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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Ayanwukoma: 2:11pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
chatinent:Thanks. I don't know if I can get my dad to go see her father this evening, that's the issue. They are going to do the abortion tomorrow morning. 1 Like |
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by JovialJune(f): 2:11pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Magnoliaa(f): 2:17pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
Sooo many judgments flying left, right, centre. Naawaa ooooo. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by chatinent: 2:22pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
Ayanwukoma: What do you do when you are kidnapped in a jungle about to be killed tomorrow but notice there is a way out today? Would you wait to confirm if they'll kill you or think through the dense jungles? 6 Likes |
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Magnoliaa(f): 2:23pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
Ayanwukoma: I honestly don't know what to advise you, but I can feel your pain and spirit and drive. Yes, I think you should do this. Really try to convince them, no don't be confrontational by going the tout-ty route. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Ayanwukoma: 2:26pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
chatinent:are you saying I should go myself? Do you think her parents will listen to me, they've already concluded am no good. Should I go there and start crying, weeping for my own offspring? No sir, I rather go to the community youths and make it a public matter. I didn't kill anybody, it's my child am fighting for. 2 Likes |
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Ayanwukoma: 2:30pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
Magnoliaa: My dad is a hard man, my mom I can get to convince but my dad it will take time for him to see reasons. He might even decide to say, I should leave it for them. I haven't even told them yet about the Abortion, figured I should handle it myself, have even spoken with our street chairman. |
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by LilMissFavvy(f): 2:31pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
I do not blame you, I blame that shame*less girl that has brought shame to her family. You say her father is rich, so what was she doing with someone like you? Being successful is not only about doing Yahoo, a man can earn little yet is responsible. You don't sound responsible. My advice is, the girl is under her parents, you don't have any right to go and cause trouble in their home. If you wish to go, be peaceful about it. 41 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Magnoliaa(f): 2:33pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
chatinent: The only comment I've felt so far. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Magnoliaa(f): 2:37pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
Ayanwukoma: What about the girl? Does she want to keep the child as well? Can she not convince her parents? You mentioned her parents being wealthy and so I know it the matter of helping their daughter in taking care of the child wouldn't even be a problem, but they are are against it because of the social status and ''stigma''. 3 Likes |
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by DBestDoc(f): 2:40pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
Ayanwukoma: Lol, this boy is so entitled ee, So you do not care that you’ve almost ruined that girl’s life? She’s also a teenager I’m sure and you want her to be burdened with the responsibilities of motherhood. People do very abominable things with so much confidence these days that I can’t help but shudder in dismay. If it were in the days when things were better, the parents of that girl would be the ones coming to your family with the community youths to discipline you for bringing them so much embarrassment and pain today, you the offender is contemplating going to their home to add salt to injury. Hahaha, I’ve seen it all. Please don’t go causing that family more trouble, let them take their decision as they deem fit ‘cause they’d be the ones to bear any consequences that may arise from this mess you guys have created. Give them some space and use a condom next time. You’ll have your offsprings when the time is right. 58 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Ayanwukoma: 2:40pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
Magnoliaa: She called me yesterday crying, I can tell from her voice, she don't want to do it. She's almost same age as I am but we both still live with our parents. It even took her days before she told her parent. |
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Nobody: 2:45pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
Ayanwukoma: One word. Stupid. 29 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Ayanwukoma: 2:47pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
DBestDoc: It's because am not a rich Yahoo boy that's why. The girl loves me, her parents just forcing her to do the abortion. When she called yesterday she was crying, I can tell from her voice she don't want to. Yes am entitled, it's my child. I won't let it happen. 3 Likes |
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Ishilove: 2:48pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
Na wa o 16 Likes |
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Magnoliaa(f): 2:51pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
DBestDoc: Ruined where? How? They both WANT the pregnancy. They both WANT to keep the baby and are willing to face the consequences. He is not an upcoming deadbeat from every indication, and he's not running away to turn her into a single mom, dumping the responsibilities on her and whatever. His parents are very accepting and VERY happy and are willing to take care of the child and provide everything he/they need to support...what more? The deed has been done. Only the mother needs convincing... I see no other issue here? I really cannot see any mess y'all are seeing. Back in the days actually, according to your cultures, 'baba lo ni omo.' The baby ''belongs'' to the father and it is his family that go to request for the girl's hand in marriage and bring her back to their house. Yeah, things are slightly different nowadays, but they get married that much earlier - if we are going to tow the 'our forefathers'' path. He hasn't done anything out of culture, as a woman's fertility is even required to be proven before any rites in some instances. The whites termed it ''immorality''. That some of the people condemning the boy here do all the time. It is a wanted pregnancy, and very much his as with the girl. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Ishilove: 2:54pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
Magnoliaa:If she is over 18 then she is legally an adult. I think the young man should contact welfare first thing tomorrow 5 Likes |
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by greenie77: 2:54pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
Ayanwukoma: Bear it in mind that it will be her family that will bear the bigger weight of the pregnancy if she is to carry it to term, not you nor your family. 29 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by BarrElChapo(m): 2:54pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
Ayanwukoma: Last time I checked abortion is still a crime in Nigeria. Escalate it as much as you can bro, so that if anything happens the law can take its course. 1 Like |
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Munzy14(m): 2:55pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
arsenic33:He collects ticket for junction...you still dey ask... 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by fkj950ax(m): 2:55pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
Ayanwukoma: "Your girlfriend from the neighborhood" You are too young to be in this pickle. Having a child and being responsible for that child requires a lot of matured decision and thought process. You have made a bad decision having unprotected sex. You want the community to do what exactly? I hope its not to intimidate the girls family. I think you should go there with your parents first, and not the community. This also shows your level of decision making. You have tied their hands that they want to protect their daughter from a life with you. I think I want to agree with her parents perception of who you are. What happens tomorrow when and if you leave the "neighborhood" amd find a girlfriend from the town? Their daughter will be raising a child, and will find it difficult to get another suitor as we will call her "after one" or "single mother". Yes there are tons of disgusting comments by most of you here on NL concerning single mothers. Read this account before you go to meet her parents with your parents. Leave the frigging community out of it https://www.instagram.com/p/CTR-t6tHrID/?utm_medium=copy_link 7 Likes
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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by AsawanaDgreat: 2:55pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
You are a real tout, you want to take community boys to their house abi? Safe trip 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Charmingrascal(m): 2:55pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
Dear Ayanwukoma, this is really heartbreaking go to her house with your parents. They should go and tell her mum that they are aware of the pregnancy and they want her to keep it. But be ready because the girl's mum might likely ask her to leave her house and come and be staying with you and you will be the one to take her responsibilities henceforth. 6 Likes |
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Ishilove: 2:55pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
Ayanwukoma:Go to your local government council or social welfare or whatever they call them. She is legally an adult, from all indications, and so are you, so you have the law behind you 2 Likes |
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by VlamesIffect(f): 2:56pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
19 year old boy? Asin dem born you for year 2002? Na wa. Since the deed is already done. I hope you have the means to take care of a woman & a kid. I hope the girl is above 18 too. What are these Gen Z kids turning to? 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Romanoff(f): 2:57pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
If she's below 18, her parents can decide for her. I'm more concerned that you've started having babies at 19 do you not have solid plans for your life or dreams and goals to make your life better? |
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Munzy14(m): 2:57pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
Why do I see this as Diamond digging?... 7 Likes |
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Kenneth10110(m): 2:57pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
At 19 you dan start to nack raw. 1 Like |
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by francis5051: 2:57pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
Her mum called u a tout and you are trying to show us dah u re truly a tout 1.. na touts d tear 98% of tickets for junction 2... you taking boys to her house shows dah u re a tout 13 Likes |
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by debbydams(f): 2:58pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by FreeStuffsNG: 2:58pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
Ayanwukoma:19 years old. A teenager!! Jesus wept! 4 Likes
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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by RomanGreen: 2:58pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
Davash222: Hahahaha, no mind the guy, him eye go clear soon 6 Likes |
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