₦airaland Forum

shaybebaby:
Hit the nail on the head.

Let's not get it twisted, being a sleazebag isn't the purvey of Nigerian men alone. It exists in all races but the main difference is that Nigerian men justify and believe they are entitled to act with such impunity.

Much like how our politicians steal in broad day light.

Politicians here do the same, but they KNOW that it isn't acceptable. They know that society expects better of them and that if caught, they will be held accountable ( largely).

True true the ain't shitness of men cuts across races but for black men, it's like theirs is amped up to a millionth degree. At least, other men aren't at the bottom of the social, economic and political ladder globally and they compete with each other—not with women. it's just so fucking irritating these men type away on their keypads on why Nigerian women are this and that yet still chase after said women. That's like knowing fire is hot yet still sticking a finger into the flame. The whites and Asians they pedestalize, why can't they just go after them? And in peace. Why must they constantly antagonize black women to the world? Just a bunch of sadists.

They're also deluded into thinking these foreign women they chase or fantasize about actually want them. They deride black women for being "undesirable" but somehow, them—being the splitting image of black women—is exempt from undesirability. They're racist to their own kind and inadvertently racists towards themselves . Antiblackness is a global phenomenon—I would
even say Asians are particularly notorious in this respect—yet somehow, the creators and perpetuators of racism want them. The black male pathology needs to be studied. They're such sell outs, its pathetic.

Hyerin:
True true the ain't shitness of men cuts across races but for black men, it's like theirs is amped up to a millionth degree. At least, other men aren't at the bottom of the social, economic and political ladder globally and they compete with each other—not with women. it's just so fucking irritating these men type away on their keypads on why Nigerian women are this and that yet still chase after said women. That's like knowing fire is hot yet still sticking a finger into the flame. The whites and Asians they pedestalize, why can't they just go after them? And in peace. Why must they constantly antagonize black women to the world? Just a bunch of sadists.

They're also deluded into thinking these foreign women they chase or fantasize about actually want them. They deride black women for being "undesirable" but somehow, them—being the splitting image of black women—is exempt from undesirability. They're racist to their own kind and inadvertently racists towards themselves . Antiblackness is a global phenomenon—I would
even say Asians are particularly notorious in this respect—yet somehow, the creators and perpetuators of racism want them. The black male pathology needs to be studied. They're such sell outs, its pathetic.

Hear! Hear!!

revolt:
this one is still talking about love... WOMEN DO NOT LOVE YOU UNCONDITIONALLY BUT OPPORTUNISTICALLY . THEY ARE ALL OPPORTUNISTS. Including our mothers. They are success miners/detectives and respond to you based on your value. Once you realise this .. you will know how to handle them and not get in your feelings with them. When you mature you'll know, even your mother will tilt towards the child that gives her more money and gifts This isn't bad. It just how they're created.....just like when a man gets to his full potential he has options and would be very stupid to submit all that value to one womans feet based on a useless feeling.. called love... loooll.. Swallow the red pill and know your place in life. You are simply built to be leeched on by women. Which honestly. ..no successful man has a problem with that ...a man's fulfillment comes from how many ppl depend on him.... Deal with it. No need to cry about it.

Nobody loves unconditionally though.

Magnoliaa:
Every day, another story. Another rant. Another heartbreak.

Date women of other races and let us rest.

Next, please.

Please, let them date and marry, Rebecca, Maria and ling ling. We wish them good luck. Let them leave us alone.

neyoohhh:
A white woman in love tolerates more. They'll go out of their way to learn how to cook African dishes, don't nag as much and can hold intelligent conversations. They enjoy very simple things like taking long walks, gardening and time with family.

Have you been with one? They're pure bliss.

Their thinking about wealth is just different. The parents would have bought them insurance policy, paid off mortgages on a few properties to be inherited, strong family support and they also earn well.

They don't save and don't believe in branded clothes like black women, so money is never an issue.

Black culture is too materialistic and that's our major issue.

Have you been with them before? If yes, why are you still marinating in redpill with all of these good attributes? Who is it for?

If no, how did you arrive at this conclusion with no prior experience? (Movies do not count)

Jasmine17:
Love the way you are subtly making it about me. But unfortunately, its just a reflection of you and other naija ladies putting up such behaviours.

I get looked in constantly, go on dates constantly and if i wanted, I will marry a very beautiful non-Nigerian right now.

Your class of naija babes in diaspora are one of the most un-prettiest (if the word exist) class. Even jamos and East Africans fine pass una.

Once you see any lady on the street with an old looking lagos-style braids or shabby hair, 9 out of 10 times, she turns out to be a Nigerian lady cos una no even get money to take care of una sef and when una manage get, stinginess no dey let una spend on unasef.

Me looking at the way of Nigerian ladies is just for 3 reasons:
1. To Help you guys ministry and reduce the population roaming out there.
2. To keep the wealth within the Nigerian circle and not work for another country’s benefit
3. To raise my kids with Nigerian values and a partner who understands the way things work in Nigeria

If not, who get una time?
Nobody dash monkey banana joor

you sound like a bitter incel

Hyerin:
True true the ain't shitness of men cuts across races but for black men, it's like theirs is amped up to a millionth degree. At least, other men aren't at the bottom of the social, economic and political ladder globally and they compete with each other—not with women. it's just so fucking irritating these men type away on their keypads on why Nigerian women are this and that yet still chase after said women. That's like knowing fire is hot yet still sticking a finger into the flame. The whites and Asians they pedestalize, why can't they just go after them? And in peace. Why must they constantly antagonize black women to the world? Just a bunch of sadists.

They're also deluded into thinking these foreign women they chase or fantasize about actually want them. They deride black women for being "undesirable" but somehow, them—being the splitting image of black women—is exempt from undesirability. They're racist to their own kind and inadvertently racists towards themselves . Antiblackness is a global phenomenon—I would
even say Asians are particularly notorious in this respect—yet somehow, the creators and perpetuators of racism want them. The black male pathology needs to be studied. They're such sell outs, its pathetic.

Amen to that! Winter is coming for the black man.

neyoohhh:
You're honest.

Although I've seen more bw with foreigner's lately. It seems those white boy's have a type when it comes to bw. You must be very dark, skinny and be a professional.

there's a movement gaining momentum among black women. Very soon a number of black women will stop this blind loyalty to black men.

1Sharon:
Lol say what

When will daylight saving start in uk?

Hyerin:
Nobody loves unconditionally though.

Men do naturally. Men provide and give even when they know they're getting NOTHING in return. That's why a man would naturally give his life to protect his family. Men raise families abd get neglected in old age and don't complain. If we acted based on what we expect in return women, children and society would suffer. Women spend their money mostly on themselves ie shoes bags beauty products..maybe her house and cars. Bulk of a man's money goes to other ppl

revolt:
Men do naturally. Men provide and give even when they know they're getting NOTHING in return. That's why a man would naturally give his life to protect his family. Men raise families abd get neglected in old age and don't complain. If we acted based on what we expect in return women, children and society would suffer. Women spend their money mostly on themselves ie shoes bags beauty products..maybe her house and cars. Bulk of a man's money goes to other ppl

Nope men do not love unconditionally. You can argue with the void though

arthurwillia:
When will daylight saving start in uk?

31st this month

Vulcanheph:
My brother, you literally said my mind.
Why would I leave this country and still go over there to get involved with a naija babe.... God forbid.

Op just fall the hands of all of us that have plans to JAPA ....

It's more of familiarity basis bro. The average white woman prefers to be with an average white man, too. Nigerian ladies are just materialistic c*nts sadly.

revolt:
Oga stop complaining ...women are built to hook up with the mate that can provide security and comfort for them... As a young man your main focus should be getting your life together. Once you get some bag you'll see the chics flocking around. They're success miners. And this isn't bad ...thats just how they're built.
Infact any man from 18 to 30 shouldnt waste time dating.. spend that time hussling and if you must knack look for some easy pussy and make sure you protect your offspring so one opportunist doesn't steal a childb from you....That will destroy everything you've worked for. Then when you've balanced sit down and look for a sensible girl with good family background and genes then start a family... ( don't bother with she being a good girl. They're mostly all the same just look for a sensible one youncan flow with)... but for now get your life together.

N. O. N. S. E. N. S. E

Double0h7:
Pickmesha spotted

Ion even know what that is

DrFunmisticGlow:
there's a movement gaining momentum among black women. Very soon a number of black women will stop this blind loyalty to black men.

Are you talking about the new movement that calls themselves “unruly Nigerian women in diaspora?”

DrFunmisticGlow:
you sound like a bitter incel

Hahahaha

In-cellophane

DrFunmisticGlow:
Please, let them date and marry, Rebecca, Maria and ling ling. We wish them good luck. Let them leave us alone.

Glad you know yourselves

That doesn’t mean the good ones do not exist.
Its just that your population is making it hard to find them.

Hyerin:
I still think you should go for a foreigner because the disgust you feel for Nigerian diasporan women is deep seated. scratch that, not only diasporan, but Nigerian women as a whole. Someone in this thread even suggested you date from home and bring her over but you waved the idea off which shows that you're not actually operating from a place of good faith. Your excuse is flimsy because if that's what you truly wanted, you won't be acting like you're stuck between a rock and a hard place. Even if you eventually (hopefully no woman will fall victim to this) find a Nigerian woman who checks all your boxes, that disdain will always be at the forefront of your emotions and override reasoning.

Then again, anyone with eyes and a functioning brain can tell why you hold so dear to "Nigerian values". Other races of women have zero tolerance for any display of chauvinism unlike African women who live and breath with it. At the slightest provocation or mishap, they're already filing for divorce. Your reasons for wanting a Nigerian woman is actually underlined by fear. Your actual preference are other races of women but you're too scared to deal with them.

Chai E really pain this aunty see as truth dey bitter?

No worry, you go dey alright las las

siofra:
See this one.

Go and date your foreign women and leave Nigerian women the Bleep alone.

God forbid!!! All these stupid Nigerian men. I pity the Nigerian woman that will mistakenly marry you. I really pity that woman. Do you know how expensive it is to braid hair in the US?

Wait o!!! And you think white women are after your ass? I'll give you a thread that shows that white women and women of other races rate black men at the bottom of the dating pool. Entitled modafucka!!!!

God!!! The ego of these men!!

Your confusion is obvious ; and it is clear you are one of the shallow oblongata I am referring to.

When you don’t even know the gender you belong to

Spits

shaybebaby:
You say I'm making it about you ( meaning it's not about you) then turn around and type about yourself

Which is proving the fact that it IS about you despite your protests.

If you truly believe your views and have non Nigerian girls at your beck and call. Then exercise your choice and choose of them.

Why are you here whinging when you have other choices? Except ofcourse the reality is that none of them ( even with the dodgy weaves) will have you.

Only you know your real truth.

As one of the naij girls you are subtly shading, I jump the entire naij men pass, plus the fresh- off - the boat ones o and the seasoned ones. All of una, I jump pass.

What you don't see however is me creating a thread bashing those I've rejected personally for myself. One man's trash/ another man's treasure tins.

Find your spec, stay there. If your spec don't want you, fish in other oceans.

E pain this one die

Go continue your Tinder hunt jare. You go dey alright

1Sharon:
31st this month

Alright you try, Sharon
Let’s talk outside nl na, you Open to That?

Jasmine17:
Are you talking about the new movement that calls themselves “unruly Nigerian women in diaspora?”

Nope

thesicilian:
Most Nigerian women are naturally parasitic, no matter where they are in the world.

You are very right, na so I meet this chick for Georgia during one of my visit but I live in the Midwest.
The next thing she said immediately she realized I have everything going is ,if I will help her with her paperwork, I just blank out straight.
They want to reap where they didn't sow.

Jasmine17:
E pain this one die

Go continue your Tinder hunt jare. You go dey alright

Dolt. Don't forget to leave bw ministry alone.

We don't want you. Abi na by force?

Jasmine17:
Chai E really pain this aunty see as truth dey bitter?

No worry, you go dey alright las las

Pained over what? It appears you're projecting those feelings onto me. You act like you're doing the hypothetical woman any favors by marrying her but you're not. You have other options of women to choose from but you've decided to limit yourself to Nigerian women, purposely settling because you know you can't get deified by other women. If you do see a Nigerian woman to be with, there's likelihood you'd cheat because your heart isn't in the right place.

And btw, what guy even names himself "jasmine"? Lmfao.

arthurwillia:
Alright you try, Sharon
Let’s talk outside nl na, you Open to That?

No

1Sharon:
No

K bro
London sitizen

1Sharon:
No

Lol...

Hyerin:
Nope men do not love unconditionally. You can argue with the void though

What condition is worth a man going to fight for his country? Void? Are you the void? Lol

I jo just understand Nigerian girls atall

revolt:
What condition is worth a man going to fight for his country? Void? Are you the void? Lol

Defence is another thing entirely, it's not an indication of this supposedly unconditional love. How many laymen are willing to fight and shed blood for their country? With this logic then politicians, senators, presidents, doctors, lawyers etc and all other professions that deals with people or impact their lives all have unconditional love for people since their line of work affect them in some way. Men getting drafted into war are forced to, there's no altruistic motive on their part. What about interpersonal relationships? Men are the perpetrators of intimate partner violence; domestic physical and sexual assault; familicide; incest etc. Upholders of infidelity and are six times more likely to leave their wives if she gets sick or disabled so were exactly is this unconditional love coming from? Some parents don't even love their own children unconditionally not to even talk of men, the worst of the worst in showing genuine affection. Almost everything men do is primarily motivated by selfishness; he is self-seeking. All the prerequisites and demands in being "wife material" you lot enjoy disturbing the peace with are what? Not conditions abi? You must have constructed your own reality because what you asserted doesn't align with objective facts.

"Argue with the void" is an expression signifying a disinterest in furthering discourse, dimwit.