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I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by Candycrushy(f): 6:07am On Oct 30, 2021

This guy has been sending me threats of how he's planning to harm me, just because i refused to date him ( its just one week of knowing him and there'sno way of dating because he's someone i can settle for)...i would have posted screenshots of chats here but i angrily blocked and deleted his number and chats...

He's a staff at GIGM....I plan to report him anonymously through their customer care line but I'm not sure if its the right thing to do...i dont even have the threats chats to pin him with

I need suggestions on what to do pls
Mods please push to frontpage...

Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by ayoblinks(m): 6:08am On Oct 30, 2021

Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by Bola146(f): 6:26am On Oct 30, 2021

What really happened? Did you collect money or gifts from him? Why the threats? If you have genuine reasons, please report to the police station and the management of where he works asap. You need to bring your proves to them. But you don't have his number, I don't understand? Go and check where you blocked him to take his number or unblock him to get more prove. If you are at fault please beg him to forgive you to let go but if you prove stubborn to report him when he is innocent, don't start what you can't continue. It can land you in shame and jail.

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Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by Godada(m): 6:29am On Oct 30, 2021

For starters, you don't have to give out your numbers to strangers.

Why would you delete such incriminating evidence?

How do you intend to build a case against him?

Why did he resort to threats?

Did you accept cash gifts and favours from him without reciprocating?

If you don't like a guy don't lead him on, reject his advances and keep him at bay.

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Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by Pweetiedude(m): 6:44am On Oct 30, 2021

This story sounds fishy. You wan do chop and clean mouth.

Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by Ocholu: 6:52am On Oct 30, 2021

Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by Truvelisback(m): 6:57am On Oct 30, 2021

Candycrushy:
This guy has been sending me threats of how he's planning to harm me, just because i refused to date him ( its just one week of knowing him and there'sno way of dating because he's someone i can settle for)...i would have posted screenshots of chats here but i angrily blocked and deleted his number and chats...

He's a staff at GIGM....I plan to report him anonymously through their customer care line but I'm not sure if its the right thing to do...i dont even have the threats chats to pin him with

I need suggestions on what to do pls
Mods please push to frontpage...

I hope say u chop the guy b4 all this drama?

Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by Elporo(m): 6:58am On Oct 30, 2021

Yo!

How about the other guy?

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Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by Sonnobax15(m): 7:02am On Oct 30, 2021

You don use because of vexination delete your only exhibit wey you for use pin am down undecided

Well,why some guymen dey misbehave self...Woman say she no wor date, Instead of you to move on with your life,you say NO,say you go must wound her angry

. For whattttttttttt na? angry

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Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by falcon01: 7:08am On Oct 30, 2021

@candycrushy Take this message to the nearest police station and report, case closed.

Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by CandyOps(m): 7:16am On Oct 30, 2021

Unblock him. Let him send more threats. Then block him again. Now u have your evidence back.

Me I don't report to police because na to spend more money and nothing will be done.. but as u be barnie it could be different.

Here's what I do when I feel threatened- it's either I ignore you and let you whine yourself then I move underground to Bleep you up. Na for night we go block you for one corner tidy your fuckup

Worst part be say you no go even know the reason we mend you. because I don't leave traces back to myself... Or... I flee from the fight.

And shey you no get big brothers or cousins around?

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Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by lilvicky68(m): 7:23am On Oct 30, 2021

If you dey innocent..

Omo na to do am the portharcourt way oh..

Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by Candycrushy(f): 7:24am On Oct 30, 2021

Truvelisback:
I hope say u chop the guy b4 all this drama?

I didn't see any kobo frm him

Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by Candycrushy(f): 7:26am On Oct 30, 2021

Bola146:
What really happened? Did you collect money or gifts from him? Why the threats? If you have genuine reasons, please report to the police station and the management of where he works asap. You need to bring your proves to them. But you don't have his number, I don't understand? Go and check where you blocked him to take his number or unblock him to get more prove. If you are at fault please beg him to forgive you to let go but if you prove stubborn to report him when he is innocent, don't start what you can't continue. It can land you in shame and jail.

I didn't collect a dime from him....

Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by Oglock(m): 7:26am On Oct 30, 2021

Irredeeemable Simps Are Useless...All Of Them

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Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by Candycrushy(f): 7:27am On Oct 30, 2021

Godada:

For starters, you don't have to give out your numbers to strangers.

Why would you delete such incriminating evidence?

How do you intend to build a case against him?

Why did he resort to threats?

Did you accept cash gifts and favours from him without reciprocating?

If you don't like a guy don't lead him on, reject his advances and keep him at bay.

I didn't collect kobo from him

Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by Candycrushy(f): 7:33am On Oct 30, 2021

Candycrushy:

I didn't collect kobo from him

For the records tho...i have a screenshot of how he threatened to deal with me....i messaged him through my friends phone and he was still ranting about how he's going to deal witg me

Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by Godada(m): 7:48am On Oct 30, 2021

Candycrushy:

I didn't collect kobo from him

Can you shed more light why he would want to threaten you to date him?

Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by Candycrushy(f): 7:55am On Oct 30, 2021

Godada:

Can you shed more light why he would want to threaten you to date him?

He asked me out, but then he was more interested in just sex sex sex...then i i turned him down
I was rude to him tho, he started threatening to deal with me

Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by Truvelisback(m): 8:11am On Oct 30, 2021

Candycrushy:

I didn't see any kobo frm him

In that case, his threats are empty. U no owe am money.

Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by Godada(m): 8:23am On Oct 30, 2021

Candycrushy:

He asked me out, but then he was more interested in just sex sex sex...then i i turned him down
I was rude to him tho, he started threatening to deal with me

Gather the screenshot and report to the police.

Have him arrested.

He should write an undertaking.

He can't be making threats around.

Have him arrested at his place of work.

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Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by Bola146(f): 8:27am On Oct 30, 2021

Candycrushy:

I didn't collect a dime from him....

Good, unblock him to receive more information from him to pin him down or look for his phone number and record his calls. Don't take any threats funny please

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Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by Candycrushy(f): 8:28am On Oct 30, 2021

Bola146:

Good, unblock him to receive more information from him to pin him down or look for his phone number and record his calls. Don't take any threats funny please

Aiit....thanks

Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by HRHQueenPhil(f): 9:12am On Oct 30, 2021

Candycrushy:

Aiit....thanks

This is d best advice

Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by toujurs: 10:41am On Oct 30, 2021

If you didn't eat his money and ran away, and he is threatening you because you refused him sex, walaihi this is a small case. Since you know where he works, just get as much evidence of him telling you how he wants to sleep with you, beat you, or of him threatening to deal with you, if possible send him voice notes telling him to leave you alone, so he could reply with same voice note saying his usual nonsense, then visit the nearest police station with those evidencs, Am very sure that guy would be one of these onitsha boys, some of those guys behaves like dogs, so petty and ill mannered. Once small change enters their pocket like this, they have arrived. So petty and ill mannered.

Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by Geminiempress: 10:42am On Oct 30, 2021

Werey dey disguise
Bleep him up anonymously
Follow street with street cos if u loose guard do otherwise dem go chop ur money and d return/result no go bellefull u.

Only if u geh d mind

Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by Pumpumking: 10:50am On Oct 30, 2021

falcon01:
@candycrushy Take this message to the nearest police station and report, case closed.

Police station?..in Nigeria?.. u want Nigerian Police to flog her for wastin police time?

Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by Vanilla4(f): 10:51am On Oct 30, 2021

The hell is that... He needs to be reported, both at his place of work and to the police.

Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by Nobody: 10:52am On Oct 30, 2021

Hmmm

Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by Pumpumking: 10:53am On Oct 30, 2021

Candycrushy:
This guy has been sending me threats of how he's planning to harm me, just because i refused to date him ( its just one week of knowing him and there'sno way of dating because he's someone i can settle for)...i would have posted screenshots of chats here but i angrily blocked and deleted his number and chats...

He's a staff at GIGM....I plan to report him anonymously through their customer care line but I'm not sure if its the right thing to do...i dont even have the threats chats to pin him with

I need suggestions on what to do pls
Mods please push to frontpage...

sweeery dont mind this ilitarate people mennn. they shattin rubbbish sir..please describe yor sef from left to right ,& are u lightskin?

Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by kingxsamz(m): 11:15am On Oct 30, 2021

How is he still threatening you when you have blocked his number? Why are you still contacting him through your friend? Does he live near you or what?

Re: I'm Confused, Please Help!!! by brosom(m): 11:16am On Oct 30, 2021

This script no complete,

Well, we've heard ur side,

Waiting for the dude's side because women and snake na the same thing.

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