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Na God-oo. The feeling of all others: children, wives, girlfriends is that daddy's money never finishes. My son once told me to my face," daddy you have plenty money, give mummy some". Mummy is a medical doctor-oo. I retorted 'who told you your mummy doesn't have plenty money too'

Joysticks:
Men don't have va.gina to do a trade by barter.

Abeg how Bobrisky dey survive?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jtMIt7u_qRY


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hjVhScfd-sU

sharone21:
Abeg how Bobrisky dey survive?

He survives as a gay.His clients are alhajis.

Who feeds the birds that flies in the sky...!!!

BRATISLAVA:
Fraud. Robbery. Killing. Duping. Scamming. Using. Tricking. Violence.

These are their ways of getting money.

Omo

E don reach like this??

lilvicky68:
Omo

E don reach like this??

Read the news. It has reached

BRATISLAVA:
Read the news. It has reached

That means every guy is a potential criminal na

lilvicky68:
That means every guy is a potential criminal na

You, where did you get your latest account inflow from?

BRATISLAVA:
You, where did you get your latest account inflow from?

My account has been without inflow..

I'm living by the Grace of God na..

lilvicky68:
My account has been without inflow..

I'm living by the Grace of God na..

L. O. L.

https://www.nairaland.com/6773338/new-strategy-serial-rapists-ritualists

How are you coping? Or they don't want fresh young men any more? Or you want to tell me you're old like that?

BRATISLAVA:
L. O. L.

https://www.nairaland.com/6773338/new-strategy-serial-rapists-ritualists

How are you coping? Or they don't want fresh young men any more? Or you want to tell me you're old like that?

I don't move aimlessly here and I'm always focused on where I'm headed..

I don't even go out that much and I don't talk to strangers too

As for the freshness ..you can come and feel it..

I somewhat agreed with you as a guy. I have observed that us men, sometimes, are our worst enemies. A broke guy will have no qualms with spending the little money he has on a girl but to help his fellow man is difficult. Don't get me wrong, men do help their fellow men a lot and quite a few take advantage of it and are ungrateful.

It's not even only with broke guys. I have also noticed this is very common with returnees from abroad. [b]I will never understand how a girl who has never lived in Nigeria secures accommodation, job and contacts within 2 weeks of relocating to Nigeria while their male counterparts are on their own.[/b]Look at the female celebrities. Both men and women patronize their business on social media while only a few patronize the businesses of their male counterparts.

As a man in this country, if you don't have a strong supportive system (well to do family, friends) you are on your own. No one gives a damn about you.

Magnoliaa:
Thank you for the last sentence, especially. What this lady said and your advice is actually an indictment to you men yourselves. You people can form bro codes, and band together to insult women, and call women their own worst enemies, and sleep on a dirty bed, sharing boxers together and bla bla bla (that women typically do not do) and because of that declare that you love each other, because you're all supposedly banging a single girl, but your so-called affinity is only skin deep. You DON'T feel a single thing for each other. And this is not even because you don't have the money. A broke boy can still, any how, whichever way find money to give to his girlfriend, but to give his broke guy friend?

Instead of speaking to yourselves to change your attitudes, you'll rather hate on the girls ''whyning'' your friends' brains. At least a broke partying babe that is being bankrolled will still take the gifts and monies she get from men to share with her friends. The genuine sharing spirit is there.

That men are broke in huge numbers and women are cashing out (typically) only points more to the fact that men do not help one another rather than the manipulation of women y'all cry wolf about.

The most depressing part is that almost all these women get their financial aid from men; some without trading their cookie.

I wonder why men cant help their fellow men as much.

Even the uncles are more likely to send money/assist the neices than nephews.

Nah God dey help us as our economic situation dey worsen day by day & currency value depreciates regularly

Lavisha:
M A N means Morning, Afternoon, Night.


To be a MAN, you mustn't quit hustling.

Bullshit struggling stigma mentality
That’s why men die first…
Thank God the future is female… and we have equality now…

pomide:
Bullshit struggling stigma mentality
That’s why men die first…
Thank God the future is female… and we have equality now…

This ain't struggling, A man is not created to sit and sip Apple-Martini on the beach and make a tent.

He was designed for GREATness.

He must work his asss to that level else he'll become like a Sheep instead a Lion.

Lavisha:
This ain't struggling, A man is not created to sit and sip Apple-Martini on the beach and make a tent.

He was designed for GREATness.

He must work his asss to that level else he'll become like a Sheep instead a Lion.

Lool… women too are created for greatness..

I can relate. Tried it and it was not a good experience when things got a little bit shaky, i think she would have been more understanding if she was a good girl working/hustling in naija.
From self entitlement to pride to arrogance to disrespect to being non challant though there are other good qualities but i chrerish my peace and got much less than what i feel i deserve.
Honestly its better to take time and find a spouse in Nigeria when based abroad.

PeaceJoyLove:
I respect Nigerian men. Truth should be told. When the same man enters a developed nation, he turns to a resourceful person. From my investigation, naija men are mostly loyal to partners who picked them up from Nigeria. Even I can say around 75% of those who married grandmas are loyal. This is why I pity those who want to pick spouses abroad esp those looking for good men. You pick a naija man already based there, hmmm...wrong strategy. You better look for a good man who is still hustling in Nigeria and come down here to assist him join you. Gone are the days you rely on one that is already there. But many think they are smart and will look for one already there. Lol.

Well, this is the truth of the matter for those who cannot get abroad with student visa. Cos right now, it's almost impossible to get visiting or tourism visa again. So, road has been blocked for many hustlers. How many can afford to pay tuition fee. UK demands you pay part of the money, Canada uses same strategy too. Many cannot pay this, so theybdont go. And US which used to have flawed interviews for visa applicants has tightened up. Trump changed the game. You just have to have a source to show you can pay. No more fake documents to help you. So, lesser people are going abroad. And this is the truth. Nigerians have been clamped. You want a good Nogerian man, be willing to visit Naija. This is my candid advice.

Goodluck to everyone.