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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by Pussywar(f): 9:44pm On Oct 24, 2021
A lot of Nigerian people have this mentality of “if you’re not adding anything to my life, I’ll cut you off” and it’s a serious problem and I think it’s why many people seek friendship or any kind of relationship. They just need someone they would put their burden on.

Try not giving. Tell them you don’t have and find out who stays and who leaves.

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by SarkinYarki: 9:44pm On Oct 24, 2021
Idamond:
Good Nairalanders!

Don't mind my typo terminologies


I don't know if there's anyone facing these some thing..

I am like that oo... I grew up being the one people always asked and never gave to and today I am still like that only more blessed ...I think it's a gift

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by Sirmuel1(m): 9:44pm On Oct 24, 2021
Pussywar:
A lot of Nigerian people have this mentality of “if you’re not adding anything to my life, I’ll cut you off” and it’s a serious problem


That's a very serious problem. Well, it's their problem
Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by Yivatis: 9:44pm On Oct 24, 2021
cool
Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by awa(m): 9:44pm On Oct 24, 2021
No be only you ooo
Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by olisefom: 9:44pm On Oct 24, 2021
Regulate your social media activities. Stop giving new updates (keep a low profile offline and offline)

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by allen113: 9:45pm On Oct 24, 2021
Remember givers never lack and lackers never give grin

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by Jibsy203(m): 9:45pm On Oct 24, 2021
Sorry delete all the Yoruba Muslim miscreants in ur list,the don’t have job than begging online or under bridge begging

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by THURAFTERNOON: 9:46pm On Oct 24, 2021
Ask God never to Dry up your oil wells. Giving is highly spiritual.

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by ednut1(m): 9:46pm On Oct 24, 2021
Stop posting pictures lol

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by Acidosis(m): 9:46pm On Oct 24, 2021
If you surround yourself with people who are only interested in taking from you, you're damned!

Don't be f00led by some useless comments about being a destined giver and never a receiver. If your giving does not bring results, you're either giving wrongly or giving the wrong people (scammers).

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by Doctortyre: 9:47pm On Oct 24, 2021
Always thank God for what you are ..Things aren't easy but you try to satisfy anybody do your best and leave the rest .. Some people haven't had anything today. Keep doing the little thing you can do to help people ..Giver never lack

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by IgiveLadiesBj(m): 9:47pm On Oct 24, 2021
Smartb0y:
oops, hahaha.
SImpSirons
Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by mordred44: 9:47pm On Oct 24, 2021
Just tell baba God to reverse the case.... If that will be okay

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by Kokaine(m): 9:47pm On Oct 24, 2021
Idamond:
Good Nairalanders!

Don't mind my typo terminologies


I don't know if there's anyone facing these some thing..


Take it as a challenge to double your huslte. Its a sign that you should be richer so you can touch more lives. So if you used to think you are okay with 200k a month, start thinking of things that are legal and can bring you 1m a month so you can touch more lives and lift more people. Its a blessing. Thank God you are healthy and can do some business to get more. Be a point of contact

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by Boogyman557: 9:47pm On Oct 24, 2021
HOLLY GRAM cool IF U LIKE NO USE UR NUMBER 6. NA WEN UR MONEY GO FINISH, NA DAT TIME U GO NO SEY NA NAIJA U DE. WTF MAN

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by UNPERTURBED: 9:47pm On Oct 24, 2021
Wahala no dey finish
Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by DarkCaesar(m): 9:47pm On Oct 24, 2021
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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by streetsoldier1(m): 9:48pm On Oct 24, 2021
Idamond:
Good Nairalanders!

Don't mind my typo terminologies


I don't know if there's anyone facing these some thing..

i thought i was the only one, its been an issue with me for a long time, my phone is permanently on silence, people dont even care what i do to get money, billing everywhere, was just wondering if its the economic situation or people are just plain stupid and take simple people for granted. The worst of it is that if i need help, no one will show up. Its really dishearthening. I just enjoyed being alone all by myself lately

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by Equity15(m): 9:48pm On Oct 24, 2021
Idamond:
Good Nairalanders!

Don't mind my typo terminologies


I don't know if there's anyone facing these some thing..
honestly, you're not alone. I have stopped Facebook for a long time. I turned off my read receipt and stopped posting on WhatsApp status. My Dp has been same for years. It's so bad that I can't even ask anybody how they are anymore without them bringing in money problems. When I see unusual calls, I think very hard before taking it. It's not thier fault tho, the country is hard. But These people don't understand that everybody is feeling it. Most of them now ask for little money like 1k-3k, they know you would be lieing when you say you don't have that kinda money but they don't know how many people you have given money that day, week or month. It's just so disheartening. This country hard for even the people earning.

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by Eberex(m): 9:48pm On Oct 24, 2021
It is in giving that we receive
Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by Le2money(m): 9:49pm On Oct 24, 2021
Idamond:
Good Nairalanders!

Don't mind my typo terminologies


I don't know if there's anyone facing these some thing..
Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by Crochet: 9:49pm On Oct 24, 2021
Give nd dont complain, but wen you give and complain then indirectly you are hindering Gods blessing. The help you render to people always comes back as a blessing in different forms and ways you may not understand ,
sometimes as a miracle.

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by Tayosteve(m): 9:49pm On Oct 24, 2021
Mercychen:
You should thank God you are in the position of giving and not the other way around. Or would you want to switch places with them?
Ask those begging, they wish to be in your position. So stop. Complaining.

What you should rather be doing is praying to God to sustain you in that position and increase you to a point where you'll have more than enough to give to the needy.


Instead of you to advise him to give with sense so he won't go broke, and you don't even care about his own financial status. You are here making him look like a villain.

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by GloShare(m): 9:49pm On Oct 24, 2021
As long as you keep giving, they will continue begging.

In 2019/2020 I gave out almost 3/4 my networth... they kept coming.

The moment I stopped replying them, they backed off.

Funny enough, they wear better clothes than I do.

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by OlawaleBammie: 9:50pm On Oct 24, 2021
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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by hustla(m): 9:50pm On Oct 24, 2021
Mercychen:
You should thank God you are in the position of giving and not the other way around. Or would you want to switch places with them?
Ask those begging, they wish to be in your position. So stop. Complaining.

What you should rather be doing is praying to God to sustain you in that position and increase you to a point where you'll have more than enough to give to the needy.

Nonsense talk

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by Smartb0y: 9:50pm On Oct 24, 2021
IgiveLadiesBj:

SImpSirons
she brings out the simp in me
Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by Doctortyre: 9:51pm On Oct 24, 2021
Don't try to pleas anyone but don't stop in giving out ,
Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by dingbang(m): 9:51pm On Oct 24, 2021
Kwechili my brother.

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by omoadeleye(m): 9:52pm On Oct 24, 2021
Idamond:
Good Nairalanders!

Don't mind my typo terminologies


I don't know if there's anyone facing these some thing..


You don't need to quit, you are the not the only one on this.

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by GloShare(m): 9:53pm On Oct 24, 2021
Tayosteve:



Instead of you to advise him to give with sense so he won't go broke, and you don't even care about his own financial status. You are here making him look like a villain.

That's the way beggars talk. They are encouraging their ministry.

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