₦airaland Forum

Fiscus105:
Why weeping that ur fellow human being (female) are getting good job and better?

Satanist like you want them to be inside kitchen cooking for u day and night , and u will be claiming big man,......African man,

So that you can be sleeping with every girl in ur locality

Godoverevery:
What is the point of sending a female child to school and empowering her if at the end of it all she still feels marginalised.

Right from my primary school in the early 90's till this point I always competit with ladies on the same level ground...nothing was given to me freely because am a man.
Is really annoying that people like ini edo and co will always come out to play the same old card of African female child/women are marginalised....this am a woman change is a total nonsense because is fellow women that mocks themselves.

I will be analysing every sector and section of social life to prove this old lies wrong

Education
Just take a look around you and tell me which female child is actually stopped from going to school because of her gender......Right from my primary school untill university there were more female student than the male......we receive the same quality of Education so were the marginalisation??

Work/job
Currently in nigeria is easy for a woman to get a job than a man.....Apart from the engineering sector which is dominated by the male most sector is dominated by the female(banks,medical,hotels,entertainment)...so were the marginalisation.

Politics
Nobody gifts anyone an elective post anywhere in the world rather you fight for it....Men fight for it with blood and sweat so if a woman wants to hold this post she must be ready to fight not expecting to be handed over on a platter.
If a woman should come out to contest for elective post in this country even her fellow women won't vote for her....so were is the marginalisation

Entertainment
Is no news apart from music which men dominant the movie industry is dominated by the female who make more money than the male....people like ini edo won't question why they are paid more than there male colleagues in the same profession.

Relationship/marriage
Today in nigeria if you can not provide for your family u are useless man.....even in ordinary relationship a lady will expect you to provide things she needs..No money No love yet they still complain and play victim card.
They can't date broke guys but will expect well to do guys to date a lady who can't even do a 1k sub for herself......they only have the right to choose but not men......were is the marginalisation

In marriage you pay to marry her,you provide shelter, food,clothing etc...if the marriage crash you pay child support.....A full adult totally dependent on another and still feel she meant to be equal with him......were is the marginalisation


State and federal government pays equally to both gender on the same level
Private sector pays equally to both gender on the same level.

I have a lil sis.....there was nothing I enjoy or had that she didn't get from our parent.....I challenge any lady here to tell me how she was treated inferior to her brothers.

What is the point of sending a female child to school from primary to higher institution and at the end of the day she will be totally dependent on the man and will always feel she isn't given enough to be independent.

The moment we start debunking the lies and stop victim mentality the better for the next generation of girls.....this lies is the reason why most our ladies are unproductive and lazy.

Help the female child by letting her know she can do it on her own.....she can competit and no one can stop her except herself.

Women stop spreading the message of victim mentality/marginalisation to our girls this 2021 not 1960.

Primeze:
OP abeg be calming down, why am l reading this piece like you are shouting, lol.

DoggoneDogg:
So why was Ini Edo complaining??

Tamunotonye22:
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The problem is not about being in prestigious sectors, it's about "them" being independent and totally entitled. Be logical too

Justbehave:
Is this all you have to say? Lol.

pocohantas:
Maybe she hasn’t been to these sectors you all have been to.

FreeIgboho:
The vast majority of women in Nigeria are NOT in the category described by OP. They are indeed marginalized and expected to be comfortable being second class citizens and very subservient to men

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How many women are like your account officer? Nigeria is approximately 50% women. Look at the business, political, church, education, etc leadership landscapes in Nigeria. How many are wome??
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Remember 50% are women. How many of the following have been women:
Presidents
Senators
Governors
House of reps
Millionaires and billionaires
Church leaders
Top business owners
Heads if universities
Heads of the military branches
Heads of labour unions
Etc.
Remember women are 50% of the population. What percentage of these do you think are women?

badman007:
This is the most stupid thing I’ve read all year.
In a world full of people with obvious religious prejudice and Bias against women. It goes to show how Unenlightened and uninformed you are about the issue of women’s rights/marginalisation.

pocohantas:
From your thread, they are in every prestigious sector except engineering. Please don’t discredit your own research. I like to think you logically put it together.

Justbehave:
This one lacks compression.
Guys please avoid this one. He or she is already damaged

badman007:
This is the most stupid thing I’ve read all year.
In a world full of people with obvious religious prejudice and Bias against women. It goes to show how Unenlightened and uninformed you are about the issue of women’s rights/marginalisation.

Swinger60:
You didn't remember the girls that are married off at the age of 15years and denied education.

You didn't remember the wives that their husbands banned from working. so, they depend solely on him while it fuels their ego. (they annoying thing is both families will support him and ask wife to listen to her husband)

And, I read where you said women depends on men for everything, what of the home where the woman is the bread winner nko? And, the husband stiill wants to be worshipped as alpha and omega, if wife rebels, then, she is not a good a wife.

You also forgetting that a girl child can get herself raped just for being a girl. and, all blames will be on her with comments like, why did you eat his money? why did you go to party? why did you go to read alone at that church, school? etc. Why did you give him his number? with this kind of breast and nyash, that's why the uncle raped you. and so many bla bla.

You said men pay "child support" in this country or in another planet? Nigeria that a man will wake up one morning and send his wife and children away without any financial support till those children grows.


Abeg, plenty talk dey tire me biko.

I don't understand you male genders in this country, always fighting and arguing over anything concerning the female gender.

Swinger60:
You didn't remember the girls that are married off at the age of 15years and denied education.

You didn't remember the wives that their husbands banned from working. so, they depend solely on him while it fuels their ego. (they annoying thing is both families will support him and ask wife to listen to her husband)

And, I read where you said women depends on men for everything, what of the home where the woman is the bread winner nko? And, the husband stiill wants to be worshipped as alpha and omega, if wife rebels, then, she is not a good a wife.

You also forgetting that a girl child can get herself raped just for being a girl. and, all blames will be on her with comments like, why did you eat his money? why did you go to party? why did you go to read alone at that church, school? etc. Why did you give him his number? with this kind of breast and nyash, that's why the uncle raped you. and so many bla bla.

You said men pay "child support" in this country or in another planet? Nigeria that a man will wake up one morning and send his wife and children away without any financial support till those children grows.


Abeg, plenty talk dey tire me biko.

I don't understand you male genders in this country, always fighting and arguing over anything concerning the female gender.

Fiscus105:
Next ten year keep on wailing, maybe wen you grow old you would stop lamenting.

Darwin said it long ago even before ur father born about survival of the fittest.

If u are weeping now cos certain people are defeating you to make it in life.

Instead to double ur effort, u come on faceless forum to postulate theory. Keep on .

DoggoneDogg:
...in her sector pocohantas.
Women make more in her sector yet she complained. Why??

Godoverevery:
What is the point of sending a female child to school and empowering her if at the end of it all she still feels marginalised.

Right from my primary school in the early 90's till this point I always competit with ladies on the same level ground...nothing was given to me freely because am a man.
Is really annoying that people like ini edo and co will always come out to play the same old card of African female child/women are marginalised....this am a woman change is a total nonsense because is fellow women that mocks themselves.

I will be analysing every sector and section of social life to prove this old lies wrong

Education
Just take a look around you and tell me which female child is actually stopped from going to school because of her gender......Right from my primary school untill university there were more female student than the male......we receive the same quality of Education so were the marginalisation??

Work/job
Currently in nigeria is easy for a woman to get a job than a man.....Apart from the engineering sector which is dominated by the male most sector is dominated by the female(banks,medical,hotels,entertainment)...so were the marginalisation.

Politics
Nobody gifts anyone an elective post anywhere in the world rather you fight for it....Men fight for it with blood and sweat so if a woman wants to hold this post she must be ready to fight not expecting to be handed over on a platter.
If a woman should come out to contest for elective post in this country even her fellow women won't vote for her....so were is the marginalisation

Entertainment
Is no news apart from music which men dominant the movie industry is dominated by the female who make more money than the male....people like ini edo won't question why they are paid more than there male colleagues in the same profession.

Relationship/marriage
Today in nigeria if you can not provide for your family u are useless man.....even in ordinary relationship a lady will expect you to provide things she needs..No money No love yet they still complain and play victim card.
They can't date broke guys but will expect well to do guys to date a lady who can't even do a 1k sub for herself......they only have the right to choose but not men......were is the marginalisation

In marriage you pay to marry her,you provide shelter, food,clothing etc...if the marriage crash you pay child support.....A full adult totally dependent on another and still feel she meant to be equal with him......were is the marginalisation


State and federal government pays equally to both gender on the same level
Private sector pays equally to both gender on the same level.

I have a lil sis.....there was nothing I enjoy or had that she didn't get from our parent.....I challenge any lady here to tell me how she was treated inferior to her brothers.

What is the point of sending a female child to school from primary to higher institution and at the end of the day she will be totally dependent on the man and will always feel she isn't given enough to be independent.

The moment we start debunking the lies and stop victim mentality the better for the next generation of girls.....this lies is the reason why most our ladies are unproductive and lazy.

Help the female child by letting her know she can do it on her own.....she can competit and no one can stop her except herself.

Women stop spreading the message of victim mentality/marginalisation to our girls this 2021 not 1960.

pocohantas:
Maybe she hasn’t been to these sectors you all have been to.



The problem is you lacking the basic understanding to know my post was in response to his, not your feelings.

pocohantas:
Because she is not an account officer like you to know what every other woman is paid.

FreeIgboho:
The vast majority of women in Nigeria are NOT in the category described by OP. They are indeed marginalized and expected to be comfortable being second class citizens and very subservient to men

-----------------------------


How many women are like your account officer? Nigeria is approximately 50% women. Look at the business, political, church, education, etc leadership landscapes in Nigeria. How many are wome??
-----------------------------


Remember 50% are women. How many of the following have been women:
Presidents
Senators
Governors
House of reps
Millionaires and billionaires
Church leaders
Top business owners
Heads if universities
Heads of the military branches
Heads of labour unions
Etc.
Remember women are 50% of the population. What percentage of these do you think are women?
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The paternalistic society is stopping them. It is the way the society is structured. It is systemic. That's why they have a right to cry marginalixation.

pansophist:
I'm always Happy when I see people using their brain and can think. It gives me joy really, because as it seems, the media and corporation only needs to support and push and agenda no matter how ridiculous and viola, the mass will parrot it and fight to death to defend it, a good example I'd feminism and female discrimination. Because no matter what women complain about, men have it worse.

Justbehave:
Just a single evidence to prove the op wrong you couldn't. Smh.

dollynnn:
You have said it all!
Females have been playing the "Victim cards " since the 90's
Notwithstanding the fact that I am a female,all what the OP wrote up there is the truth, nothing but the truth

Fiscus105:
Not until you guys come to realisation that you own ur woman, though not ur slave or ur servant o, you won't stop to lament on woman issue.


Person (woman) that is not from ur own family, would come to ur house, change her patriarch name, adopt ur own, go to labour in which it's life and death, the outcomes of such risky adventure, would be bearing ur patriarch name, non will bear her own patriarch name. Not done with that, she would be cooking and doing house chores for you, when she finally dies, the remain will not still go back to her father house, but ur own place.

Upon all these, you guys still lamenting on secondly basis on woman issue. Who curse you for Christ sake?

pocohantas:
Exactly, Nigerian women are hardworking. They are not oloshos. God continue to bless Nigerian women. Today Nigerian men have appreciated their hardwork.

Justbehave:
I want to hear from the ladies. @ OP. You ve said it all.My account officer is a lady rich and single. I have asked her this question once and her answer was that only a lazy and entitled lady can say that they are marginalized.