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My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years / Man To End Marriage Of 16 Years With His Wife After Discovering Her Real Age / After 15yrs, I'm Still Haunted, Help!!!! (2) (3) (4)

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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Kobojunkie: 3:06pm On Sep 27, 2021
neonly:
From 5yrs to 15yrs
Me am a contractor travelling Na my hubby sometimes I can stay at home for days
Wife is teacher in private school goes to work from 7 till 5 or 6
Saturday say she want to go to event in church most time
Sunday goes to church from 8 till 2 in d afternoon
So u see nothing to hide
So, you seem to have more free time than your wife does. undecided
As for her spending her Saturdays and Sundays at church, how long has that been going on for? undecided
Any idea if she has demons she is to outrun or something? undecided

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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by wonderr(m): 3:07pm On Sep 27, 2021
Am sorry to ask this question hope she is not the one taking care of the most responsibilities at home?
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Davash222(m): 3:08pm On Sep 27, 2021
ahnie:

U wantu start abi.
Trap men as in how?
Last I checked it's the men that proposes not the women.so how then do women trap men?

Davash you sure say you go marry so?
Virgin or nothing.

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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Kobojunkie: 3:08pm On Sep 27, 2021
neonly:
Like I always tell people marriage is not bad once you marry yur freind not lover because with time you can fall out of love from yur lover like me
ROFLMAO
grin cheesy grin cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

You dey advice people to marry friends and not lovers but look what the same time did to your friendship to? undecided
Marriage no be formulae like that... there are folks who marry strangers and still end up making it work out. undecided

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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by ahnie: 3:10pm On Sep 27, 2021
neonly:




U won't understand am really hurt and depressed
Dat her own thinking too dat Abi they will settle d matter for us
But for how can we continue like dis mind u age is not on our side
Am always emontioal disturb when we have issues cause me I like us playing together yur family suppose yur confider especially yur wife but if you can get it from her again what d use of staying in d relationship
U sef reason am babes
Guy chilax...go sip one bottle of cold beer.like I said...na normal runs una go settle.
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by neonly: 3:12pm On Sep 27, 2021
Shokoloko:


You seem very honest. I was expecting you to exaggerate facts but you didn't. Well done.
From what I gather she is home from 3pm in the afternoon and home from 6.30pm daily.

Now, that your first child needs to start helping, he can take over the light chores.

I will let you know that some relationships expire, when the two partners grow in different directions.

Lets explore your feelings when you are not with your spouse for a couple of days:
When you travel for contracting, do you feel your peace return when you are away from her? Are you relaxed when you are away from home. That will give you an idea of what you will feel if you decide to separate.




D Gods must have reveal dis to u
I swear any time am out of Lagos
I come back looking heather fresher happier
But before u know again depression come it and I being to loose weight
Dat not even d issue I can sacrifice anything to my family happiness but dis days is getting worst as if she know my weak point

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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by ahnie: 3:12pm On Sep 27, 2021
Kobojunkie:
ROFLMAO
grin cheesy grin cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

You dey advice people to marry friends and not lovers but look what the same time did to your friendship to? undecided
Lolz...abeg free the guy he's in sifia pains. grin grin grin..
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by neonly: 3:15pm On Sep 27, 2021
Kobojunkie:
ROFLMAO
grin cheesy grin cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

You dey advice people to marry friends and not lovers but look what the same time did to your friendship to? undecided
Marriage no be formulae like that... there are folks who marry strangers and still end up making it Nwork out. undecided



She was lover Abeg not freind

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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by neonly: 3:16pm On Sep 27, 2021
ahnie:

Lolz...abeg free the guy he's in sifia pains. grin grin grin..


Funny enough u just made me laugh since morning u deserve a bottle of heniken
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Kobojunkie: 3:18pm On Sep 27, 2021
neonly:
She was lover Abeg not freind
Marriage works even between lovers, strangers, friends, even enemies... it all depends on what those involved are willing to shed for the sake of the union. undecided

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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by neonly: 3:19pm On Sep 27, 2021
ahnie:

Guy chilax...go sip one bottle of cold beer.like I said...na normal runs una go settle.


I don't beer again want Tommy to flat Na spirit I dey drink now today Na Monday abeg
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by ahnie: 3:22pm On Sep 27, 2021
neonly:



Funny enough u just made me laugh since morning u deserve a bottle of heniken
Naaah Heineken is not my thing...I do crispy chilled 17:59 made of black.you cud add spicy peppered barbeque to eet Sha.

But on a serious note guy...you gaz chilax.

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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by ahnie: 3:25pm On Sep 27, 2021
neonly:




She was lover Abeg not freind
Are you related to Peter?the dead discipline of Jesus Christ?
See how you have sharperly denied your spouse cheesy

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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Nobody: 3:25pm On Sep 27, 2021
Marriage wahala again angry.

It shall be well.
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Raalsalghul: 3:26pm On Sep 27, 2021
ufotty2001:
I have a girlfriend all what she think of is how she will collect money from me and career.. !!! She has never ask me how is business? How is life?? How are you managing... All are calls are complain that she need this or that..

Why are you with her then?

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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by adesegun121(m): 3:28pm On Sep 27, 2021
Kestolove:
Divorce and marry another, responsible girls full area no husband
Lobatan
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Nobody: 3:29pm On Sep 27, 2021
neonly:
Am not good writer please trying to make it short

Everything just falling apart in my house
Sometimes I hear some folks saying I will tolerate rubbish in marriage but honestly it easier say than done if it actually happen to you
Where did I get it wrong sef
We use to be good friends before church matter enter
Now she does nothing in the house
I go to work come back to go to market and cook clean the house wash the children uniforms for the younger ones

All she is interested now is her own career
What my fate when I grow old
Is this not a red flag for me
What will be the fate of my wonderful innocent children how will they feel not growing up with their mother and father together all these are pounding in my head
the issues are too much I can't type it all am really depressed but sha life goes on
But my children what will be their fate
Your situation is pathetic but anyway this is not the time to be emotional. You have to be very practical and put your foot down . If she’s not helping the marriage move forward call her to order and address the issue if she’s still disobedient then you kick her ass out and get A professional maid or something else. No allow any woman stress you with wahala you’re already providing for your kids the least she can do is make sure you’re okay too .

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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by neonly: 3:29pm On Sep 27, 2021
ahnie:

Naaah Heineken is not my thing...I do crispy chilled 17:59 made of black.you cud add spicy peppered barbeque to eet Sha.

But on a serious note guy...you gaz chilax.


Thks
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Solatium(m): 3:29pm On Sep 27, 2021
neonly:
Am not good writer please trying to make it short

Everything just falling apart in my house
Sometimes I hear some folks saying I will tolerate rubbish in marriage but honestly it easier say than done if it actually happen to you
Where did I get it wrong sef
We use to be good friends before church matter enter
Now she does nothing in the house
I go to work come back to go to market and cook clean the house wash the children uniforms for the younger ones

All she is interested now is her own career
What my fate when I grow old
Is this not a red flag for me
What will be the fate of my wonderful innocent children how will they feel not growing up with their mother and father together all these are pounding in my head
the issues are too much I can't type it all am really depressed but sha life goes on
But my children what will be their fate

Don't divorce her yet,just look for one side chick to calm your nerves,let her know you are getting attention from another female companion but never reveal her identity,if in 6 months she did not go back to default.

File for divorce

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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by AvalonSpace(m): 3:29pm On Sep 27, 2021
Homeboiy:
The worst of it all be say the children go first buy their mama motor if they grow

Your own go be schnapps

No go kill your self o
Lol.. if my daughter buy me Schnapps, i go blast am for her front..
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by KillingIsFun: 3:30pm On Sep 27, 2021
Responsible? If they're like you, then that can't be true.

Kestolove:
Divorce and marry another, responsible girls full area no husband

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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Johnsown1(m): 3:30pm On Sep 27, 2021
ufotty2001:
I have a girlfriend all what she think of is how she will collect money from me and career.. !!! She has never ask me how is business? How is life?? How are you managing... All are calls are complain that she need this or that..

Wahala dey like Nigeria

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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by neonly: 3:30pm On Sep 27, 2021
ahnie:

Are you related to Peter?the dead discipline of Jesus Christ?
See how you have sharperly denied your spouse cheesy

Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by omooba969(m): 3:30pm On Sep 27, 2021
It's almost impossible to not think of the children when you consider separation or divorce, but it's equally important to think of yourself first and weigh the options as per what's in the best interest of your kids.

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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Abalado(f): 3:31pm On Sep 27, 2021
Ok,,,good for u ma
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by juniorstar(m): 3:31pm On Sep 27, 2021
Iyaebe:
To all those men wey dy go church to go look for wife hehehehe na still us dy there ooo we just change cloth hehehehe(culled from a video,no be me talk am)
Lol..Saw that video on facebook

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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by AsawanaDgreat: 3:33pm On Sep 27, 2021
End it and let us have peace here
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by ictplotter(m): 3:33pm On Sep 27, 2021
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Na wa oh......May thunder never forget to fire anybody wey say marriage institution no hard pass normal higher institution shocked

Op,calm down first....In fact take a chili pill cool. It's definitely gonna be alright.......

Sometimes when I come across stories like this,I begin to wonder what really compels people to change after getting so close to each other...... People who are supposed to be the better halves of each other now becoming a bone in one partner's throat....No be so e suppose be na angry

Op,be a gentle man....Call her and sit her down.....Na you be the chairman of that family undecided. No dey mumu around simply because say your Banny get better hustling ground pass you undecided. Ginger up,be a man here bro undecided. Clear her all her fvck up and if she try jump up jump up,make sure say you treat her fvck up accordingly undecided
Op don't need advise. This is the end result when you marry because of boobs and ass. Marriage is the best institution when you carefully step into it. But when u marry one gold digger or slaying mama thinking u will alway have the financial resources to calm her down
but when the resources didnt flow as she expected, marital grudges and trouble will start

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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by hippyj(m): 3:33pm On Sep 27, 2021
Kestolove:
Divorce and marry another, responsible girls full area no husband
Who told you that when he married her,she was not " a responsible girl" .
How sure are you that the new wife will not turn out to be worse than his current wife?

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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by gasparpisciotta: 3:33pm On Sep 27, 2021
neonly:
Am not good writer please trying to make it short

Everything just falling apart in my house
Sometimes I hear some folks saying I will tolerate rubbish in marriage but honestly it easier say than done if it actually happen to you
Where did I get it wrong sef
We use to be good friends before church matter enter
Now she does nothing in the house
I go to work come back to go to market and cook clean the house wash the children uniforms for the younger ones

All she is interested now is her own career
What my fate when I grow old
Is this not a red flag for me
What will be the fate of my wonderful innocent children how will they feel not growing up with their mother and father together all these are pounding in my head
the issues are too much I can't type it all am really depressed but sha life goes on
But my children what will be their fate

Baba wetin be her career wey she wan sacrifice her home for please?
On the other hand if she is a good woman, try and work things out with her by sitting her ass down and talk sense into her brain.

If all your entreaties does not work out then please fire her before she ends your life prematurely, because if you die of too much thinking she go move on

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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Lastmankc(m): 3:33pm On Sep 27, 2021
And my mum is disturbing me to get married?I just told her that she can marry a second wife for my elder brother.And she's thinking that I am under a spell.She has been bringing different spiritualist to my house.The day I go break one of them head,he go shock everybody

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