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Bro I'll advise you to be thankful to God that you married early enough. Now what fun do you want to catch with other girls out that you can't with your wife? Hope you know that what you're yearning for has its own consequences like spending uneccesarilly cos you'll want to ball and other that. Moreoso there are different kinds of stds out there. See i always tell my gee that marrying early is the best thereby making and training your children on-time Afterwhich you ball with wife thereafter.

Imagine say you and your wife don train children for school finish at una mid 40s and una start to dey chop life u no go like am?

Pls transfer all the money in your account to me,let me get married then we'll talk

Sit Ur wife down and talk to her about the need to go out and hang out with Ur friends.

She will give u permission to do most things u want to do. You just have to show her that respect and seek permission. (It is more about informing her ahead of time).

Why is it so hard for people to write 'I'm'

you're still in shock. It'll pass soon.

U want to continue doing shina

shedybaba44:
Hello nairalander, I jus got married march this year, honestly am bored already .

The truth is am an only son so the whole pressure of getting married from my family made me got married although I love my wife she is beautiful, sexy and intellectual but I just miss the bachelor life.

I feel I entered marriage too early am just 29 although am well to do, with my own business and from a well to do home also... but am always feeling marriage is slowing me down business wise and exploring.

Sometimes I just feel like I want to leave the house and do what my fellow friends that are not married are doing.

I am scared I might divorce soon....cause honestly am bored the whole marriage thing just tire me although I go out with my wife and all that...

Please what should I do..??

Is it normal for a guy that is young and just married to feel like that

please advice

I understand your plight

Married at Dawn.
Bro you should have at least lasted exploring the world. As a man you don't expect your SMV to peak until your mid thirties. You can't cheat nature na. Either ways you can at most consider polygamy only if you capable of. Enjoy

Oga who send u go rush marry because u be d only son or wat

You Nigerians like putting ur self in stupid pressures at 29 bro u are still young to be caged in marriage bro ...women no de finish for this world ...now Dem don push u enter marriage u come here de complain u r tired oga na lie oo u don enter an u don enter am

Raalsalghul:
https://www.nairaland.com/5821202/lonely-heart

You were seeking a life partner in the above thread, you have found one and now you are bored.

You were supposed to condition yourself mentally.

The guy must be mentally deranged.

Just take it easy and build your mind well to fit for the job has married man nigga

shedybaba44:
Hello nairalander, I jus got married march this year, honestly am bored already .

The truth is am an only son so the whole pressure of getting married from my family made me got married although I love my wife she is beautiful, sexy and intellectual but I just miss the bachelor life.

I feel I entered marriage too early am just 29 although am well to do, with my own business and from a well to do home also... but am always feeling marriage is slowing me down business wise and exploring.

Sometimes I just feel like I want to leave the house and do what my fellow friends that are not married are doing.

I am scared I might divorce soon....cause honestly am bored the whole marriage thing just tire me although I go out with my wife and all that...

Please what should I do..??

Is it normal for a guy that is young and just married to feel like that

please advice

Pinch yourself, you're only dreaming.. I can assure you that when you wake up, you'll be an unmarried man!

Married people and wahala. Rubbish!

Only few people will understand your nature, try to take more out of town business or sending your wife abroad, it will not adversely affect the marriage but if you continue leaving like this, the marriage may not last.

shedybaba44:
Hello nairalander, I jus got married march this year, honestly am bored already .

The truth is am an only son so the whole pressure of getting married from my family made me got married although I love my wife she is beautiful, sexy and intellectual but I just miss the bachelor life.

I feel I entered marriage too early am just 29 although am well to do, with my own business and from a well to do home also... but am always feeling marriage is slowing me down business wise and exploring.

Sometimes I just feel like I want to leave the house and do what my fellow friends that are not married are doing.

I am scared I might divorce soon....cause honestly am bored the whole marriage thing just tire me although I go out with my wife and all that...

Please what should I do..??

Is it normal for a guy that is young and just married to feel like that

please advice

No one cares about your marital problems Kiddo.

Abeg shift we have more important issues to worry about.

Rubbish

29 years old too young to marry? I give it to our fathers, they were the real men not the men of these days. If I may ask, what is it your single friends do? Even if you were 35 or 39 you would still feel this way. You are in, act like a married man, roll with the same circle of friends within your social status, you are no longer single or a kid!

Anyway, your boring moment can only be solve if you can trace and .correct the You that is the cuase of that boredom

It happens to virtually all men but your ability to overcome it is what makes you a man

shedybaba44:
Hello nairalander, I jus got married march this year, honestly am bored already .

The truth is am an only son so the whole pressure of getting married from my family made me got married although I love my wife she is beautiful, sexy and intellectual but I just miss the bachelor life.

I feel I entered marriage too early am just 29 although am well to do, with my own business and from a well to do home also... but am always feeling marriage is slowing me down business wise and exploring.

Sometimes I just feel like I want to leave the house and do what my fellow friends that are not married are doing.

I am scared I might divorce soon....cause honestly am bored the whole marriage thing just tire me although I go out with my wife and all that...

Please what should I do..??

Is it normal for a guy that is young and just married to feel like that

please advice

HRHQueenPhil

Na she u marry? Or you just hit and run

So you feel at 29 your too young to get married. You should have waited till you clock 50 before you settle down. Your just immature.

"Just 29" is not too young. I know a guy who's marrying next month; he's just 25. So maturity of the mind and readiness count first, not age.

You were not prepared for marriage...you can't be married and still be living like a bachelor. Children go soon cum into the picture too.. Begin to groom yourself for it now.
BTW I will also be getting married before the end of this year...The pressure from my gf is getting too much, She's 29 and doesn't want to remain husbandless at 30.

Just be focused and don't be dismayed about marriage. You've taken the bold, in a matter of time, you'll get acclimatized to it. Marriage is all about endurance. Don't divorce her, mbok

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shedybaba44:
Hello nairalander, I jus got married march this year, honestly am bored already .

The truth is am an only son so the whole pressure of getting married from my family made me got married although I love my wife she is beautiful, sexy and intellectual but I just miss the bachelor life.

I feel I entered marriage too early am just 29 although am well to do, with my own business and from a well to do home also... but am always feeling marriage is slowing me down business wise and exploring.

Sometimes I just feel like I want to leave the house and do what my fellow friends that are not married are doing.

I am scared I might divorce soon....cause honestly am bored the whole marriage thing just tire me although I go out with my wife and all that...

Please what should I do..??

Is it normal for a guy that is young and just married to feel like that

please advice

I felt like that when I married at 28. It was shocking and miss singlehood. I divorced and have my single hood back and it feels awesome. But parents dey pressure me to settle down again..now I'm 33. I no wan settle abeg..I'm busy having fun and exploring new pussiess

Is it normal for a guy that is young and just married to feel like that

please advice[/quote]Well well well

Look what we have here

My brother it's normal jare, just like when we were little and when we enter adulthood with people depending on us... most time u are like,I wan go back to childhood... u are married,the thoughts of going for adventure (girls,etc) still dey ur head...u can still flirt with ur wife.. the one I can't tolerate is getting married to someone that will be behaving like my grandmother... just change ur mindset... with this current mindset even at 50,u won't like to get married... ur wife doesn't stop u from moving forward in business and with ur life goals,she's there to give u support.. so for me,the hindrances you are talking about is flirting, clubbing and living like a bachelor (banging different pussies).... grow up man.... and stop painting ur marriage as an evil union....

shedybaba44:
Hello nairalander, I jus got married march this year, honestly am bored already .

The truth is am an only son so the whole pressure of getting married from my family made me got married although I love my wife she is beautiful, sexy and intellectual but I just miss the bachelor life.

I feel I entered marriage too early am just 29 although am well to do, with my own business and from a well to do home also... but am always feeling marriage is slowing me down business wise and exploring.

Sometimes I just feel like I want to leave the house and do what my fellow friends that are not married are doing.

I am scared I might divorce soon....cause honestly am bored the whole marriage thing just tire me although I go out with my wife and all that...

Please what should I do..??

Is it normal for a guy that is young and just married to feel like that

please advice

Who told you you married at a very young age?

Young man, may I advice you. Don't be carried away by the lure of what bachelor's are supposedly enjoying. Spice up your marital life with your wife. And since you got married, how often do you take your wife out to club to catch fun? Don't ever conceive the idea of divorce. You will surely regret it.

okeyumez:
dem force you. Stop disturbing us here.

I am telling you..