsive?

-Do you appear neat or shabby?/Your demeanor in public?

-Does your religion come in your way of settling with certain people who have shown interest?


I'm just trying to find answers as to why a 28-year old is still celibate.

crusifis:

get a good job, make ur own money, get pregenant, and have ur own kids urself. its nt a must u get married. thanks

scopusng:

Get pregnant for who?