shedybaba44:
Hello nairalander, I jus got married march this year, honestly am bored already .

The truth is am an only son so the whole pressure of getting married from my family made me got married although I love my wife she is beautiful, sexy and intellectual but I just miss the bachelor life.

I feel I entered marriage too early am just 29 although am well to do, with my own business and from a well to do home also... but am always feeling marriage is slowing me down business wise and exploring.

Sometimes I just feel like I want to leave the house and do what my fellow friends that are not married are doing.

I am scared I might divorce soon....cause honestly am bored the whole marriage thing just tire me although I go out with my wife and all that...

Please what should I do..??

Is it normal for a guy that is young and just married to feel like that

please advice

He who found a wife have found goodthing as they said. then why lammenting?

shedybaba44:
Hello nairalander, I jus got married march this year, honestly am bored already .

The truth is am an only son so the whole pressure of getting married from my family made me got married although I love my wife she is beautiful, sexy and intellectual but I just miss the bachelor life.

I feel I entered marriage too early am just 29 although am well to do, with my own business and from a well to do home also... but am always feeling marriage is slowing me down business wise and exploring.

Sometimes I just feel like I want to leave the house and do what my fellow friends that are not married are doing.

I am scared I might divorce soon....cause honestly am bored the whole marriage thing just tire me although I go out with my wife and all that...

Please what should I do..??

Is it normal for a guy that is young and just married to feel like that

please advice

Eeeyah

Lol. The tought of you banging only one pucci for life is your major worry I know. . That's what happens if one runs into marriage majorly cos of sex. After three months one go get tired. Marry ur friend,one who u can fist with continously without getting bored.
I hope ur marriage is not d indian style of arrangee marriage cos u sound like your wife was arranged for you.

Pls note that people go through a lot in life.
If someone air their problems on this platform,advice them if you’ve got a possible solution that will help them and if you’ve got nothing and cannot proffer a solution to their problems,pls do not insult or throw tantrums at them.
The psychological effects of these insults might hurt their feelings or worse..

femi4:
You are not ready mentally even at 29....What a shame

No shame in that , there are people who aren't even ready for marriage their whole lives , so what would you say about that

AmericanDad:


I felt like that when I married at 28. It was shocking and miss singlehood. I divorced and have my single hood back and it feels awesome. But parents dey pressure me to settle down again..now I'm 33. I no wan settle abeg..I'm busy having fun and exploring new pussiess

Exactly what he wants.... so he should stop saying she's a hindrance to his business and all

Married and bored, single and lonely

Oga akpan...
I go report you to your wife I swear.

Your feelings is spiritual..seek for spiritual help Asap.

At 29, this is the only time you can enjoy your wife and marriage to the fullest.

Something is definitely wrong with you, is either you married your wife by mistake or your wife is too urgly.

Marriage wey dey sweet like agege bread.

Octopusssy:
Why is it so hard for people to write 'I'm'

Why is it so hard for you to overlook an unimportant sh!t on a faceless forum....

shedybaba44:
Hello nairalander, I jus got married march this year, honestly am bored already .

The truth is am an only son so the whole pressure of getting married from my family made me got married although I love my wife she is beautiful, sexy and intellectual but I just miss the bachelor life.

I feel I entered marriage too early am just 29 although am well to do, with my own business and from a well to do home also... but am always feeling marriage is slowing me down business wise and exploring.

Sometimes I just feel like I want to leave the house and do what my fellow friends that are not married are doing.

I am scared I might divorce soon....cause honestly am bored the whole marriage thing just tire me although I go out with my wife and all that...

Please what should I do..??

Is it normal for a guy that is young and just married to feel like that

please advice

You are the one doing yourself, my dad married my mum at age 28 years back then, my mom was I think 20 or 21 and from the pictures I saw of them, they enjoyed their lives, why am I saying this
..... Create an enjoyable life in your marriage with your wife,it's not all about sex alright, you let the boredom get to you because you pay so much attention to it, it's not bad marrying at that age, some men even marry earlier than you, so you batter wise up and don't put any blame on the marriage but you. Thank God you did not condemn your wife, meaning she is a good lady. See marriage is work, hard work for that matter, the better you understand that and work towards it, for your your peace of mind. As a married man, stay commited, you will and can still do the fun things you want to do as a guy, but make sure it doesn't affect your marriage negativity. Communication is key, talk things over with your wife and see how you can set out time to enjoy your youth, and she will understand, avoid devoice, because it will not get you anywhere.


I know some guys will mock you, about your marriage, don't mind them, they are not happy that you are married, they have failed to stir up their relationship positively, so they feel others to should fail like them in relationship or marriage. Be wise at this point and don't let your emotions get the best of you.


I wish you well in your marriage.

shedybaba44:
Hello nairalander, I jus got married march this year, honestly am bored already .

The truth is am an only son so the whole pressure of getting married from my family made me got married although I love my wife she is beautiful, sexy and intellectual but I just miss the bachelor life.

I feel I entered marriage too early am just 29 although am well to do, with my own business and from a well to do home also... but am always feeling marriage is slowing me down business wise and exploring.

Sometimes I just feel like I want to leave the house and do what my fellow friends that are not married are doing.

I am scared I might divorce soon....cause honestly am bored the whole marriage thing just tire me although I go out with my wife and all that...

Please what should I do..??

Is it normal for a guy that is young and just married to feel like that

please advice

What you will understand is that, you can still be married and still live any kind of life style you want since your eyes are still outside

Am glad you married your choice of woman

So, I will assume you married early because you are the only son, good and fine

Now that you are married try and pregnant your wife while you still play away

By the time your first child comes and you see the challenges that are involve, you will bring in those your legs and eyes that are out

Just rock in and out, after all your pocket is loaded

Even if you like have kids outside they are all yours, just be ready to be very responsible

E go even worst if na churchy person you marry oh

No outing

Na only fellowship and midweek service una go de go

Just try to make your wife your best friend. It will be a difficult thing though but find a way to make her the source of the vibes you want and vice versa.

Opinion from a bachelor, older than you but not well to do so I no fit try wetin you try

shedybaba44:
Hello nairalander, I jus got married march this year, honestly am bored already .

The truth is am an only son so the whole pressure of getting married from my family made me got married although I love my wife she is beautiful, sexy and intellectual but I just miss the bachelor life.

I feel I entered marriage too early am just 29 although am well to do, with my own business and from a well to do home also... but am always feeling marriage is slowing me down business wise and exploring.

Sometimes I just feel like I want to leave the house and do what my fellow friends that are not married are doing.

I am scared I might divorce soon....cause honestly am bored the whole marriage thing just tire me although I go out with my wife and all that...

Please what should I do..??

Is it normal for a guy that is young and just married to feel like that

please advice

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What does marriage really restrict people from doing?

Sometimes, people who shy away from marriage do so because they want to be irresponsible for as long as they can.

Not be accountable to anyone...

Hop from one relationship to another without a care in the world...

Endless late nights and getaways.

Not take up responsibilities for someone else, kids, spouse, sometimes extended family, etc.

Because if the above aren't problems, then marriage isn't so much different from living in-house with your boo.

Only difference would be having children, but isn't that so much more beautiful?

I feel I entered marriage too early am just 29 although am well to do, with my own business and from a well to do home also... but am always feeling marriage is [color=#000000][/color]*slowing me down business wise* and exploring.

This statement is bad

Just say the truth

shedybaba44:
Hello nairalander, I jus got married march this year, honestly am bored already .

The truth is am an only son so the whole pressure of getting married from my family made me got married although I love my wife she is beautiful, sexy and intellectual but I just miss the bachelor life.

I feel I entered marriage too early am just 29 although am well to do, with my own business and from a well to do home also... but am always feeling marriage is slowing me down business wise and exploring.

Sometimes I just feel like I want to leave the house and do what my fellow friends that are not married are doing.

I am scared I might divorce soon....cause honestly am bored the whole marriage thing just tire me although I go out with my wife and all that...

Please what should I do..??

Is it normal for a guy that is young and just married to feel like that

please advice

You're not too young bro, twenty year olds get and stay married successfully

What you need to do is change your circle, give the wild bachelors some space and start moving with a more responsible crowd.

Will clock 30 this December, already have a spouse but struggling to get an apartment aftermath marriage and someone is here tired of 7 month old marriage.. with the attributes you attach to your wife, if you dare divorce her.. your life will become an equilibrium, forget about the money cos you bout to lose peace of mind... You better see a councilor or you think your unmarried friends are happy the way they are....

First thing pray, see a life coach and be happy aftermath...

realstars:
He who found a wife have found goodthing as they said. then why lammenting?

He obviously didn't find a wife ...the wife found him

shedybaba44:
Hello nairalander, I jus got married march this year, honestly am bored already .

The truth is am an only son so the whole pressure of getting married from my family made me got married although I love my wife she is beautiful, sexy and intellectual but I just miss the bachelor life.

I feel I entered marriage too early am just 29 although am well to do, with my own business and from a well to do home also... but am always feeling marriage is slowing me down business wise and exploring.

Sometimes I just feel like I want to leave the house and do what my fellow friends that are not married are doing.

I am scared I might divorce soon....cause honestly am bored the whole marriage thing just tire me although I go out with my wife and all that...

Please what should I do..??

Is it normal for a guy that is young and just married to feel like that

please advice

I understand you , call your wife let her understand that u need a lot of private time but 29 year is not too young ,

Marriage is sweet if you marry your friend tell her what you what and with time you will be use to seat at home

YungTemy:
Marriage is a big scam.

How is it a scam. If its a scam..your parents might have abborted ur pregnancy..

You are acting as if you were forced into the marriage, you can still ignite your marriage and make it how you want it to be. You need to have a one and one discussion with your wife, get to know her better.

PrimadonnaO:
What does marriage really restrict people from doing?

Fucking different pussies...it makes you cling to own toto... and OP no like am

SonofGod231:
You were not prepared for marriage...you can't be married and still be living like a bachelor. Children go soon cum into the picture too.. Begin to groom yourself for it now.
BTW I will also be getting married before the end of this year...The pressure from my gf is getting too much, She's 29 and doesn't want to remain husbandless at 30.

My bro, pls take ur time before you finally settle down with your girl, marriage is not an easy institution at all as some people portrayed it, sometimes you will feel like going the single way throughout your entire life... I felt the guy pains because I am in his shoe right now.

OP hope u know those your friends will soon get married..!!!

PrimadonnaO:
What does marriage really restrict people from doing?

Fornicating without feeling guilty of hurting somebody ....

Enterimg the house by 3am in the morning from club...without anybody's complain....

Basically...he wants to still be irresponsible without anybody to complain

Marriage!!
Very overated institution

shedybaba44:
Hello nairalander, I jus got married march this year, honestly am bored already .

The truth is am an only son so the whole pressure of getting married from my family made me got married although I love my wife she is beautiful, sexy and intellectual but I just miss the bachelor life.

I feel I entered marriage too early am just 29 although am well to do, with my own business and from a well to do home also... but am always feeling marriage is slowing me down business wise and exploring.

Sometimes I just feel like I want to leave the house and do what my fellow friends that are not married are doing.

I am scared I might divorce soon....cause honestly am bored the whole marriage thing just tire me although I go out with my wife and all that...

Please what should I do..??

Is it normal for a guy that is young and just married to feel like that

please advice

Don't worry, you will get used to it soon..I got married at 27.

advanceDNA:


Fornicating without feeling guilty of hurting somebody ....

Enterimg the house by 3am in the morning from club...without anybody's complain....

Basically...he wants to still be irresponsible without anybody to complain

Exactly.

License to waywardness.

Bored already when you are still starting
My guy, all these thinking are from within you.. Try and restructure your thoughts... You're already married so live like one.. Thank God the problem is not from your wife but you, so put all those bacheloric thoughts away and enjoy your marriage

advanceDNA:

He obviously didn't find a wife ...the wife found him

Lol,