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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Gfskw: 6:02pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Your opinion |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by henrybomb(m): 6:02pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
AfroKnight:Finally someone is talking from perspective Some people here are not open minded so they actually see my suggestions or opinion as a blind argument. 2 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by whitebeard(m): 6:04pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
OP na your own you they talk sha..! Keep ur opinion to ur self..! 1 Like |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by henrybomb(m): 6:06pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
deltateam:Una too get wahala Blood pressure is real put yourself together 1 Like |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Elporo(m): 6:06pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Tourist123: Ha Ha .. the manufacturer calls it a defective product |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by kevoh(m): 6:07pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Elporo:The difference between virgin and non virgin ends on the first day of marriage. It becomes useless as P in psychology. You are not going to use your virginity or non-virginity to take care of the myriad of responsibilities that come with marriage and family life. 2 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Topman0001(m): 6:12pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
I'm happy that the point you're trying to make is an opinion and not an affirmatory confirmation. If our opinions are different, it doesn't mean I'm wrong or you're right, it just means we're different. Judging from the angle of psychology, I can detect or guess our differences 1) I'm married and you're single 2) I'm older; you're younger 3) I'm experienced; you're inexperienced 4) I've dated both the virgin and non-virgin but probably you've not 5) I'm viewing from the perspective or reality; you view from angle of religion Do you now see why your opinion does not justify the truth. |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Nobody: 6:14pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Elporo:guy,are you for real. As early as 12,13 they're already into it |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Nobody: 6:16pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Crystyano: Fixed. 1 Like |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by betwo: 6:21pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
henrybomb:this question is bias |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Elporo(m): 6:21pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
kevoh: Hypothetically speaking: I buy a brand new Toyota. You buy a fairly used Toyota. Would you consider your Toyota and mine in similar shape? Would the insurance company give you the same deal, I get? Please answer ooh. Is a brand new Toyota the same as a fairly used Toyota; once the cellophane has been torn of the brand new Toyota? |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Godwin25king: 6:21pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
jmoore: I love your beautiful illustration |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Figger(m): 6:21pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Only virgins deserves a bride price. E no easy abeg. |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by eneyoduke(m): 6:22pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Connected but no Internet |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by JovialJune(f): 6:22pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
[s] advanceDNA:[/s] 2 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Skillsnigeria: 6:23pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
I so much love virgin ladies |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by JovialJune(f): 6:24pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Elporo: Don't be daft, is being a virgin equal to the myriad responsibilities faced in marriage? 3 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by JovialJune(f): 6:27pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
jmoore: So what is the crux of the matter? Explain to us, you keep bringing up stupid illustrations describing virgins from non virgins, not once did you explain how being a virgin guarantee successful marriage, so tell us how. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by advanceDNA: 6:32pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by JovialJune(f): 6:32pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Ikpunwanyianamb: I want you guys to know how daft you are na, in all of your heads, and as Op said, virginity guarantee successful marriage, so once she becomes loose, will the marriage fail? Or will she remain a virgin so that marriage will be successful? 3 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Nobody: 6:32pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
chival:This guy is 100% in agreement. Excellent write up. 2 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Elporo(m): 6:35pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
JovialJune: Responsibilities like paternity fraud? Do you suppose a virgin wife cannot run home? |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by JovialJune(f): 6:38pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Elporo: Smh, let me down to your level, Paternity fraud of other children apart from the first? Do you suppose a non virgin cannot run a home? 3 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Carot: 6:39pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
JovialJune:a man is supposed to be experienced prior to marriage |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by LegalWolf: 6:40pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
jmoore: Your analogy is bereft of any logic. In fact, you failed to prove anything with the gibberish you typed. You can go smell nice to class, attend all lectures and fail woefully. On the other hand, you may smell terribly and pass exams wonderfully well. Passing is not a function of how you attend classes or what you wear for lectures, but your ability to give the examiner what he wants. Similarly, successful marriage is a function of how partners understand each other and their commitment NOT one dumb useless criteria such as virginity. Go learn how to construct argument and stop spilling rubbish on Nairaland 4 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by kevoh(m): 6:41pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Elporo:Your Toyota analogy is puerile! A wife is not an object but a human being. You have failed to see that there's variety and diversity in marriage. Some like virgins, some don't give a damn. Some like short women, others tall women, some don't care. Some like breasts, others don't care. Some handsome men get married to ugly women, while others insist on pretty ladies. Do you see where I'm driving at now? These things don't matter when financial issues or other unforseen problems start crippling in and you're incapable of handling them. Woe betide you, if your wife is a foul mouthed virgin! She will insult the hell out of your life. Or you have a dirty virgin that can not do basic house keeping or cooking or get the kids ready on time for school. The ones that will bring family baggage to your house etc. Same logic applies to a non virgin that is incapable! By that time, looking for the approval of insurance company will evaporate! I want to believe you are not (yet) married, which is why you have formed such opinion. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by franzis(m): 6:42pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Most self acclaimed virgins have done everything sex ( sucked dick , received head , anal , BDSM and more ) related except vaginal penetration 1 Like |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by lawkenoz(m): 6:42pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
derecho:My brother all you said is also true, but remember not everyone shares your religious belief system, that a woman is not a virgin doesn't also make her a prostitute. Does virginity matter in marriage? The answer is dependent on what people value. If it's what you value for your marriage above all else then yes! Some men don't attach value to it, they will look at compatibility of both virgin and non virgin women in terms of what they have to offer and bring to the table. Only when that criteria evens out between both women will virginity be the deal breaker. If the non virgin woman exceeds the other in all other criteria any sensible man will pick that option and vice versa without recourse to who is a virgin or not. Unless your trying to say all non virgins who married cheat on thier spouses then I don't know what to tell you. Comparison of a thief and a non virgin woman just doesn't cut it. No married woman will remain a virgin, there's no guarantee that you marry a virgin and she won't cheat tomorrow, women's minds work differently from men. So if it's about the OPs statement, virginity isn't the sole determinant of a successful marriage. There are marriages where women married as virgin turn olosho.... isn't that a conclusive answer to the question? 2 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Indispensable85(m): 6:43pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
jmoore: Your write up is pedestrian and empty. 1 Like |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by JovialJune(f): 6:44pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Chukwudiajibo: Automatically? So if a virgin is a liar, a thief, a murderer, all these sins will be overlooked because she is a virgin? It is either you are a prophet of doom, or you reason from your anus, a born again christian inclined in christ will not say these. 3 Likes |
Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by JovialJune(f): 6:45pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
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Re: "Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Successful Marriage" Is A Statement Of Stupidity by Indispensable85(m): 6:46pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
brodalikeme: Na small pikin dey worry am. He's obviously not married. He knows nothing about marriage. 1 Like |
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