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Mystoree:
So I had some issues with my girlfriend and we were kind of not talking for 2 weeks, during that time, a lot happened in her life.

We settled and while we were telling each other about what happened during our time apart, she began to cry and opened up to me that she was raped. I will ordinarily not believe that lie if she was a virgin but she wasn't, I met her as one and I was her first, so there will be no point in her even revealing it to me if she wasn't as it was a one time thing and I will hardly notice. At that point, i felt like my world just stopped for some seconds, o felt dizzy and found somewhere to sit trying to process what I just heard. Funny thing was that on the night of that incident, I was feeling weird about her and called her to find out how she was, it was around 9:30 pm and she was a student of a higher institution on the mainland while I stay on the island. After I called her, she picked up and told me she was going to call me back as she was trying to get a bike to take her to where she was going to, and immediately she ended the call, a man put a knife behind her and threatened to kill her if she doesn't give him what he wants, she offered her phone and all but this man was just after sex, according to her, the area was quiet and there was almost nobody on the streets, he pulled her to a shop corner and forced his way. I was devastated and confused, this is the only lady I have ever seen myself marrying amongst all the ladies I have met, she checks all the boxes, she said it didn't last up to 5 minutes and she cried all through but the man didn't care. He was a fat elderly man with a pot belly, wearing a nose mask in the night so she could not even see his face.

I was so angry at her because first of all, I warned her several times not to move in the night in that area as it is very dangerous, we were once robbed on the same street around 8pm, so I wonder what went into her mind moving by almost 10pm. She said she was on night shift where she works and then her friend called her to join them for a party, so she took permission and wanted leaving and that was when it happened. Now the thing is, those friends of hers are very bad influence on her and I told her a long time ago, she said she doesn't follow them but just hangs around with them in school, little did I know that she went to the bar alongside them and their boyfriends a number of time without my knowledge. She showed me pictures of their outings and a stab on the hand from the rapist. I'm so angry, she has been crying and begging, I asked her to stop the job and she agreed,i have thought of getting a girl and some guys to disguise and go to the same area late night to see if the devil will push the bastard to try his lick again cos I swear, I will make sure I put a stick through his anus through to his mouth,revenge is all that is on my mind cos I love this girl so much


I have read rape stories but I never thought it would come so close to me, I have been put in countless situations where a girl changes her mind on letting me into her and I respected that, I wonder why this would happen to me, I don't know what to do, any advice is welcome.

Modified - for those claiming she lied, she came along with the doctors report and tests receipt.

budaatum:
I bet she did not go to report to police so they can take dna to track this rapist down!

Kobojunkie, I'm loving you more each day, please note.

Kobojunkie:

You forgive her for the rape?


The last thing this woman needs is a self conceited eejit in her life.

Mystoree:
So I had some issues with my girlfriend and we were kind of not talking for 2 weeks, during that time, a lot happened in her life.

We settled and while we were telling each other about what happened during our time apart, she began to cry and opened up to me that she was raped. I will ordinarily not believe that lie if she was a virgin but she wasn't, I met her as one and I was her first, so there will be no point in her even revealing it to me if she wasn't as it was a one time thing and I will hardly notice. At that point, i felt like my world just stopped for some seconds, o felt dizzy and found somewhere to sit trying to process what I just heard. Funny thing was that on the night of that incident, I was feeling weird about her and called her to find out how she was, it was around 9:30 pm and she was a student of a higher institution on the mainland while I stay on the island. After I called her, she picked up and told me she was going to call me back as she was trying to get a bike to take her to where she was going to, and immediately she ended the call, a man put a knife behind her and threatened to kill her if she doesn't give him what he wants, she offered her phone and all but this man was just after sex, according to her, the area was quiet and there was almost nobody on the streets, he pulled her to a shop corner and forced his way. I was devastated and confused, this is the only lady I have ever seen myself marrying amongst all the ladies I have met, she checks all the boxes, she said it didn't last up to 5 minutes and she cried all through but the man didn't care. He was a fat elderly man with a pot belly, wearing a nose mask in the night so she could not even see his face.

I was so angry at her because first of all, I warned her several times not to move in the night in that area as it is very dangerous, we were once robbed on the same street around 8pm, so I wonder what went into her mind moving by almost 10pm. She said she was on night shift where she works and then her friend called her to join them for a party, so she took permission and wanted leaving and that was when it happened. Now the thing is, those friends of hers are very bad influence on her and I told her a long time ago, she said she doesn't follow them but just hangs around with them in school, little did I know that she went to the bar alongside them and their boyfriends a number of time without my knowledge. She showed me pictures of their outings and a stab on the hand from the rapist. I'm so angry, she has been crying and begging, I asked her to stop the job and she agreed,i have thought of getting a girl and some guys to disguise and go to the same area late night to see if the devil will push the bastard to try his lick again cos I swear, I will make sure I put a stick through his anus through to his mouth,revenge is all that is on my mind cos I love this girl so much


I have read rape stories but I never thought it would come so close to me, I have been put in countless situations where a girl changes her mind on letting me into her and I respected that, I wonder why this would happen to me, I don't know what to do, any advice is welcome.

Modified - for those claiming she lied, she came along with the doctors report and tests receipt.

Kobojunkie:
A human being was violated and what you came here to do is sing us a dirge of sorts of how it all has to do with you and your ego?

Get over yourself.. if you don't love her, leave her alone so she can find someone who can love her without putting chains on her .

budaatum:
If the police is as useless as you claim, I'd personally sue them for negligence of duty because that's their job.

But I bet you'd claim the courts are useless too, instead of realising it's your duty to hold them to account.

nairaman66:
Sure I totally understand! Rape stories are rare and not after you have surrounded your valuables, a thief would want to have carnal knowledge of you, while on the road and on the job.

Her story has too many red flags!



From the OP- Seems her phone wasn’t stolen nor her bag. Secondly, there was almost nobody in a Lagos street? Is this plausible?

She may be telling the truth (truth is relative)! Maybe she was forced into sex by the guy she was with that night! She couldn’t stand the shame and her heart must have been pricking her bad she had to tell some story to her boyfriend.. Etc

Frankicent:
Shut the F. You talking as if you've not heard women do worst. If you don't understand my post. Read it again.

Chris525:
Don’t take laws into your hands, you can make a report at the police station in the area if need be. I’m sure they know the culprit if you describe properly. Most times Police know these things but these people can’t be tucked away because most people are ignorant on how to press charges or believe getting the culprit arrested by police is all they need to do.

Also, get over it. Its a big deal but you two must convince yourselves it’s not. That would be a easy way or escape for you both to move on from it otherwise it could change the relationship or both of your lives in a negative way. It’s important that you both move away from this ugly incident ASAP. Wishing you the best.

Kobojunkie:
You even continue to repeat the same tripe without even realizing your error.

I really hope it does not work out for you with her so she can get someone better in her life and soonest too. She was violated only recently and this to you is all about you and how your ego can continue to get its way over her. women dey see things abeg!

Solatium:
Ọga go and sit down joor,after she pressed your mumu button your brain still never reset say your girl dey usẹ scope tie you.
Which responsible girl left her job to party with friends at late night?

budaatum:
We the people are not demanding that Government provide the resources. But they will one day, when women march tits out to Aso Rock to demand it be prioritised.

Mystoree:
It was just one big fool and she is just too fragile to fight back. I plan on doing that tho, I am sure the idiot stays around the area and will come again for another one.we gonna do it streetwise this time and life must be lost

Mystoree:
I am not putting chains on her, I forgave her already but that doesn't take out that dark part of our story. If I don't love her, I will not be feeling this bad.

Alexaonfleek:
wow.
This really hit me hard!
Dna kits to identify cheats but none for rapists and criminals!
Nigeria is really a zoo country with wild animals.

fayomim:
Idiot...life must be lost Becos he raped your mother abi? Try kill one life and see how you end up bin chained.
Nonsense ingredient she is not even your wife so why claiming ownership of her responsibilities by killing Becos of her

Idiot boy, better go and hustle well so you girl friend won't get raped at the middle of the night.

Mystoree:
So I had some issues with my girlfriend and we were kind of not talking for 2 weeks, during that time, a lot happened in her life.

We settled and while we were telling each other about what happened during our time apart, she began to cry and opened up to me that she was raped. I will ordinarily not believe that lie if she was a virgin but she wasn't, I met her as one and I was her first, so there will be no point in her even revealing it to me if she wasn't as it was a one time thing and I will hardly notice. At that point, i felt like my world just stopped for some seconds, o felt dizzy and found somewhere to sit trying to process what I just heard. Funny thing was that on the night of that incident, I was feeling weird about her and called her to find out how she was, it was around 9:30 pm and she was a student of a higher institution on the mainland while I stay on the island. After I called her, she picked up and told me she was going to call me back as she was trying to get a bike to take her to where she was going to, and immediately she ended the call, a man put a knife behind her and threatened to kill her if she doesn't give him what he wants, she offered her phone and all but this man was just after sex, according to her, the area was quiet and there was almost nobody on the streets, he pulled her to a shop corner and forced his way. I was devastated and confused, this is the only lady I have ever seen myself marrying amongst all the ladies I have met, she checks all the boxes, she said it didn't last up to 5 minutes and she cried all through but the man didn't care. He was a fat elderly man with a pot belly, wearing a nose mask in the night so she could not even see his face.

I was so angry at her because first of all, I warned her several times not to move in the night in that area as it is very dangerous, we were once robbed on the same street around 8pm, so I wonder what went into her mind moving by almost 10pm. She said she was on night shift where she works and then her friend called her to join them for a party, so she took permission and wanted leaving and that was when it happened. Now the thing is, those friends of hers are very bad influence on her and I told her a long time ago, she said she doesn't follow them but just hangs around with them in school, little did I know that she went to the bar alongside them and their boyfriends a number of time without my knowledge. She showed me pictures of their outings and a stab on the hand from the rapist. I'm so angry, she has been crying and begging, I asked her to stop the job and she agreed,i have thought of getting a girl and some guys to disguise and go to the same area late night to see if the devil will push the bastard to try his lick again cos I swear, I will make sure I put a stick through his anus through to his mouth,revenge is all that is on my mind cos I love this girl so much


I have read rape stories but I never thought it would come so close to me, I have been put in countless situations where a girl changes her mind on letting me into her and I respected that, I wonder why this would happen to me, I don't know what to do, any advice is welcome.

Modified - for those claiming she lied, she came along with the doctors report and tests receipt.

Lizzydonnah:
Abet shut up, shoshosho up and down. E no dey tire you? Are you the boyfriend? Rape apologist oshi.

emmanuelbrown26:
Wisdom shall never depart from thy household. People didn't even read the lines, why must it be when they had issue that she got raped? Bobo dey here dey form Mr. Mancho man up and down without sitting his damn ass down to reflect on your comment.
Na this type woman dey send to early to grave.

Mystoree:
It was just one big fool and she is just too fragile to fight back. I plan on doing that tho, I am sure the idiot stays around the area and will come again for another one.we gonna do it streetwise this time and life must be lost

oyatz:
Thank you for this level of scrutiny.


I grew-up on Lagos Mainland and even as at the 1990s, it was difficult not to see people on a street around 9:30pm.

A fat man ordering her to go to a corner shop (what if he wanted to kill her in the shop in this days of ritual killings) and she cooperated easily? She didn't attempt to run away or shout for help? Her clothes weren't torn.

And the only part of her body with the 'stab wound' was the back of her hand?

Was the rapist alone or there were some other guys holding her down?



So many questions to be answered.

001spice:
yes it was her fault why leaving your work to attend one stupid party by that time. I am convinced it wasn't just a party she was going to a club. Dirty olosho looking for sympathy