Bornsinner7:


Everybody loves the feel of the lips of babies bro.. don't be mad..

Romanoff:
You need to see a therapist, you're obviously still dealing with trauma from your abuse.

There's nothing wrong with a mother kissing her baby in the mouth, you're just projecting your trauma on your wife and child.

Please, deal with it before it ruins you.

BigJoe19:
Good fathers lol.

descarado:
Even animals kiss their loved ones on the mouth

Tomorrow you will tell her to stop undressing before that baby too.

Decryptor:

What about a father kissing his baby daughter in the lips?

Kobojunkie:
So long as your mind is not clogged with filth towards your own child, you are good.

LilMissFavvy:
As for me I don't like it. I wouldn't want anyone to kiss my child in the mouth, neither would I kiss my child in the mouth. Deep motherly hugs and caring for my child is enough for me to show affection. For peace to reign you have to wait till your wife gets tired of kissing the child, or you keep telling her you don't like it.

fineboynl:
My friend who is almost 40years now him and her mother still kiss in the mouth. He is a spoiled child. Who sleep with anything in skirts. He doesn't even select class.

Then when he was 35. He was sick and I when to see him. I saw the mother kissing him In the mouth. It was so disgusted.

Your kid will get use to that kissing which is bad

BigJoe19:
Why didn't you say good mother's for the other case, it is only when men are involved clauses are attached like good father. Have a nice day.

LilMissFavvy:
As for me I don't like it. I wouldn't want anyone to kiss my child in the mouth, neither would I kiss my child in the mouth. Deep motherly hugs and caring for my child is enough for me to show affection. For peace to reign you have to wait till your wife gets tired of kissing the child, or you keep telling her you don't like it.

Romanoff:
You need to see a therapist, you're obviously still dealing with trauma from your abuse.

There's nothing wrong with a mother kissing her baby in the mouth, you're just projecting your trauma on your wife and child.

Please, deal with it before it ruins you.

bobontop:
My wife is fond of kissing my 6months boy in the mouth. I personally don't like this and I have told her to stop it but she refused.

This issue in causing a serious argument in my home and I want to take a serious action since she has refused to stop it.

Please I need advice from experienced parents.

I was abused sexual as a child by a cousin staying with us and there are cases of incest around me. I don't want any of this to happen to my son.

The teenage girl staying with us always sees my wife kissing my son in the mouth and I am afraid she my copy it and start doing it.

Please am I wrong? Am I over reacting? Is it a normal practice? Please advise me.

jessyzin:
Please be calm, there’s nothing wrong with it.

I am a mother of 3 beautiful children and most times I kiss them on their cheek and also kiss my little baby on her lips it doesn’t mean anything to me, that’s the way I show love to them and make them feel safe.

I really do understand your point, seat your wife down and discuss with her about everything that has happen to you in the past and why you don’t like her kissing your baby if she’s an understanding woman she will change

N/B: Please it’s not that serious, just me be calm.

annyz:

What can be said If reverse is the case here?

The wife reports that she doesn't like how her husband kisses her 10 month old daughter in the mouth even in front of their little house boy.

Please advice

Decryptor:


What about a father kissing his baby daughter in the lips?

ahnie:
Which Kain mumu talk is this? you're stopping a mother from kissing her own child.
Op it's a form of endearment.

You de para for common kiss,what of me wey dey Waka naked for house nko,if say you be my husband you for don kill me be that nau.

All these kind authoritative husbands sef...may God airpus.

Officialgarri:
You speak like one who is married to a full time house wife who contributes nothing to the house other than cook, sex and take care of the baby.

I mean, what do you mean by "my son" as though the child belongs to you alone while she's only there to breast feed him and nothing more...

Kobojunkie:
You tell a mother not to kiss her own baby, from her own womb, in the mouth, why?

If you need to seek counseling for the abuse you suffered as as child, then go get it quickly. But to try to restrict a woman from showing love and affection to her own baby because you were abused is a bit too much.

And using the teenage girl living with you as reason to scold your wife is ridiculous. Tell the girl she is not to do the same to the child, not scold your wife for showing affection as a mother to her own offspring.

AfroKnight:


Your comment is a breath of fresh air on that first page.

I can’t believe they were all criticising OP for raising a valid concern! It was disgusting, the way they brushed aside his personal trauma. One unfortunate soul actually told him to go and deal with it. How can they tell sexual abuse victims to go deal with the trauma so dismissively.

Bobontop listen to the lady I quoted. Do not relent in expressing your displeasure and be vigilant. Your wife is acting like the child is hers but that boy also belongs to you. You have a say in how she raises your son.

And your concerns are reasonable.

bobontop:
My wife is fond of kissing my 6months boy in the mouth. I personally don't like this and I have told her to stop it but she refused.

This issue in causing a serious argument in my home and I want to take a serious action since she has refused to stop it.

Please I need advice from experienced parents.

I was abused sexual as a child by a cousin staying with us and there are cases of incest around me. I don't want any of this to happen to my son.

The teenage girl staying with us always sees my wife kissing my son in the mouth and I am afraid she my copy it and start doing it.

Please am I wrong? Am I over reacting? Is it a normal practice? Please advise me.

Kestolove:
U are mentally ill

Kobojunkie:
Kissing is a cultural construct? You lost me there.

annyz:


What can be said If reverse is the case here?

The wife reports that she doesn't like how her husband kisses her 10 month old daughter in the mouth even in front of their little house boy.

Please advice

Decryptor:


What about a father kissing his baby daughter in the lips?

Great6Pack:
You dey Waka naked for house with children? Some of you people will not understand until it is too late. Try read more about pornography at home

You

Bornsinner7:
I see nothing wrong as it is her child.. that you were sexualy abused have left a scar in your memory but you have to deal with it..

Maybe you should let her understand your point of view rather than just prohibiting her authoritatively from the act...

Everybody loves the feel of the lips of babies bro.. don't be mad..