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Promiscuous Dad by Candidlady: 1:04pm On Oct 31, 2021
My mum knows my dad and his gimmicks! He is never around, and i know she knows that my dad got side chick(s)

before now they quarel all the time bout it, but one way or the other they have found their way around it(maybe they gave eachother hallpass, ireally dont know)


where me i have issue with him is giving a cashier his complementary card or paying the bills of a total stranger(believe me am a lady and i know those tactics), in my presence

me his daughter will be in his front and the old man go still dey try catch "side chick"

should i confront him or the girls?

nb: dnt care if he is doing it but he should atleast respect me! Ijust pray he doesnt get "atagalised" by 'em "chidinma" out there

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Re: Promiscuous Dad by Nobody: 1:06pm On Oct 31, 2021
Tell him to respect you,its that simple.It's your right that he respects you,at least not in your presence for God's sake.

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Re: Promiscuous Dad by Candidlady: 1:09pm On Oct 31, 2021
Iyaebe:
Tell him to respect you,its that simple.

really anonying! Most of 'em girls my age some older!

he cant help it, like dogs attracted to bones!

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Re: Promiscuous Dad by Nobody: 1:12pm On Oct 31, 2021
Candidlady:


really anonying! Most of 'em girls my age some older!

he cant help it, like dogs attracted to bones!

Imagine, you'll be surprised how sobber he'll be the day you respectfully and outrightly demands that he respects you when he's at his games in your presence.

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Re: Promiscuous Dad by Candidlady: 1:22pm On Oct 31, 2021
SmellySperm:
A taste of your medicine.
How other women feel when you do same to their men

what med?

you aint getting my point!

let him cheat all he wants thats not my biz, just dont like it when he does it in my presence!
n yeah for the record i dont do old men!

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Re: Promiscuous Dad by Nobody: 1:23pm On Oct 31, 2021
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Re: Promiscuous Dad by kingreign(m): 1:25pm On Oct 31, 2021
Candidlady:
My mum knows my dad and his gimmicks! He is never around, and i know she knows that my dad got side chick(s)

before now they quarel all the time bout it, but one way or the other they have found their way around it(maybe they gave eachother hallpass, ireally dont know)


where me i have issue with him is giving a cashier his complementary card or paying the bills of a total stranger(believe me am a lady and i know those tactics), in my presence

me his daughter will be in his front and the old man go still dey try catch "side chick"

should i confront him or the girls?

nb: dnt care if he is doing it but he should atleast respect me! Ijust pray he doesnt get "atagalised" by 'em "chidinma" out there

Stay away from his personal business and his lifestyle. His wife is the one to call him to order. Face your own life and marriage.

Cheers!

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Re: Promiscuous Dad by Candidlady: 1:30pm On Oct 31, 2021
kingreign:


Stay away from his personal business and his lifestyle. His wife is the one to call him to order. Face your own life and marriage.

Cheers!

what do you mean stay away from his personal life?
this is my dad for petesake!

and am nat married!

nb:you see your mum misbehaving you gonna let her be yeah?

"ori e ti gba le"

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Re: Promiscuous Dad by badboyTee(m): 1:33pm On Oct 31, 2021
candidlady u also need to get a bf

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Re: Promiscuous Dad by Bluezy13(m): 1:35pm On Oct 31, 2021
kingreign:


Stay away from his personal business and his lifestyle. His wife is the one to call him to order. Face your own life and marriage.

Cheers!

I doubt the sanity of this poster.

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Re: Promiscuous Dad by zed7: 1:42pm On Oct 31, 2021
It's quite unfortunate that you have a randy dad. There is nothing much you can do about it.
My only advice is not to make the same mistake. Ensure you shine your eyes well and not marry a randy man. Let lightening not strike twice.

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Re: Promiscuous Dad by Candidlady: 1:44pm On Oct 31, 2021
badboyTee:
candidlady u also need to get a bf

if you had said a pet/book/massage/evap/snickers/guitar i wuda agreed with you. But getting a bf? Nah!! Time neva reach

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Re: Promiscuous Dad by Cholls(m): 1:46pm On Oct 31, 2021
Candidlady:
My mum knows my dad and his gimmicks! He is never around, and i know she knows that my dad got side chick(s)

before now they quarel all the time bout it, but one way or the other they have found their way around it(maybe they gave eachother hallpass, ireally dont know)


where me i have issue with him is giving a cashier his complementary card or paying the bills of a total stranger(believe me am a lady and i know those tactics), in my presence

me his daughter will be in his front and the old man go still dey try catch "side chick"

should i confront him or the girls?

nb: dnt care if he is doing it but he should atleast respect me! Ijust pray he doesnt get "atagalised" by 'em "chidinma" out there

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Re: Promiscuous Dad by badboyTee(m): 2:11pm On Oct 31, 2021
Candidlady:


if you had said a pet/book/massage/evap/snickers/guitar i wuda agreed with you. But getting a bf? Nah!! Time neva reach
how old are you?
Re: Promiscuous Dad by bepositive11: 2:14pm On Oct 31, 2021
Candidlady:


if you had said a pet/book/massage/evap/snickers/guitar i wuda agreed with you. But getting a bf? Nah!! Time neva reach

Sad that you have a father like that. He should be the one teaching you how you should expect men to treat you. He should be the one setting the standards. Such a shame

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Re: Promiscuous Dad by Barbiturate(m): 2:17pm On Oct 31, 2021
It depends on your rapport with your dad. If he's not strict on you, he pets you and he talks to you freely and jokingly and you do same. You can have a heart to heart discussion with him about it. Tell him to stop(difficult) or minimise it and he should pls respect you and not do it in your presence. If not, just ignore and live your life. Make sure you don't do the same mistake as your mom.

*Variety is the spice of life cheesy
If I sabi chase and get wella like your dad, wouldn't mind having them in quantum smiley
Even when some women were asked what they will do if they were men...... majority said shinọ

NB: It's your mom that's in the best position to talk to him!

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Re: Promiscuous Dad by smogia1994(m): 2:26pm On Oct 31, 2021
My dear frnd it's saddening you have to see through this stage of life, like ur own dad doing this in ur presence. I'm a guy I remember calling my dad to order he was so ashamed of himself he left watsapp for 5months and It help. Pls delay is bad. I feel u call dad to order. But do it respectfully thanks

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Re: Promiscuous Dad by kingreign(m): 2:32pm On Oct 31, 2021
Candidlady:


what do you mean stay away from his personal life?
this is my dad for petesake!

and am nat married!

nb:you see your mum misbehaving you gonna let her be yeah?

"ori e ti gba le"

He isn't married to you.
His wife is in the best position to correct him, friends, his siblings, his clergyman or deity priest.


If you are an African, learn how to treat African parents with respect. You telling them their wrongdoings to them may pass a wrong message to them. They may take it to mean you are disrespecting them.

You aren't married, you won't be in the best position to correct a cheating married man or woman. A more elderly yet, married and respected person ought to do that. His/her priest, family members, blossom friends. Not you who hasn't seen half of what he's seen or experienced anything yet in marriage.

As for the curse in yoruba, it goes to show obviously you lack manners.

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Re: Promiscuous Dad by kingreign(m): 2:33pm On Oct 31, 2021
Bluezy13:


I doubt the sanity of this poster.

Fortunately, you aren't qualified enough to check my sanity levels so I'd pass.

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Re: Promiscuous Dad by Ishilove: 2:42pm On Oct 31, 2021
Candidlady:


what do you mean stay away from his personal life?
this is my dad for petesake!

and am nat married!

nb:you see your mum misbehaving you gonna let her be yeah?

"ori e ti gba le"
See what the internet is causing. You are saying this rubbish to someone who, offline you will call 'uncle'.

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Re: Promiscuous Dad by Candidlady: 2:50pm On Oct 31, 2021
Ishilove:

See what the internet is causing. You are saying this rubbish to someone who, offline you will call 'uncle'.

idg

same internet is making you talk to someone who ofline you wudnt dare relate with it!

please stay at ends!

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Re: Promiscuous Dad by Candidlady: 2:54pm On Oct 31, 2021
kingreign:


He isn't married to you.
His wife is in the best position to correct him, friends, his siblings, his clergyman or deity priest.


If you are an African, learn how to treat African parents with respect. You telling them their wrongdoings to them may pass a wrong message to them. They may take it to mean you are disrespecting them.

You aren't married, you won't be in the best position to correct a cheating married man or woman. A more elderly yet, married and respected person ought to do that. His/her priest, family members, blossom friends. Not you who hasn't seen half of what he's seen or experienced anything yet in marriage.

As for the curse in yoruba, it goes to show obviously you lack manners.

stopd readin when u brought in the whole african thing

and for the insult am sorry! Was just my way of sayin "you aint serious". No insult intended. Peace

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Re: Promiscuous Dad by Candidlady: 3:01pm On Oct 31, 2021
Barbiturate:
It depends on your rapport with your dad. If he's not strict on you, he pets you and he talks to you freely and jokingly and you do same. You can have a heart to heart discussion with him about it. Tell him to stop(difficult) or minimise it and he should pls respect you and not do it in your presence. If not, just ignore and live your life. Make sure you don't do the same mistake as your mom.

*Variety is the spice of life cheesy
If I sabi chase and get wella like your dad, wouldn't mind having them in quantum smiley
Even when some women were asked what they will do if they were men...... majority said shinọ

NB: It's your mom that's in the best position to talk to him!

our rapport is terrible!

and for my mum bin in the best position? The woman doesnt care anymre. And nat like icare either, but the guy wont just comport in my presence

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Re: Promiscuous Dad by Ishilove: 3:07pm On Oct 31, 2021
Candidlady:


idg

same internet is making you talk to someone who ofline you wudnt dare relate with it!

please stay at ends!
I laugh in many languages.

Swerve to the left, kiddo. And you're right, offline I definitely won't relate with teenagers. Na for internet lizards pretend to be crocodiles.

My last word to you.

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Re: Promiscuous Dad by Candidlady: 3:14pm On Oct 31, 2021
Ishilove:

I laugh in many languages.

Swerve to the left, kiddo. And you're right, offline I definitely won't relate with teenagers. Na for internet lizards pretend to be crocodiles.

My last word to you.


lmao!!

isee whats happening here! The "buhari effect" got to you too?



"kachiuru banka"

whats an "adult" tonto dikeh to a "teenage" regina daniels!?

happy sunday sister!

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Re: Promiscuous Dad by EmperorTolson: 3:14pm On Oct 31, 2021
Candidlady:
My mum knows my dad and his gimmicks! He is never around, and i know she knows that my dad got side chick(s)

before now they quarel all the time bout it, but one way or the other they have found their way around it(maybe they gave eachother hallpass, ireally dont know)


where me i have issue with him is giving a cashier his complementary card or paying the bills of a total stranger(believe me am a lady and i know those tactics), in my presence

me his daughter will be in his front and the old man go still dey try catch "side chick"

should i confront him or the girls?

nb: dnt care if he is doing it but he should atleast respect me! Ijust pray he doesnt get "atagalised" by 'em "chidinma" out there
Atagalised
Prof Soyinka kind of grammar
Atagalised ko, chidinmalised ni.
grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Promiscuous Dad by EmperorTolson: 3:17pm On Oct 31, 2021
Candidlady:


if you had said a pet/book/massage/evap/snickers/guitar i wuda agreed with you. But getting a bf? Nah!! Time neva reach
Cheers to your single life,
We both know that you just got dumped and you're craving for another bf secretly.

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Re: Promiscuous Dad by EmperorTolson: 3:27pm On Oct 31, 2021
Candidlady:
My mum knows my dad and his gimmicks! He is never around, and i know she knows that my dad got side chick(s)

before now they quarel all the time bout it, but one way or the other they have found their way around it(maybe they gave eachother hallpass, ireally dont know)


where me i have issue with him is giving a cashier his complementary card or paying the bills of a total stranger(believe me am a lady and i know those tactics), in my presence

me his daughter will be in his front and the old man go still dey try catch "side chick"

should i confront him or the girls?

nb: dnt care if he is doing it but he should atleast respect me! Ijust pray he doesnt get "atagalised" by 'em "chidinma" out there
Nobody knows your father here,
Nobody understands the relationship between you and your father.
So, you're in the best position to know whether or not you should confront him.

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Re: Promiscuous Dad by luvmijeje(f): 3:38pm On Oct 31, 2021
Hmmmm! For him to that in your presence shows his lack of regard and lack of respect for you and your mum

He knows that there is every probability doing it in your presence will get to your mum, he still doesn't care. This war is between your parents. I hope your mum is wise. She is too old to be fighting over prick. She should be fighting for what rightfully belongs to her children. Once again I hope she is wise.

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Re: Promiscuous Dad by Candidlady: 3:45pm On Oct 31, 2021
luvmijeje:
Hmmmm! For him to that in your presence shows his lack of regard and lack of respect for you and your mum

He knows that there is every probability doing it in your presence will get to your mum, he still doesn't care. This war is between your parents. I hope your mum is wise. She is too old to be fighting over prick. She should be fighting for what rightfully belongs to her children. Once again I hope she is wise.

they use to have issues but mum is over it already!

some individuals up there are sayin it is nat my biz!

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Re: Promiscuous Dad by luvmijeje(f): 3:53pm On Oct 31, 2021
Candidlady:


they use to have issues but mum is over it already!

some individuals up there are sayin it is nat my biz!


It's your business o. Because every money he spent out there is the money he failed to invest in you.

I have seen that kind of man before. The man spends money anyhow outside. After he died, his wife was selling roasted plantain to feed the children he left behind. So again I hope your mum is wise.

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