JESHAL:



[s]Men rarely disrespect women,the issue is that most people see women's submission as disrespect and a man can't tolerate a woman who won't defer to his authority, no man wants an headache[/s]

luminouz:


Bet she won't respect me him at all!

JovialJune:



Is this guy for real? Dude you are delusional, seems like you like to hear/see yourself talk/type

Romanoff:


If I hear. She worships him.

They respect each other.

JESHAL:



Men only disrespect women when they disrespect men, we won't cuddles and entertain bad behavior from women because of their gender

luminouz:


That's good.

Hope you can do same to your husband too...I hear you are married.

Romanoff:


I worship my husband cause his worth is not tied to his wallet.

Fine man with brain and self worth.

If I come this world, na me go find am marry.

JESHAL:



Then why is that your money is your money and men's money is families money, [s]why is that women don't date or marry downwards their socio-economic status[/s] they want equals [s]or superiors, final stability or potential is a big must before a woman can take you seriously and it's not a bad thing, women are evolutionary hardwired to secure the best mate for themselves and offsprings[/s]

luminouz:

Seems you don't know joviajune... She hates men. Don't waste your time quoting her

JESHAL:



Men only disrespect women when they disrespect men, we won't cuddles and entertain bad behavior from women because of their gender

JovialJune:



You definitely have a problem with yourself, this thread is not a gender war.

Dapcity007:


No, men don't just disrespect women if it's not warranted, we have mums and sisters

Dapcity007:



My Jesh account has issues, your equality theory is wrong, because 90% of alimony and child support is paid from men to women, I don't see a 50/50 split

JovialJune:



It goes both ways, cause and effect, don't expect what you can't give, respect is earned.

Dapcity007:

But authority in marriage is deffered to the man and women must respect him based on his responsibilities that he performs as the leader, no equality in any successful marriage

JovialJune:



This thread is on marriage not divorce, divorce settlements debate or arguments can be created on another thread.

Kobojunkie:
deferred by whom?

Dapcity007:

The woman

Kobojunkie:
So each woman in each marriage makes a decision to defer authority to the man, or not?

Basically, it is possibly for the woman could also chose not to defer authority or to share it instead, right? .

Dapcity007:
Statistically Egalitarianistic-Equalism marriages fail woefully

Equal partnership doesn't work in marriages

JovialJune:



Come and tell my husband to divorce me na, since you, an online moniker, knows me better than my reality, lol.

Kobojunkie:
Can I see these statistics you refer to please.

chatinent:


This scenario reminds me of Jude and Eniola Badmus that was always cartoonized on The Sun Newspaper.

That means if she were the one providing the meals, ọ ga -esiri gị ike ga ahu banana nke a rapuru fo.

Mehn..

Nothing dey vex me pass references to every little efforts you make forgetting my daily stabs to make you happy.

Most women cannot be men even for a day.

Only one evening my cousin sister took me out, I never even remove my shoe naim I read her status: “I like the woman I am becoming. Always learn to man your womanhood.”

The only thing most women tend to appreciate is credit alerts..or send your account number. They will become so emotional..they can even cry.

Let the case be the reverse.

Make she just take care of you for two days.

You go hear weeen. She go even remind you how she carry you for stomach for nine months.

“Richie, what is this na, can't I have peace after coming back from work again? How can you eat and cannot wash your plates again! What's this na!”

“Baby, why are you shouting? The neighbours are at...”

“Don't baby me. What have I not done to make you happy? Will I kill myself? Am I the only married woman in the world..what is this na.”

(You try to hold her hands to calm her down...she slaps you damn hard).

“(She is crying now..tears flowly freely). Just see what you made me do. Just see it. Everything is just wrong with this world.”

You mah wey dem slap go still go meet am for parlour where she dey cry dey pet am (and that if after checking your cheeks if blood dey comot). You go come humbly tell am say no bi you eat, say na the one she eat for morning..but anyways, you forgot to wash it.

Another matter don dey brew.

She will now come to the parlour and sit, ask you for the remote and change the football to Telemundo and mutter these words you'll never hear: “work e won't work, such a failure. It's only remote e can pass.”

You will try to look at her with your side eyes but meet her full eyes staring at you in disgust. Mumu you go come smile enter bedroom.

As you are walking into the bedroom, the volume of the muttering is increasing but it's still inaudible.

In the oza room, just respect yourself. Don't even dare..unless you want the whole world to know how you will be idle and want to kill sb’s daughter after working all day!

“oh, it's your plan, Richie, baa? To kill me so that you can now go and meet Ishilove, baa?”


Only you go dey like Stone Cold Steve Austin sleep.


It will be normal...the “honey, darling etc.” is going to die. You will be called your name...two seconds, she will stop calling your name and just be giving out orders.

Abeg, don't even remind her you are the husband. You will get the insult of your life. She will say “no, say it loud na, let mama Chisom hear you. How many husbands stay at home watching football and their wives are left to do all the work!”


But na you still dey pay rent, buy foodstuff, and children fees.

Baba, kuku collect that responsiblity back. I hate to talk much. No dare shift any of your responsibility to woman...even if she persists to want to help. E kuku better she dey do am willingly than you register her name on it.

Only women, babies, and pets are loved. Men are respected when they man up. Na the respect we dey translate to love.

Dapcity007:

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Kobojunkie:
Can I see these statistics you refer to please.

Kobojunkie:
I was in fact looking to examine the claim for authenticity, not what is cobbled up in some poster.

so please a link to the source of the statistics would be appreciated.

AmazonTopaz:


That is why they feel empty when they are broke.Many of them lack basic human skills, attitudes and virtues on how to keep a relationship or marriage to them it is just money other men who know better and whose worth ain't tied to money alone tend to do better and are treated better when they are down because of the way they chose to relate with their wives.

Imagine one just telling us the man is the head of the home so what does it mean he should misbehave and not respect or treat his partner right.These men sometimes have a warped mindset on a lot of issues Nigerian women have tried oo

Romanoff:


You are right sha. The woman I cited above who just bought a house and car, her hubby takes care of the kids and runs the home while she's at work. She doesn't come back from work to start rushing to the kitchen to cook.

Hubby would have done that.

Weekends, she cooks soups, hubby does laundry.

Dapcity007:

Every single data their is backed by empirical evidence the scientific literature is sound on them, I won't bother wasting my time looking for citation links on the internet, who doesn't know that single motherhood is more common now than before Feminism,50% of marriages end up in divorce, women initiate 70% of divorce all these and many more were uncommon before Feminism

AmazonTopaz:


This doesn't translate to current realities,be jobless and carry headship for head.

Some of you men see marriage as a power tussle the lady rightly laid out a marriage plan that happens in today's world but you want to tell us what we already know,every marriage is different for some marriages that are not Christian based the husband and wife work as a team and there is equality in such marriage just because you are not familiar with that reality doesn't mean it doesn't work for others and happens in such marriages.

Christ being the head of the church loved the church and died for it how many men of today can do that,Christ also washed the feet of his disciples I can liken this to husbands doing chores in the homes and treating their wives as the queens that they are,you are so quick to remember headship but slow to remember the responsibilities it carries.

Kobojunkie:
I am asking again for the source of the claims made on that image.