Lamanii22:
This is one bad thing I discovered recently about myself, I yell at him when I am trying to prove a point, no insults but my voice is always high.... Then I feel bad about it afterwards....

Lamanii22:
This is one bad thing I discovered recently about myself, I yell at him when I am trying to prove a point, no insults but my voice is always high.... Then I feel bad about it afterwards....

Lamanii22:
This is one bad thing I discovered recently about myself, I yell at him when I am trying to prove a point, no insults but my voice is always high.... Then I feel bad about it afterwards....

Lamanii22:
This is one bad thing I discovered recently about myself, I yell at him when I am trying to prove a point, no insults but my voice is always high.... Then I feel bad about it afterwards....

Davash222:

One of the disadvantages of getting married to a feminist.

In African tradition, it's a sacrilege for a woman to raise her voice at her husband talk more of yelling at him.

In a sane African society, such a woman should be dragged to the market square, disgraced and punished by her fellow women!

Iyaebe:
One thing I've noticed about men is that they so much hate it when a woman wins them over an argument, so stop shouting and let him enjoy his "Oga" space in peace.

Ginaz:
Maybe it is this nairaland you want to pack your marriage journey and wahala inside o.

Madam abeg rest !

lilvicky68:
Maybe his name should be patience cos he's really trying..

Some very intelligent women are good at shouting cos they feel their point is always valid.

If na me our discussion will be limited to only good morning and how are you till you change..

Lamanii22:
This is one bad thing I discovered recently about myself, I yell at him when I am trying to prove a point, no insults but my voice is always high.... Then I feel bad about it afterwards....

frozen70:


Tell him the problem you are having with it and he would help you to solve the problem

But be ready to calm down and comport yourself
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Humbleness is the key

Favfables:


And I'm guessing when you yell like that, he keeps quiet and you feel you've won the argument . Because men no fit match woman mouth o, then go just wake or them use their fist...

But kwantinue sha ...

You know what to do already but yet you're stalling...
And..
The only reason you're becoming worried is because you've probably seen changes in his attitude, no much play like before, romance have died down a little, he probably keeps late nights or spend more time outside, he may not have laid hands on you, but you percieve he would some day(these are just assumptions)...

Ha ha!!! Tis well with you madam...

Maybe you didn't know before now, but I'll educate you a little..

Raising your voice at your husband is SUPER DISRESPECTFUL, the fact that you can confidently yell at him every time you have an argument is a sign that you don't respect him and there's only so much a man who isn't respected can swallow... Eventually he will walk away, if you don't stop...

Na small thing dey cause divorce...
Get sense now before it's too late...

You're lucky he hasn't already laid hands on you, because with the way naija dey, some men tolerance don reach im limit...

Kobojunkie:
Send your point to him via text message.... that way all that energy spent on yelling goes to quietly typing out the details of your point instead, and he can take his time to carefully read through the text after receiving it.

Problem solved... no yelling but you still get your point across. The good thing about this method is you can easily resend the message when the same point needs to be revisited.

Davash222:

One of the disadvantages of getting married to a feminist.

In African tradition, it's a sacrilege for a woman to raise her voice at her husband talk more of yelling at him.

In a sane African society, such a woman should be dragged to the market square, disgraced and punished by her fellow women!

Lamanii22:



Not like I insult him or anything... I can't make a point without raising my voice.... I'd just start keeping quiet and not respond....