₦airaland Forum

doyin01:
Did those men sleep with themselves??why not call the women to order too??
Is that not hypocrisy??

It is now obvious that you are not trying to condemn the paternity fraud,you are just finding a way to justify it..

Kobojunkie:
The crime is likely commited against the victim by another married man.

AmazonTopaz:
The post is very very necessary to call out the one sided hypocrisy in men.

And we are saying the same thing cheating is bad I never justified or supported it.
I only made a case on another angle we don't often talk about.

DMerciful:
That's if you make the woman involved a dummy without will. So everything will now fall to the men if you accept that the woman is completely dull. Is this the case?

BRATISLAVA:
[s]Well, primarily because it concerns all they think about as vaginometers.

The thought that a woman dares do what men do is outrageous and makes them emotional. It is only then they care about fidelity. It's just a reflex reaction.

Some of the men talking so much about paternity fraud and DNA tests aren't even the sons of their fathers. The way they have instituted baby mama-ism is the same way they will later institute paternity fraud.

Male on male wickedness. Men are never their own best friends[/s].

AmazonTopaz:
I called the women to order.My post is directed at those men who don't see wrong in men committing infidelity and sometimes making excuses for them.
It is the hypocrisy of the men I choose to focus on in my thread.
And I am not justifying paternity fraud I only said paternity fraud will continue to exist because men are not held accountable for cheating.

AmazonTopaz:
You are the daft one here and the one who is not in anyway okay at all.

Now go back and read from the beginning this time slowly try to comprehend maybe then you will get the message I am passing across.

Don't be outraged over paternity fraud when you men cheat without remorse

Lashist:
Lets understand your foolishness together dear . Now i am man A in Lagos...there is man B in delta and man C in Osun and man D in Enugu. I don't know these 3 men at all but let's assume they cheat on their gfs or wives...so bcus they cheat and i dont, i should keep quiet and train another man's child when i find out bcus there other men are cheating ...madame go and see a doctor

AmazonTopaz:
You are the daft one here and the one who is not in anyway okay at all.

Now go back and read from the beginning this time slowly try to comprehend maybe then you will get the message I am passing across.

Don't be outraged over paternity fraud when you men cheat without remorse

Lashist:
Lets understand your foolishness together dear . Now i am man A in Lagos...there is man B in delta and man C in Osun and man D in Enugu. I don't know these 3 men at all but let's assume they cheat on their gfs or wives...so bcus they cheat and i dont, i should keep quiet and train another man's child when i find out bcus there other men are cheating ...madame go and see a doctor

Kobojunkie:
Why should a man enter into marriage with the motive of adultery and having another man raise a child born of his affairs?

That is the question to ask in this.

Verysmart101:
Why will the woman pin it on her husband instead of saying the truth and facing the consequences? Answer pls

AmazonTopaz:
First and foremost I don't support cheating and deception I can never support deception or paternity fraud but I wonder why some men are outraged over paternity fraud.

We live in a society or some of us grew up in a society that gave excuse or justified infidelity amongst men under the guise of "men are polygamous in nature"they forget that men can be used to refer to women too and that polygamous is a gender neutral word for men it is polygyny for women it is polyandry.

When you justify infidelity or adultery you reap paternity fraud because these married men sleep with married women who are wives of other men who are at the receiving end when it comes to paternity fraud.

You men cannot always eat your cake and have it you feel bad when cheated on and call women who commit adultery all sorts of names but hail men when they cheat on women what happened to what is good for the goose is good for the gander.Some people seem to forget that the cheating men don't sleep with themselves they sleep with people's wives and girlfriends too so maybe that shows that women are polygamous in nature and two can play a game.

You cannot be preaching morality and chastity on women while failing to hold yourselves to account as well it doesn't work that way because it is a small world afterall if boys are not taught morality, decency and chastity we will continue to hear tales of paternity fraud and infidelity.

As we try to shame and tell young girls not to follow married men let's not forget to tell young boys and married men to leave married women alone it is the same polygamous men that are sleeping with these women and another man is at the receiving end of this disaster men don't sleep with themselves they sleep with women

As for the married men and women depending on your vows if you promised to be faithful try to be faithful and stop cheating beautiful women and handsome men will never finish in this word try to stick to one be contented,committed and try to learn discipline.


I think we should ask men why they are outraged

olarid01:
Why back to sender madam? Didn't you infer that there's nothing wrong with it. Hypocrite

Kobojunkie:
Why does the man also not fess up to fathering children outside of the same marital home and face the consequences?

AmazonTopaz:
First and foremost I don't support cheating and deception I can never support deception or paternity fraud but I wonder why some men are outraged over paternity fraud.

We live in a society or some of us grew up in a society that gave excuse or justified infidelity amongst men under the guise of "men are polygamous in nature"they forget that men can be used to refer to women too and that polygamous is a gender neutral word for men it is polygyny for women it is polyandry.

When you justify infidelity or adultery you reap paternity fraud because these married men sleep with married women who are wives of other men who are at the receiving end when it comes to paternity fraud.

You men cannot always eat your cake and have it you feel bad when cheated on and call women who commit adultery all sorts of names but hail men when they cheat on women what happened to what is good for the goose is good for the gander.Some people seem to forget that the cheating men don't sleep with themselves they sleep with people's wives and girlfriends too so maybe that shows that women are polygamous in nature and two can play a game.

You cannot be preaching morality and chastity on women while failing to hold yourselves to account as well it doesn't work that way because it is a small world afterall if boys are not taught morality, decency and chastity we will continue to hear tales of paternity fraud and infidelity.




I think we should ask men why they are outraged

AmazonTopaz:
First and foremost I don't support cheating and deception I can never support deception or paternity fraud but I wonder why some men are outraged over paternity fraud.

We live in a society or some of us grew up in a society that gave excuse or justified infidelity amongst men under the guise of "men are polygamous in nature"they forget that men can be used to refer to women too and that polygamous is a gender neutral word for men it is polygyny for women it is polyandry.

When you justify infidelity or adultery you reap paternity fraud because these married men sleep with married women who are wives of other men who are at the receiving end when it comes to paternity fraud.

You men cannot always eat your cake and have it you feel bad when cheated on and call women who commit adultery all sorts of names but hail men when they cheat on women what happened to what is good for the goose is good for the gander.Some people seem to forget that the cheating men don't sleep with themselves they sleep with people's wives and girlfriends too so maybe that shows that women are polygamous in nature and two can play a game.

You cannot be preaching morality and chastity on women while failing to hold yourselves to account as well it doesn't work that way because it is a small world afterall if boys are not taught morality, decency and chastity we will continue to hear tales of paternity fraud and infidelity.

As we try to shame and tell young girls not to follow married men let's not forget to tell young boys and married men to leave married women alone it is the same polygamous men that are sleeping with these women and another man is at the receiving end of this disaster men don't sleep with themselves they sleep with women

As for the married men and women depending on your vows if you promised to be faithful try to be faithful and stop cheating beautiful women and handsome men will never finish in this word try to stick to one be contented,committed and try to learn discipline.


I think we should ask men why they are outraged

AmazonTopaz:
First and foremost I don't support cheating and deception I can never support deception or paternity fraud but I wonder why some men are outraged over paternity fraud.

We live in a society or some of us grew up in a society that gave excuse or justified infidelity amongst men under the guise of "men are polygamous in nature"they forget that men can be used to refer to women too and that polygamous is a gender neutral word for men it is polygyny for women it is polyandry.

When you justify infidelity or adultery you reap paternity fraud because these married men sleep with married women who are wives of other men who are at the receiving end when it comes to paternity fraud.

You men cannot always eat your cake and have it you feel bad when cheated on and call women who commit adultery all sorts of names but hail men when they cheat on women what happened to what is good for the goose is good for the gander.Some people seem to forget that the cheating men don't sleep with themselves they sleep with people's wives and girlfriends too so maybe that shows that women are polygamous in nature and two can play a game.

You cannot be preaching morality and chastity on women while failing to hold yourselves to account as well it doesn't work that way because it is a small world afterall if boys are not taught morality, decency and chastity we will continue to hear tales of paternity fraud and infidelity.

As we try to shame and tell young girls not to follow married men let's not forget to tell young boys and married men to leave married women alone it is the same polygamous men that are sleeping with these women and another man is at the receiving end of this disaster men don't sleep with themselves they sleep with women

As for the married men and women depending on your vows if you promised to be faithful try to be faithful and stop cheating beautiful women and handsome men will never finish in this word try to stick to one be contented,committed and try to learn discipline.


I think we should ask men why they are outraged

AmazonTopaz:
First and foremost I don't support cheating and deception I can never support deception or paternity fraud but I wonder why some men are outraged over paternity fraud.

We live in a society or some of us grew up in a society that gave excuse or justified infidelity amongst men under the guise of "men are polygamous in nature"they forget that men can be used to refer to women too and that polygamous is a gender neutral word for men it is polygyny for women it is polyandry.

When you justify infidelity or adultery you reap paternity fraud because these married men sleep with married women who are wives of other men who are at the receiving end when it comes to paternity fraud.

You men cannot always eat your cake and have it you feel bad when cheated on and call women who commit adultery all sorts of names but hail men when they cheat on women what happened to what is good for the goose is good for the gander.Some people seem to forget that the cheating men don't sleep with themselves they sleep with people's wives and girlfriends too so maybe that shows that women are polygamous in nature and two can play a game.

You cannot be preaching morality and chastity on women while failing to hold yourselves to account as well it doesn't work that way because it is a small world afterall if boys are not taught morality, decency and chastity we will continue to hear tales of paternity fraud and infidelity.

As we try to shame and tell young girls not to follow married men let's not forget to tell young boys and married men to leave married women alone it is the same polygamous men that are sleeping with these women and another man is at the receiving end of this disaster men don't sleep with themselves they sleep with women

As for the married men and women depending on your vows if you promised to be faithful try to be faithful and stop cheating beautiful women and handsome men will never finish in this word try to stick to one be contented,committed and try to learn discipline.


I think we should ask men why they are outraged

sanpipita:
People just don't like being at the receiving end, funny most men say they are polygamous in nature and can have many partners act surprised this happens.

If men are polygamous, who do you think they are doing it with?

sanpipita:
People just don't like being at the receiving end, funny most men say they are polygamous in nature and can have many partners act surprised this happens.

If men are polygamous, who do you think they are doing it with?

sparko1:
Firstly, paternity fraud has nothing to do with who you sleep with, many married people cheat, they use protection, morning after pill, this is not news.

The fraud implies giving another man child to someone else to protect your infidelity, a married woman having unprotected sex means she wants to get pregnant, if you have unprotected sex with anyone else apart from your husband, be prepared to give the said man the child.

Both of you should be responsible for the child wellbeing, don't deprived the father the opportunity to call his child son/daughter because you want to protect your marriage, if you really want to protect your marriage, stay the f*** away from another man.

The party with the most burden, should be more careful, if you think, just because he can sleep around, you should, then do and face the consequences squarely.