Modernizer:

Now I know cholerics are advised to get their opposites say phlegmatic for relationship purposes, but I want to ask the house: c[b]an I a hot tempered man cope with a hot tempered woman?[/b]

You want to set the house on fire? When one is hot, the other is cool so the heat is quenched. If you both have heat then the house will be destroyed because there is no water to quench the fire.

Inside life.

It is well with your soul.

May God be with U (if u believe in him).




Stay blessed, bro.

Hmmm una go dey scatter things for house na when ever e start

babyfaceafrica:
Very bad advise, marriage should be enjoyed, not managed!

I'm not going to tell someone else to dissolve their marriage...

If the dude can manage let him continue with it
If he can't!..his an adult...he should decide what's best for himself

BRATISLAVA:
You've based your life around so much temperament jargon. Who are you, really? Who do you need to be?

Who told you there's anything like a choleric? People are blends. But you seem to revel in your antisocial tendencies as a badge of honor for cholerics. You're probably more of an introvert than a choleric.

Being "highly" cerebral isn't an excuse to be a douchebag without empathy, or to use it as an excuse to be high on volatile temperament. The rest of the world is also highly cerebral and volatile tempered. How do the rest of us learn to live with a partner peacefully?

You are looking for temperaments, but unless you work on yourself you will still split from anyone you're with.

Everyone can change positively. And if they can't, they need drugs for it. Or behavioral therapy.

Reduce your judgmental introversion. People learn empathy.

WORD!!!

Modernizer:


Wahala. Everyone seems to be saying the same thing...is it that big a deal?

Bros na disaster o don't say I didn't warn you.

OJEEMAH:
Good to know you are not poor. Money may not keep her under completely but knowing you are doing well and can have any woman you desire will tame her feministic attributes. However, should you go ahead with the marriage, encourage her career pursuit as long as it doesn't affect family.

ok

Imustreturn:
marry your type before you use your dirty smelling temper and kill someone's child biko

Hello my friend with the hilarious monicker
How re you!

OgaSeun:
Bleep her first with condom...
Then Bleep her next without condom...
Ask her which one sweet her pass...
If she say without condom....
Don't marry her...
E get why.

hmmmmm

Please do not drop her both of you arew perfect match, do not bring a gentle innocent girl into your choleric way of life, you need her, you lack empathy, you have high temper, please you need sombody like your type, if you give her hot, she gives you hot,

She is the will of God for you.



Nonsense I am a choleric, do not go and work on your self.















quote author=Modernizer post=106236982]I won't bore you all with a long write up.

I'm ready to settle down, actually I needed to settle down like yesterday. Problem is, I don't make friends easily and hooking up is even tougher. I don't trust easily.

So I'm talking with this girl that checks all my boxes ( quite a rare feat for my high expectations), but for one thing...she is evidently a choleric. I know because I'm one myself.

The hot temper, impetuousness, some bossy-ness, independent mindedness, low empathy, high ambition...all those tell tale choleric features give it away.

Now I know cholerics are advised to get their opposites say phlegmatic for relationship purposes, but I want to ask the house: can I a hot tempered man cope with a hot tempered woman?
Any people with experience on this here?
Can both of us with low empathy really be compatible?

The adverse statistics coming out of marriage these days scares the sh..t out of me. I don't want any of it.

Should I drop this girl? Or can it work?

Sorry oo...it may sound small but that's my own challenge.

Cc newbornmacho, Ahnie, kestolove[/quote]

Cnach:
Ok before u be dey find one cool girl wey u go carry hot temper kill abi? Bros e no work, na this one fit u and na this one u go marry. Who give u the hotness? Who tell u say e no get stop? Na this one u go marry. God forbid any good girl suffer wetin she no know

Funny you

Modernizer:
I won't bore you all with a long write up.

I'm ready to settle down, actually I needed to settle down like yesterday. Problem is, I don't make friends easily and hooking up is even tougher. I don't trust easily.

So I'm talking with this girl that checks all my boxes ( quite a rare feat for my high expectations), but for one thing...she is evidently a choleric. I know because I'm one myself.

The hot temper, impetuousness, some bossy-ness, independent mindedness, low empathy, high ambition...all those tell tale choleric features give it away.

Now I know cholerics are advised to get their opposites say phlegmatic for relationship purposes, but I want to ask the house: can I a hot tempered man cope with a hot tempered woman?
Any people with experience on this here?
Can both of us with low empathy really be compatible?

The adverse statistics coming out of marriage these days scares the sh..t out of me. I don't want any of it.

Should I drop this girl? Or can it work?

Sorry oo...it may sound small but that's my own challenge.

Cc newbornmacho, Ahnie, kestolove

See its very dangerous to let these zodiac signs etc be your guide.. Its like putting your faith in them.. I can bet you 90% of people who follow those things are unhappy at the endy because its based on a mans like yous thinking and pysocology etc...

You have that and this etc, boss please forget this limitation.. The human mind/nature is is like rubber very flexible.. So believe all this zodiac rubbish to your detriment.. Use it but with sense...

The only thing you need is Love.. If you guys really love.. All this things wouldn't come up.. You've seen wild animals being tamed as pets.. Its love and affection thats used on them.. What more a human being

BRATISLAVA:


You've based your life around so much temperament jargon. Who are you, really? Who do you need to be?

Who told you there's anything like a choleric? People are blends. But you seem to revel in your antisocial tendencies as a badge of honor for cholerics. You're probably more of an introvert than a choleric.

Being "highly" cerebral isn't an excuse to be a douchebag without empathy, or to use it as an excuse to be high on volatile temperament. The rest of the world is also highly cerebral and volatile tempered. How do the rest of us learn to live with a partner peacefully?

You are looking for temperaments, but unless you work on yourself you will still split from anyone you're with.

Everyone can change positively. And if they can't, they need drugs for it. Or behavioral therapy.

Reduce your judgmental introversion. People learn empathy.

Most sensible advice

After mine own up there of course, lol

Wahala

Modernizer:
I won't bore you all with a long write up.

I'm ready to settle down, actually I needed to settle down like yesterday. Problem is, I don't make friends easily and hooking up is even tougher. I don't trust easily.

So I'm talking with this girl that checks all my boxes ( quite a rare feat for my high expectations), but for one thing...she is evidently a choleric. I know because I'm one myself.

The hot temper, impetuousness, some bossy-ness, independent mindedness, low empathy, high ambition...all those tell tale choleric features give it away.

Now I know cholerics are advised to get their opposites say phlegmatic for relationship purposes, but I want to ask the house: can I a hot tempered man cope with a hot tempered woman?
Any people with experience on this here?
Can both of us with low empathy really be compatible?

The adverse statistics coming out of marriage these days scares the sh..t out of me. I don't want any of it.

Should I drop this girl? Or can it work?

Sorry oo...it may sound small but that's my own challenge.

Cc newbornmacho, Ahnie, kestolove

You both can live together peacefully because you have the same temperament. The only problem i see is your offsprings....they will be extreme cholerics ....thats the only reason you are advised to marry your opposites so your offsprings will have a mixture of both personalities....gene is very strong

Modernizer:



sorry...no vex. na advice i dey find.

lol

I'd suggest you don't go ahead with the marriage. You're just like me also and I wouldn't be with someone like me in that aspect.

Modernizer:


But time is against me

It's better to have a failed courtship than a failed marriage.

On another level, you are the one that is more conscious of your characteristic traits, you can decide to be the sheep at times when she's raging like a bull.

Read Tim Lahaye's books on temperament.

Nairaland is not a place for correct relationship advice.

Some people will give you junk counsel.
Also, pray to the Holy Spirit.

Modernizer:



well, i really need to settle down, and im really not the type that eadily gets into relationships. so im wondering how long it would take me to reach this extent again with a new person

Alright guy
Let me be straight to you in my own way .
First I am not a marriage type of person I dont believe it .
No one is after you to get married. I feel you are just putting pressure on yourself.
An hot tempered lady might turn into a volcano after marriage

ahnie:

Hello my friend with the hilarious monicker
How re you!

hey how ya doing? Anyways am good. Trust you doing well?

ahnie:
Hello my friend with the hilarious monicker How re you!

helo ma'am any giveaway for a student? anything would be appreciated no matter how small

GaIaticHorde:
helo ma'am any giveaway for a student?
anything would be appreciated no matter how small

If you do giveaway for me nor be bad thing o.
Infact I go dobale for you.

ahnie:

If you do giveaway for me nor be bad thing o.
Infact I go dobale for you.

ok

GaIaticHorde:
I'm a student, final year tho and things ain't Rosy for me this period. I followed you on the food thread, couldn't comment cos anti spam bot banned me.
so any small kindness from you would be appreciated, okay even if foodstuff sha without monetary gift I'll appreciate oh

Where you dey stay?

ahnie:

Where you dey stay?

Lagos

[quote author=GaIaticHorde post=106264667]
May God raise helpers for you.my hands dey very cold now.

ahnie:

May God raise helpers for you.my hands dey very cold now.

and you dey cool all those fresh foods
okay send food stuff oh

GaIaticHorde:
and you dey cool all those fresh foods
okay send food stuff oh

Guy relax,e nor dey be say e nor dey.
Thanks for the compliments.

ahnie:
Guy relax,e nor dey be say e nor dey. Thanks for the compliments.

kindly edit and remove my quote were I posted my address pls