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Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by YourVILAGEpeple(m): 11:29am On Oct 10, 2021
People are wicked and inconsiderate.... I experienced this during my NYSC.... My cooking Gas... Even Pure water... Salt... Pepper... Maggi cube... Oil, onion..... The woman dey even come for soup.... Soup wey she wan give her husband oh....
I took my measures shaa... But it didn't stop her from being who she is..
Take ya actions and don't look back... Av learnt that being Nice to people ain't good... You gat to be mean mehn

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Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by OnyeFely: 11:31am On Oct 10, 2021
U are wicked to yourself, all u could have done was to tell not to use ur gas again, as the price continues to soar. U didn't do well by releasing the gas. Know how to say NO to people, and u will live long.
Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by compton11(m): 11:32am On Oct 10, 2021
Goodman777:
U are the pretending but wicked type

U claimed that the amount u spend to refill it is not a problem yet u went as far as depriving yourself and neighbor the opportunity of having dinner!
What a wicked mindset
which wicked mindset?
Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by stanisbaratheon: 11:32am On Oct 10, 2021
aytech360:
Thanks everyone,

I have paid my carpenter 20k to help me with small kitchen cabinet and I am on my way to purchase 2 face gas burner that I will be using with it then I can be locking my stuffs up

It appears you are the type of person that can't say no if someone asks for a favour. So, I see her still asking you to use your gas even when you lock it up in your cabinet.

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Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by moneyissweet(m): 11:39am On Oct 10, 2021
Nigerians like using people for nonsense things.. stop being a nice guy and tell the idiots to go and refill their own gas.

They are using you and I hate those kind people with passion.

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Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by walesoflyf(m): 11:43am On Oct 10, 2021
aytech360:
There is this my neighbor wife that is annoying me.

The story

I have a 3kg cooking gas cylinder that I used to fill regularly when I finished it up while cooking and they have their own too 5kg.

When their own finishes they will be using my own for a day or two before they refill their own with my permission when they asked for it which I consider a normal stuff and I don’t have problem with it since the money to refill is not my problem.

But for two months now when the gas price went up I have been noticing some stupid shit coming from the wife where she will rush to my own gas to cook and she didn’t even ask for permission again and she consider it normal since I don’t use to talk.

They don’t even fill their gas anymore and I am the one filling my own gas to cook for the whole house the thing I normally used for a 3-4 weeks now I must fill every Saturday amount to 1800# and I am tired of this shit and I don’t want to hurt them by insulting the woman because they consider me the good guy.

I will have to wait to cook on my own gas for them to finish silly.

So I just refill the 3kg for 1950# in my area and before I even cook anything they’ve started using it and it annoyed me and I released the gas to the air to empty cylinder when she gone out to her work.

As usual she has bought what she wanted to cook in the night and went straight to the gas to cook and she noticed it has empty and there is no option again. So I have decided not to fill the gas again for like a month because things are hard and the price for the gas kept going up.

Am I wicked


As much as I'll tell you not to stop being a nice person, because you can never tell when you'll also need their help. But she went too far.. Like you said she works and I want to believe her husband also works too. You shouldn't have wasted your gas. Be that as it may please don't lock your gas inside your apartment, please and please.. Rather let her know that you can't continue to allow her use your gas anymore, reason being that you also struggle to buy gas too, considering how expensive it had become. Be stern, at least you have allowed her use it for a while and she took it for granted. So my take is that, you need to have a simple and straight to the point conversation with her as regards that.
Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by Ramirezkhay(m): 11:47am On Oct 10, 2021
Uno suppose waste ur gas na, you go just buy another one keep for inside room Dy use am if you wan cook then return am again, leave the empty one for where she Dy use am grin me no fit shout na scope we go use kill awasef for this con3 grin grin

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Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by joyousever(f): 11:47am On Oct 10, 2021
Madness, poverty and hunger have always been a distinguished feature of your low life! And they will continue to battle with you on every side!! Notorious riff raff and Yaba Left escapee! Ntoor grin grin grin Tueh tueh!!. Shame and shame upon you! I'll be checking back every now and then to treat your fvck ups amidst my busy schedule. Fvck off!!
OfficerGbadamos:
this poor fool living under Lagos bridge also has an opinion.
Shameless slut
Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by NWABUKA007(m): 11:49am On Oct 10, 2021
aytech360:
There is this my neighbor wife that is annoying me.

The story

I have a 3kg cooking gas cylinder that I used to fill regularly when I finished it up while cooking and they have their own too 5kg.

When their own finishes they will be using my own for a day or two before they refill their own with my permission when they asked for it which I consider a normal stuff and I don’t have problem with it since the money to refill is not my problem.

But for two months now when the gas price went up I have been noticing some stupid shit coming from the wife where she will rush to my own gas to cook and she didn’t even ask for permission again and she consider it normal since I don’t use to talk.

They don’t even fill their gas anymore and I am the one filling my own gas to cook for the whole house the thing I normally used for a 3-4 weeks now I must fill every Saturday amount to 1800# and I am tired of this shit and I don’t want to hurt them by insulting the woman because they consider me the good guy.

I will have to wait to cook on my own gas for them to finish silly.

So I just refill the 3kg for 1950# in my area and before I even cook anything they’ve started using it and it annoyed me and I released the gas to the air to empty cylinder when she gone out to her work.

As usual she has bought what she wanted to cook in the night and went straight to the gas to cook and she noticed it has empty and there is no option again. So I have decided not to fill the gas again for like a month because things are hard and the price for the gas kept going up.

Am I wicked


you nor be wicked shishi

.
bros buy small

electric cooker join body, make person no go

Saisho dey

pyramid self dey
Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by MrMacinterchi1: 11:49am On Oct 10, 2021
LOL haq haq haq. they Don turn your niceness into mugu and weakness. Next Time, speak up;speak your mind diplomatically instead of hurting and inconveniencing yourself inplace of protecting yourself.
Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by seyz91(m): 11:49am On Oct 10, 2021
No you're not and you need no asking anyone on social for validation
aytech360:
There is this my neighbor wife that is annoying me.

The story

I have a 3kg cooking gas cylinder that I used to fill regularly when I finished it up while cooking and they have their own too 5kg.

When their own finishes they will be using my own for a day or two before they refill their own with my permission when they asked for it which I consider a normal stuff and I don’t have problem with it since the money to refill is not my problem.

But for two months now when the gas price went up I have been noticing some stupid shit coming from the wife where she will rush to my own gas to cook and she didn’t even ask for permission again and she consider it normal since I don’t use to talk.

They don’t even fill their gas anymore and I am the one filling my own gas to cook for the whole house the thing I normally used for a 3-4 weeks now I must fill every Saturday amount to 1800# and I am tired of this shit and I don’t want to hurt them by insulting the woman because they consider me the good guy.

I will have to wait to cook on my own gas for them to finish silly.

So I just refill the 3kg for 1950# in my area and before I even cook anything they’ve started using it and it annoyed me and I released the gas to the air to empty cylinder when she gone out to her work.

As usual she has bought what she wanted to cook in the night and went straight to the gas to cook and she noticed it has empty and there is no option again. So I have decided not to fill the gas again for like a month because things are hard and the price for the gas kept going up.

Am I wicked

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Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by newdawn2017(f): 11:50am On Oct 10, 2021
aytech360:
There is this my neighbor wife that is annoying me.

The story

I have a 3kg cooking gas cylinder that I used to fill regularly when I finished it up while cooking and they have their own too 5kg.

When their own finishes they will be using my own for a day or two before they refill their own with my permission when they asked for it which I consider a normal stuff and I don’t have problem with it since the money to refill is not my problem.

But for two months now when the gas price went up I have been noticing some stupid shit coming from the wife where she will rush to my own gas to cook and she didn’t even ask for permission again and she consider it normal since I don’t use to talk.

They don’t even fill their gas anymore and I am the one filling my own gas to cook for the whole house the thing I normally used for a 3-4 weeks now I must fill every Saturday amount to 1800# and I am tired of this shit and I don’t want to hurt them by insulting the woman because they consider me the good guy.

I will have to wait to cook on my own gas for them to finish silly.

So I just refill the 3kg for 1950# in my area and before I even cook anything they’ve started using it and it annoyed me and I released the gas to the air to empty cylinder when she gone out to her work.

As usual she has bought what she wanted to cook in the night and went straight to the gas to cook and she noticed it has empty and there is no option again. So I have decided not to fill the gas again for like a month because things are hard and the price for the gas kept going up.

Am I wicked
U re weak minded. Is it that u can't open ur mouth to tell her not to touch ur gas without permission from u when u first notice? What stops from say "who did u take permission from to go to my gas madam "? U was dying in silence in ur mind, to d extent u harmed urself financially by throwing away d gas?? shocked another if she comes to u to aske simply tell her no! That times re very hard now. Never u look at her face after that time. U greet & go ur way. Humans re too wicked now.
Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by Lewisdinho(m): 11:52am On Oct 10, 2021
Bros Man up
Ure a man and as such learn to say NO to people when they cross their boundaries
The woman don see say u no dey talk and u r a kind person and she wan use that opportunity ride on ur kindness
Go and refill ur gas, when next she comes tell am openly say ur gas no dey available again. Straight up. If u no fill ur gas how u go take cook eat satisfy abi u wan fear person wife go d eat outside. Ogbeni man up abeg..... Don't please others to displease urself. Shekina
aytech360:
There is this my neighbor wife that is annoying me.

The story

I have a 3kg cooking gas cylinder that I used to fill regularly when I finished it up while cooking and they have their own too 5kg.

When their own finishes they will be using my own for a day or two before they refill their own with my permission when they asked for it which I consider a normal stuff and I don’t have problem with it since the money to refill is not my problem.

But for two months now when the gas price went up I have been noticing some stupid shit coming from the wife where she will rush to my own gas to cook and she didn’t even ask for permission again and she consider it normal since I don’t use to talk.

They don’t even fill their gas anymore and I am the one filling my own gas to cook for the whole house the thing I normally used for a 3-4 weeks now I must fill every Saturday amount to 1800# and I am tired of this shit and I don’t want to hurt them by insulting the woman because they consider me the good guy.

I will have to wait to cook on my own gas for them to finish silly.

So I just refill the 3kg for 1950# in my area and before I even cook anything they’ve started using it and it annoyed me and I released the gas to the air to empty cylinder when she gone out to her work.

As usual she has bought what she wanted to cook in the night and went straight to the gas to cook and she noticed it has empty and there is no option again. So I have decided not to fill the gas again for like a month because things are hard and the price for the gas kept going up.

Am I wicked
Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by Blaksheep: 11:52am On Oct 10, 2021
seanjy4konji:
So what happeed to that neighbor after you left?

In my case,it was the girlfriend that was always rude after i set some boundaries due to being taken for granted by this same girlfriend after she started coming around....I went back to the house after 1 year,i cut of the girls left ear, and three fingers from her hand...The guy had his whole left hand cut off and left no traces...

I don't know. I don't have time for such kind of people.
Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by Lewisdinho(m): 11:53am On Oct 10, 2021
As in eh.
Longsleeve:
Just tell the woman your mind..

Instead of suffering yourself because of her..
Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by pipnator00(m): 12:00pm On Oct 10, 2021
You are not wicked but stupid.
How about telling them to stop using your gas rather than releasing/wssting the gas into the air?
The gas you released into the air would have been helpful to you and even your neighbours too rather you wasted your own money you complain about by yourself.
Bleep Off!

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Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by Fumiex(f): 12:01pm On Oct 10, 2021
Alternatively u can buy electric cooker and be using. After cooking, clean and keep
Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by CUMIN: 12:03pm On Oct 10, 2021
Edibles20:
You’re not wicked.
Nigeria is hard. Nigeria is the wicked person in this story.

That is how you fail comprehension...where was 'NIGERIA. ' mentioned in the essay.
Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by GindoX(m): 12:14pm On Oct 10, 2021
aytech360:
Thanks everyone,

I have paid my carpenter 20k to help me with small kitchen cabinet and I am on my way to purchase 2 face gas burner that I will be using with it then I can be locking my stuffs up


Lols. You no need tell us about the purchase of 2 face gas burner grin
Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by ManAdii: 12:16pm On Oct 10, 2021
This is the case of "no start wetin you no go fit finish"
Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by egunna(m): 12:17pm On Oct 10, 2021
aytech360:
There is this my neighbor wife that is annoying me.

The story

I have a 3kg cooking gas cylinder that I used to fill regularly when I finished it up while cooking and they have their own too 5kg.

When their own finishes they will be using my own for a day or two before they refill their own with my permission when they asked for it which I consider a normal stuff and I don’t have problem with it since the money to refill is not my problem.

But for two months now when the gas price went up I have been noticing some stupid shit coming from the wife where she will rush to my own gas to cook and she didn’t even ask for permission again and she consider it normal since I don’t use to talk.

They don’t even fill their gas anymore and I am the one filling my own gas to cook for the whole house the thing I normally used for a 3-4 weeks now I must fill every Saturday amount to 1800# and I am tired of this shit and I don’t want to hurt them by insulting the woman because they consider me the good guy.

I will have to wait to cook on my own gas for them to finish silly.

So I just refill the 3kg for 1950# in my area and before I even cook anything they’ve started using it and it annoyed me and I released the gas to the air to empty cylinder when she gone out to her work.

As usual she has bought what she wanted to cook in the night and went straight to the gas to cook and she noticed it has empty and there is no option again. So I have decided not to fill the gas again for like a month because things are hard and the price for the gas kept going up.

Am I wicked
first,u shud have allow Dem run d gas out by demselves instead of u running it out to d air.u cud have harmed urself.doing dat also means u wssted ur money for nothing,letting Dem use it means at least it benefited somebody.den next time u leave it empty.d woman must have an irresponsible husband to b comfortable with such a thing.
Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by Nobody: 12:26pm On Oct 10, 2021
You're wicked by releasing the gas in the air,why not let them use it till it finished then bring a girlfriend in to confront them if you can't do it yourself,that way they'll see the girl as the bad person but not you.
Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by wisz1(m): 12:28pm On Oct 10, 2021
You get sense,and the sense is very plenty.

Op why harbour something that can kill u,when will you speak up?

chatinent:

You are still at loss...if you wanted to waste it as you did, you could have allowed her waste it cooking and providing food for her family.

If you are fed up on sth, speak up! I would tell anybody off trying to keep me inconvenient with anything! I wouldn't waste it. I will tell them off! And what works for me is I don't start or allow what will probably inconvenient me later! It's only God I fear and the devil am cautious of!

Nothing pass having your separate kitchen (inside or outside your building) to avoid creating enemies. If the lady has access to your gas cylinder, she has access to your pots... conversely, she knows what goes inside your stomach.

Read again.

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Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by Richie77: 12:31pm On Oct 10, 2021
Instead of wasting the gas, u should av allowed the gas to finish naturally.
Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 12:35pm On Oct 10, 2021
aytech360:
There is this my neighbor wife that is annoying me.

The story

I have a 3kg cooking gas cylinder that I used to fill regularly when I finished it up while cooking and they have their own too 5kg.

When their own finishes they will be using my own for a day or two before they refill their own with my permission when they asked for it which I consider a normal stuff and I don’t have problem with it since the money to refill is not my problem.

But for two months now when the gas price went up I have been noticing some stupid shit coming from the wife where she will rush to my own gas to cook and she didn’t even ask for permission again and she consider it normal since I don’t use to talk.

They don’t even fill their gas anymore and I am the one filling my own gas to cook for the whole house the thing I normally used for a 3-4 weeks now I must fill every Saturday amount to 1800# and I am tired of this shit and I don’t want to hurt them by insulting the woman because they consider me the good guy.

I will have to wait to cook on my own gas for them to finish silly.

So I just refill the 3kg for 1950# in my area and before I even cook anything they’ve started using it and it annoyed me and I released the gas to the air to empty cylinder when she gone out to her work.

As usual she has bought what she wanted to cook in the night and went straight to the gas to cook and she noticed it has empty and there is no option again. So I have decided not to fill the gas again for like a month because things are hard and the price for the gas kept going up.

Am I wicked
you are not wicked ….. just a very foolish person. Like outrightly chief…. You be mumu…. So you wasted your own gas you paid for because you could not call to order people using ur own property. Abeg getat.
Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by dingbang(m): 12:39pm On Oct 10, 2021
aytech360:
There is this my neighbor wife that is annoying me.

The story

I have a 3kg cooking gas cylinder that I used to fill regularly when I finished it up while cooking and they have their own too 5kg.

When their own finishes they will be using my own for a day or two before they refill their own with my permission when they asked for it which I consider a normal stuff and I don’t have problem with it since the money to refill is not my problem.

But for two months now when the gas price went up I have been noticing some stupid shit coming from the wife where she will rush to my own gas to cook and she didn’t even ask for permission again and she consider it normal since I don’t use to talk.

They don’t even fill their gas anymore and I am the one filling my own gas to cook for the whole house the thing I normally used for a 3-4 weeks now I must fill every Saturday amount to 1800# and I am tired of this shit and I don’t want to hurt them by insulting the woman because they consider me the good guy.

I will have to wait to cook on my own gas for them to finish silly.

So I just refill the 3kg for 1950# in my area and before I even cook anything they’ve started using it and it annoyed me and I released the gas to the air to empty cylinder when she gone out to her work.

As usual she has bought what she wanted to cook in the night and went straight to the gas to cook and she noticed it has empty and there is no option again. So I have decided not to fill the gas again for like a month because things are hard and the price for the gas kept going up.

Am I wicked
you did the right thing bro. They will go and buy gas.

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Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by Missyajoke(f): 12:41pm On Oct 10, 2021
AfroKnight:
cheesy

Aytech360
Yes you are wicked. Please refill so that they can cook. Why will you watch your neighbour go hungry because of ordinary gas. That is wickedness.

I suggest you should offer to refill their own cylinder whenever it finishes as punishment for your wickedness.

Oh what a wicked world

Are you sure you're okay like this with this your foolish comment
Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by Bmaster(m): 12:44pm On Oct 10, 2021
aytech360:
There is this my neighbor wife that is annoying me.

The story

I have a 3kg cooking gas cylinder that I used to fill regularly when I finished it up while cooking and they have their own too 5kg.

When their own finishes they will be using my own for a day or two before they refill their own with my permission when they asked for it which I consider a normal stuff and I don’t have problem with it since the money to refill is not my problem.

But for two months now when the gas price went up I have been noticing some stupid shit coming from the wife where she will rush to my own gas to cook and she didn’t even ask for permission again and she consider it normal since I don’t use to talk.

They don’t even fill their gas anymore and I am the one filling my own gas to cook for the whole house the thing I normally used for a 3-4 weeks now I must fill every Saturday amount to 1800# and I am tired of this shit and I don’t want to hurt them by insulting the woman because they consider me the good guy.

I will have to wait to cook on my own gas for them to finish silly.

So I just refill the 3kg for 1950# in my area and before I even cook anything they’ve started using it and it annoyed me and I released the gas to the air to empty cylinder when she gone out to her work.

As usual she has bought what she wanted to cook in the night and went straight to the gas to cook and she noticed it has empty and there is no option again. So I have decided not to fill the gas again for like a month because things are hard and the price for the gas kept going up.

Am I wicked
gather enough money,take am pack out Asap.


I'm havin same pro as yours
Though mine is an issue of stove not gas

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Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by rosamaris: 12:45pm On Oct 10, 2021
That's why I tell people'' don't start what you cannot finish. I blame you for it. To your neighbor, you will be seen as wicked, but in you, it's like being taken advantage of without consideration. For now, open up to your neighbor and let her know her boundaries when using your gas. Shikena!!!

Yes! And that part where you released the gas to the air, that was not right. You shouldn't have done that. You could have just taken it inside if you know you don't want them to use it anymore.
Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by ArcSEMPECJ(m): 12:46pm On Oct 10, 2021
You can never tell the silent prayers that woman prays for you or even her entire family ...

You did a good thing at first but ended up cutting off the grace by wasting the gas to the air.....the same hard earned money you complained of, you went wasting it as well....
You could have allowed her make use of the gas than wasting it.
( I could say u had an atom of wickedness in this decision but born out of pressure)

Pls engage the woman to a talk, the best part of happiness is being at peace with people than being angry with them and they never knew....

More money, more Grace, more favours.....there are people paying school fees for some people, feeding even who they don't know today as we speak

..May you attend that level through your good deeds...
Re: Am I Wicked Or Did I Do The Right Thing? by McOluOmo: 12:53pm On Oct 10, 2021
U gave her privilege and now she wants to take the whole village.... Humans tho







Guys wey no get girlfriend get peace of mind

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