safarigirl:
You

You are a nitwit

Funny that a man that sodomises little boys then gives them record deals, pimps them out to women and men...etc is the one calling out rapists in the pic. Its no longer an industry secret, the whole island knows. Nigerians and hypocrisy.

In between, this is a good post but if you wanna capture the hearts of these little boys, would be better to address the issue on a heart-felt tone, not a rant.

These Nairaland kids have not had proper guidance, parental figures or mentors in their lives and the last way they'd respond to this is by being docile.

I understand the anger as a female and I tilt my hat to you for posting a topic very worthy of discussion

Nigerian males need to hear this everyday and actions do need to be taken. Same way the females of today need to do better jobs in raising themselves and their children. Laziness, social media, greed and fast money are turning our women into figures unworthy of self respect and respect from others. The moment Nigerian women become fully independent and remove the "Man" from their
ambitions, future motives and fend for themselves 100% creating jobs for themselves and inspiring other women, Nigerian men would start to respect them the way they respect foreign women.

The sad thing is, the average Nigerian always points fingers outward but never looks inwards himself/herself or their environment.

Weak women/men raise weak children. The person you are today will determine how good a parent you will be if persistence in self-discipline remains your mantra.

Nigerian parents pay more attention to your male children for the media is doing your parental duties. We no longer have men in Nigeria, we have boys. All they crave are the material and physical things of this world. They have become ambition-less and think that money equates success.


Their consumption of porn is another main factor that contributes to rape. If a parent picks up a book everyday and that parent's actions are admirable, the children would grow up doing the same thing. If a parent is violent at home, picks up the remote control, flexes babes whilst he is married and disrespects his wife in front of her children, the kids would grow up to do the same to females in their lives.

Chinwe4real:


You're stupid. Very stupid. There is no justification for rape. What about girls that were raped in the safety of their homes?

You're simply a rape apologists that has no sense of empathy

Receive sense.

Pls and pls be reasonable for once.he made a very sensible point.Ladies should be careful cos some of them are also part of the ordeal.I don't support rape in anyway and will forever be against it.i was molested at a tender age by my maid buh day doesn't mean I will come here to create a thread to caution women.Lets learn to comprehend issues logically

Here's the truth to all these, unless you all can seat and reason logically and not emotionally,you or rather We may never overcome this societal problem Rape or at least have a reduction in rape cases. Unless you lots go beyond ranting, typing long Epistles on social media or engaging in baseless arguments on Nl (which ends after few days and everyone goes back to their normal lives) We may never head anywhere.

When I saw Vera thread ,I was close to tears.It hurts and no one deserves that. But has that ever changed the fact that such is likely to happen again? It will, and like "We" always do, There will be uproar, we will rant, create threads,type theoritically correct Epistles, celebrities will REACT,Pastors will pray, Offenders would be punished and then we will go back to our normal lives until another case of million cases finds it's way on the internet again then we will have a repetition of the whole process.Please who are we decieving? . Until we understand the roots and address the issue, We may never get anywhere. And since most perpetrators are MEN. Isn't it wise to try to get into the minds of these people then profer solutions rather than issue unrealistic commands Online? Or getting to understand why they do what they do than create gender wars and man hating threads and opinions? I wonder where it has all got us all these years.


The world is bad enough, bad people are everywhere both Men and Women. Getting all emotional and spewing words that only last a moment won't get us ANYWHERE!

Totally agree with you. Exactly what I was thinking. Shaming doesn't help either. Society needs to get to the root of the problem

Ishilove:

Rape is a horrible, horrible thing to do to anyone but how anyone with their thinking faculties complete will ask why she went to a church to be alone shows they are deeply and irretrievably rotten.

Ariza, I will like to know if there are cases of male rape where the men get beaten to an inch of their lives or killed during the ordeal.

Some men rape men too

BigJoe19:
You are fool for calling me senseless, I stated my opinion you can commit suicide idiot.

Damn. Why speak to a fellow human like that? Apathy is a problem we need to address first

You are a Buffon

Generalnomercy:
@op, you've spoken well, However, women, ladies, girls should also respect themselves and be responsible for once.

Insecurity is insecurity everywhere in the world irrespective of male or female involvement.

It's not about the men but about common sense and fallen moral standards.


You will always find girls at the wrong place, in the wrong companies.

You will always finds girls doing what they're not supposed to be doing.

Like the girl's case in Benin, NOTHING, I MEAN NOTHING SHOULD HAVE TAKEN HER TO THAT SHRINE/CHURCH AT THAT UNGODLY HOUR, THE TRUTH BE TOLD.


MY SISTERS, NO MAN WILL EVER RAPE A GIRL IN AN OPEN PLACE, THE GIRL MAY HAVE GONE TO WHERE SHE SHOULD HAVE AVOIDED BEFORE RAPE CAN OCCUR.


GIRLS USE YOUR COMMON SENSE TO PREVENT RAPE.

GOD SAVE ALL !!!

WUdec:
Funny that a man that sodomises little boys then gives them record deals, pimps them out to women and men...etc is the one calling out rapists in the pic. Its no longer an industry secret, the whole island knows. Nigerians and hypocrisy

In between, this is a good post but if you wanna capture the hearts of these little boys, would be better to address the issue on a heart-felt tone, not a rant.

These Nairaland kids have not had proper guidance, parental figures or mentors in their lives o the last way they'd respond to this is by being docile.

I understand the anger as a female and I tilt my hat to you for posting a topic very worthy of discussion

Nigerian males need to hear this everyday and actions do need to be taken. Same way the females of today need to do better jobs in raising themselves and their children. Laziness, social media, greed and fast money are turning our women into figures unworthy of self respect and respect from others. The moment Nigerian women become fully independent and remove the "Man" from their
ambitions, future motives and fend for themselves 100% creating jobs for themselves and inspiring other women, Nigerian men would start to respect them the way they respect foreign women.

The sad thing is, the average Nigerian always points fingers outward but never looks inwards himself/herself or their environment.

Weak women/men raise weak children. The person you are today will determine how good a parent you will be if persistence in self-discipline remains your mantra.

Nigerian parents pay more attention to your male children for the media is doing your parental duties. We no longer have men in Nigeria, we have boys. All they crave are the material and physical things of this world. They have become ambition-less and think that money equates success.


Their consumption of porn is another main factor that contributes to rape. If a parent picks up a book everyday and that parents actions are admirable, the children would grow up doing the same thing. If a parent is violent in the home, picks up the remote control, flexes babes whilst he is married and disrespects his wife in front of her children, the kids would grow up to do the same to females in their lives.

I've heard this gist before but I didn't believe it !
Wow
Things are happening o

“Nigerian men call yourselves to order”

Hmmm. That would be the 8th wonder of the world. Which energy and time do you want them to use and monitor toto, after calling themselves to order? Toor!

Ladyhippolyta88:
Do women and girls plan to get raped?So how exactly should they be responsible in this context.You are sounding like a rape enabler.

The topic is about rape and women are mostly the victims even men also but women are more disadvantaged and get shamed for being raped your comment is a clear example.

It is being perpetrated by men so it is about them and their failed moral standard and lack of commonsense.Is there a venue to where rapist are found that you are saying they find themselves in wrong places.


Uncle what are they supposed to be doing? Are you to tell them what to do.So in the closed place they are in women should not feel safe abi?Instead of you to denounce these rapisr you are busy sounding like a rape apologist and blaming women?what right do they have to rape and kill her.What are you saying abeg?So she cannot even feel safe in church the house of God again so where exactly can a woman feel safe in this country.I am lost for words with what I am reading.I am yet to see where you have condemned rape culture in Nigeria ooo.

NO GOD WILL SAVE YOU FIRST

You should be saved first so that people with your line of reasoning will not be justified to rape people since it is the lady's fault for being there in the first place.
Mtcheww

You totally misunderstood the message he was trying to pass across. But candidly those point of his is nothing but the truth. Take it or leave it.

Like I've always said, rape is a despicable, horrific crime against another human. It is a crime not just against thier body, but soul as well.

However l believe people like OP, who feel by tagging EVERY SINGLE MAN a potential rapist or rape apologists is the best way help tackle the scourge, are, I dare say, part of the problem.

We should "call ourselves to order" after calling me a potential rapist?

safarigirl:
You can go to this thread to see what sexual abuse can do to kids:

https://www.nairaland.com/3194624/child-abuse-parental-support

You can visit this thread for sexual abuse on men
https://www.nairaland.com/2534228/neglect-male-child-rape-molestation#37074437

DO NOT DERAIL THIS THREAD Thank You

Since 1973 to 2020, of the thousands of rape cases that have occurred and been reported in Nigeria, only 65 have led to convictions.


This thread is something I have been thinking of since yesterday that I've been reading on the horrible things done to women in this country, but seeing that Genevieve thread and the responses on Nairaland, from the same men that hide and support these rapists amongst them, I am now moved to start the thread.


NIGERIAN MEN, CALL YOURSELVES TO ORDER.


It is bad enough that most of you are totally ignorant of the ingredients that constitute rape, but the fact that the few educated ones stay silent, thereby encouraging these fiends, is even more disturbing.

WOMEN LIVE IN FEAR OF MEN. Women cannot go out at night, because of fear of being raped. Women cannot walk down a street filled with men, without the fear of being molested, women cannot go into a car filled with men, for fear of being kidnapped or being molested. A woman goes into a room filled with men, and the entire time, she is on edge, looking for other women. Women cannot go to clubs, unless they are in groups, and they still have to look out for eachother. You can not go and have fun, without thinking of worst case scenario as a woman.

Men, CAN YOU RELATE?

CAN YOU RELATE TO LIVING IN PARANOIA FOR MOST OF YOUR LIFE? CAN YOU?

DO YOU FEEL FEAR WHEN YOU WALK INTO A ROOM FULL OF WOMEN? DO YOU SEE A BUS OR CAR FILLED WITH WOMEN AND DECIDE TO WAIT FOR ANOTHER ONE? DO YOU CROSS THE ROAD WHEN YOU SEE A GROUP OF WOMEN AHEAD OF YOU?


There is NO AGE of women that do not feel this fear. You are not too young or too old for a man to rape you. From one day old to 101 years old, rape can meet you anywhere.

At HOME, you are raped
At SCHOOL, rape
At your job, rape
Even In CHURCH, RAPE.

Where is our sanctuary? When does it stop? Does being a woman mean a life of constant fear? Did we choose this? Who trained these men?

WHAT IS WRONG WITH ALL OF YOU?

Then, when women say they live in fear of men, you lot come with the usual trash:

"Not All Men"
"Some of us are good"
And my personal favorite, "Plus your father and brothers"

Is it not fathers and brothers of people, raping others?

How do we know who is and who isn't a rapist?

If a SARS or Police officer stops you on the road as a man, do you know who is dangerous and who isn't? When you call for the END of SARS, do you care which of them is good and who is bad? Why not say "Some SARS officials?" Why not say "Not all Police officers?"


That is what Genevieve and many women mean. Not all men arerapists, but are we supposed to wait and find out who is dangerous?


AS WOMEN, WE LIVE IN CONSTANT FEAR OF MEN.

Rape happens to all genders and either gender can be the aggressor, but if you did a survey today and asked 10 Men and 10 Women, if they had been molested or raped, more women will have faced these things than men.


If you walk down ANY street and ask MEN, "WHO IS MORE LIKELY TO BE A VICTIM OF RAPE BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN?" YOU, the same men, will admit that WOMEN are more likely to be victims.

Why do you think so?


DON'T BE AN INSENSITIVE TW#T, DON'T TELL US MEN ALSO GET RAPED. THAT IS EQUAL TO WHEN BLACKS ARE PROTESTING THAT BLACK LIVES MATTER, ONLY TO BE TOLD ALL LIVES MATTER.

We are not saying men do not get raped, we are saying, in this moment, the topic is women. STICK TO THE TOPIC

It is convenient, that men will never bring up the abuse of other men, unless women want to talk about women getting abused.


We Are Fighting One Cause At A Time. Do not distract from one cause, or reduce the weight of it, by bringing up your own. THIS IS NOT SUFFERHEAD OLYMPICS. YOU WILL NOT GET A MEDAL FOR BEING THE MOST RAPED GENDER.


Men, CALL YOURSELVES TO ORDER. REFLECT ON YOURSELVES. YOU KNOW RAPISTS.


That your friend that drugs women when you go out- RAPIST
The one that threatens unwilling women to have sex with him- RAPIST
The jokes about "If she chop my money, I go chop her"- RAPIST
" She spent the night in my house, she dey mad wey I no go smash?"- RAPIST
"Wetin carry her go there?"- RAPIST
" Dress well and you will not ksgfjsozndoxn"- RAPIST.

AS A MAN THINKETH, SO IS HE




It's all fun and games in Nigeria, until you need to travel abroad and someone brings up your Rapey posts from the internet.


DON'T WORRY, YOUR RAPIST FRIEND WILL NOT GO TO JAIL, THE NUMBER OF CONVICTIONS IS ON THEIR SIDE, JUST TELL US, CALL THEM OUT, LET US KNOW AND AVOID THEM. DON'T SIT BY AND ALLOW WOMEN JUMP BLINDLY INTO DANGER.


NIGERIAN MEN, CALL YOURSELVES TO ORDER


MODIFIED:

We Appreciate All The Sensible Men That Are Standing With Us In These Times. We Appreciate All The Men That Are Not Quick To Pick Offense And Attack Us For Speaking Out. Plenty May Be Useless, But There Will Always Be Those Who Have Sense.

Wow

Your thread shock me too my core. It made me feel so many emotions, like anger at my societal induced nonchalant attitude towards what my Nigerian sisters are facing in this issue, sadness at how low Nigerian men have fallen, shame at myself for ever thinking like an apologist sometimes and finally joy at your courage .

I salute and stand with you ladies.. rape is gradually becoming a culturally accepted thing in Nigeria .. we must stop rationalizing and giving excuses for these subhuman species of filth who indulge in this habit.

Cheers

I love you, SAFARIGIRL. ❤❤ This thread and your responses (damn) give me life.

You're closest to my point. This whole blame game by women will only leave us with more rape cases tomorrow. We need to get pragmatic.

So many underlying issues are promoting rape. Few of these are:

1. In countries like Nigeria, corruption and the possibility to auction justice to bidding offenders is a major one. There have to be reforms to the justice system on rape. Rapists should be publicly humiliated before serving serious jail time to deter other potential rapists.

2. Sexual illiteracy: Society is not educating men on their sexuality. This is so wrong and we're losing the potentials of pure masculinity to this. So many wasted male human resources simply because they weren't taught how to bridle their appetite. Now the general consensus is that men today are less masculine and it's largely because of unbridled libido. Nothing takes away from the productivity and masculinity of men more than unbridled libido. Older men need to look out for our younger generation and teach them mastery of their appetites because if not, men will only grow more barbaric. Our sexual appetite can be bridled and we can have our future in our hands and not women's. Forums can be created for this online.
In worst case scenarios of sexual miseducation, some young boys are actually somehow made to believe that the woman enjoys rape. Damn!. Pleasing a woman sexually and making her happy is a major joy of sex o ye men and no rapist can ever get this.

3. Govt. should restrict porn as well as censorship of all this explicit movies and even social media(Instagram) "slaying". It's reorienting young males, growing their libido and causing them to be less human and productive in life.

4. We also need to reform female fashion because it fosters the situation. Of course ladies' will never understand that, having never experienced male physiology. And many also say "It's my body" but it's being brought into public space in the sight of all men. Like it or not, ladies' dressing today is contributing to irregular sexual behaviour of men and rape in particular and the annoying part is that it isn't the ladies guilty of this that may suffer. An innocent lady may end up suffering the effluence of the perverted lusts of males created by the general female behaviour. What people don't get is that it's not about the dressing of just the victim. It's actually about the dressing of every lady that feeds the lust of these perverts and building the momentum until one of the ladies falls victim when the pervert is finally fully demented.
People in Nigeria are hardly even seeing anything. Y'all just come down to western societies and behold the sickening nudity everywhere. This should equally be criminalized.

Of course, someone might bring up Islamic societies where rape is rampant but the problem with Islam is I don't think(and I stand to be corrected, no offense) it outrightly outlaws rape under at least under certain circumstances and places no real value or protection on a woman or her body, so rape runs free. In Jewish law however referenced in OP, it was both a crime for a woman to dress provocatively as it was for men to rape a woman. It worked. Rape is minimal there.
A good government should maintain some level of control over female fashion for our males' sakes especially for our little boys' futures.

@ bold:

Actually a biblical principle.

Nice post overall.

And very apt on weak/unproductive men as a result of unbridled sexuality.

The young men of today need to learn self control.

It is not even about rape, I am referring to consensual sex.

safarigirl:
Nigerian Men have sense, don't allow these dense ones on Nairaland, give you a different view.

Men KNOW. They KNOW. They are just comfortable with the statues quo. It is frankly a waste of advocacy for women to channel energies into educating them and making them aware. If they wanted to be ''enlightened'' on women's plights, they'd be. They simply are just disagreeing with you here for the same of it. Better for one to be completely pro-women than waste time on these lots.

safarigirl:


This thread is beyond your comprehension level.

Sooo beyond, lmao.

WUdec:
Funny that a man that sodomises little boys then gives them record deals, pimps them out to women and men...etc is the one calling out rapists in the pic. Its no longer an industry secret, the whole island knows. Nigerians and hypocrisy.

In between, this is a good post but if you wanna capture the hearts of these little boys, would be better to address the issue on a heart-felt tone, not a rant.

These Nairaland kids have not had proper guidance, parental figures or mentors in their lives o the last way they'd respond to this is by being docile.

I understand the anger as a female and I tilt my hat to you for posting a topic very worthy of discussion

Nigerian males need to hear this everyday and actions do need to be taken. Same way the females of today need to do better jobs in raising themselves and their children. Laziness, social media, greed and fast money are turning our women into figures unworthy of self respect and respect from others. The moment Nigerian women become fully independent and remove the "Man" from their
ambitions, future motives and fend for themselves 100% creating jobs for themselves and inspiring other women, Nigerian men would start to respect them the way they respect foreign women.

The sad thing is, the average Nigerian always points fingers outward but never looks inwards himself/herself or their environment.

Weak women/men raise weak children. The person you are today will determine how good a parent you will be if persistence in self-discipline remains your mantra.

Nigerian parents pay more attention to your male children for the media is doing your parental duties. We no longer have men in Nigeria, we have boys. All they crave are the material and physical things of this world. They have become ambition-less and think that money equates success.


Their consumption of porn is another main factor that contributes to rape. If a parent picks up a book everyday and that parents actions are admirable, the children would grow up doing the same thing. If a parent is violent in the home, picks up the remote control, flexes babes whilst he is married and disrespects his wife in front of her children, the kids would grow up to do the same to females in their lives.

safarigirl:
You can go to this thread to see what sexual abuse can do to kids:

https://www.nairaland.com/3194624/child-abuse-parental-support

You can visit this thread for sexual abuse on men
https://www.nairaland.com/2534228/neglect-male-child-rape-molestation#37074437

DO NOT DERAIL THIS THREAD Thank You

Since 1973 to 2020, of the thousands of rape cases that have occurred and been reported in Nigeria, only 65 have led to convictions.


This thread is something I have been thinking of since yesterday that I've been reading on the horrible things done to women in this country, but seeing that Genevieve thread and the responses on Nairaland, from the same men that hide and support these rapists amongst them, I am now moved to start the thread.


NIGERIAN MEN, CALL YOURSELVES TO ORDER.


It is bad enough that most of you are totally ignorant of the ingredients that constitute rape, but the fact that the few educated ones stay silent, thereby encouraging these fiends, is even more disturbing.

WOMEN LIVE IN FEAR OF MEN. Women cannot go out at night, because of fear of being raped. Women cannot walk down a street filled with men, without the fear of being molested, women cannot go into a car filled with men, for fear of being kidnapped or being molested. A woman goes into a room filled with men, and the entire time, she is on edge, looking for other women. Women cannot go to clubs, unless they are in groups, and they still have to look out for eachother. You can not go and have fun, without thinking of worst case scenario as a woman.

Men, CAN YOU RELATE?

CAN YOU RELATE TO LIVING IN PARANOIA FOR MOST OF YOUR LIFE? CAN YOU?

DO YOU FEEL FEAR WHEN YOU WALK INTO A ROOM FULL OF WOMEN? DO YOU SEE A BUS OR CAR FILLED WITH WOMEN AND DECIDE TO WAIT FOR ANOTHER ONE? DO YOU CROSS THE ROAD WHEN YOU SEE A GROUP OF WOMEN AHEAD OF YOU?


There is NO AGE of women that do not feel this fear. You are not too young or too old for a man to rape you. From one day old to 101 years old, rape can meet you anywhere.

At HOME, you are raped
At SCHOOL, rape
At your job, rape
Even In CHURCH, RAPE.

Where is our sanctuary? When does it stop? Does being a woman mean a life of constant fear? Did we choose this? Who trained these men?

WHAT IS WRONG WITH ALL OF YOU?

Then, when women say they live in fear of men, you lot come with the usual trash:

"Not All Men"
"Some of us are good"
And my personal favorite, "Plus your father and brothers"

Is it not fathers and brothers of people, raping others?

How do we know who is and who isn't a rapist?

If a SARS or Police officer stops you on the road as a man, do you know who is dangerous and who isn't? When you call for the END of SARS, do you care which of them is good and who is bad? Why not say "Some SARS officials?" Why not say "Not all Police officers?"


That is what Genevieve and many women mean. Not all men arerapists, but are we supposed to wait and find out who is dangerous?


AS WOMEN, WE LIVE IN CONSTANT FEAR OF MEN.

Rape happens to all genders and either gender can be the aggressor, but if you did a survey today and asked 10 Men and 10 Women, if they had been molested or raped, more women will have faced these things than men.


If you walk down ANY street and ask MEN, "WHO IS MORE LIKELY TO BE A VICTIM OF RAPE BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN?" YOU, the same men, will admit that WOMEN are more likely to be victims.

Why do you think so?


DON'T BE AN INSENSITIVE TW#T, DON'T TELL US MEN ALSO GET RAPED. THAT IS EQUAL TO WHEN BLACKS ARE PROTESTING THAT BLACK LIVES MATTER, ONLY TO BE TOLD ALL LIVES MATTER.

We are not saying men do not get raped, we are saying, in this moment, the topic is women. STICK TO THE TOPIC

It is convenient, that men will never bring up the abuse of other men, unless women want to talk about women getting abused.


We Are Fighting One Cause At A Time. Do not distract from one cause, or reduce the weight of it, by bringing up your own. THIS IS NOT SUFFERHEAD OLYMPICS. YOU WILL NOT GET A MEDAL FOR BEING THE MOST RAPED GENDER.


Men, CALL YOURSELVES TO ORDER. REFLECT ON YOURSELVES. YOU KNOW RAPISTS.


That your friend that drugs women when you go out- RAPIST
The one that threatens unwilling women to have sex with him- RAPIST
The jokes about "If she chop my money, I go chop her"- RAPIST
" She spent the night in my house, she dey mad wey I no go smash?"- RAPIST
"Wetin carry her go there?"- RAPIST
" Dress well and you will not ksgfjsozndoxn"- RAPIST.

AS A MAN THINKETH, SO IS HE




It's all fun and games in Nigeria, until you need to travel abroad and someone brings up your Rapey posts from the internet.


DON'T WORRY, YOUR RAPIST FRIEND WILL NOT GO TO JAIL, THE NUMBER OF CONVICTIONS IS ON THEIR SIDE, JUST TELL US, CALL THEM OUT, LET US KNOW AND AVOID THEM. DON'T SIT BY AND ALLOW WOMEN JUMP BLINDLY INTO DANGER.


NIGERIAN MEN, CALL YOURSELVES TO ORDER


MODIFIED:

We Appreciate All The Sensible Men That Are Standing With Us In These Times. We Appreciate All The Men That Are Not Quick To Pick Offense And Attack Us For Speaking Out. Plenty May Be Useless, But There Will Always Be Those Who Have Sense.

"OP, In as much as i detest Rape you don't generalize the situation by calling out NIGERIAN MEN like all Nigerian men are rapist, What about the NIGERIAN WOMEN that rape and molest young boys... weird right? Yeah but it happens but we NIGERIAN MEN don't go about screeming blood.

Judging from your post you seem to be a victim of rape, Rape is one of the society flaws we have and even the so called WOMEN you are fighting for are sometimes responsible for seducing men with their indecent dressing in public (you don't stand in front of a man half naked and not expect an erection from the opposite sex)...this is not in any way supporting the immoral act but you ladies too need to desist from emotional blackmail". - Village People spokesperson.

Really women are insecure now due to fear of being raped or molestation. But the fact is if women will adopt some steps then i see them being protected throught their lives.
1.Decent dressing: this is very good point because it prevents men from been sexaul arousal.
2. Never go/travel far alone without a male companion. Some might neglect this point but it is very impotant, if u always take a responsible guy along with you, truly speaking that fear will not be their.
3.Don't get out of your house any time u feel like: women need to understand and have it at the back of their that "they are the weaker sex" is a good thing because, in life if you don't know your strenght and weekness you are doomed, u use strenght wisely and avoid areas of your weekness. Women should learn to chose time and place wisely. It will help
4. Try to have a good character and reputation in your environment/responsible: When you behave very well in your neigbourhood and mingle with responsible people, i doubt if anyone will like to rape u or would to see u been raped.
5. Be intelligent/Current: this suppose to be number one, in todays world one thing i keep telling people is that innocence noadays is not an exuse, infact people nowadays are looking for innocent people go prey on. So ple always be aware of latest information so as to take advantage of it.
This is the few points i can say i hope it will help. May almighty God protect us and our loved ones.

Magnoliaa:

Men KNOW. They KNOW. They are just comfortable with the statues quo. It is frankly a waste of advocacy for women to channel energies into educating them and making them aware. If they wanted to be ''enlightened'' on women's plights, they'd be. They simply are just disagreeing with you here for the same of it. Better for one to be completely pro-women than waste time on these lots.

End of discussion!

Read the comments I wanna read. Now unfollowing thread for my peace of mind. Phew.

What manner of stupidity is this?

How could such an offensive post make it to front page.

Thunda fire the mod and op.

LOL

Not a thread from last year making it to Front Page now.

Something wey I don do forget, y'all want to now bring late outrage.


Anyway, you guys enjoy the RageFest.

FutureIsFemale:
We have so many rape apologists on this forum.

I wont lie you are right we do and it is sad.

Afrobasic:
What manner of stupidity is this?

How could such an offensive post make it to front page.

Thunda fire the mod and op.

may your female daughter be raped to death by a man. sub human basttard.

Rubbish.



When you have emotions littered all over a post, that's what you get..
When you also have a feminized internet space, that's what you get.

It's just emotions. It'll fade.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Do women and girls plan to get raped?So how exactly should they be responsible in this context.You are sounding like a rape enabler.

The topic is about rape and women are mostly the victims even men also but women are more disadvantaged and get shamed for being raped your comment is a clear example.

It is being perpetrated by men so it is about them and their failed moral standard and lack of commonsense.Is there a venue to where rapist are found that you are saying they find themselves in wrong places.


Uncle what are they supposed to be doing? Are you to tell them what to do.So in the closed place they are in women should not feel safe abi?Instead of you to denounce these rapisr you are busy sounding like a rape apologist and blaming women?what right do they have to rape and kill her.What are you saying abeg?So she cannot even feel safe in church the house of God again so where exactly can a woman feel safe in this country.I am lost for words with what I am reading.I am yet to see where you have condemned rape culture in Nigeria ooo.

NO GOD WILL SAVE YOU FIRST

You should be saved first so that people with your line of reasoning will not be justified to rape people since it is the lady's fault for being there in the first place.
Mtcheww

first ask yourself these question ,.... can you play down where smokers gather.... if your sence can tell you that it a no go area then you should know that we live in a lost generation no where is safe cos anything is born to happen inrespective of your relationship with people around you I pray we never witness such because it not a good tales to tell....


last year some school girls in my area one of them have to comit sucide the following morning because she can bear the stigma..... one thing I always tells ladies, around me is that dress,modesty yes this will only solve 30 percent of the matter but also it goes along way ..... May God protect us all...

Danmisra:
Really women are insecure now due to fear of being raped or molestation. But the fact is if women will adopt some steps then i see them being protected throught their lives.
1.Decent dressing: this is very good point because it prevents men from been sexaul arousal.
2. Never go/travel far alone without a male companion. Some might neglect this point but it is very impotant, if u always take a responsible guy along with you, truly speaking that fear will not be their.
3.Don't get out of your house any time u feel like: women need to understand and have it at the back of their that "they are the weaker sex" is a good thing because, in life if you don't know your strenght and weekness you are doomed, u use strenght wisely and avoid areas of your weekness. Women should learn to chose time and place wisely. It will help
4. Try to have a good character and reputation in your environment/responsible: When you behave very well in your neigbourhood and mingle with responsible people, i doubt if anyone will like to rape u or would to see u been raped.
5. Be intelligent/Current: this suppose to be number one, in todays world one thing i keep telling people is that innocence noadays is not an exuse, infact people nowadays are looking for innocent people go prey on. So ple always be aware of latest information so as to take advantage of it.
This is the few points i can say i hope it will help. May almighty God protect us and our loved ones.

1. There is nothing like decent or indecent dressing... a woman is free to wear whatever she wants and you are responsible for looking away.
2. Are men so sub human and animalistic that male security is needed while travelling?
3. Women are not any weaker sex. men are the weaker sex for doing stupid things just to be with a woman. men think with their diicks and are for the most part senseless... a man would give his monthly salary to a woman to please her lol.
4. This applies to men too.
5. Applies to men too.

KingOfAmebo:


"OP, In as much as i detest Rape you don't generalize the situation by calling out NIGERIAN MEN like all Nigerian men are rapist, What about the NIGERIAN WOMEN that rape and molest young boys... weird right? Yeah but it happens but we NIGERIAN MEN don't go about screeming blood.

Judging from your post you seem to be a victim of rape, Rape is one of the society flaws we have and even the so called WOMEN you are fighting for are sometimes responsible for seducing men with their indecent dressing in public (you don't stand in front of a man half naked and not expect an erection from the opposite sex)...this is not in any way supporting the immoral act but you ladies too need to desist from emotional blackmail". - Village People spokesperson.

Not all nigerian men are rapists but RAPISTS ARE MEN! THE RATE OF FEMALE RAPE OF MEN IS INSIGNIFICANT AND MOST FEMALE RAPES DO NOT RESULT IN DEATH OF THE VICTIM UNLIKE MEN.

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