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Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by Moji12(f): 6:18pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Jasmine17:very aptly put |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by revolt(m): 8:32pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Jasmine17:this one is still talking about love... WOMEN DO NOT LOVE YOU UNCONDITIONALLY BUT OPPORTUNISTICALLY . THEY ARE ALL OPPORTUNISTS. Including our mothers. They are success miners/detectives and respond to you based on your value. Once you realise this .. you will know how to handle them and not get in your feelings with them. When you mature you'll know, even your mother will tilt towards the child that gives her more money and gifts This isn't bad. It just how they're created.....just like when a man gets to his full potential he has options and would be very stupid to submit all that value to one womans feet based on a useless feeling.. called love... loooll.. Swallow the red pill and know your place in life. You are simply built to be leeched on by women. Which honestly. ..no successful man has a problem with that ...a man's fulfillment comes from how many ppl depend on him.... Deal with it. No need to cry about it. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by revolt(m): 8:36pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Gerrard59:looolll... he's still young...probably. his mentality will change 8n a few years time. |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by AutoChick4U(f): 9:02pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Jasmine17:All the best. Life no kukuma balance |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by emmyN(m): 9:28pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Lilsameey: I've never found them attractive. They are mostly flat and short with sunken eyes. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by Lilsameey: 9:34pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
emmyN:,..You have not seen the busty ones |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by emmyN(m): 9:39pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Lilsameey: Do they exist? I'm not talking about the surgically enhanced ones. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by emmyN(m): 9:42pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
AutoChick4U: That's what they all say until they get there. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by revolt(m): 9:43pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Mrscarter:I don't remember saying anything different from what you said.... but are you saying women will go within that ate npt as successful as they are and RESPECT them? What exactly did I say that suggested I said women are leeches. I said they're success miners and EVEN WHEN THEY BECOME SUCCESSFUL THEY DONT DATE DOWN BUT LOOK FOR MEN THAT ARE HIGHER THAN THEM. . SO WHATS your point exactly? |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by Lilsameey: 9:49pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
emmyN:Yes, they exist. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by AutoChick4U(f): 10:25pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
emmyN:Not all. Hasty generalization ain't cool |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by arthurwillia(m): 10:49pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
1Sharon: Depends How about a guy on tier 2 work visa, is that a red flag too? |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by 1Sharon(f): 11:19pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
arthurwillia: Undocumented |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by Nobody: 3:27am On Oct 28, 2021 |
Jasmine17:But gee you fuçk up o like you really fúck up Gan . time wen you dey naija na Nigerian girls u dey date . you kon still leave naija go still dey find naija girls why you like made in Nigeria like this .? . better Clean white babes dey there now . one my guy wey dey Yankee if you see him S.A babe the babe clean die kon still light . Heaven know say if I enter plane kana Leave this naija I nor fit date naija babes again . all of them are just a piece of shit ... Guy try date babes from other races. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by Iykman042(m): 5:44am On Oct 28, 2021 |
@jasmine,abeg share to me how u travel,the process,how much I need to have before travelling. I will like to travel and hustle as well.naija is hard now to live in |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by arthurwillia(m): 7:50am On Oct 28, 2021 |
1Sharon: Please what visa are you on oo? Documented 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by shaybebaby(f): 9:24am On Oct 28, 2021 |
Jasmine17: Don't know why you don't understand his point. It being, the behaviour of many men before you when they were new to the west has left a bad taste in women's mouth. If you are not getting a look in, it's because no one can be bothered to find the exception to what is a general rule, majority are unscrupulous and these women don't even want to wait around to see if you are an exception. Unfair to you, yes but it is what it is. 3 Likes |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by AkhereOkaka(m): 10:39am On Oct 28, 2021 |
Jasmine17: He said most(most doesn't mean all) most and all are not synonyms. We rise by lifting others |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by 1Sharon(f): 12:50pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
arthurwillia: I've never needed a visa in my life. But as you asked someone on tier 2 work visa is Okay. |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by Jasmine17(m): 3:33pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
shaybebaby: Love the way you are subtly making it about me. But unfortunately, its just a reflection of you and other naija ladies putting up such behaviours. I get looked in constantly, go on dates constantly and if i wanted, I will marry a very beautiful non-Nigerian right now. Your class of naija babes in diaspora are one of the most un-prettiest (if the word exist) class. Even jamos and East Africans fine pass una. Once you see any lady on the street with an old looking lagos-style braids or shabby hair, 9 out of 10 times, she turns out to be a Nigerian lady cos una no even get money to take care of una sef and when una manage get, stinginess no dey let una spend on unasef. Me looking at the way of Nigerian ladies is just for 3 reasons: 1. To Help you guys ministry and reduce the population roaming out there. 2. To keep the wealth within the Nigerian circle and not work for another country’s benefit 3. To raise my kids with Nigerian values and a partner who understands the way things work in Nigeria If not, who get una time? Nobody dash monkey banana joor 7 Likes |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by Jasmine17(m): 3:36pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
AkhereOkaka: Thanks for pointing that out � 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by Jasmine17(m): 3:44pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
neyoohhh: Also, white guys dont have age preference like Nigerian guys. So the trend is that most naija ladies waste their time doing what I said in my first post while praying a made Nigerian guy snaps then up and then miss out on their life partner. When they now turn 35 - 40 and nobody is looking at them anymore (even with big degrees in courses with no economic value), they face whites who most times don’t want to have kids and just want to flex for life. Go to FB dating and other dating apps, the least age of any Nigerian lady there is 30-35. Looking for made guy after wasting their youth chasing flashy life. 5 Likes |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by arthurwillia(m): 3:51pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
1Sharon: I want to fear before Are you a citizen of a England? |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by shaybebaby(f): 5:48pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Jasmine17:You say I'm making it about you ( meaning it's not about you) then turn around and type about yourself Which is proving the fact that it IS about you despite your protests. If you truly believe your views and have non Nigerian girls at your beck and call. Then exercise your choice and choose of them. Why are you here whinging when you have other choices? Except ofcourse the reality is that none of them ( even with the dodgy weaves) will have you. Only you know your real truth. As one of the naij girls you are subtly shading, I jump the entire naij men pass, plus the fresh- off - the boat ones o and the seasoned ones. All of una, I jump pass. What you don't see however is me creating a thread bashing those I've rejected personally for myself. One man's trash/ another man's treasure tins. Find your spec, stay there. If your spec don't want you, fish in other oceans. 3 Likes |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by siofra(f): 5:52pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Jasmine17: See this one. Go and date your foreign women and leave Nigerian women the Bleep alone. God forbid!!! All these stupid Nigerian men. I pity the Nigerian woman that will mistakenly marry you. I really pity that woman. Do you know how expensive it is to braid hair in the US? Wait o!!! And you think white women are after your ass? I'll give you a thread that shows that white women and women of other races rate black men at the bottom of the dating pool. Entitled modafucka!!!! God!!! The ego of these men!! 2 Likes |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by 1Sharon(f): 6:06pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
arthurwillia: Yh |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by arthurwillia(m): 7:13pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
1Sharon: Oshey citizen I see you my Gee, when is daylight savings starting please so I can know how to adjust to my interview time |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by Nobody: 7:17pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Jasmine17: I still think you should go for a foreigner because the disgust you feel for Nigerian diasporan women is deep seated. scratch that, not only diasporan, but Nigerian women as a whole. Someone in this thread even suggested you date from home and bring her over but you waved the idea off which shows that you're not actually operating from a place of good faith. Your excuse is flimsy because if that's what you truly wanted, you won't be acting like you're stuck between a rock and a hard place. Even if you eventually (hopefully no woman will fall victim to this) find a Nigerian woman who checks all your boxes, that disdain will always be at the forefront of your emotions and override reasoning. Then again, anyone with eyes and a functioning brain can tell why you hold so dear to "Nigerian values". Other races of women have zero tolerance for any display of chauvinism unlike African women who live and breath with it. At the slightest provocation or mishap, they're already filing for divorce. Your reasons for wanting a Nigerian woman is actually underlined by fear. Your actual preference are other races of women but you're too scared to deal with them. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by mascot345: 7:21pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
revolt:. Thank you so much my guy. U get sense. |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by shaybebaby(f): 7:33pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Hyerin:Hit the nail on the head. Let's not get it twisted, being a sleazebag isn't the purvey of Nigerian men alone. It exists in all races but the main difference is that Nigerian men justify and believe they are entitled to act with such impunity. Much like how our politicians steal in broad day light. Politicians here do the same, but they KNOW that it isn't acceptable. They know that society expects better of them and that if caught, they will be held accountable ( largely). 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by 1Sharon(f): 7:38pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
arthurwillia: Lol say what |
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