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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by BarrElChapo(m): 3:04pm On Sep 19, 2021
Romanoff:


That's what you think.

That is what it is.. that people do it doesn't make it right.
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Dukeolumidemans(m): 3:04pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ma Nigga, I will react the same way she is reacting, because I wouldn't want to have u as future son-in-law...
Note: The rich prefer to marry the rich while touts marry regular street girls...

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Holuwaxheun(m): 3:04pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:


So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.

Did I just hear you say your right shocked? If may asked, did you pay the brideprice of the lady before getting her pregnant?

If the answer to the qst is yes, then you can boldly use the word MY RIGHT

But if the answer is No, you are at the mercy of her parents, and you are expected to beg and do the needful by paying her brideprice, if her parents are willing to collect it.

May God help you.

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by ipobarethieves: 3:05pm On Sep 19, 2021
sad Are u a TOUT/STREET DOG sad? No responsible parents go allow their children marry a problem to the society sad angry angry

But abortion is a SIN sad

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by tctrills: 3:05pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:
My girlfriend from the neighborhood got pregnant for me last month, though we are both young still living under our parents roof.
I told my parent's about the situation, they were both happy at least they having a grandchild, but was surprised when my girlfriend called me last night, that her mom says first thing tomorrow morning They going to the hospital to do an Abortion.

I asked her why, she said her mom says am a tout, a street dog, over her dead body would she let her daughter bore my child.


Am thinking about taking community youths to their house this evening.



Ps: her mom is troublesome the whole community knows her just because her husband is wealthy, wouldn't want to go with my parent's and she start insulting them.

My parents are ready to assist me in taking care of the child.

Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.
(Hoping to further my studies next year)



The reason she's doing this, because am not a rich Yahoo boy that drives benz, but still
I can't let them abort my child.
I don't support abortion but then, no good parent want their daughter to get pregnant outside the bonds of marriage. It's not like you did themy a favor

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by TripleAkutigi: 3:05pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:


My parents will do that, they are happy about it and I do work also.
Just not financialy strong to get my own place yet, am still Young hoping to get admission next year to further my studies.

I have dreams.

dat dreams and studies terminated already nah.

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Omoluabi16(m): 3:06pm On Sep 19, 2021
You wey dem suppose lock up still dey make mouth. Your child ko!

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 3:06pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:


So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.
Are you okay at all? Did you pay her dowry? Or you think it is proper to get a girl pregnant and start claiming parternity . They have plans for their child, you want to just interrupt it without a fight?

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by baski92(m): 3:06pm On Sep 19, 2021
Lol i just cant stop laughing , , at your age you dey do bad thing, even get mind to dey post the trash you did.... Na moderator may carry this matter come front page na no well

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Romanoff(f): 3:07pm On Sep 19, 2021
BarrElChapo:


That is what it is.. that people do it doesn't make it right.

Na today nyash dey back?

No sane parent will let their daughter keep that pregnancy. If the guy was level headed, it's a different thing.

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by AutoChick4U(f): 3:07pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:
are you saying I should go myself?

Do you think her parents will listen to me, they've already concluded am no good.

Should I go there and start crying, weeping for my own offspring?

No sir, I rather go to the community youths and make it a public matter.

I didn't kill anybody, it's my child am fighting for.
So why chook head when you know d family won't even accept you? You probably watched that nollywood movie where d rich family accepted d modest one? Don't be selfish pls, do you know how painful it is to give birth? Do you have a plan?

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by nurain150(m): 3:07pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:


My parents will do that, they are happy about it and I do work also.
Just not financialy strong to get my own place yet, am still Young hoping to get admission next year to further my studies.

I have dreams.

Then why did you commit aldutery in the first place
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by poiZon: 3:07pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:

Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.
At 19 u r expecting a child, before u get to 28 u might be father Abraham. Davido and wizkid will be envious of u.
Will u marry the girl if the parents tell u to?
Or u just wan get pikin and render the girl useless after..
If na my sister, trust me u for don lose one leg before day break.

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by anambraamaka: 3:07pm On Sep 19, 2021
That's a crime
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Taiwojon(m): 3:07pm On Sep 19, 2021
Oga ooo

At 19 you don dey fornicate, to the essence say you con give belly to a girl way dey secondary school.

May God have mercy on your soul.

You, her, your families and her families including her mom need to give your life to JESUS..

Jesus alone can carry all your problem.

Anyway
Say no to fornication
Say no to premarital sex
Say no to abortion
Say no to thugry


Jesus saves

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by tbarrister(m): 3:08pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:


So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.

We are both same age groups, I am older than her with 3 months

She called me crying, I can't tell from her voice she doesn't want to do it.


If na my daughter you impregnate, I'll abort you too . toutish entitled person. You never jam

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by AutoChick4U(f): 3:08pm On Sep 19, 2021
Romanoff:


Na today nyash dey back?

No sane parent will let their daughter keep that pregnancy. If the guy was level headed, it's a different thing.

Him wan use style bag rich man pikin. She's too young to be saddled with a baby.

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by pennywys(m): 3:08pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:
My girlfriend from the neighborhood got pregnant for me last month, though we are both young still living under our parents roof.
I told my parent's about the situation, they were both happy at least they having a grandchild, but was surprised when my girlfriend called me last night, that her mom says first thing tomorrow morning They going to the hospital to do an Abortion.

I asked her why, she said her mom says am a tout, a street dog, over her dead body would she let her daughter bore my child.


Am thinking about taking community youths to their house this evening.



Ps: her mom is troublesome the whole community knows her just because her husband is wealthy, wouldn't want to go with my parent's and she start insulting them.

My parents are ready to assist me in taking care of the child.

Am 19.
[b]I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my [/b]town.
That's council related.
(Hoping to further my studies next year)



The reason she's doing this, because am not a rich Yahoo boy that drives benz, but still
I can't let them abort my child.
Truly you are a tout
1 You are thinking of mobilizing community
youthh there for trouble

2 you did manial jobs and tear tickets for junction; these jobs are well reserved for agboro

3. You ar trying to run down the future of the said girl which I think is the major reason her mom opted for an abortion

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by obataokenwa(m): 3:08pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:


So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.

We are both same age groups, I am older than her with 3 months
Them never charge you with rape case and transfer the case outside your state and jailed you, that's why you're being more stupid.

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Magnoliaa(f): 3:08pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ishilove:

If she is over 18 then she is legally an adult. I think the young man should contact welfare first thing tomorrow

The mother wants to do the abortion tomorrow. Time isn't on his wide. Plus, they might use their wealth to influence things if he should try to push harder.

I think, ultimately, a huge chunk of changing the mother's mind falls on the girl as well. It's her mother. She should stand her ground, refuse or anything. I think she's over 18. The OP says they are almost the same age.
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by TripleAkutigi: 3:08pm On Sep 19, 2021
Davash222:

You have dreams of impregnating people's daughter
lol. Di dreamS weydon terminate already.

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 3:08pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:


My parents will do that, they are happy about it and I do work also.
Just not financialy strong to get my own place yet, am still Young hoping to get admission next year to further my studies.

I have dreams.

Since they are that eager to have Grand children and having Grand children is higher on their list of priorities, they should get their own daughters to get pregnant out of wedlock.

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Romanoff(f): 3:08pm On Sep 19, 2021
AutoChick4U:
Him wan use style bag rich man pikin. She's too young to be saddled with a baby.

He's not even responsible.

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by OBALOLA55(m): 3:08pm On Sep 19, 2021
Olunmercy56:
Wahala. Prove to them that you are responsible, since you could lift legs and impregnate someone's child, be ready to provide all her needs. Or she will give birth in her parents house?
DID YOU READ THE NEWS VERY WELL
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by meetme01: 3:09pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:


So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.

Let me tell you the truth. If you don't caution yourself and allow fellow tugs push you, the end will never be good. You will bite your fingers and search for those people who you. Unfortunately, you will never see them again.

Fact..

To them, you are just speculating that the offspring is yours. Can you proof that beyond reasonable doubt?

Who legally handed the young lady to you.?

You cohabitted and "impregnated" someone's child and you believe the lady and pregnancy is yours? Are you high?

My brother, when you hear rape...you just have to continue running because if the mother decides to use that on you, I bet, all your "tout" mentality will be eroded.

You believe the the lady is 19yrs right.? In your korokoro eyes, she would turn 16yrs when the police is involved because they will teach the mother what steps to take and if care is not taken, you may spend the rest in the white house.

Except you are joking, don't use gragra to pursue this matter.

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by ShawnT(m): 3:09pm On Sep 19, 2021
You should be happy she didn't arrest you sef. Do the parents give their daughter's hand to you to marry b4 impregnating her? Better allow her do what she wants
Pierocash:
It shows you are really a tout. You want to take community youths to their house. This is how touts behave.

Nah you born the girl,leave them alone to do whatever suites them .

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Munzy14(m): 3:09pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:


It's because am not a rich Yahoo boy that's why.

The girl loves me, her parents just forcing her to do the abortion.

When she called yesterday she was crying, I can tell from her voice she don't want to.

Yes am entitled, it's my child.

I won't let it happen.
You are 19, she is 18....You guys don't know what life is all about...

Na from ticket you want take raise that child?

How sure are you she is pregnant and it's your baby?

Prison dey hungry you sha..grin


Did you pay her dowry?


Was there any agreement put in place?

Until police change the statement to you drug and raped..keep on Doing the usual youthful exuberance gra gra...Body go tell you soon for police cell...And for your information police no dey smile this days, na una fellow ticket collectors carry end sars for head last year..cheesy


Go to welfare as you have been advised ok? You will know the difference between a a mom, and a bitter mom you have succeeded in dragging her family to mud...grin


You go hear nwiii soon...Don't forget to give us gist after you pass through all this..

Fly wey no dey hear dey follow dead body enter grave sha.

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by poiZon: 3:09pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:


So you are supporting the abortion.
They should kill my child, because am young and poor.
Is that it.

Sorry I will not let that happen.
U r not only poor, u r proud of it.
Tueh

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by DBestDoc(f): 3:10pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:


It's because am not a rich Yahoo boy that's why.

The girl loves me, her parents just forcing her to do the abortion.

When she called yesterday she was crying, I can tell from her voice she don't want to.

Yes am entitled, it's my child.

I won't let it happen.

You should calm down and listen.
This is not entirely about you not being rich. You both are still unstable teenagers. No job, no career, no money , no home , no sense still, no nothing.

You do not have the mental, financial backing to successfully father a balanced child.
When you keep using the phrase ‘my child’ , it makes me laugh out loud. You cannot Lay claim to an unborn baby of a woman whom you have no legal or traditional attachment to.

About your girlfriend loving you and wanting to keep the baby, it’s expected that she’d reacts the way she’s doing right now, she doesn’t understand what has befallen her until that baby is born. The decision to keep or terminate the pregnancy still remains hers to make. So, calm down and watch as things unfold. You’re only to go close when they need you. Kapish

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by AutoChick4U(f): 3:10pm On Sep 19, 2021
Romanoff:


He's not even responsible.
The girl is probably naive

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by JONSYN7154: 3:10pm On Sep 19, 2021
grin grin
Davash222:






You see why her mom said you're a tout?

You want to take boys to their house to constitute nuisance.

Gbola = Active
Sense = inactive
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by 24brains(m): 3:10pm On Sep 19, 2021
Ayanwukoma:


So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.

We are both same age, I senior her with few months
have you paid her price? NO! did they arrest you for impregnating a minor? NO! at 19, can you carter for a family while still living under your parents? NO!

you are a gold digger eyeing her father's wealth. now you want to take community people to disturb a sleeping trouble. a tout will always be a tout

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