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Favfables:
Madam, yelling at a man is a very big insult in itself... Stop it now or you may regret it in future...

Okay thank you

Lamanii22:
This is one bad thing I discovered recently about myself, I yell at him when I am trying to prove a point, no insults but my voice is always high.... Then I feel bad about it afterwards....

What are those things that he does that makes you yell, which is unlike you (as you say)?
Talk to him about it when you're both in a calmer state.
The more you open up/talk/communicate with your partner, the better you (both) understand each other's personalities and what triggers what.

Wetin concern me?

Since you don't like the idea, try as much as you can to control it and don't always try to prove your points at all cost.

Davash222:
One of the disadvantages of getting married to a feminist.

In African tradition, it's a sacrilege for a woman to raise her voice at her husband talk more of yelling at him.

In a sane African society, such a woman should be dragged to the market square, disgraced and punished by her fellow women!

I deserve this

W

Keep shouting till you get BP.

You get evil spirit.. deal with it first

Lol

Na you dey feed am?

Lamanii22:
This is one bad thing I discovered recently about myself, I yell at him when I am trying to prove a point, no insults but my voice is always high.... Then I feel bad about it afterwards....

Lamanii22:
This is one bad thing I discovered recently about myself, I yell at him when I am trying to prove a point, no insults but my voice is always high.... Then I feel bad about it afterwards....

No be only you, females are naturally unstable

Lamanii22:
This is one bad thing I discovered recently about myself, I yell at him when I am trying to prove a point, no insults but my voice is always high.... Then I feel bad about it afterwards....

This matter Strong

Madam better stop yelling at your man.

Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

You need a serious beating.

Lamanii22:
This is one bad thing I discovered recently about myself, I yell at him when I am trying to prove a point, no insults but my voice is always high.... Then I feel bad about it afterwards....

Leave him or let him leave you..

Some things never change

Lamanii22:
This is one bad thing I discovered recently about myself, I yell at him when I am trying to prove a point, no insults but my voice is always high.... Then I feel bad about it afterwards....

What's your partner's reaction to this,does he complain or feel bad about it

my people says, the day a mentally ill person knows, he or she is ill. Thats the end of the mental illness,meaninvg?

Once you know it, stop it.

Lamanii22:
This is one bad thing I discovered recently about myself, I yell at him when I am trying to prove a point, no insults but my voice is always high.... Then I feel bad about it afterwards....

Do u think ure always right? Or love to win an argument or just temperamental??

I don’t want to think ur bipolar.

OP na one hot slap from him go make you stop the yeye habit. Guess your partner is cool headed.

Be cautious about it, try reducing your talk speed and volume a bit, but still remain audible.

Lamanii22:
This is one bad thing I discovered recently about myself, I yell at him when I am trying to prove a point, no insults but my voice is always high.... Then I feel bad about it afterwards....

Your partner is gentle, assuming he had beat yelling out of you by it will be thing of the past

Lamanii22:
This is one bad thing I discovered recently about myself, I yell at him when I am trying to prove a point, no insults but my voice is always high.... Then I feel bad about it afterwards....

I guess you started dating guys at a very early age. That is where the fundamental problem start from. You better fine a way to stop yelling at your parent cos you might take that habit to your own matrimonial home

Yelling at him could diminish the love he has for you gradually... Be careful... Some men don't speak out but they hurt internally when their wife yell at them... My sincere advice, discipline yourself.... Just take a deep breath when you are about going high or just walk away from the discussion
Better still kiss him and softly tell him, you were about yelling again but you are trying to quell it with the kiss... All the best

Lamanii22:
This is one bad thing I discovered recently about myself, I yell at him when I am trying to prove a point, no insults but my voice is always high.... Then I feel bad about it afterwards....

thats cause he doesn't slap u quick enough, when he start slapping u will b reducing ur voice

you have spirit husband

Respect! You only shout at him because you do not respect him. Not because he makes you angry or because he does something wrong. Let me ask you, "Do you shout at your boss in the office?" Probably not. Why?? Because you respect your boss.

Lamanii22:
This is one bad thing I discovered recently about myself, I yell at him when I am trying to prove a point, no insults but my voice is always high.... Then I feel bad about it afterwards....

You are beginning to get tired of him. Just a matter of time now, you will start looking elsewhere. Good luck!

Pinch yourself when you are doing it

Why do you call your husband your partner?
I think it's too casual. Call him your husband, no wonder some are saying leave him.

Lamanii22:
This is one bad thing I discovered recently about myself, I yell at him when I am trying to prove a point, no insults but my voice is always high.... Then I feel bad about it afterwards....