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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by lexy2014: 4:55pm On Oct 01, 2021
GOFRONT:
Everybody be blaming the lady......But they never blamed the shameless he goat of a man who neither regard his wife as anybody nor respect his marriage to start with by calling his raging penis to order.......

If it his wife that got pregnant by another man from outside marriage, then the man would start crying DNA upandan.....

is it d "shameless goat" that is coming to nairaland to look for sympathy and advice? when d lady was banging d married man, did she come to nairaland to announce it or to ask anyone?

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Kelvin30286063(m): 4:55pm On Oct 01, 2021
Hmmm this gender!
Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by samwillyco1(m): 4:56pm On Oct 01, 2021
Congratulations

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by baralatie(m): 4:56pm On Oct 01, 2021
CSTRR:
Welcome to single motherhood.
Una plenty for the club.

I pray you get a daughter so you can advise her from your experience not to open leg for a man that has not gone home to see her parents.
Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by AsawanaDgreat: 4:56pm On Oct 01, 2021
You know exactly what to do auntie

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by man19king(m): 4:56pm On Oct 01, 2021
Why will you say that you don't know that the man is married?

What sort of lie is that?

You don't need any advice because you are not ready to change; you are insisting that you want to keep the baby and the man.

God will judge you.
Darhmmy:
We used to be lovers back in uni , We broke up at some point and lost contact. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other.

We started dating and everything seemed nice at first. He never told me he was married. After months of dating , i started to get suspicious as he wouldn't let me visit his home , instead he was always coming to mine and meeting up at hotels. We had a big fight about it and he finally told me the truth. He kept on pleading and asking that we continue dating. I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him.

I am 2 months pregnant and he has been avoiding me. He calls just once in two days and has told me to do whatever I want with the pregnancy , that he is fine with my decisions. I want to keep him and the baby and I'm scared he may ghost up on me. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by dingbang(m): 4:57pm On Oct 01, 2021
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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Arizoner: 4:57pm On Oct 01, 2021
Promotions:
I won't judge you..my advice for you is to keep the baby, get yourself a good job and life, move on from the man and pray God will bless you with a man that will take you and your child as his own... keep away from married men
It's people like you that encourage these girls in their immorality

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by vokon2555(m): 4:57pm On Oct 01, 2021
appishani1:
You know he is married, but you still choose to continue fucking him foolishly expecting you not to be pregnant one day.
You enjoy fucking him, please enjoy your pregnancy.
.
She didn't know that the guy is married nah

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Karmaisme(m): 4:57pm On Oct 01, 2021
Darhmmy:
We used to be lovers back in uni , We broke up at some point and lost contact. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other.

We started dating and everything seemed nice at first. He never told me he was married. After months of dating , i started to get suspicious as he wouldn't let me visit his home , instead he was always coming to mine and meeting up at hotels. We had a big fight about it and he finally told me the truth. He kept on pleading and asking that we continue dating. I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him.

I am 2 months pregnant and he has been avoiding me. He calls just once in two days and has told me to do whatever I want with the pregnancy , that he is fine with my decisions. I want to keep him and the baby and I'm scared he may ghost up on me. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.

You are at fault here, you were blinded by love to the extent that you failed to see clearly, you need to lay low for the time being, you don't know what the wife can do to you if you contact them now.

I hope you can bear the economic and the emotional responsibility if the guy man ghosts you.

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by CSTRR: 4:58pm On Oct 01, 2021
It's also clear you don't value yourself.

The ladies I have slept with will never do it in a hotel.
They will tell me that they are not olosho.

If it is not my house, they ain't doing.

But for you, na for different hotels the man dey wire you.

And you didn't care that there was something wrong.

Na small you take better pass runs girl.

Abeg just dey your baby mama level.
You are not a wife material.

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Elzakzaky: 4:59pm On Oct 01, 2021
OnlyDeCapPlease:


So you still open yansh for him after he told you that he was married? Married to a fellow woman like you??

Welcome to single motherhood grin
She will give birth to her mum's last born
Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Arizoner: 4:59pm On Oct 01, 2021
Klass99:
cheesy

Is this story true or generated to see people's reactions? True or false, my take Darhmmy is that you should leave his wife and the rest of his family out of your mess.

If you are old enough to sleep with someone and get pregnant, you should be mature and responsible enough to handle what comes next without pulling others into the cyclone of your drama.

Did you contact his wife or other family members when you were meeting up in hotels or hanging out at your place? Now, you want to contact external parties because you are pregnant. What are exactly are you expecting or hoping for? Guy man don dey ghost you small small, leaving the consequences and decision to you alone.

If I were in your situation I will start preparing for single parenting while exploring options on how to increase my income because child care is not cheap (that's if I want the child) and if I don't want the child I will have the baby and give him up for adoption while I make money in the process as well.

You have sense. marry me
Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by endsarrrs(f): 5:00pm On Oct 01, 2021
GOFRONT:
Everybody be blaming the lady......But they never blamed the shameless he goat of a man who neither regard his wife as anybody nor respect his marriage to start with by calling his raging penis to order.......

If it his wife that got pregnant by another man from outside marriage, then the man would start crying DNA upandan.....
WTF, We can't just believe the op story just like that. Don't you think we need to hear from the guy?!

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by takimsipho(m): 5:00pm On Oct 01, 2021
[quote author=Kobojunkie post=106348072] I didn't say you absolved the man either. I said you are choosing here to blame the woman for the fault that is the man's. undecided

The moment this woman become pregnant for this man, she became part of that family meaning she has business with the man's family and wife. She can and she probably should text or call the wife so she learns of what her husband has been up to. undecided
[/quote[b]]I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him[/b]. Abeg na who talk this statement? Why do you make it sound as if she is a zombie and has no idea of what's going on. Do you know how many other single guys that have approached her during her relationship with the married man and she rejected them. Wait have you not seen were girls praise their sugar daddy for the gifts and money he showers on them? Baba babes are not the type of people you want to support blindly oooh. If you watch the Meyers show, they will shout and talk and talk and the DNA test will confirm they are lying. Support a girl at your own peril
Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by ShadowM(m): 5:00pm On Oct 01, 2021
Hi.

First of all I'd like to apologize for all the rude comments you got. I understand you love him that's why you want to keep him and the baby. I have questions for you.

-If he really wanted you or the baby do you think he would have ghosted on you?

- Do you have the means and capabilities to take care of the child?

- And above all. Will you love the child regardless of what happens?

I suggest you speak with your parents or people you trust the most. The Deed has already been done.

Please raise the child and morally and uprightly as you can should you decide to keep it. May God bless and see you through this trying time.

Also NEVER EVER make the same mistake you did before. Good luck


Darhmmy:
We used to be lovers back in uni , We broke up at some point and lost contact. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other.

We started dating and everything seemed nice at first. He never told me he was married. After months of dating , i started to get suspicious as he wouldn't let me visit his home , instead he was always coming to mine and meeting up at hotels. We had a big fight about it and he finally told me the truth. He kept on pleading and asking that we continue dating. I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him.

I am 2 months pregnant and he has been avoiding me. He calls just once in two days and has told me to do whatever I want with the pregnancy , that he is fine with my decisions. I want to keep him and the baby and I'm scared he may ghost up on me. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by tonyashburton: 5:01pm On Oct 01, 2021
Men are TERRIBLE human beings sha.You cheated on your wife with your ex-fling who you kept your marital status away from till she developed feelings for you.
You couldn't even resist having unprotected sex with her till you got her pregnant.
Now you've developed a conscience and asked her to do whatever she wants with the pregnancy.
Now to you.My sister you should have dropped him like a hot rock when he finally admitted to being married.You have ended up with a pregnancy you don't know what to do with.All the good vibes you got from being with him has turned to pangs of shame.
I really feel for you because I don't support abortion under the circumstances.

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by nedekid: 5:01pm On Oct 01, 2021
Darhmmy:
We used to be lovers back in uni , We broke up at some point and lost contact. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other.

We started dating and everything seemed nice at first. He never told me he was married. After months of dating , i started to get suspicious as he wouldn't let me visit his home , instead he was always coming to mine and meeting up at hotels. We had a big fight about it and he finally told me the truth. He kept on pleading and asking that we continue dating. I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him.

I am 2 months pregnant and he has been avoiding me. He calls just once in two days and has told me to do whatever I want with the pregnancy , that he is fine with my decisions. I want to keep him and the baby and I'm scared he may ghost up on me. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.
Go and remove that belle
Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Hotguy27: 5:01pm On Oct 01, 2021
Darhmmy:
Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.

Go and seek further advice from your father. You seem to be the last daughter of the devil.

Nonsense!
Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by pickatyoubackup: 5:02pm On Oct 01, 2021
My dear the mistake is done already. Take care of ur baby.

If he decides to be in the baby's life fine, if not move on. E no go pass heart break, but let the thought of having a baby and giving him/her a better life console u.

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by CondemnBattery(f): 5:02pm On Oct 01, 2021
Darhmmy:
We used to be lovers back in uni , We broke up at some point and lost contact. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other.

We started dating and everything seemed nice at first. He never told me he was married. After months of dating , i started to get suspicious as he wouldn't let me visit his home , instead he was always coming to mine and meeting up at hotels. We had a big fight about it and he finally told me the truth. He kept on pleading and asking that we continue dating. I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him.

I am 2 months pregnant and he has been avoiding me. He calls just once in two days and has told me to do whatever I want with the pregnancy , that he is fine with my decisions. I want to keep him and the baby and I'm scared he may ghost up on me. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.

Home breaker. U saw his wife and want to send her text messages. May what you wish for the poor woman locate you in Jesus name. Oya say amen. Nonsense
Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Havertz10: 5:02pm On Oct 01, 2021
cheesy

Long story short


The guy has money and you want to baby your way into his family

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Unruly7(m): 5:03pm On Oct 01, 2021
Home breaker
Finally break the home

Make everywhere cast jare
Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Nobody: 5:03pm On Oct 01, 2021
Freestainworld:
Keep the baby, but bear in your mind that you are on the verge of wrecking another woman's home.

The reason she wants to tell his wife on FB is so the wife will divorce him and she will replace the wife. Unknown to her it doesn't work that way. He didn't care about you, he just loved sex.
Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by NGArmyTerrorist: 5:03pm On Oct 01, 2021
Darhmmy:
We used to be lovers back in uni , We broke up at some point and lost contact. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other.

We started dating and everything seemed nice at first. He never told me he was married. After months of dating , i started to get suspicious as he wouldn't let me visit his home , instead he was always coming to mine and meeting up at hotels. We had a big fight about it and he finally told me the truth. He kept on pleading and asking that we continue dating. I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him.

I am 2 months pregnant and he has been avoiding me. He calls just once in two days and has told me to do whatever I want with the pregnancy , that he is fine with my decisions. I want to keep him and the baby and I'm scared he may ghost up on me. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.
Rat gum don jam bustop today! If you ever abort that pregnancy, heaven won't be finding it funny with you.

Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by tnerro1(m): 5:03pm On Oct 01, 2021
Welcome to the club , side chick/ baby mama grin

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by WoundedLamb: 5:03pm On Oct 01, 2021
En passant, when a married man sleeps with another lady, the lady is cursed to death for attempting to break another person's home. When a married lady sleeps with another man, the lady is cursed to death for attempting to bring in a "bastard". Whichever way, the man gets no attention.

Now, to the topic; Madam, you know you shouldn't be sleeping with a married man, you still went ahead to do it. Now, you both are hooked and you're running to NL for help. I wonder the kind of help you need. You know the right thing to do for yourself and the baby. Do it.

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by CSTRR: 5:03pm On Oct 01, 2021
CondemnBattery:


Home breaker. U saw his wife and want to send her text messages. May what you wish for the poor woman locate you in Jesus name. Oya say amen. Nonsense
She is a home breaker to be honest.

Person wey suppose to just hide face and move on and call it a mistake.

She want to give another woman high BP.
Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Alexaonfleek: 5:03pm On Oct 01, 2021
Darhmmy:
We used to be lovers back in uni , We broke up at some point and lost contact. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other.

We started dating and everything seemed nice at first. He never told me he was married. After months of dating , i started to get suspicious as he wouldn't let me visit his home , instead he was always coming to mine and meeting up at hotels. We had a big fight about it and he finally told me the truth. He kept on pleading and asking that we continue dating. I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him.

I am 2 months pregnant and he has been avoiding me. He calls just once in two days and has told me to do whatever I want with the pregnancy , that he is fine with my decisions. I want to keep him and the baby and I'm scared he may ghost up on me. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.
Shioor
Even if he decided to ghost you,thats exactly what you deserve for hanging your legs for a married he-goat.
Una eye don clear abi?
The people I just pity is the innocent wife and unborn child.
You had better not abort o.....so that next time if you see married man,you look the other way.
Let that child be a reminder of that silly mistake you made fcking a married he-goat.

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Arizoner: 5:03pm On Oct 01, 2021
JovialJune:



Are you sure you're a man? They will soon come and call you a simp.
you've never been objective

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Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Emmhychidi(m): 5:04pm On Oct 01, 2021
GOFRONT:
Everybody be blaming the lady......But they never blamed the shameless he goat of a man who neither regard his wife as anybody nor respect his marriage to start with by calling his raging penis to order.......

If it his wife that got pregnant by another man from outside marriage, then the man would start crying DNA upandan.....

Because say na the man come Nairaland dey ask for advice ni Were
Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Winters23: 5:04pm On Oct 01, 2021
Prechgold1180:
When you they nack another woman husband you nur come nairaland to seek for advice

When you Dey shout harder herder ya killing me o
You nur seek for my advice

When the thing slip out nah u still carry your hand plug am back insyd
U nur call for advice

When u do round 2 u nur call for advice

Now u don get belle u Dey call for advice

See let me tell you

Belle nur Dey fit break marriage nowadays

Naija women don wise if u like u tell the wife she go vex for one week
But she nur go leave the man

So just get prepared for single mother life style
I fit give u tonto dikeh number for more enquiry on how to survive

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