What appears strange may turn out to be the best arrangement destiny has for you.
This lady may turn out to be the best wife for you though in spite of all the odds against her.
My elder sister had two grown children before she met her husband and they both got married and lived together happily ever after.
Since you rushed into marriage without considering other odds, please find a way of adjusting yourself to the poo you created. It could turn out to be the best decision you've ever taken.
I guess her toto sweet sha? I ask because that may be the reason why you fell for her antiques. ENJOY!

ChineduChinedu:
I don't know how I enter this problem
Please help me

ChineduChinedu:
I don't know how I enter this problem
Please help me

Na toto sweet you, you no know how you enter problem?
You never see wife o, just leave the house and disappear, she must never know your location again.

ChineduChinedu:
She said she dreamed were I cheated on her and marry someone else that's why she insisted of leaving if I didn't do the court marriage

All their family members hide this secret from me, they intend to tell me after the wedding

You guys may be wondering how I enter this problem
I wasn't into girls at all
I don't anything about girl cuz am a very shy type
For 30 years am a Virgin until I met a surger momy who toast me and took my virginity.
I broke up with my sugar momy immediately I met this girl

I don't know anything about women at all
That's how I landed into this problem
Make una help abeg

Oh wow. I’m sorry about your circumstances

chatinent:

Ok o.

We will come back to this later.


Okay?


Okay?


You gotta be kidding me.


On the wedding day, you were sleeping with her?

Okay?


If you cancelled the church wedding which was in 2nd October, it meant you did the court marriage two days ago with her.


I thought as much.

Remember the first day after court wedding was October 1st? And second was the wedding you said you cancelled?


The same day you cancelled the wedding? You are begging her to stay?

Not adding up anymore. Well, let's continue.


Ok?

I pray you are not up to forty yet. I just pray because there is a permanent adage waiting for you.


Okay?


30 + 10 = 40. Okay, e no go tey.


Eight months?
She controls you?
She shouts at you?
If you refuse, tell us the truth, she beats you blue and black.

It's okay, my brother.



Hello,
I will tell you the truth and nothing but the truth. But before then, let me recap what you told her when you met intially:

This is what you told her, and that is what she did for you.

Now back to what I was saying, I will tell you the truth and nothing but the truth. I won't lie, ibu onye iberibe. In anything you are doing in this life, try as much as possible make me and you no jam for road abeg.

;Dbro! you wicked wallahi, just see me here woo! de follow thinking you are going to give him a bombshell advice, chai!!!!

LIVINGICON:
Chai!!
Are you for real?
Is this some kind of script?

u just said what l wanted to say.
Imagine this story that looks like fiction.

NL Simps, toast your op/simp of the week.

Publicizing:

Thank you sis. Only dullards will believe this trash of a story.

The way he replies made it clear its a made-up story. There are even loopholes in the story. He mixed up the dates

dont mind him.

Oga you think say now to wear trouser now dem take be guy man , your uncle help you but you nor gree help yourself, go face when you start you’re a mumu man

Wahala be like bicycle...

computer0810:
My advice for u is that u should enter bus that will pass thru third mainland bridge, align and just inside d lagoon
There's a reward for ur foolishness and stupidity in heaven
Even as women full lagos na after 3 u wan marry

I really do not think this is the kind of advise this guy needs. And I really do not understand how we assume we know everything cos we are not in the shoes. I am sure you in this guy’s shoe would NOT have suspect this lady having 3 kids except you did an in-depth investigation...: this gal looks 22. I have seen pics and videos of her. A friend of mine, a confirmed, Lagos-street sarvy but married woman who happens to be close to her was shocked at the revelation. She say, she has never suspected say dat babe don born b4... dat na woman wen rock street well before she marry o, not to talk of an easy going, naive guy who have little or no time for ladies to understand their ways

ChineduChinedu:
I don't know how I enter this problem
Please help me

That is shit!

Cc chineduchinedu If this your story is true, you have a big problem.

Starting from inferiority complex...

You are 30 and your mago mago wife has 3kids...even her eldest child is 13yrs...chai.

They have chop you without balance...Ndi a riri gi front and back...

She took advantage of you...May we not love who will take advantage of us.

Only God knows how old she is.

On this bro, I don't agree. You mother of 2 is tighter down there than 100s of today's girls. So your years of experience on the field of bedmatism don't determine you be able to know a lady that had given birth. If you thinking of breast... Some girls with any s*x experience breast are soft and saggy than that of after 4

DropsMic:
Lol


I still don't understand how a guy would have intercourse with a woman that has given birth and him no go know.. Y'all are fvcjed

chatinent:

Ok o.

We will come back to this later.


Okay?


Okay?


You gotta be kidding me.


On the wedding day, you were sleeping with her?

Okay?


If you cancelled the church wedding which was in 2nd October, it meant you did the court marriage two days ago with her.


I thought as much.

Remember the first day after court wedding was October 1st? And second was the wedding you said you cancelled?


The same day you cancelled the wedding? You are begging her to stay?

Not adding up anymore. Well, let's continue.


Ok?

I pray you are not up to forty yet. I just pray because there is a permanent adage waiting for you.


Okay?


30 + 10 = 40. Okay, e no go tey.


Eight months?
She controls you?
She shouts at you?
If you refuse, tell us the truth, she beats you blue and black.

It's okay, my brother.



Hello,
I will tell you the truth and nothing but the truth. But before then, let me recap what you told her when you met intially:

This is what you told her, and that is what she did for you.

Now back to what I was saying, I will tell you the truth and nothing but the truth. I won't lie, ibu onye iberibe. In anything you are doing in this life, try as much as possible make me and you no jam for road abeg.

Your last statement is the best reply so far.. He actually got what he asked for.

ChineduChinedu:


I managed to get the phone number of the
biological father of those children

I called the man
And asked him if he is the father of the 3 kids
He said yes
He also said that he didn't do anything on her head at all
I asked why
He said cuz of family backgrounds

What should I do?

I know I made mistakes
If u guys don't help I may end up dead

Dude, just calm down. No one is going to die. It’s not your fault. She’s the one who lied to you. It seems she also wants to take all your money.

You need to sit down and think about what to do next, it’s either leave or stay. Ask for inputs from your family, friends, etc.

ChineduChinedu:
She said she dreamed were I cheated on her and marry someone else that's why she insisted of leaving if I didn't do the court marriage

All their family members hide this secret from me, they intend to tell me after the wedding

You guys may be wondering how I enter this problem
I wasn't into girls at all
I don't anything about girl cuz am a very shy type
For 30 years am a Virgin until I met a surger momy who toast me and took my virginity.
I broke up with my sugar momy immediately I met this girl

I don't know anything about women at all
That's how I landed into this problem
Make una help abeg

Your problem is that you lost your virginity without thinking it through. Why did you remain a virgin till the age of 30? Why were you moving with a sugar mummy? Is that why you decided to marry this lady, too, for money?

We had another thread like that on the forum. You should be lucky she isn't making you beg her. She could do that.

A lot of men here will call you a fool and try and make you feel stupid, but the truth is this: if you can live with her, you can. She even has a child for you. There are many people that marry other people with several children eg. 24 year old girl marries 37 year old man with 4 children from another woman, and heaven has not fallen.

The only problem is how she has had children consistently with that man for a decade. You will have competition. It appears she married you because he wouldn't marry her.

DropsMic:
Lol


I still don't understand how a guy would have intercourse with a woman that has given birth and him no go know.. Y'all are fvcjed

How will you know if she didn't recently give birth? According tohis story, the last born of the lady is 3 years old.

For the sex-starved inexperienced man, a pu*sy can be used by its owner to manipulate a man, thereby loosing his sanity and cognition. Before u insert ur key inside the padlock, try and find the history of the padlock cos these days most single ladies u see outside there, are hiding one or two things. Even those in church or with hijab. Dont let ur eggs inbetween ur leg overtake the front lobe of ur brain. Its better u marry late and be peaceful than marrying early and start experiencing chaos. Dont be intimidated by seeing ur friends getting married. Take ur time and study the person u want to marry. Op being shy should nt make u lose ur brain, u need to work on ur self-image. As for this wahala wey u enter, the gods are angry, though sex has put u into this, u never seek Gods will in marriage. This kind marriage wey u enter so might nt last cos its foundation is built on lust, deceit and mumuism

ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation

There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.

I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.

On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no

A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.

All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos

My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.

Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage

We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court

I don't know what to do in this situation oo

Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa

Am 30 years while I don't know her real age

We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem

Please what do I do ?

Divorce her now. U won’t loose anything. Sue her on false pretense. Get a good lawyer. Guy if u continue with this u are finished for life. Whatever it will take you. Start afresh. U are finish of u continue with this.

Tony Umez, Is that u?

File for divorce,?she married you out of deception

Smartb0y:
Divorce and take half.
Accept the loss for your foolishness.
Its the only way you can ever get sense.

Take half of what? She is entitled only to what they aquire during their marriage. The child they both have will have child supirt from dad if he is given to mom for custody. Court wedding can be nullified cos he married her under deception.

This is super story....

Maybe na wetin u sabi chop dem take choke you...

Since it is not the Lord that have joined you together man can put asunder coz man has deceitful made this...

I advice you go ask God for forgiveness and if you know the ill treatment she is giving you can take your life... RUN OOO

eyinjuege:
Annul the marriage.
I believe it can still be done. On grounds of deception or something.
Speak to a lawyer about the annulment.
That will cancel the fact that either of you were ever married.
Single mothers have been marrying, and she didnt need to lie about her status to you.
How can you ever trust her?
And you also sounded like the relationship doesn't give you happiness, so what's the point really?
But look after you child, when the baby is here and be involved in your child's life

thanks

ChineduChinedu:
I don't know how I enter this problem
Please help me

I'd your case was actually true has been told by you, OGA you will win the case in court 100%. And am sure she is not only a liar but diabolical too.

OGA, you are definitely under the influence of a very strong spell by this woman, and you are lucky if she was not even a member of occultic that flies in the midnight.

But some human being are desperately wicked, cos how can you hide 3 kids from a man.

Marriage na force? This kind marriage is not only deceptive but seriously dangerous.

Freelane33:
Holeosho

you are a dullard I dont need to argue with you simply because your IQ is low you can't differenciate btw left and right.

kbright2:
On this bro, I don't agree. You mother of 2 is tighter down there than 100s of today's girls. So your years of experience on the field of bedmatism don't determine you be able to know a lady that had given birth. If you thinking of breast... Some girls with any s*x experience breast are soft and saggy than that of after 4

lol... Don't be naive bro

Holluwhakemmy:
dont mind him.

It is not a make belief story. I don’t know the OP physically but we were once in same Watsapp group and am in another Watsapp group with the supposedly bride. A very close friend of mine from that same group called to tell me the story earlier this week. She was at the reception ground in Akute, Lagos....

And that lady must hve some evil spirit in her... How do you keep human being existence secret when nor be special force or DSS wey dey like disguise...

chatinent:

Ok o.

We will come back to this later.


Okay?


Okay?


You gotta be kidding me.


On the wedding day, you were sleeping with her?

Okay?


If you cancelled the church wedding which was in 2nd October, it meant you did the court marriage two days ago with her.


I thought as much.

Remember the first day after court wedding was October 1st? And second was the wedding you said you cancelled?


The same day you cancelled the wedding? You are begging her to stay?

Not adding up anymore. Well, let's continue.


Ok?

I pray you are not up to forty yet. I just pray because there is a permanent adage waiting for you.


Okay?


30 + 10 = 40. Okay, e no go tey.


Eight months?
She controls you?
She shouts at you?
If you refuse, tell us the truth, she beats you blue and black.

It's okay, my brother.



Hello,
I will tell you the truth and nothing but the truth. But before then, let me recap what you told her when you met intially:

This is what you told her, and that is what she did for you.

Now back to what I was saying, I will tell you the truth and nothing but the truth. I won't lie, ibu onye iberibe. In anything you are doing in this life, try as much as possible make me and you no jam for road abeg.

... ultimate savagery lol

ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation

There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.

I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.

On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no

A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.

All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos

My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.

Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage

We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court

I don't know what to do in this situation oo

Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa

Am 30 years while I don't know her real age

We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem

Please what do I do ?

Get the lady on tape saying that she didn't inform you that she had 3 children before you got married to her, that can be used as evidence. Then go to the court and annul marriage because it was contracted on falsehood.


"By virtue of Section 3 (1) (d) of the Matrimonial Causes Act 1970
Fraud or Duress
Fraud is where there is dishonest misrepresentation by a party to the marriage by which the consent of the other was obtained, while duress is when a party to the marriage is compelled to contract such marriage by creating a state of fear or apprehension, which prevented the party from freely consenting to the marriage. Where consent is proved to have been obtained by fraud or duress, the marriage is annulled not because of the presence of fraud or duress but because of the absence of consent."

falcon01:
I'm sorry to say this but ive tried so hard not to but i literally feel sick if I attempt not to say this but sir you are a big fool! On behalf of men and other reasonable people we are disappointed in you. I mean what kind of a low self esteem idiot are you? Don't you have friends?

Wa sere padi mi.


You took the words right out of my mouth.

The idiot deserves the hell he is gonna go thru.