JoeEeL:


Guy, guy, guy, you are right but ehm...

girls can be serious pretenders esp. when it comes to pre-marriage. There's nothing they can't fake my man.

Even the ones who act churchy can fool you. Besides their past sexual activities pre-marriage is over the roof, yet they want you to remain faithful in marriage forever.

I agree gurls can be serious pretenders buh even if you meet a professional ...character is like flames she can't totally lock it down, most times partners just tend to ignore the "OFF" signs, our body kicks but we are stupidly in love nothing else matter.
Bro we all have a past, if she can admit her past she most likely to embrace a change ... everyone deserves a chance but its on you to know who deserves it.

princewarri1985:
I know this dude very well back then in lagos, and we both use to live on the same street then in ogba lagos and he is a very good friend to my cousin, then he drives an old 190 benz. HE SHOULD BE A MAN MOVE ON AND FORGET THE BRIDE PRICE BECAUSE REQUESTING FOR THE BRIDE PRICE IS SO LAME, HOPE HIM GO FIT RETURN ALL LASH AND ENJOY HIM DON ENJOY THE WOMAN TOO??

U only know of Warri tradition, not Igbo.

Iyaebe:
He should return all the sex he had with her too,after that then she will in turn return the bride price.Its that simple.

And who will return all the gifts, feeding allowance, cloths, and other expenses. And how come the the man pays for sex enjoyed by both parties. Who Lso pays for the expenses of child she came into the marriage with?

All these kids in this forum shaa, your parents should have told you that bride price are significant. He is not requesting it cos he needs money, it is the tradition.

Unseen:


Corrections.

Any child she conceived from another man will either be accepted or rejected by the former husband if the bride price is not returned.
Nobody will force him to accept a child that is not his unless he choose to. And the illegitimate child will never inherit anything unless the man choose to allow it.

On the other side, the lady can't remarry unless the bride price is returned while the man can remarry multiple times sef without collecting the first bride price.

In Igbo tradition, it's a man's world

"Remarry" as you ascribed to the man without severing the first marriage is not correct (especially if he had a court marriage). However, the Igbo tradition just as in some other tribes permits a man well to do to marry more than one wife (though with the full consent of the first wife). Therefore, in the case of Mazi Kalu Ikeagwu he cannot "remarry" until the embattled marriage is formally severed inline with customary law of the land.

This topic is crucial for the younger generation who know little or nothing about culture/tradition. There are things that cannot just be wished away. If you do not know endeavour to ask questions.

Rubbiish:

It is not an Igbo thing!
Same apply in my place & I am not Igbo!
The bride price must be returned.

Don't say it's not an Igbo thing.
Y not say "We have similar tradition in my place"!

Koboskit:


https://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2021/10/actor-kalu-ikeagwus-marriage-crashes.html?m=1

I wish my guy fit see this. No be by color. Person way no go stay no go stay.

He is always scared of fair skin gals

anonymous1759:


She should return all the sperm the husband poured too Nonsense sex is for both parties it takes two to tangle.
Only Akuna reason like you do.

...and u think she's not Akuna when she reasoned like 1?

starbuck:
When i read the news, i was really ashamed of him for demanding 14k bride price as a refund

So you still do not understand that return of bride price is confirmation of divorce in many cultures in 9ja?

In some places, bride price is even 24 Naira. A daughter is not sold but given out in marriage. The bride price is only symbolic but it must be refunded to complete divorce process. Thank you.

[Aquote author=Iyaebe post=106624728]He should return all the sex he had with her too,after that then she will in turn return the bride price.Its that simple.[/quote]

Both of them had sex, both enjoyed. so what archaic mindset do you have? Was she doing him a favour having sex?

Solatium:



i don't support the idiotic husbands call for refund of that paltry ₦14k but this your comment make me think the wife should also refund the feeding, housing and utilities cost while under his care

It's not in your place to support him or not, he married her traditionally so since she doesn't want the marriage again, let him kukuma end it same way by demanding his money back!

Do u understand now?

abouzaid:
the return of the bride price have a symbolic meaning in Igbo culture rather than the value of the money, (it a chump change), unless that bride price is returned, they're still legally married by Igbo customary law and any child that she conceived from another man must be accepted and provided for by the husband including having a claim to the husband's inheritance whether the husband likes it or not, if her father refuse to return the money, the husband must announce that he had forfeited the money to the attention of both families.

Also ADD she can not marry another MAN unless it is repaid.

Their children are even adopted.

The actor na 1mpotent d0g.

Sad.

Iyaebe:
He should return all the sex he had with her too,after that then she will in turn return the bride price.Its that simple.

na wa for you hw can he unfucked her again?

Iyaebe:
He should return all the sex he had with her too,after that then she will in turn return the bride price.Its that simple.

She didnt have the same sex with him?

omoharry:
which handwriting on the wall did he see? David himself ; does he look like a husband material to u? He has money but that does not mean he can keep a home. Nor with stand all the wahala that comes with marriage ..The institution of marriage is for matured mind and not for playboys like Davido . He need to wait till 40-45 Yrs, before getting married.
The Davido we are seeing; that still sag his jeans ,take weed like no man's business and club most of his time, is the one that is seeing hand writing on the wall ? Pls he should not deceive himself .
He is not mentally ready for all that marriage stuff and the commitment that comes with it . So he should chill and continue with his single life as a playboy .

Lol! Davido is not a marriage product? Good morning!
Precious knew FFK was a thief after break up, Tonto knew Churchill was 40 secs after break up, Kpokpogri is an ex convict and gigolo after break up. How come they are being praised but their shortcomings knowm after break ups?
If he had made the mistake of paying bride price and the Law of first son inheritance introduced, they should have being rushing to marry her and inherit the boy. Did you hear another one say the family might refuse to return bride price?
They went on Twitter already crying about a son who has 3 seniors ahead to be a legal person to inherit him, who makes such mistake?
He was about to marry her only to detect Peruzzi who connected them is not her cousin as claimed but a fvck boy, who marries such? Peruzzi should have married her if Davido had made that mistake.
Flavour that doesn't sag jeans, where is his marriage? Is Eedris not married for 16 years?
Is Chioma, the online and offline nudist, Instagram twerker, jumping from one man to anothet, almost nude a marriage product?

#14k abi na $14k? Na wa oh so marriage cheap like that

BeeBeeOoh:
I must be honest with you, It's Either You're Carrying Bag Of Cement On Your Head While Typing This Comment or You're Suffering From Juvenile Delinquency.

Having a phone and access to internet doesn't mean you're a grown up

This one sweet me whalai. Very Good

Stay away from marrying all these yeye nonsense Nigerian ladies, una no go kuku hear. Sorry lesson learnt in hard way

Iyaebe:
He should return all the sex he had with her too,after that then she will in turn return the bride price.Its that simple.

Lol, the sex he had alone or the one they had together? will the girl return her own sex too ?
Lol Lol. Returning a bride price symbolic meaning in many culture, maybe you don't know.

UwaMmebii:
#14k abi na $14k? Na wa oh so marriage cheap like that

It is not cheap, that's just the bride price. Bridal list is seperate, bride's parent's list, community demand, party etc will make it run into millions.
The list is all in one.
Moreso, be ready to harbour and train siblings.

Iyaebe:
He should return all the sex he had with her too,after that then she will in turn return the bride price.Its that simple.

This person is a prostitute or will one day be one.

starbuck:
When i read the news, i was really ashamed of him for demanding 14k bride price as a refund

it's not about the money. bride's price is even cheaper than that, some are as low as 2k. However, the retuning of bride price is symbolic in most culture, esp Igbo.

Iyaebe:
He should return all the sex he had with her too,after that then she will in turn return the bride price.Its that simple.

That's no problem , he'll just go back , lay on the bed and the wife can fvck him back. Afterwards she returns his bride price

MALIGNANTGuest:

Because he's a Gentleman, he should die gently

hahahahha.

Trumann:


You have the IQ of a tadpole

Please don't insult tadpoles

Koboskit:


https://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2021/10/actor-kalu-ikeagwus-marriage-crashes.html?m=1

The lady will take the blame now

starbuck:
When i read the news, i was really ashamed of him for demanding 14k bride price as a refund

It's not the worth of the money but the significance of the bride price , if it's even 25 naira he will demand for it back , it shows he is no longer responsible for her

MummyD2020:


The lady will take the blame now

As usual. The gender that cries the most upon divorce, would always do the least to keep the marriage. Imagine smoking in the presence of an asthmatic child and rather than make amends, he starts screaming for a bride price refund. Typical of them to try gaslighting the woman into buying their bullshit for life. Somehow it is going to be her fault now. Pfft!

eallstar:

So what happened to Tonto dikeh case? She refused the father access to his son

Tonto is wasting her time with the boy. He will return to the father when he's of age

Unseen:


Corrections.

Any child she conceived from another man will either be accepted or rejected by the former husband if the bride price is not returned.
Nobody will force him to accept a child that is not his unless he choose to. And the illegitimate child will never inherit anything unless the man choose to allow it.

On the other side, the lady can't remarry unless the bride price is returned while the man can remarry multiple times sef without collecting the first bride price.

In Igbo tradition, it's a man's world

Absolutely correct, he's even trying to free her so she can remarry if she so desires

pepperdemzombie:

That's why they kill themselves over inheritance, most of them are not the legitimate ones to inherit, and they are always greedy.
Just imagine the son your woman brought from outside to be older than your legitimate daughters or you eventually don't have a son.
You die, he inherits you, the mother marries another man, he inherits mother and son plus your properties while your legitimate daughters eat leftovers or nothing.

This ur analysis is really pathetic. Funny enough these things happen. Just cos of gender, another person will take over. Thats one thing i detest about that useless custom. And some first sons that are up to no good leverage on it.