chatinent:
He doesn't. Broiler no dey lie.

Eyinju112:
Y’all keep scaring me when you say your husband now looks like your brother to you after few years of marriage.... is that how it happens? I’m getting scared...

I can’t imagine him seeing me as a sister after marriage

Greystone:


...and the juice is very sweet

Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

Sterope:
Post marital sex can be different from premarital sex as well. People change

Prechgold1180:


Write me on WhatsApp
I can recommend something for your husband with no side effects not sex drugs

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He won’t cum for 25 minutes first round second round might be more than 1 hour
I will send u the name and picture of what I m talking about
And you can get in few stores

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If he tries it and it does not work change my name
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And if he applies it for like four times
He would automatically be healed of 10 seconds cumming

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U can browse about it online

Kobojunkie:
It happens in relationships and marriages too.

ezugegere:
You both need to make conscious efforts to make your marriage work. I think the major problem here is his inability to last, which can be solved.
Don't try to pressure him into MouthAction since he finds it disgusting. I too don't like it. I don't think it's healthy.

Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

adanny01:


Hey, if find MouthAction disgusting too. Anal sex too. Thank God my wife feels the same way.

However, it seems you've had the experience with it before marriage and it seems thats what gives you the thrill. This means, your husband has failed and you have assisted him by not doing every thing possible to spark off a good round of sex.

Before I got married, i gave head to only 1 girl in my life so far and it was just that one time. This girlfriend of mine had to be worked on to have sex but on this day, she came to my house on purpose to sleep which was strange. She cooked, had her bath, asked me to go and bath and come to bed. It was too good to be true. When I arrived, she spilled the beans. She said, " I am all ready for, but if you really want to fvck, you must give me head, i want it! So i did it for the very first time.

You can get your husband to do your bidding by doing the necessary.

For the 10s, he needs to know you are not getting enough. You need to research and work together without inviting a 3rd party. Its possible, its his state of mind. You need to understand how men feel and how you can help him stay longer.

Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

dettolgel:
I have said it before that all Nigerians care about is sex. When it comes to issues that require using their brain they will disappear.

Just imagine the number of people viewing this thread

Chiderao1:
Op, no your thoughts are not delusional and you are not delusional, you are a human.
Let's be realistic, The husband is a 10 seconds man who doesn't satisfy the wife sexually by
1.Making her orgasm from penetrative sex
2. Doesn't give her Orals from that atleast she may Orgasm
3. Doesn't know how to romance her
Pls Op correct me if I'm mistaken,
Ma'am there is little to nothing you can do about this than to endure it. But till how long, ?? A year, 2 years, 3 years?? 10yrs?
This is something you have to live with or walk away from. It may make you crazy at some point.

Kobojunkie:
Help me tell all those spouting silliness about testing before marriage and the lots.

samsard:
The bolded is scam. Regardless, why take bacteria from the vagina into the mouth?

ahnie:
Op, you're not alone on what you're experiencing,neither are you delusional.there are community of women like you in same shoes,but they're afraid to speak up.


Here's the sad news, there's nothing you can do about it.even if you express your concerns to your husband,you either live with it or stray out collect like 2 knacks.

If she strays out collect 2 knacks of mind blowing sex, it will turn "doctor's prescription", once or twice week. She either self service or get herself intimacy gadgets. These are things that should have been fixed while they were dating, it's too late now.




Shalom.

Iyaebe:
Exactly, men should learn and perfect the act of licking plate thoroughly like their life depends on it to avoid this kind of situation.

Maryliola:
yeah it is complicated.

ahnie:
Op, you're not alone on what you're experiencing,neither are you delusional.there are community of women like you in same shoes,but they're afraid to speak up.


Here's the sad news, there's nothing you can do about it.even if you express your concerns to your husband,you either live with it or stray out collect like 2 knacks.




Shalom.

Eyinju112:
Every?

Iyaebe:
Marriage is indeed complicated,this your story makes premarital sex looks important but however it's against God's commandments which brings the question on how do we know the sexual compatibility of a partner before marriage? I don't know what to say.