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Lonely Heart by Nobody: 12:06am On Apr 28, 2020
lonely heart, am a comfortable guy in need of a beutuful akwa-ibom lady,working class and God fearing.. for a serious relationship

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Re: Lonely Heart by HRHQueenPhil(f): 7:54am On Apr 28, 2020
shedybaba44:
lonely heart, am a comfortable guy in need of a beutuful akwa-ibom lady,working class and God fearing.. for a serious relationship
and am akwaibom looking for a wonderful man ready for marraige this year. Do u live in lagos

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Re: Lonely Heart by Ekakamba: 8:09am On Apr 28, 2020
Shedybaba44, HRMQueenPhil 2021

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Re: Lonely Heart by Nobody: 12:27pm On Apr 28, 2020
HRHQueenPhil:
and am akwaibom looking for a wonderful man ready for marraige this year. Do u live in lagos
am base in Delta inbox me ur watapp number privately let's chat
Re: Lonely Heart by Nobody: 7:05pm On Apr 28, 2020
Ekakamba:
Shedybaba44, HRMQueenPhil 2021
send me ur email, let me email u
Re: Lonely Heart by Nobody: 9:09pm On Apr 28, 2020
shedybaba44:
send me ur email, let me email u
akpanshedrack305@gmail.com
Re: Lonely Heart by AlexBells(m): 11:55am On Oct 16, 2021
You finally want to run out after you got the girl lol be careful what you seek for in your other thread,

Okay I could not advice you on your other thread cause it made front page so much comments,

Look marriage very complex, it like rocket science you know there is always this much pressure when a space craft wants to enter the atmosphere from outer space it is that way with marriage,

You just entered a new medium and your old friends and life is not helping you might need to give your friends some space, hang with married couples especially those that had been married for at least 20 years,

You would discover the charms in your marriage that way, also soon you would start solving real marital happier challenges and you won't quite have much time, be warned that your single friends are also missing out on the sweet troubles of married life

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Re: Lonely Heart by Abovebest(m): 11:57am On Oct 16, 2021
wink

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Re: Lonely Heart by ChiefSosa(m): 11:59am On Oct 16, 2021
Are you not married?

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Re: Lonely Heart by SensualMan1(m): 12:00pm On Oct 16, 2021
HRHQueenPhil:
and am akwaibom looking for a wonderful man ready for marraige this year. Do u live in lagos
This is the boring lady he married.

Love on NL is stupid.

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Re: Lonely Heart by AlexBells(m): 12:00pm On Oct 16, 2021
ChiefSosa:
Are you not married?
He got married and now want to run away, my guy is missing Bachelorhood lol

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Re: Lonely Heart by seunfly: 12:04pm On Oct 16, 2021
Lol people don follow you entre here.

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Re: Lonely Heart by ChiefSosa(m): 12:08pm On Oct 16, 2021
AlexBells:

He got married and now want to run away, my guy is missing Bachelorhood lol
Lol, make e use this one take hold body

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Re: Lonely Heart by AlexBells(m): 12:14pm On Oct 16, 2021
ChiefSosa:

Lol, make e use this one take hold body
Are you saying hes gay, cause I see no woman there lol, too hard like slap, I like my boobs a little fallen and moderate, that's been favourite meal since birth unless on very crazy offer, that officer is a no unless for hardened terrorist
Re: Lonely Heart by AlexBells(m): 12:16pm On Oct 16, 2021
SensualMan1:
This is the boring lady he married.

Love on NL, stupid people.
Please leave the lady out of it, he never said a thing about the lady being boring, the young man is just finding his new life strange it is always that way until he accepts his fate, just like taking an animal off the wild to captivity, it takes time to adjust you know,

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Re: Lonely Heart by elonmuskbaby: 12:23pm On Oct 16, 2021
seunfly:
Lol people don follow you entre here.
lmaooo as if you don't know nairalanders grin


Anyway this is a perfect example of marriage doesn't quell boredom
Re: Lonely Heart by elonmuskbaby: 12:27pm On Oct 16, 2021
AlexBells:

Please leave the lady out of it, he never said a thing about the lady being boring, the young man is just finding his new life strange it is always that way until he accepts his fate, just like taking an animal off the wild to captivity, it takes time to adjust you know,
I'm looking it at the Matter from another angle

The young man is an ungrateful man.in this day and age you married a decent girl from a good home that is not giving you any issues or bringing problems and drama into your life yet you're still complaining.tou wanted marriage,now you have it yet still complaining

Bros grow up.you cannot be eating and crying at the same time

You cannot be married still complain that you want to be single again

Your wife is a good woman yet you're already nursing divorce


Divorce her Na and go and marry slay queen that will give you the type of bachelor adventure you want.na body go tell you

He should Go and ask what men with terrible wives are experiencing that they're too ashamed to say outside because they have a name to protect.let him sit down there and be Beeching about irrelevancies

Yoruba will say teyan bati yo Tan bekun bekun lomama wakiri.meaning when you have all you need and enjoy a peaceful life,you start getting attracted to drama and problems because you're not satisfied with the peace you have

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Re: Lonely Heart by seunfly: 12:28pm On Oct 16, 2021
elonmuskbaby:
lmaooo as if you don't know nairalanders grin


Anyway this is a perfect example of marriage doesn't quell boredom

He get used to it soon, it is normal for some people to feel this way at first.
Re: Lonely Heart by AlexBells(m): 12:32pm On Oct 16, 2021
elonmuskbaby:
I'm looking it at the Matter from another angle

The young man is an ungrateful man.in this day and age you married a decent girl from a good home that is not giving you any issues or bringing problems and drama into your life yet you're still complaining.tou wanted marriage,now you have it yet still complaining

Bros grow up.you cannot be eating and crying at the same time

You cannot be married still complain that you want to be single again

Your wife is a good woman yet you're already nursing divorce


Divorce her Na and go and marry slay queen that will give you the type of bachelor adventure you want.na body go tell you
You won't understand him, you have not been there, he didn't say anything about the wife being terrible,

This is no issue of upbringing or anything it not about being good or bad the young man loves the wife otherwise he could have run out of that house, he is taking bold steps, he is adjusting for family thats why he feel terrible

Change is not always easy he is human, sharing space, lots of things it could feel at a point like you are choking, apparently he hadn't cheated on the wife and responsibility is hard,

And there is the thing with well to do bachelor, always been charming and now feels caged, let the young man grow, he will get over it when he realise that this is reality for him

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Re: Lonely Heart by illicit(m): 12:33pm On Oct 16, 2021
Na wa for u o

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Re: Lonely Heart by SensualMan1(m): 12:39pm On Oct 16, 2021
AlexBells:

Please leave the lady out of it, he never said a thing about the lady being boring, the young man is just finding his new life strange it is always that way until he accepts his fate, just like taking an animal off the wild to captivity, it takes time to adjust you know,
I beg to disagree Sir. Marriage at this stage of his life should be gung ho for both of em. The fire should be burning real hot! Mad sex, mad exploration, mad vibes, nothing should really change like when they were dating back then. A marriage less than 6 months old? Huh!

This is our 13th year with 3 kids, check out how we still kicking it.

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Re: Lonely Heart by elonmuskbaby: 12:44pm On Oct 16, 2021
AlexBells:

You won't understand him, you have not been there, he didn't say anything about the wife being terrible,

This is no issue of upbringing or anything it not about being good or bad the young man loves the wife otherwise he could have run out of that house, he is taking bold steps, he is adjusting for family thats why he feel terrible

Change is not always easy he is human, sharing space, lots of things it could feel at a point like you are choking, apparently he hadn't cheated on the wife and responsibility is hard,

And there is the thing with well to do bachelor, always been charming and now feels caged, let the young man grow, he will get over it when he realise that this is reality for him
I get

He has a good job, married a wife on a platter of gold and everything is going fine but all of a sudden he's suddenly bored.what was he expecting? That things will not change? Seriously? He's sounding like an over pampered,overdotted grown man that only wants to be pampered without doing anything in return.

So he needed a marriage counselor to tell him he will share his finances, space,life and privacy with another person?

It's not his fault.assuming he dated all these end time girls and promiscuous girls around before he eventually jammed mrs right he will adjust really fast.moreover if he knew say he never enjoy bachelorhood finish and be knows he's not officially, emotionally and mentally done with being a bachelor,why was he looking for wife?

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Re: Lonely Heart by elonmuskbaby: 12:45pm On Oct 16, 2021
grin
seunfly:


He get used to it soon, it is normal for some people to feel this way at first.
he's obviously not done with bachelorhood.him eye still dey outside

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Re: Lonely Heart by SensualMan1(m): 12:46pm On Oct 16, 2021
seunfly:


He get used to it soon, it is normal for some people to feel this way at first.
I guess the both never dated. Dude requested for a single female friend and one came out of the blues, talked for few days, had sex and got married in a month or two. Two strange bed fellows cohabiting in the name of marriage. This is my guy's ordeal.

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Re: Lonely Heart by AlexBells(m): 12:47pm On Oct 16, 2021
SensualMan1:
I beg to disagree Sir. Marriage at this stage of his life should be gung ho for both of em. The fire should be burning real hot! Mad sex, mad exploration, mad vibes, nothing should really change like when they were dating back then. A marriage less than 6 months old? Huh!

This is our 13th year check out how we still kicking it.
People are different, the six months test is quite important in marriage if they cross this stage, then the marriage would get meaningful,

It is marriage man loads of mystery, you just realise you would see this person everyday that you had seen for the pase 6 months, nothing else to see, all sex style done, everything, okay you both need to get engaged like read books together, stuff like that sex is overrated,

There no kids yet the man should help in the kitchen, sometimes cook for the both, take a drive around the city with full tank going nowhere,

Stop the engine in the middle of feaking nowhere and let her rest her head on you amidst freaking calm conversation, time flies fast they would discover themselves but if you expect much tranquility just becuase everyone you know is working out fine and you believe theirs should work just perfect you missing out on individual differences

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Re: Lonely Heart by elonmuskbaby: 12:48pm On Oct 16, 2021
SensualMan1:
I beg to disagree Sir. Marriage at this stage of his life should be gung ho for both of em. The fire should be burning real hot! Mad sex, mad exploration, mad vibes, nothing should really change like when they were dating back then. A marriage less than 6 months old? Huh!

This is our 13th year with 3 kids, check out how we still kicking it.
ahannnn Na you do dada hair like Bob Marley? cheesy

By the way this your wife fine o.no let her come to Lagos alone o because konji dey worry boys grin
Re: Lonely Heart by SensualMan1(m): 12:49pm On Oct 16, 2021
....but this dude opened a thread on his Boring marriage life. How come everyone is on his past thread?

NL? Smh!
Re: Lonely Heart by ChiefSosa(m): 12:49pm On Oct 16, 2021
Seun joined the group chat.......Happily

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Re: Lonely Heart by ecolime(m): 1:03pm On Oct 16, 2021
SensualMan1:
....but this dude opened a thread on his Boring marriage life. How come everyone is on his past thread?

NL? Smh!
You need to know someone's history to be able to advise them regarding their present predicament.

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Re: Lonely Heart by SensualMan1(m): 1:04pm On Oct 16, 2021
AlexBells:

People are different, the six months test is quite important in marriage if they cross this stage, then the marriage would get meaningful,

It is marriage man loads of mystery, you just realise you would see this person everyday that you had seen for the pase 6 months, nothing else to see, all sex style done, everything, okay you both need to get engaged like read books together, stuff like that sex is overrated,

There no kids yet the man should help in the kitchen, sometimes cook for the both, take a drive around the city with full tank going nowhere,

Stop the engine in the middle of feaking nowhere and let her rest her head on you amidst freaking calm conversation, time flies fast they would discover themselves but if you expect much tranquility just becuase everyone you know is working out fine and you believe theirs should work just perfect you missing out on individual differences
Chief it's very early for see-finish in 6 months. It's glaring dude can't cut the mustard and am afraid separation is inevitable in a year or two when more burden will be added.
I do not buy this idea of he's gonna get used to it, truth is resentment gonna set in. Forget the I love my wife blablabla. Resentment will surely creep in.
Solution for dude is to always get out of the house. It's like both of them are always stuck in a room, eat, fucck, sleep, watch TV, and when NEPA take light dem begin look dem selves like who be this one cheesy

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Re: Lonely Heart by MrMacinterchi1: 1:06pm On Oct 16, 2021
SensualMan1:
I beg to disagree Sir. Marriage at this stage of his life should be gung ho for both of em. The fire should be burning real hot! Mad sex, mad exploration, mad vibes, nothing should really change like when they were dating back then. A marriage less than 6 months old? Huh!

This is our 13th year with 3 kids, check out how we still kicking it.
huh? na your wife be this? 13 year?
You marry when you see 21 no.
wonderment

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Re: Lonely Heart by osualanobleson: 1:09pm On Oct 16, 2021
seunfly:
Lol people don follow you entre here.

Walahi..people get time ooo lol

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