₦airaland Forum

Godoverevery:
Is not her fault but she isn't doing anything to change it.

She constantly asking her man when are you going to pay my bride price.

How many ladies have come out to speak against bride price?? Or they are waiting for us to speak for them and tag us broke ass.

That's exactly what many of them are here doing - screaming marginalization. While you are here insisting they are not marginalized - an obvious lie

shaybebaby:
But it isn't war is it?

The entire point is that there are additional barriers that are based on gender in order to access opportunities.

Let's leave conjecture aside and stick to the facts. She was told she couldn't throw her hat in the ring because they didn't want her gender.

That was the starting point. Meanwhile the other men didn't have to face that particular obstacle just to contest. No doubt there will be obstacles during the actual race. But in her case, to contest, she had to face one more, than the rest of her male competitors.

That extra one, is the marginalisation.

If a beauty pagant that comprises both male and female is organised ....be honest who do you think we likely win

Life is a war the earlier we all admit the better.....she decided to dwell on the negative comments than positive one's.

She can't tell me nobody encourage her to carry on....they attacked her with her gender but men are attacked with there financial status.....which one is a lesser evil.

We ain't meant to face the same obstacles......nobody is going to attack her on financial grounds which a man will face.

FreeIgboho:
That's exactly what many of them are here doing - screaming marginalization. While you are here insisting they are not marginalized - an obvious lie

Maybe is high time you Google the meaning of marginalisation ooooo.

Is obvious you don't know the meaning of that word with this

FreeIgboho:
My friend forget all these retail stuff. The system itself, societal structure itself, is unfair to women (including traditions, customs, culture, expectations, conditioning, etc - which were of course set by the dominant sex).
You may start the reformation by giving the female child EXACTLY the same rights as the male child in her father's house including the right to propagate her surname (like have all or some of her children bear her last name) - which is basically the only reason Nigerian parents prefer a male. After that you move to her children being equally hers as her husband's; then you move to her husband not having any right to ask her to move out of "his house", etc
And why are most OB/GNY men?? What's your answer to that? They are not "wired" for nursing but they are wired to go into a woman's thing!

i should forget obvious facts...because it doesnt fit ur narrative..ok....i'll indulge you and your petty points

1...the right to propagate surname can be discussed between spouses.....the gorvenment ddnt make it rule, it started hundreds of years ago...may people dont even care about it...many people marry now without change of name..so i dont see how this is an issue killing women...women dont have to cry over this...

2...this is the 21st century oga....in the old days ..people wanted male children because they did more exploits in those days...now both genders fantastic...different people prefer different gender...i'd love to have a girl child... some people dont ..u cant demonize poeple for their choice..
people have their preference for different reasons,,,u cant hastily conclude what their reasons are for them...if i say all u have is fallacy now..u will say i dont know what fallacy is...

3...please u need to go to court once in while and see how divorce cases are judged...in fact judges rule infavour of the woman more than the men when it comes to child custody...so i dont what you mean by " her children being equally hers as her husband's"

4. oh u want the US law that a woman will commit adultry and still get to chase the man out the house to apply here in nigeria.... go to the US...95% man and woman contribute to the mortgage payment, share bills...thats why most judges split things equally..... and the only reason women get the house is when they get custody...the home goes to whoever wins the child custody......
nigga...nigerian men dont chase responsible women out of the house....no sane man chases a good wife out....even if he built it all himself...

all this chase out of the house point u are raising are isolated cases...please mention somthing else...

The reasons why there are more obstetrics and gynaecology men is same reason why there are more male neuro surgeons, more male cardiovascular surgeons and every other specialization of medicine.....it's resilience......men and women dont have the same risk and toughness appetite........the medical field is highly demanding as you go up...

my elder brother was in the residency program after service..
many doctors dont even get into residency......more than 80% of them had to do their exams four times..an exam thats about 500k twice a year... many gave up including men...u think its every doctor that becomes a consultant....but once women are affected u people call it marginalization because more men decided to toughen it up....

Godoverevery:
If a beauty pagant that comprises both male and female is organised ....be honest who do you think we likely win

Life is a war the earlier we all admit the better.....she decided to dwell on the negative comments than positive one's.

She can't tell me nobody encourage her to carry on....they attacked her with her gender but men are attacked with there financial status.....which one is a lesser evil.

We ain't meant to face the same obstacles......nobody is going to attack her on financial grounds which a man will face.

Gender is the one thing you can't change. Financial situation is some that has and does change with frequency.

Whether or not she was encouraged is irrelevant. Her example demonstrates marginalisation.

You bring up beauty contest. In a contest where male and female are expected to participate, if the judging standards are based on the features of one gender solely, then there would be marginalisation of the other gender

If the standards are based on a mixture of both gender's quality AND enforced. Then there is less chance of marginalisation.
Note I said enforcement. A scenario where if there is a breach, there are consequences.

In her example, she was discriminated against with no repercussions for those who perpetrated it.

So far, you deniers seem to only agree with examples like child marriages that happen in the North.

Please tell me, when these older men do these to the children, what are the LEGAL consequences they face?

Even if they do not face that, please tell me what societal consequences they face? Can you tell me of any deterrents to them perpetuating their acts of violence?

My point being, if deterrents aren't put in place, the female gender still continues to be marginalised.

If what happened to Coco happened where I am, she'd have some mullah in her bank account and those fellas would have been kicked out of the school.

If it happened to and we swap gender for race, same outcome for you. You may not win the race even after you entered, but you would be able to punish those who attempted to stop, not because of your capability but your race.

Race and gender being protected characteristics enshrined in law and whose discrimination is punishable by law.

Op this post of yours deserves to be sold as an NFT.

You said it all.

If only our ladies will start taking responsibility and stop playing the victim card, men will begin to appreciate them the more.

FreeIgboho:
My friend forget all these retail stuff. The system itself, societal structure itself, is unfair to women (including traditions, customs, culture, expectations, conditioning, etc - which were of course set by the dominant sex).
You may start the reformation by giving the female child EXACTLY the same rights as the male child in her father's house including the right to propagate her surname (like have all or some of her children bear her last name) - which is basically the only reason Nigerian parents prefer a male. After that you move to her children being equally hers as her husband's; then you move to her husband not having any right to ask her to move out of "his house", etc
And why are most OB/GNY men?? What's your answer to that? They are not "wired" for nursing but they are wired to go into a woman's thing!

i should forget obvious facts...because it doesnt fit ur narrative..ok....i'll indulge you and your petty points

1...the right to propagate surname can be discussed between spouses.....the gorvenment ddnt make it rule, it started hundreds of years ago...may people dont even care about it...many people marry now without change of name..so i dont see how this is an issue killing women...women dont have to cry over this...

2...this is the 21st century oga....in the old days ..people wanted male children because they did more exploits in those days...now both genders fantastic...different people prefer different gender...i'd love to have a girl child... some people dont ..u cant demonize poeple for their choice..
people have their preference for different reasons,,,u cant hastily conclude what their reasons are for them...if i say all u have is fallacy now..u will say i dont know what fallacy is...

3...please u need to go to court once in while and see how divorce cases are judged...in fact judges rule infavour of the woman more than the men when it comes to child custody...so i dont what you mean by " her children being equally hers as her husband's"

4. oh u want the US law that a woman will commit adultry and still get to chase the man out the house to apply here in nigeria....fine...
go to the US...95% men and women contribute to the mortgage payment, share bills...that's why most judges split things equally.....u think they are stupid in the US.... and the only reason women get the house is when they get custody of the child...the home goes to whoever wins the child custody, it could be the male.... Didnt Adele pay alimony and leave the house for her ex husband.....??
nigga...nigerian men dont chase responsible women out of the house....no sane man chases a good wife out....even if he built it all himself...
all this chase out of the house point u are raising are isolated cases...please mention something else...



5. ...The reasons why there are more obstetrics and gynaecology men is same reason why there are more male neuro surgeons, more male cardiovascular surgeons and every other specialization of medicine.....it's resilience......men and women dont have the same risk and toughness appetite........the medical field is highly demanding right from the start....as you go up...women that are tough are consultants...

.go and look at the statistics of people that fail or change from medicine right from year one, two, and three,....its a fvcking tough field for both genders that are not resilient....but once more women are affected...its the mens fault, its society, its the system....please stop it...its pathetic..

my elder brother was in the residency program after service..
many doctors dont even get into residency......more than 80% of them had to do their exams four times..an exam thats about 500k twice a year... many gave up including men...u think its every doctor that becomes a consultant....but once women are affected u people call it marginalization because more men decided to toughen it up....

CHoccolaTE:
I really admire the strength you and cococandy have to answer these woman haters and confused women that go along with the crap they write.

I wish you guys more strength to continue.

Lol, I'm not continuing. The thread is now theirs.

We usually get these triggered retaliatory/trivializing threads once there's Mother's Day, International Women's Day and No Bra day. Even Mother's Day of all days, the day of their saintly mothers!

Most males can't stand women as fellow humans.

Everyday they say there's no marginalization, yet go ahead to perpetrate some. There can't be marginalization because their mom has a job, or maybe their sister is a hospital unit head. Or maybe because Beyonce earns more than they do. And the women talking, some will never reach their peak due to marginalization yet they are content.

It's like people saying, "I'm not racist because I know some black people".

shaybebaby:
Gender is the one thing you can't change. Financial situation is some that has and does change with frequency.

Whether or not she was encouraged is irrelevant. Her example demonstrates marginalisation.

You bring up beauty contest. In a contest where male and female are expected to participate, if the judging standards are based on the features of one gender solely, then there would be marginalisation of the other gender

If the standards are based on a mixture of both gender's quality AND enforced. Then there is less chance of marginalisation.
Note I said enforcement. A scenario where if there is a breach, there are consequences.

In her example, she was discriminated against with no repercussions for those who perpetrated it.

So far, you deniers seem to only agree with examples like child marriages that happen in the North.

Please tell me, when these older men do these to the children, what are the LEGAL consequences they face?

Even if they do not face that, please tell me what societal consequences they face? Can you tell me of any deterrents to them perpetuating their acts of violence?

My point being, if deterrents aren't put in place, the female gender still continues to be marginalised.

If what happened to Coco happened where I am, she'd have some mullah in her bank account and those fellas would have been kicked out of the school.

If it happened to and we swap gender for race, same outcome for you. You may not win the race even after you entered, but you would be able to punish those who attempted to stop, not because of your capability but your race.

Race and gender being protected characteristics enshrined in law and whose discrimination is punishable by law.

Not surprised at all with your submission at all.....so Islam permit girls to be married at young age and this isn't done only in the northern Nigeria but all Islamic countries.....the Muslim fill comfortable with it because is there religious belief which we must respect even if some of us don't like it.

Coco is just play victim card here.

Was she stopped from buying the form??
Did any law said she can't contest??
If she got the form will her name not be on the ballot??

And please Google the meaning of marginalisation because seem most y'all don't know the meaning of that word.

I insist coco would have been marginalised if she was stopped by any law banning her from getting the form to contest.

cococandy:
Nothing to add.

I’ve stopped replying them

Done, too.

One can't expect them to accept the truth. That would mean having to share privileges with females and accord them respect as humans. And that would be unacceptable to them. It would mean making Nigeria like the West that they love to hate.

Godoverevery:
Maybe is high time you Google the meaning of marginalisation ooooo.

Is obvious you don't know the meaning of that word with this

Here's the meaning ig marginalization. Enjoy

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BRATISLAVA:
Conduct an interview and stop making assumptions. Even the way most of you comment here, looking down on opinions of women is a sure sign that you don't want women to speak or be heard or seen. You would prefer yourselves instead.

Anyway, do the interview on hardworking women who achieve their dreams and goals. Ask them how they got there, if there was any marginalization, etc.

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And you're making victim hood mentality comments.

FreeIgboho:
You are beating about the bush. The question is marginalization. If men and women were two different tribes in Nigeria, will there be any question that one tribe is marginalized?

PrimadonnaO:
It still remains sectional, because it's not the reality in the entire county.

And if the North is the reason people still scream women marginalisation today, then the narrative should be framed correctly, as "marginalisation of the girl-child in the north."

this north narrative sef is rubbish. The female children that are forced to marry at 12 have brothers that are left on the streets at age 9, the females are forced to marry, the males are ignored to either follow a trailer down south to scavenge metal, beg or worse still, left at the mercy of Boko Haram and bandits recruiters.
These only in the poorest of poor families. Well to do homes in the North don't marry off their children or leave them at the mercy of BH.
I was told by my friends in kano that girls are paid to go to school in Jigawa. The boys are given scholarship too but those of the girls is 4x higher than the ones given to their male counterparts.

My Fulani friend has a girl who is betrothed to him, she finished secondary school and refused to write jamb, she declared she wants to get married. My friend begged her to carry jamb she refused, he gave her money to buy form she used it to buy clothes and hair. He has decided to do the wedding in a couple of months. You will now see someone like that now and still type that Northern girls are denied education.
Any family where a Northern girl is forced to marry at 12, her brother is in the South picking condemn iron or helping BH to clean Ak-47

advanceDNA:
i should forget obvious facts...because it doesnt fit ur narrative..ok....i'll indulge you and your petty points

1...the right to propagate surname can be discussed between spouses.....the gorvenment ddnt make it rule, it started hundreds of years ago...may people dont even care about it...many people marry now without change of name..so i dont see how this is an issue killing women...women dont have to cry over this...

2...this is the 21st century oga....in the old days ..people wanted male children because they did more exploits in those days...now both genders fantastic...different people prefer different gender...i'd love to have a girl child... some people dont ..u cant demonize poeple for their choice..
people have their preference for different reasons,,,u cant hastily conclude what their reasons are for them...if i say all u have is fallacy now..u will say i dont know what fallacy is...

3...please u need to go to court once in while and see how divorce cases are judged...in fact judges rule infavour of the woman more than the men when it comes to child custody...so i dont what you mean by " her children being equally hers as her husband's"

4. oh u want the US law that a woman will commit adultry and still get to chase the man out the house to apply here in nigeria....fine...
go to the US...95% men and women contribute to the mortgage payment, share bills...that's why most judges split things equally.....u think they are stupid in the US.... and the only reason women get the house is when they get custody of the child...the home goes to whoever wins the child custody, it could be the male.... Didnt Adele pay alimony and leave the house for her ex husband.....??
nigga...nigerian men dont chase responsible women out of the house....no sane man chases a good wife out....even if he built it all himself...
all this chase out of the house point u are raising are isolated cases...please mention something else...



5. ...The reasons why there are more obstetrics and gynaecology men is same reason why there are more male neuro surgeons, more male cardiovascular surgeons and every other specialization of medicine.....it's resilience......men and women dont have the same risk and toughness appetite........the medical field is highly demanding right from the start....as you go up...women that are tough are consultants...

.go and look at the statistics of people that fail or change from medicine right from year one, two, and three,....its a fvcking tough field for both genders that are not resilient....but once more women are affected...its the mens fault, its society, its the system....please stop it...its pathetic..

my elder brother was in the residency program after service..
many doctors dont even get into residency......more than 80% of them had to do their exams four times..an exam thats about 500k twice a year... many gave up including men...u think its every doctor that becomes a consultant....but once women are affected u people call it marginalization because more men decided to toughen it up....

You know this is also what whites do about blacks. They'll tell you discrimination ended long ago and enumerate how blacks are even the ones favored. Yet you look at all the juicy positions and you hardly see any blacks. I asked Google for you. Below is what it says.
Godoverevery u wanted Google. Here's more Google for you

FreeIgboho:
You know this is also what whites do about blacks. They'll tell you discrimination ended long ago and enumerate how blacks are even the ones favored. Yet you look at all the juicy positions and you hardly see any blacks. I asked Google for you. Below is what it says

....u dialogue with emotions..not objectively or with data..
..when peoplee counter your opinion...u don't seem to have a countee comeback ...but u just want them to accept you say so without showing significant evidence..

You:Women are marginalized...
Me: Show me significant proof..not isolated cases..
You: no, forget it..just accept it...it's the same thing with blacks and white

angelfallz:
And you're making victim hood mentality comments.

We decided to let Google settle it. See above

advanceDNA:
....u dialogue with emotions..not objectively or with data..
..when peoplee counter your opinion...u don't seem to have a countee comeback ...but u just want them to accept you say so without showing significant evidence..

You:Women are marginalized...
Me: Show me significant proof..not isolated cases..
You: no, forget it..just accept it...it's the same thing with blacks and white

I just showed you what GOOGLE has to say about the affair. Google, not me.. What can be more objective than that??

shaybebaby:
Coco DID share her experience at Uni and you dismissed it.

Because it was a case of student political bigwigs... not a law in the students' handbook. She could have naturally ignored them, and gone on to make her case with the authorities who mattered.

The girl child is marginalized.

Give us an example.

My fellow students didn't let me vie for the office of president because they said they'd rather a male.

Shaybebaby,do you also think that's admissible?

FreeIgboho:
You know this is also what whites do about blacks. They'll tell you discrimination ended long ago and enumerate how blacks are even the ones favored. Yet you look at all the juicy positions and you hardly see any blacks. I asked Google for you. Below is what it says.
Godoverevery u wanted Google. Here's more Google for you

See what you are saying and asking is for men to hand over power to women......we can't all be leaders is common sense.

Ofcos is Google....we have lot of woman pushing that agenda of marginalisation making it looks like is the men fault.

No two people can be truly equal....

If a woman wants to feel equal to her man and want equal say....she should woo him,provide shelter,cloth him,pay groom price and finance the wedding...then she has earn the right.

Very simple something.

FreeIgboho:
You know this is also what whites do about blacks. They'll tell you discrimination ended long ago and enumerate how blacks are even the ones favored. Yet you look at all the juicy positions and you hardly see any blacks. I asked Google for you. Below is what it says.
Godoverevery u wanted Google. Here's more Google for you

lol
1. It is absurd to compare race and gender.
2. Google are at the very forefront of promoting this gender narrative that's like asking Adamu Garba if sharia is good or bad.

Lastly, there are millions of blacks in good position. Good government positions sef. In fact blacks are even over represented in Caucasian societies. You hear Nigerians winning governorship positions in Canada, Sweden, mayors in the UK etc. How many whites can win elections in a black dominated society?

He clearly asked women to explain HOW they are being marginalised.

Because you lack the intellect to respond accordingly, you insult the writer.

I don't blame you but the 12 dumb feminists who were unable to counter the OP, wisely didn't comment but quietly liked your comment.

Shadow supporters of evil

badman007:
This is the most stupid thing I’ve read all year.
In a world full of people with obvious religious prejudice and Bias against women. It goes to show how Unenlightened and uninformed you are about the issue of women’s rights/marginalisation.

PrimadonnaO:
Because it was a case of student political bigwigs... not a law in the students' handbook. She could have naturally ignored them, and gone on to make her case with the authorities who mattered.

The girl child is marginalized.

Give us an example.

My fellow students didn't let me vie for the office of president because they said they'd rather a male.

Shaybebaby,do you also think that's admissible?

Err yes. I'd have their asses in court if it were in the UK under the Equality Act of 2010. So now, you find me the Nigerian equivalent of that Law.

shaybebaby:
Err yes. I'd have their asses in court if it were in the UK under the Equality Act of 2010. So now, you find me the Nigerian equivalent of that Law.

Are you implying that Nigerian women are legally restricted from vying for offices?

shaybebaby:
Err yes. I'd have their asses in court if it were in the UK under the Equality Act of 2010. So now, you find me the Nigerian equivalent of that Law.

Lol...so is now discrimination not marginalisation


U see you ladies will just leeching to every word to prove the victim mentality.

Discrimination and marginalisation are two different things entirely incase you forgot.

shaybebaby:
Err yes. I'd have their asses in court if it were in the UK under the Equality Act of 2010. So now, you find me the Nigerian equivalent of that Law.

Lol...so is now discrimination not marginalisation


U see you ladies will be eeching to every word to prove the victim mentality is right.

Discrimination and marginalisation are two different things entirely incase you forgot.

PrimadonnaO:
Are you implying that Nigerian women are legally restricted from vying for offices?

You asked if it is admissible. In my reality, I have shown that coco's example is and that there are laws that protect her.

I ask you to find the same law in the Nigerian context. It is your reality, the onus is on you to know not for me to provide it ( if it exists).

I know mine because despite the existence of this law, discrimination still exists so knowing my rights in the applicable law is how I combat such tomfoolery.

So tell me, what are your legal right and where are the laws that protect such discriminations? Bring facts not opinions.

shaybebaby:
You asked if it is admissible. In my reality, I have shown that coco's example is and that there are laws that protect her.

I ask you to find the same law in the Nigerian context. It is your reality, the onus is on you to know not for me to provide it ( if it exists).

I know mine because despite the existence of this law, discrimination still exists so knowing my rights in the applicable law is how I combat such tomfoolery.

So tell me, what are your legal right and where are the laws that protect such discriminations? Bring facts not opinions.

Let's not miss the point.

Let's get back to where we started.

You affirmed that fellow students challenging Coco's candidature for office of President is an admissible case of marginalization.

It isn't because those people were students like her. The Constitution most definitely doesn't support that.

It's not an opinion, it's a fact.

I'd go on and share the bits of the law that buttress that, but I don't seem to have the strength for that at the moment.

Coco knows quite well that she could have escalated to the right authorities. So the matter of whether or not she was within her rights is really beside the point.

reddingtonblack:
Finally, someone arrived @ destination, the fact that you were denied privileges of contesting for president of your department is not marginalization, lets just say they don't want you or believe in you cos my babe now Ex became the president of her department in lasu way back ... it not as if she did better
On a general level, from presidency to chairmanship is there any law that stops women from contesting, did women form a party nd inec refuse to register it
America claimed to be the most civilized country in the world, over 100+ president, how many women make the list, or should we talk of why harry clinton lose to a clown like trump, when a woman loses or do not have it there way it as to be marginalization.
If men are getting into bed with themselves what stops women from also getting to bed with themselves, is that also males fault SMH

The funny thing was the statistics of the Hilary/trump polls showed that trump won more middle aged white women than Clinton on a scale of 65% to 35%, so if your own gender doesn't trust you enough and gave more votes to a man that was even famed for the grabbing by the pussy statement he made then and he still had those figures, so who is marginalising who ?

Godoverevery:
Lol...so is now discrimination not marginalisation


U see you ladies will be eeching to every word to prove the victim mentality is right.

Discrimination and marginalisation are two different things entirely incase you forgot.

Marginalisation is one of the children of discrimination. Where you have discrimination, the end result is marginalisation.

PrimadonnaO:
Let's not miss the point.

Let's get back to where we started.

You affirmed that fellow students challenging Coco's candidature for office of President is an admissible case of marginalization.

It isn't because those people were students like her. The Constitution most definitely doesn't support that.

It's not an opinion, it's a fact.

I'd go on and share the bits of the law that buttress that, but I don't seem to have the strength for that at the moment.

Coco knows quite well that she could have escalated to the right authorities. So the matter of whether or not she was within her rights is really beside the point.

What constitution? Also show me examples of where such constitution has been upheld.


Case law perhaps. Because making laws is one thing, enforcing those laws are another.

Well whenever you can, share. I'm patient because so far, you have made assertions, stating they are "fact" that you have failed to back up with anything documented. Facts can be demonstrated in objective reality. Evidence of your claims will demonstrate this. In its absence, it is just an opinion.

You are a Nigerian, living in Nigeria, what are the laws that mitigate these and how are they enforced?

Godoverevery:
What is the point of sending a female child to school and empowering her if at the end of it all she still feels marginalised.

Right from my primary school in the early 90's till this point I always competit with ladies on the same level ground...nothing was given to me freely because am a man.
Is really annoying that people like ini edo and co will always come out to play the same old card of African female child/women are marginalised....this am a woman change is a total nonsense because is fellow women that mocks themselves.

I will be analysing every sector and section of social life to prove this old lies wrong

Education
Just take a look around you and tell me which female child is actually stopped from going to school because of her gender......Right from my primary school untill university there were more female student than the male......we receive the same quality of Education so were the marginalisation??

Work/job
Currently in nigeria is easy for a woman to get a job than a man.....Apart from the engineering sector which is dominated by the male most sector is dominated by the female(banks,medical,hotels,entertainment)...so were the marginalisation.

Politics
Nobody gifts anyone an elective post anywhere in the world rather you fight for it....Men fight for it with blood and sweat so if a woman wants to hold this post she must be ready to fight not expecting to be handed over on a platter.
If a woman should come out to contest for elective post in this country even her fellow women won't vote for her....so were is the marginalisation

Entertainment
Is no news apart from music which men dominant the movie industry is dominated by the female who make more money than the male....people like ini edo won't question why they are paid more than there male colleagues in the same profession.

Relationship/marriage
Today in nigeria if you can not provide for your family u are useless man.....even in ordinary relationship a lady will expect you to provide things she needs..No money No love yet they still complain and play victim card.
They can't date broke guys but will expect well to do guys to date a lady who can't even do a 1k sub for herself......they only have the right to choose but not men......were is the marginalisation

In marriage you pay to marry her,you provide shelter, food,clothing etc...if the marriage crash you pay child support.....A full adult totally dependent on another and still feel she meant to be equal with him......were is the marginalisation


State and federal government pays equally to both gender on the same level
Private sector pays equally to both gender on the same level.

I have a lil sis.....there was nothing I enjoy or had that she didn't get from our parent.....I challenge any lady here to tell me how she was treated inferior to her brothers.

What is the point of sending a female child to school from primary to higher institution and at the end of the day she will be totally dependent on the man and will always feel she isn't given enough to be independent.

The moment we start debunking the lies and stop victim mentality the better for the next generation of girls.....this lies is the reason why most our ladies are unproductive and lazy.

Help the female child by letting her know she can do it on her own.....she can competit and no one can stop her except herself.

Women stop spreading the message of victim mentality/marginalisation to our girls this 2021 not 1960.

Thank you sir you have said it all, especially job