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"He Couldn't Get Me Pregnant For 10 Years, So I Tested My Fertility Elsewhere" / How I Ended My Relationship With A Married Man / Housewife Pregnant For Stepson In Nasarawa, Caught In Bed Having Sex (2) (3) (4)
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by pikechukwu6(m): 5:35pm On Oct 01|
See wetin Buhari caused at 61 virginialism people... No go scatter person home
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Stanleyq(m): 5:36pm On Oct 01|
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by femi4: 5:36pm On Oct 01|
Darhmmy:Just go to his family house and introduce yourself. Las las you ll end up as second wife or baby mama
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by OChimex: 5:37pm On Oct 01|
I wish your own book of sins will be open, you might have done worse than her.
Then, she never gave advice only condmnation.
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 5:38pm On Oct 01|
GOFRONT:Now that she is pregnant for a married man, is it the man that will bear the burden of shame? If she tells the wife, she will be pissed off for a while but life will soon go on. When they say women should pity themselves, e get why. Continue being a woman wrapper you hear?
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by IamGreen1(f): 5:38pm On Oct 01|
She must not be tired because the moment she stop that's when her life stop being miserable and that's the reward for her type.
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Midas01: 5:39pm On Oct 01|
So it's okay if they cheat, just not unprotected ?
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Stanleyq(m): 5:39pm On Oct 01|
U girls are fond of opening legs to carry belle, u wont ask urself de outcome, what u are to do, bear the child, do not tell his family to ruin them, u will benefit from ur child in next 15 yrs and thank me then.
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by chiedonedoor(m): 5:39pm On Oct 01|
Your sin have found you out. Sin always bring shame and disgrace. Repent for the kingdom of God is at hand.
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by UDUJ(m): 5:39pm On Oct 01|
When a man refuses to take you to his home, but prefers to come have sex with you at your house or in a hotel should that not tell you he is hiding something? Or is that how your guy takes you to hotels or comes to your house as well? Or you are an expert in dating married men?
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by meeky247: 5:40pm On Oct 01|
Upon all the days in a year u chose to tell us today that is Nigeria independence. Pls let nothing happen to that child and dont destroy another woman marriage. Its ur cross carry it.
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Moneyboyz: 5:40pm On Oct 01|
Most people on nairaland are not mature, someone asked for advice and you all are barking at her. You all should get a life, if you don't have positive things to contribute just shut the Bleep up.
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Midas01: 5:40pm On Oct 01|
Not the man who broke his vows....not the man who snooped around, cheated and got another woman pregnant, but it's the third party that is the home breaker....
You Nigerian men deserve all he paternity fraud you can get for not having sense.
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by mercy87(m): 5:40pm On Oct 01|
The man is a home breaker. He is the one breaking his own home. No respect to his marital vows atall. I wonder how we men empathise with ourselves even when we are wrong instead of looking at things objectively and logically. Is this how Nigeria will be better? We need to be accountable. It starts from the little things we do, from family before getting to the nation.
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by ETIIKO: 5:44pm On Oct 01|
Please do anything that will maintain peace and at the same time prove how mature you are.
Reporting indirectly to his family members is absurd; communication is more important now. He may be thinking of you aborting the baby but invite him and have a word with him. Thank you
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by oluwaahmed: 5:44pm On Oct 01|
When u were fùcking the hell out 9f him, did u tell his wife, friends or relatives? Why do u want to involve them now? Home wrecker. Cant u carry the baby and STFU?
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by florixi: 5:44pm On Oct 01|
Am not understanding??
when you said you; I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him
So which advice do you want now?. Onise ku se!
Abeg no come dey whinny person here jare.
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by takimsipho(m): 5:45pm On Oct 01|
Kobojunkie:It all matters and if you don't understand that you don't understand anything. She had choices to make to have prevented what has become of her. She just simplified everything in one post, did you know how long their relationship lasted. Or you think he didn't buy her gifts or gave her money when they were together. Baba her greed and poor decision making is what has brought her to this point. All this white knights call a spade a spade. You think if I know my sister is dating a married man, I would support her? Cos I know this is how it always ends
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by IamGreen1(f): 5:46pm On Oct 01|
You're right about this to some extent but have it in mind that this is one side of the story which I'm very sure that it's full of half truth and lies. She saying she 'want to keep the man to herself' is a trait of a psychopath, selfish, desperate and manipulative bitch. You won't be surprised that she maybe the one that has been emotionally blackmailing the guy to sleep with her.
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by takimsipho(m): 5:48pm On Oct 01|
udemzyudex:Na you no get head to understand am.
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by jodecibmw: 5:49pm On Oct 01|
My advise to you first is that you should not contact his wife about the development, as that might destroy the marriage and cause more avoidable problems that might come back to haunt you. The best thing to do in this situation is to call the man and have a matured talk with him about the pregnancy telling him that you're keeping (i can't advice you to do abortion) the baby.
If the discussion is not reassuring then you must inform an older sister/aunt/cousin who is very understanding and close to your family to break the news to your mum/dad and let them be in the picture, that is provided you're still dependent on them for upkeep. They'll later get over the situation after the expected backlashing and bashing. They will now contact the man and ask him to come for discussions and how he may provide support. Note he may not marry you, as long as he agrees to be in the picture.
But if you're a working/entrepreneur adult, it should be a lot easier. Also it doesn't mean you can't still get married to your own man later in life. Don't make any hasty decisions that would complicate and worsen the issue. Allow your parents/guardians to contact the man and his relatives only if it has to come to that.
These kind of crazy mistakes happen in life, how you handle them and learn from them is what matters. Everyone messes up sometime in life, even do worse things than this, just brace up for the consequences, it's not the end of your life yet. Cheers!
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Kobojunkie: 5:50pm On Oct 01|
takimsipho:Try to learn to not inject your personal biases into any story you read. That way you can infact pick up on exactly why the author is telling you.
None of what you continue to infer makes sense as regards this story.
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by UDUJ(m): 5:51pm On Oct 01|
Are you really a woman? If you are, you have my utmost respect for not having any gender bias and saying it as it is. Respect sis
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by nijaomegacode(m): 5:52pm On Oct 01|
Prechgold1180:You nailed it!
Amen to good October!
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by debbydams(f): 5:52pm On Oct 01|
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Rhozabeth(m): 5:54pm On Oct 01|
Na wa o! Girls of nowadays just Bleep anything and everything without protection! Mehn, i dey fear girls these days o!
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Nekky5(f): 5:54pm On Oct 01|
Dear sis, I hope you have collated enough advice that you wanted on this issue. There are issues you do not bring up publicly especially when you know you are not strong enough to handle the responses coming from people you do not know anything about their lives. It is really sad but it has happened!!! Do not make the mistake of involving the wife of that guy because you wouldn't like the outcome. Forgive yourself first and do not think of terminating the pregnancy. Ask God for forgiveness and lean on his directions. All will be well afterwards.
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Kobojunkie: 5:54pm On Oct 01|
baralatie:She might as well be... unofficially at least, and he made that possible.
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by princewarri1985: 5:55pm On Oct 01|
Send his wife text about it you are very foolish for saying that and also trying to break another woman home and happiness, common sense suppose tell you say he is ghosting you because he does not want the baby, the wise thing to do is to get rid of the pregnancy or if you know you can afford to keep it you can keep it, delete the man from your life and move on, he is married for christ sake, MOD YOU NEED TO STOP PUSHING ALL THIS IRRELEVANT SHIT TO FRONT PAGE HE GET WHY
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by toren(f): 5:56pm On Oct 01|
This your comment precious. E sweet die.
Crazy girl. She thinks calling the wife will make her leave so that she can enter. She wants to break another woman's home.
Foolish girl @Darhmmy having sex without condoms.
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Kilotat: 5:56pm On Oct 01|
udemzyudex:Tonto dey smoke, and she dey Bleep around, Any man will leave that kind woman.
No dey talk Weytin you no know
|Re: Help I'm Pregnant For A Married Man. by Kilotat: 5:58pm On Oct 01|
toren:No mind her, make she call the wife. Na that time she go know say belle no dey kill marriage for naija again, Married women don wise now
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