| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Gunboysavage(m): 5:02pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Oops meehn!
You and your husband ehh, una heads is not correct. 4 Likes |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Judybash93(m): 5:02pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Iyaebe:
Marriage is indeed complicated,this your story makes premarital sex looks important but however it's against God's commandments which brings the question on how do we know the sexual compatibility of a partner before marriage? I don't know what to say. Which god? 2 Likes |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by ahnie: 5:03pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Iyaebe:
Marriage is indeed complicated,this your story makes premarital sex looks important but however it's against God's commandments which brings the question on how do we know the sexual compatibility of a partner before marriage? I don't know what to say. Most marriages are like that. |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by PrinceOfLagos: 5:03pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
So you didn't have sex with him to know these before getting married
Just say you want to continue your olosho ways 17 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Dialpad: 5:03pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Sorry about your situation... have a feeling you have the guy you like to cheat with in mind already 5 Likes |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by anambraamaka: 5:03pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Invest in intimacy gadgets and have peace of mind 2 Likes |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Born2Breed(f): 5:03pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
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| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Bigpapi: 5:04pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Maryliola:
Hey guys
I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.
Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.
Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.
Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.
Help!
Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this. Poison him fullstop 1 Like |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by thegreencoal: 5:04pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
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| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Judybash93(m): 5:04pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Communication is key in my opinion. Just sit with him as man to wife and tell him how badly you want him to f you. Tell him you want only him and you need him badly.. be honest and try not to talk down on him 7 Likes |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by NwaEzefuNaMba(m): 5:04pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Iyaebe:
That's an insult to the husband Then fvcking another man is worship to his husband?? 9 Likes |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Alexaonfleek: 5:05pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Shellsploit:
I am a penetration tester!
Send me a DM..  Na really wa for you  |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Nobody: 5:05pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Stop watching porn my dear. 27 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by kulikuli45: 5:05pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Maryliola:
Hey guys
I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.
Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.
Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.
Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.
Help!
Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this. Was the sex this bad when you were dating? 2 Likes |
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| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Gravity56: 5:06pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Look for a young man who is loyal to Bleep/suck the hell out of you.... 1 Like |
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| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Olarewaju89: 5:07pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
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| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by LifeOfTrigga(m): 5:07pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Na wa o, different wahala. Me Wey be say if I knack my gf laso she no fit stand up or walk for some minutes after sex! Cos the way I been dey knack her self even sperm i dey always find m like lcm and she go din cum so many times that I won’t be able to see the flesh of my dick again as my dick din turn white cos of her cum! E go come thick like say Na coldstone ice cream  33 Likes |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Nobody: 5:07pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
NwaEzefuNaMba:
Then fvcking another man is worship to his husband?? I never said so, but the husband should quench her cravings by going the hell down on her if that's what she wants.How will you be married and still have cravings, cravings are for premarital life abeg. 7 Likes |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by lexylexy9: 5:07pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
What was your sex life before marriage, I mean between the both of you? |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by ahnie: 5:08pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Op, you're not alone on what you're experiencing,neither are you delusional.there are community of women like you in same shoes,but they're afraid to speak up.
Here's the sad news, there's nothing you can do about it.even if you express your concerns to your husband,you either live with it or stray out collect like 2 knacks.
Shalom. 23 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Sezua(m): 5:08pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Maryliola:
Hey guys
I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.
Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.
Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.
Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.
Help!
Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this. Everybody here is dropping advise. If you are looking for who to cheat on him with. send me a dm. |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by AnchorageHC: 5:08pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Yes! You can help him in some other mother-nature ways. I could give you more details on WhatsApp Chat on 08063894916; your spices in your meals must drop fast! Maryliola:
Hey guys
I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.
Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.
Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.
Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.
Help!
Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this. |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by BlackPantherxXx: 5:08pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Go ahead ... bang to your satisfaction.
Just don't carry STDs
PS - there's 90% probability it is a fake story ..
But IF real, a woman like this would cheat, no matter the advice. 25 Likes 2 Shares 
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| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Kobojunkie: 5:08pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
LifeOfTrigga:
Na wa o, different wahala. Me Wey be say if I knack my gf laso she no fit stand up or walk for some minutes after sex! Cos the way I been dey knack her self even sperm i dey always find m like lcm and she go din cum so many times that I won’t be able to see the flesh of my dick again as my dick din turn white cos of her cum! E go come thick like say Na goldstone ice cream I can bet you that this woman's husband probably also lies to himself that he is a god in the bedroom. 41 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Firefox01: 5:08pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Madam, get yourself a love machine or cheat on him since you're already entertaining the thought anyway. 1 Like |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Germi9: 5:08pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Iyaebe:
That's an insult to the husband Better than cheating 4 Likes |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by muykem: 5:08pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Do this and thank me latter.
Stop using Maggi to cook in your house again. Ground cranefish and use instead. Within two months, you will see different.
Thanks. 2 Likes |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Shellsploit: 5:08pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Alexaonfleek:
Na really wa for you Do you u know who a penetration tester is?  Very useless quote |
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| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by BadEnglish(m): 5:09pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Iyaebe:
That's an insult to the husband The husband is a disgrace already abeg 4 Likes |
