FutureIsFemale:
Do you know what's funny about this DNA saga?

90% of those who glamour for it can't event afford a square meal.

Let's see how it goes.

Clamour

This man is a SIMPle man

ume1000:


That's what society expect from men

Man up and eat shit

Man up and leave and leave ur house for a woman cause u re divorce

Man up when u re hit by a woman

Man up when u re broke

Society expects men to act like the workers and soldiers in a ant system

I say to hell with society

Generational curse to any man who man up

Dem Papas na Trans, that na why dem they think say that na sign of a Man.

FutureIsFemale:
Oh! What a relief. Finally a man who uses his brain has been unveiled.

NB: I don't support infidelity.

My concern is the emotional breakdown of the kids and the family at large.

A man who uses his brain indeed.
He gave his own opinion and that's okay.

People who see the need for paternity test should go ahead with it, and ready to face the consequences.

This one does not have sense.

So you will now be taking care of someone's child for lets say 20 years and one person will now come and claim.

NEVER!

So if you suspect such,you should not bothered to go for DNA until when you are old and someone else come to claim all you've laboured for.
If I doubt my wife sincerity, I will do secret DNA to let my mind be at rest. If the result is favorable, I will not disclose I did to my wife. But if otherwise, we shall have to settle it.

FutureIsFemale:
Oh! What a relief. Finally a man who uses his brain has been unveiled.

NB: I don't support infidelity.

My concern is the emotional breakdown of the kids and the family at large.

Hmmmm I will keep this comment of your for your future husband cos u sound somehow.
Hmmmmm
Is like.......

Bookhub:
Simps everywhere tuehhhhh..

Must u chose to sound stupid always

AmazonTopaz:
Lol abeg leave them to be making noise online how many of dem fit even afford to pay for DNA test.


Why is this intelligent man telling them the obvious please let them find out their truths if e go well for them congratulations the ones wey e nor go well for let them not be suicidal.Also they should also be subjected to DNA test too some of them are not from their fathers loins since everything wan scatter let it just scatter finish.

Even in the olden days men fathered children that were not theirs let the tracing begin everyone of them asking for a DNA test should be tested to see if they are their fathers sons.

Which kind okpo talk be this?

computer0810:

Must u chose to sound stupid always

You are the one sounding stupid here you donkey.

Beebah2000:
So, e dey support women way dey born another man pikin for their husband house, abi?
This one no no how the thing go do u for body when u find out say na another man pikin u dey take care of.

then no need to marry na, make we dey pregnant other people wife. This guy no dey think with im brain

AmazonTopaz:
Lol abeg leave them to be making noise online how many of dem fit even afford to pay for DNA test.


Why is this intelligent man telling them the obvious please let them find out their truths if e go well for them congratulations the ones wey e nor go well for let them not be suicidal.Also they should also be subjected to DNA test too some of them are not from their fathers loins since everything wan scatter let it just scatter finish.

Even in the olden days men fathered children that were not theirs let the tracing begin everyone of them asking for a DNA test should be tested to see if they are their fathers sons.

Why this thing dey pepper you like this.I don't think its ordinary,lol

Magnoliaa:


Ehn. You too I like you before. But that particular comment was for Rotimi Salami.

This one is your own now. And I don't think I even have to say it... It's obvious I enjoy reading your thoughts in your comments.

Maybe you should just hook up?Since you are into eachother and you dislike men.Lol

KarinaLove:
Hmmm...
It's takes the grace of God to keep training a child after discovering the child is not yours.
We women can care of children that aren't ours.
Don't know about Men.
I'm single so what do I even know.
Over to the Married Women and Men.

The grace of God to raise a child that is not yours? Interesting... so all those who adopt what are they? Automatically Sons of God?

NigeriaIsGreat:
have you conducted a DNA to know who your true father is?

Some of those men fighting to conduct DNA test on their wards ain't the biological product of their father but they don't know

Na wa ooo!

He's making sense though, honestly, even though I can't fault any man who wants to go for a DNA test. We're wired differently, to each their own. I once read a story of a man based in America who wanted to bring his kids over to America, but discovered that one of his kids (the first born) wasn't his, via the Immigrant Visa Application DNA tests conducted on his kids. The man divorced the woman but didn't let go of the kid. His reason being that he couldn't just sever the lifelong father-son relationship between him and the kid and expose the kid to lifelong psychological trauma, since he's the only father the kid had known all his life. The man did a very mature, rational thing, but then again, we're wired differently. Vast majority of men will not do that, and I also can't blame them. Now, to all the men who are foaming at the mouth and who badly want to conduct DNA tests on their kids, are you ready for the emotional and psychological meltdown and trauma you will experience if the DNA tests eventually expose the fact that all the kids you've called your own all your life aren't yours? I'm not saying you shouldn't conduct DNA tests on your kids, but take it easy and think rationally.

SirMichael1:
Lmao. If I have the money for DNA test, I'll do it on my child when he/she is 1 years old. I won't train another man's child only for my wife, out of borderline madness and in her brief spite of anger, tell me that my 15 years old child isn't mine. Lol. I'll never ever do that. I don't have to wait till the child is all grown, then someone comes to claim him, then I'll begin to run helter skelter, running DNA test, only to still meet the heartbreak I was avoiding since he was an infant.

There are laws in Nigeria that basically give custody to the man who raised the child, in marriage,
over its biological father.

A female OP..

NigeriaIsGreat:
Salami is right here. Have you also conducted a DNA on yourself with your father to know who your biological father is?
Or you assume you are a true son of your father without a DNA test?

ROFLMAO

...

Fvckyouall:

I would still do the DNA test, you useless women can you pick up a child from the street and take that child as your own, all of Una and your pussy wet dey leak would be kicked out to the streets where you belong.
I can't take care of a child that would leave later to go and find his real parents in the future

And you ladies don't have sense all this display would only make men ginger more for this DNA test

So you are willing to throw all your years and investment away like that?

lifenija:

so step mums n their evil ways is part of taking care of children not theirs shey

help me ask am!

Myhusband:

You don't even need to do DNA to know who your father is/was, the genetic, the resemblance, I do most of things he does, he loves music for example I do too, he love staying alone reading, I do too, he hates seeing soldier ants, I hate seeing it too among others

Wrong! Resemblance, even of the behaviorial kind, alone does not resolve that which a DNA test can. If you are fathered by someone from the very same clan or compound that the father that raised you is from, you can easily have similar features and mannerisms as the one who raised you.

FutureIsFemale:
Oh! What a relief. Finally a man who uses his brain has been unveiled.

NB: I don't support infidelity.

My concern is the emotional breakdown of the kids and the family at large.

. So you can cheat and still have peace of mind. To hell with emotional breakdown. A fraud is a fraud and must be treated as such.

Kobojunkie:
Wrong! Resemblance, even of the behaviorial kind, alone does not resolve that which a DNA test can. If you are fathered by someone from the very same clan or compound that the father that raised you is from, you can easily have similar features and mannerisms as the one who raised you.

is a dead discussion. anyone questioning the paternity of his father should meet his/her mom and stop disturbing the public with their family problem

kazyhm:
DNA after or before someone start dragging a child with you. What is the difference ?
Stupid actors acting stupid stories.

Save money and worry.

Also, Some Nigerian traditional laws also have provisions to protect against an outsider comibg in to drag a child with you, the one who raised your child.

Please tell that to the American embassy and the likes.

You don’t know that majority of paternal frauds were accidental findings.

You should’ve given small advise to the gender that intentionally give the wrong children to the wrong fathers. By then it will make little sense.

We can’t shut down our reasoning to satisfy emotions.

If you’re in the habit of sleeping around with people’s wives, change can begin with you.

Kind regards.

FutureIsFemale:
Do you know what's funny about this DNA saga?

90% of those who glamour for it can't event afford a square meal.

Let's see how it goes.

So...cos they can't afford three square meal, they should not go for it if given an opportunity, like a 75% discount? Is that your point?

AmazonTopaz:
Lol abeg leave them to be making noise online how many of dem fit even afford to pay for DNA test.


Why is this intelligent man telling them the obvious please let them find out their truths if e go well for them congratulations the ones wey e nor go well for let them not be suicidal.Also they should also be subjected to DNA test too some of them are not from their fathers loins since everything wan scatter let it just scatter finish.

Even in the olden days men fathered children that were not theirs let the tracing begin everyone of them asking for a DNA test should be tested to see if they are their fathers sons.

. Cheaters gang spotted. Game up for you guys.

Oh

Oyinlomobambam:

My mom is over 80yrs, she married at the age of 18th as a virgin...

Tho, I would love my dad to ask for DNA but I don't think he's interested...
But him not interested doesn't mean I should follow his step.
My dad have 10 wife's, would you advice me to do same thing as him?
Let always use our brain and flow with happenings in our society

Doesn't change anything. This problem has been in existence since the time of our ancestors and there are even cultural laws that were set up from back then which to this day are meant to bestow custody over all children in the marriage to the husband.

So age of your parents mean nothing here.