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My Weakness by Walatip397(m): 9:42pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
I need mature married people to advise or rather help. The problem goes thus; Whenever I set my eyes on a dark skin or brown in complexion woman, I become weak to sex. This dont happen when I'm with a woman fair in complexion. Although, I have never cheated on my wife, but I fear it may happen one day. Is this normal? |
Re: My Weakness by Jeon(f): 9:43pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Walatip397: What type of weakness? Ask beebah2000
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Re: My Weakness by Solofresh2: 9:49pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Walatip397:What complexion is your wife? |
Re: My Weakness by Walatip397(m): 9:51pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
She was dark in complexion, but changed after 3 years in marriage. She's now fair Solofresh2: 1 Like |
Re: My Weakness by Solofresh2: 9:55pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Walatip397:So what are you looking for in a fair woman that your bleaching wife does not have? |
Re: My Weakness by Kobojunkie: 9:58pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Walatip397:This isn't a question of normalcy. You are indicating that you are lacking in the self-control department. What you need is to get some before you completely run out and cheat on your wife. |
Re: My Weakness by chatinent: 10:02pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Face front. Stop looking anything that will make you want to have sex with them. Avoid porn. 1 Like |
Re: My Weakness by Walatip397(m): 10:06pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
It's a struggle I'm battling with. The truth is "I need help" Kobojunkie: |
Re: My Weakness by Walatip397(m): 10:13pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
I don't usually get sexually arouse with (my now fair wife) compared to when we were newly married. I noticed we were struggling then, but God has really blessed us right now. My friends insists that's why her complexion changed Solofresh2: |
Re: My Weakness by Walatip397(m): 10:14pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
J don't watch porn. I do preach against it chatinent: |
Re: My Weakness by Kobojunkie: 10:15pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Walatip397:Self-control has to do with gaining power over your mind and thoughts , that instead of letting it run you. It takes discipline and resolve. |
Re: My Weakness by Walatip397(m): 10:15pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
I don't watch porn. I do preach against it chatinent: |
Re: My Weakness by Walatip397(m): 10:15pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Thanks. But the question is how ? Kobojunkie: |
Re: My Weakness by Kobojunkie: 10:18pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Walatip397:When your mind trys to wonder towards that which you don't like, change the channel or focus to that which is instead of worth. It's kind of like mental context-switching. You keep doing this as many times as it will take and as long as it will take for your mind to no longer wonder towards that which you don't want it to think on. |
Re: My Weakness by Nobody: 10:19pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
The best advice I can give is to cut off your penis |
Re: My Weakness by EzegeNdiigbo: 10:20pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Stop Murking mahn Stop sleeping late at night(ya too dey press phone) |
Re: My Weakness by AcademicWriter: 10:23pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Thanks. But the answer is how ? |
Re: My Weakness by Walatip397(m): 10:23pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Alright, thank you. I will put this into practice Kobojunkie: 1 Like |
Re: My Weakness by Walatip397(m): 10:24pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Haaa. Lol WildPrimate: |
Re: My Weakness by Walatip397(m): 10:24pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
You are funny EzegeNdiigbo: |
Re: My Weakness by Kobojunkie: 10:28pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Walatip397:It is not easy to do but with discipline and commitment, you can conquer any thing, including many other vices you may think of. |
Re: My Weakness by Walatip397(m): 10:29pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
I appreciate you Sir. Thanks Kobojunkie: 1 Like |
Re: My Weakness by Pumpumking: 10:36pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Walatip397: |
Re: My Weakness by Pumpumking: 10:38pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Walatip397: ok so u saying yor wife marry dakskin man becoz a brown man lookin inside yor eye...correct?...bro, are ok? (no oofensese) |
Re: My Weakness by Solofresh2: 10:42pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Walatip397:You see let me tell you something.Is not like am married oo but i tell you my take on this. As a man, your main reason for marrying shouldn't be sex or pressure.I do tell people that if you can't control your sexual urges as a man then you not ready for marriage.If you do then you can never settle down with one woman because as time goes on, you won't be sexually attracted to your wife anymore and this can only result to cheating or marrying more women. As a man looking for marriage,breast and yansh should not be your priority.Your priority should a companion.i mean,a woman as a friend,a woman you feel you can share the rest of your life with.This yansh and buttocks will fade away and your wife will now be like a diminishing product to you. So I your case now, you need to move closer to your wife and do crazy stuffs together, watch porn together, let her look sex appealing to you when you both are home. If you can't do this things, you will definitely cheat on her. |
Re: My Weakness by Walatip397(m): 10:48pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
You are very correct. Mind you, we started from the university and we dated for 8 years before getting married. We were and still best of friends till now. I will keep fighting the urge sha. I appreciate your help Solofresh2: |
Re: My Weakness by Solofresh2: 10:50pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Walatip397:You welcome and good night! |
Re: My Weakness by anthonyuncle(m): 10:54pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
Righteousness2! you are highly needed |
Re: My Weakness by Nobody: 10:57pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
. 1 Like |
Re: My Weakness by Walatip397(m): 3:12pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
Thanks. I'm just confused InTheCloudySky: |
Re: My Weakness by MufasaLion: 4:20pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
Walatip397: There's no justification for someone that bleaches her skin. Don't let her friends decieve you with their words. Yes, it's true people change especially their skin after they get more comfortable financially but it will only glow and be more attractive not that you will transform to light skin from dark skin. Anyways, there's nothing you can do other than focus on your wife and find a way to find her more appealing to you sexually. Also, talk to her about her skin. There are many skin care product she can use to make her skin better rather than bleaching and exposing herself to health risks. |
Re: My Weakness by Walatip397(m): 7:52pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
Thanks man God will helpme MufasaLion: |
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