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tiffanyfan:
Eating breakfast is not easy....you can ask me. Just try and move on, you will get over it soon.

Your first sentence tho.

The last girl who used it is in prison.

Ikemoney:
good evening all, please i need a serious advice from you guys with out insuit, Please.

have been dating this girl for close to 4 years now, and am madly in love with her, at first i never love her, she did everything for me to love which i am now, have done everything a man could do for woman, i assisted her in setting up her business, i alway ensure she is okay,her family knows me.

we have already start making plan on getting married, before now have been having trust issues with her, when ever her phone is close to me or it rings she is not comfortable, anytime i ask questions she knock it off,she will say they are just friends, at a point i was monitoring her, she knew,friends will call me they saw my girl with some one guy ,that same guy usually do call, have ask her who is the guy, she said they just friends , it was clear she was cheating her attitude towards me change, yet i kept cool for peace to reign and for what i feel for her.

To cut the story short, spoke to her family about it and her brother abroad, now she is angry and she does not want the relationship anymore,have beg her have also send people to beg her, she said never that she has move on, am confuse i really do love her, the worst part she block me on watsup and messager and she is not picking my calls, i feel she dislike me now.

when even i rmember my labour in this i feel so bad with my self, i really don't know how to move on.

Why men always want to know what a lady is up to? What type of shit is that?

Check her phone, questions like who's calling? Those are insecure questions.

Moving on? See a therapist. If ya heartbroken, you'll need a therapist.

I cant give relationship advice as i am no expert in that field.

But i can tell you this, the default state of human mind is bliss, when you are not feeling bliss, then you are sercurming to negative voices that have the power to pose themselves as feelings thereby determining your mood.

This is why mediation is essential for anybody, who wants to be able to have more control over his mood.

There is always some truth to whatever you have to tell yourself to feel at peace, even if in your case you have to say, "If one woman go another will come, if one life go with no woman, another life will come as you live forever "

The most important thing to you is peace of mind, that is what being a human being is about. And there is no negative mood that you can feel that is not the suggestion of an evil one.

If you practice mediation regularly, you will hear the voice telling you how to feel, before it can attain power to become the mood you feel.

And if you choose to have a busy life, stressful job, big ambitions, you become more of a slave to your moods. Cause its too hard to hear a quiet voice sneaking in on you in a busy mind.

That is why as robotics engineer i still calculator for simple sums, i never rush my mind or expose to complexity i dont have to.

Keep the mind simple in order to catch thief's of mind. Cause the default state of mind is bliss.

You guys are going to settle.i know that feeling.for now stop sending emissaries to her.
Don't call or text her either.its going to be hard I know considering the fact that you're genuinely inlov with her.

And by the way... ignore those peeps calling you a simp.

chatinent:
Ok o.


Maybe it is the word you used but I put it to you, once I am feeling uncomfortable with a relationship and get knocked off for serious questions, it's a red flag.


That friend or bestie that cannot be your partner makes me wonder if some people really know what they are doing most times.


Yeah, I also keep my cool when I am about to leave you to keep dating yourself or move on.


Awwwn, just like a ramseynoah-ogeokoye love.


Angry or needing an excuse for the nearest exit?


I am thinking to say this is good news. Let me wait to read what you have to say.



Hello brotherman,

I won't mince words with you but I'll be considerate by incorporating myself into your love story.

If I were the you-figure, I would walk away. Maybe I would have done so long ago when the signs were no longer glistening as greenish as it earlier illuminated.

I have to walk away from people I also love sometimes, not because I didn't try enough, but because of self respect.

If that's the only reasons she clung unto to end your four-year love internship, oh, so sorry...you were only the finance guy! My apology if I used hard words.

I strongly advise sponsoring only a wife in school, or anything...and not the other way round! Your case is one of the many cases hovering over the angry always-recurring blue moon in the minds of many guys who were once gentlemen. There have been many cases where a gentleman had to finance a woman's education and she married some other course-mate, or got impregnated by sb deemed better...making her sponsor's efforts come to waste!

Love is a beautiful thing... but it mostly turns out that the best person who'd hurt you is that one person you truly love...and that hurts the most.

Don't feel too bad. Move on. Heartbreak is like cloud storms...with time, it will fade. But you have to nurture your heart to repel against heartbreaks too. Of course, you also have to learn not to transfer aggression to the next honest girl who comes by. You know, it isn't a gender fight. It's the person not the gender.
So, we aren't preaching retaliation...we only have to forgive people who hurt us, forget their hurt, but not forgetting the lesson it taught us.

Moving forward....I think you should stop begging. You are worth more than that. Yeah, I know we have to try to reunite with people we love. I've done that too...some times, I apologize not because I am wrong, but because I value the relationship than being right. If my efforts are not respected, I stop doing them..and it's gone forever.

Men cry too....but make sure no bi relationship matter dey make you invent river benue.


This is a stage of your life you will begin to see changes and understand there is more to your being than what you have been. Build on it. What she is rejecting in you may be envied by others!

Keep squares out of your circles. Avoid toxic people and relationships...and next time, date when you are about to marry.

I liKe the man you'll become.

You are welcome.

Thanks dear...
You actually spoke to me .. thanks

Listen up mate, i personally feel nothing we say here can actually help you to move on(i might be wrong tho) , but lemme just tell u that u let ur self to be heartbroken,u gave too much to that babe ,yet you yourself need to have a deep chat with your inner self and create a personal plan on how to move on

Bros move on and stop complaining because you saw the handwriting on the wall but you never cared much. You don't have to start asking for advise

Solofresh2:
Don't come back here to tell us how your new woman attitude changed towards you after marriage
Be warned!

Bro, u deserve to be thrown into the deep blue see. Ur existence is a waste of time

Bros op, you're a Simpson but I'll still give you tips on how to move on
1. Cry very well, cry all the cry you want to cry
2. Then listen to heartbreak songs from Aurora to alessia cara
3. Order Amala and gbegiri, make shakki and roundabout, don't forget to add ponmo.
4. Then listen to Mercy chinwo's excess love to remind yourself of God's love and nobody love can be better............

Enjoy and thank me later...
Have a nice day too

Ikemoney:
good evening all, please i need a serious advice from you guys with out insuit, Please.

have been dating this girl for close to 4 years now, and am madly in love with her, at first i never love her, she did everything for me to love which i am now, have done everything a man could do for woman, i assisted her in setting up her business, i alway ensure she is okay,her family knows me.

we have already start making plan on getting married, before now have been having trust issues with her, when ever her phone is close to me or it rings she is not comfortable, anytime i ask questions she knock it off,she will say they are just friends, at a point i was monitoring her, she knew,friends will call me they saw my girl with some one guy ,that same guy usually do call, have ask her who is the guy, she said they just friends , it was clear she was cheating her attitude towards me change, yet i kept cool for peace to reign and for what i feel for her.

To cut the story short, spoke to her family about it and her brother abroad, now she is angry and she does not want the relationship anymore,have beg her have also send people to beg her, she said never that she has move on, am confuse i really do love her, the worst part she block me on watsup and messager and she is not picking my calls, i feel she dislike me now.

when even i rmember my labour in this i feel so bad with my self, i really don't know how to move on.

Op go and give thanks giving in your church, God just save you from stress, abi na her brother wey dey abroad money dey move you?

chatinent:
Your first sentence tho.

The last girl who used it is in prison.

You can never understand if you have not eaten it .

kizit22:
Thanks dear...
You actually spoke to me .. thanks

Thank you.

Hello, just take it easy with yourself and start thanking your God for this timely revelation. I tell you Bro, she doesn't deserve your type. You are such a nice fellow, haven descended so low to develop love for someone you didn't love initially even to the extent that you started supporting her to build her business. You suspected she was cheating which has been confirmed and you still begged her. Had it been you were the one that jilted her, you may probably, be battling now with guilt and praying she doesn't kill herself but thanks be to God it is the other way round.
You want to continue with her still she treated you this way. I tell you again Bros, you are a lucky and blessed guy.
You know what?, go and thank your God for this early revelations because it would have been worse and costly if you had spent more, probably after wedding her or even after one or two kids, then it would be very difficult to bear.
You are a man and can endure this. Just a matter of days, if you put her behind you.
Take my word, she will jam rock somewhere and will come back for you to take her back. Start making up your mind on how not to feel for her again.

ahnie:
You guys are going to settle.i know that feeling.for now stop sending emissaries to her.
Don't call or text her either.its going to be hard I know considering the fact that you're genuinely inlov with her.

And by the way... ignore those peeps calling you a simp.

Emissaries? Settle? Girl!

Ikemoney:
good evening all, please i need a serious advice from you guys with out insuit, Please.

have been dating this girl for close to 4 years now, and am madly in love with her, at first i never love her, she did everything for me to love which i am now, have done everything a man could do for woman, i assisted her in setting up her business, i alway ensure she is okay,her family knows me.

we have already start making plan on getting married, before now have been having trust issues with her, when ever her phone is close to me or it rings she is not comfortable, anytime i ask questions she knock it off,she will say they are just friends, at a point i was monitoring her, she knew,friends will call me they saw my girl with some one guy ,that same guy usually do call, have ask her who is the guy, she said they just friends , it was clear she was cheating her attitude towards me change, yet i kept cool for peace to reign and for what i feel for her.

To cut the story short, spoke to her family about it and her brother abroad, now she is angry and she does not want the relationship anymore,have beg her have also send people to beg her, she said never that she has move on, am confuse i really do love her, the worst part she block me on watsup and messager and she is not picking my calls, i feel she dislike me now.

when even i rmember my labour in this i feel so bad with my self, i really don't know how to move on.

take this advice

don't contact her at all

no calls, texts, chats etc just go cold, flatline, completely so

if you're sure you treated her well and if the thing with this guy doesn't work out, she'll come back begging

at that point, what you do would be up to you and whosoever's advice that will guide you

in my opinion you dodged a bullet but you seem intent on finding that bullet.

See just cut off all communication with her, her friends, her family nad walk away. it will be painful and hard but its doable, with time all wounds will heal. if you want to cry sef, find corner and cry but do not communicate with her in any way. If she reaches out to you (which she will) abeg no pick. just waka dey go front.

Ikemoney:
good evening all, please i need a serious advice from you guys with out insuit, Please.

have been dating this girl for close to 4 years now, and am madly in love with her, at first i never love her, she did everything for me to love which i am now, have done everything a man could do for woman, i assisted her in setting up her business, i alway ensure she is okay,her family knows me.

we have already start making plan on getting married, before now have been having trust issues with her, when ever her phone is close to me or it rings she is not comfortable, anytime i ask questions she knock it off,she will say they are just friends, at a point i was monitoring her, she knew,friends will call me they saw my girl with some one guy ,that same guy usually do call, have ask her who is the guy, she said they just friends , it was clear she was cheating her attitude towards me change, yet i kept cool for peace to reign and for what i feel for her.

To cut the story short, spoke to her family about it and her brother abroad, now she is angry and she does not want the relationship anymore,have beg her have also send people to beg her, she said never that she has move on, am confuse i really do love her, the worst part she block me on watsup and messager and she is not picking my calls, i feel she dislike me now.

when even i rmember my labour in this i feel so bad with my self, i really don't know how to move on.

tiffanyfan:
You can never understand if you have not eaten it .

Lol. I have.

It's not said na. It transpires...but it makes you grow.

Innobee99:
Bro, u deserve to be thrown into the deep blue see. Ur existence is a waste of time

You can continue wailing for all I care

chatinent:
Emissaries? Settle? Girl!

Afar how you dey this hawt afternoon?

chatinent:
Lol. I have.

It's not said na. It transpires...but it makes you grow.

But sometimes you tell ask yourself if you can ever grow out of it......but I believe it will happen one day

Guy, u suffer o

Innobee99:
Bro, urs was 4yrs, mins was 5yrs. Got Navy form to my ex, few days later she came that I should also help her apply for her cousin brother, which I foolishly did.
Got to know few days later that the said cousin brother is her boyfriend.....I run mad
Before then, I got jamb form for her, she got admission, I got her a new phone, part of her rent, money for food stuff. But babe told me she was going to school. Babe spent night with the boyfriend I applied Navy for.
Guy, ur own small when I want to say mine. It's been two years plus she left me heart broken, but I picked myself up again. Met a wonderful lady and we're getting married this December.
I have forgotten all the pains I went through with my ex.



Red flags are waving at u, forget all u have suffered for her sake. U deserve something better. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.
#Peace

tiffanyfan:
But sometimes you tell ask yourself if you can ever grow out of it......but I believe it will happen one day

Lol. It will take time but it will heal.

ahnie:
Afar how you dey this hawt afternoon?

I dey gidigbam. How you dey flex? Make I come fanikayode your place today?

Innobee99:
Bro, u deserve to be thrown into the deep blue see. Ur existence is a waste of time

More of a waste of space if you ask me

chatinent:
I dey gidigbam. How you dey flex? Make I come fanikayode your place today?

Make we chikwendu later,snow-white go rub powder but I dey sure say every where go triplets later.

ahnie:
Make we chikwendu later,snow-white go rub powder but I dey sure say every where go triplets later.

I relate, sister.
E go better sofar God still be godfather and devil area boy.

Laters.

Emmanuel909090:
No apologies anyone who typed this is a fool.

The man did nothing wrong by letting his concerns known.

You are a bigger fool.
First, not minding your business.
Secondly for encouraging his weakness.

Id.iot

Fkforyou:
You are a bigger fool.
First, not minding your business.
Secondly for encouraging his weakness.

Id.iot

You are a useless animal, i wonder how you got online?

His concern is now a weakness baaa? Useless dumb fool as dumb as your father.

Something is glaring and you want him to be a slow poke like an inadequate broom like you, hahaha


Modified: saying i should mind my business, are you not stupid not being able to know that this post is not your useeless business, olodo.

Ikemoney:
good evening all, please i need a serious advice from you guys with out insuit, Please.

have been dating this girl for close to 4 years now, and am madly in love with her, at first i never love her, she did everything for me to love which i am now, have done everything a man could do for woman, i assisted her in setting up her business, i alway ensure she is okay,her family knows me.

we have already start making plan on getting married, before now have been having trust issues with her, when ever her phone is close to me or it rings she is not comfortable, anytime i ask questions she knock it off,she will say they are just friends, at a point i was monitoring her, she knew,friends will call me they saw my girl with some one guy ,that same guy usually do call, have ask her who is the guy, she said they just friends , it was clear she was cheating her attitude towards me change, yet i kept cool for peace to reign and for what i feel for her.

To cut the story short, spoke to her family about it and her brother abroad, now she is angry and she does not want the relationship anymore,have beg her have also send people to beg her, she said never that she has move on, am confuse i really do love her, the worst part she block me on watsup and messager and she is not picking my calls, i feel she dislike me now.

when even i rmember my labour in this i feel so bad with my self, i really don't know how to move on.

Sorry o. Take heart and Please move on with your life. You can read an encouraging post on how to handle being jilted in my blog www.lovelashblog.

Ikemoney:
good evening all, please i need a serious advice from you guys with out insuit, Please.

have been dating this girl for close to 4 years now, and am madly in love with her, at first i never love her, she did everything for me to love which i am now, have done everything a man could do for woman, i assisted her in setting up her business, i alway ensure she is okay,her family knows me.

we have already start making plan on getting married, before now have been having trust issues with her, when ever her phone is close to me or it rings she is not comfortable, anytime i ask questions she knock it off,she will say they are just friends, at a point i was monitoring her, she knew,friends will call me they saw my girl with some one guy ,that same guy usually do call, have ask her who is the guy, she said they just friends , it was clear she was cheating her attitude towards me change, yet i kept cool for peace to reign and for what i feel for her.

To cut the story short, spoke to her family about it and her brother abroad, now she is angry and she does not want the relationship anymore,have beg her have also send people to beg her, she said never that she has move on, am confuse i really do love her, the worst part she block me on watsup and messager and she is not picking my calls, i feel she dislike me now.

when even i rmember my labour in this i feel so bad with my self, i really don't know how to move on.

Bro get yourself some couple of beer or Whisky and have a good indoor drink. A bad woman that may ruin you just left your life and u are begging and crying like a kid. Nor make me vex abeg

Is hard to move on, but please move on, do not let anybody destroy your heart, protect your heart with all your strength, she broke your heart, but do not let her destroy it.




Move on.




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uote author=Ikemoney post=106248277]good evening all, please i need a serious advice from you guys with out insuit, Please.

have been dating this girl for close to 4 years now, and am madly in love with her, at first i never love her, she did everything for me to love which i am now, have done everything a man could do for woman, i assisted her in setting up her business, i alway ensure she is okay,her family knows me.

we have already start making plan on getting married, before now have been having trust issues with her, when ever her phone is close to me or it rings she is not comfortable, anytime i ask questions she knock it off,she will say they are just friends, at a point i was monitoring her, she knew,friends will call me they saw my girl with some one guy ,that same guy usually do call, have ask her who is the guy, she said they just friends , it was clear she was cheating her attitude towards me change, yet i kept cool for peace to reign and for what i feel for her.

To cut the story short, spoke to her family about it and her brother abroad, now she is angry and she does not want the relationship anymore,have beg her have also send people to beg her, she said never that she has move on, am confuse i really do love her, the worst part she block me on watsup and messager and she is not picking my calls, i feel she dislike me now.

when even i rmember my labour in this i feel so bad with my self, i really don't know how to move on.[/quote]

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
I perused through bros op write up while blazing my weed..and I must say bros op is a pussy niggar

what's your definition of a pussy niggar?