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Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Guyman02: 4:04pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
Oga please go and see a therapist asap, how else will a mother bond with her baby after an excruciating 9 months with the labour involved. Your past experience is haunting you and sadly you are transferring it to your family which can make life miserable for them. For the sake of your mental health seek counseling and psychotherapy over the abuse you suffered as a child 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by WoundedLamb: 4:05pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
fineboynl: Virtually every mum kissed thier kid this way at a point. You can't use your friend's case to generalize. Why not also stop her from breastfeeding the baby for the fear that he will get used to her breasts? 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Kobojunkie: 4:05pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
NurseJay:Chucky is not a baby! |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by okine4real: 4:05pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
bobontop: its a battle you cant win. you both own the child. you can tell the mother not to kiss her child, pikin when she carry for belle for 9 good months... your reason is justified, but sorry, you are wrong on this one. |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Kestolove(m): 4:05pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
U are mentally ill |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 4:06pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
Especially when she's cheating on you with other men . Mouthe she used to suck other men preek. Anyways you can codedly tell her kissing the baby on the lips can bring unwanted bacteria especially when the baby's immune system is still vulnerable. |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Skoonheid(f): 4:06pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
I really pity your wife. She married a guy with arrested development, a psycho . 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Akharmony: 4:06pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
i dont think you two are friends. Nah arrangee marriage una do abbi |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by ahnie: 4:07pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
Lolz Nairalanders are not smiling.pls pity the op. |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by highoctane: 4:07pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
bobontop:Does she likely have syphilis on her lips? |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by skuribeebo: 4:07pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
Se ur wife get mouth odour ni? |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Aidejay(m): 4:08pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
I don't like that thing. Kissing children on the lips is a no no for me. You're not wrong to be disturbed, it's not a "normal" thing we've grown accustomed culturally and socially. So in respect, you either adjust and accept it or you insist. Any choice you make, you should be able to stand by it no matter the outcome. Kissing on the cheeks, YES. Forehead; YES. Mouth; Never ever. Lemme add that your wife kissing her son on the lips almost has no bearing on wether he might fall victim to molestation (god forbid). Creating an informed and educated environment with enough checks and balances works best. 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by chatinent: 4:08pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
It is almost impossible to stop a mother from kissing her own child; her tearful joy. If it were prohibiting an outsider, it could be a different thing...but a wife? I don't think it can work. Anyways, you may need to explain your ordeal with her. If you are disturbed about the abuse, you may re-decide if you want sb other than your immediate family to live with you. But believe me, the kissing is never an issue from mother to son. If my wife doesn't even do that, I may have a reason to get worried translating it to a dearth of affection towards my child. It is wrong normally to kiss a baby directly to the mouth...but in reality check, everybody in Nigeria was raised that way. |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Bluffly: 4:10pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
Bornsinner7:Absolutely wrong. What happened to kissing on the forehead and cheek. Will it have gone down well if it was a father kissing his baby girl mouth to mouth. 2 Likes |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Clash01: 4:10pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
bobontop: I wonder who marry this kain FOOL 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Kobojunkie: 4:11pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
Aidejay:This is not about society or culture but nature and here you suggest that nature is not normal. Interesting. |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Elporo(m): 4:11pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
Officialgarri: U attend school but learned nothing. Westerners whom you mirror and copy so much .. have a 60% divorce rate. In those divorces; a housewife was never disqualified for receiving 50% of a man's wealth. In fact in the west; housewives have the juiciest divorce settlements. |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Nicerazor(m): 4:11pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
I kiss my son on the lips too but when my wife told me it’s not ideal to kiss baby on the mouth then I stopped. Her reasons : Babies are fragile and can contact bacteria if you kiss them on the mouth and she doesn’t kiss him too. We either peck his check or forehead. Their body can easily is still fragile and can’t find off germs as infants. If I come back from office or gym I have to wash my hands or use sanitizer before carrying him. This is health concerns/hygiene practices and not issue of sexual abuse. Try to explain to her calmly and let her see reasons. 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by ehinmowo: 4:11pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
bobontop: I think you are wrong. Those things strengthen mother-children bond |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by RockhouseCafe: 4:11pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
Officialgarri: So full time house wife contributes nothings? Do you know how much day care pays in Australia/Canada/USA? Taking care of children, cooking and house cleaning is more stressful than most jobs men do and l am a man. Disabuse your mind! 3 Likes |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Kobojunkie: 4:11pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
Bluffly:Good fathers have no qualms kissing their girls on the mouth either. https://www.quora.com/At-what-age-should-fathers-stop-kissing-daughters-on-the-lips-Or-was-it-ever-appropriate |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Gudbadguy: 4:12pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
Hahahaha first time I'm hearing dat men suffer trauma with anything related to sex.most men will look back at the experience happily and wish to continue in the present 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Bluffly: 4:13pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
Bornsinner7: |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Kobojunkie: 4:13pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
Elporo:The Nigerian housewife receives what in the case of divorce? 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by mibrims: 4:14pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
bobontop:Boy or girl, kissing a toddler directly to their mouth is not hygienic, but your case with your family is different here., i is think you need help Pls let mother and child be |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Gate050: 4:14pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
bobontop:YES! You're wrong. You wife can do anything to your son and whatever she do, she knows is the right thing. Ok listen! I was once sick my mom bath me and I was 31 then with this long prick between my legs my sisters see it as normal. Can my dad do the same to my sister 24 of age? No! So let your wife do whatever. 2 Likes |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Bluffly: 4:14pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:It is not about being good or not but perceptions, thinking and judgement that woukd be passed nost especially by thier wives and the general public |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Kobojunkie: 4:15pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
Gudbadguy:Sexual abuse happens regularly to males too, right there in that Nigeria you live in. That you are blind to it does not mean it does not exist. |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by ikdaddy01(m): 4:15pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
Officialgarri:Gbam. I was wondering same thing |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by ab1x: 4:15pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
You are sick to say the least but she can use her mouth to clear your son mucus when his nose is blocked as a result of cold. |
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Kobojunkie: 4:16pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
Bluffly:Perceptions of whom? Those in the household or those who you believe are out to judge your every moves? People will always have an opinion but so long as your conscience is clear, why worry? 1 Like |
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